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linusbnn:
She is no robot because she is submissive,she shows strength by doing so. That makes me love her and I try not to fail on my own part.

For you to say a woman is submissive, I feel for what you must have put her through already.

I never thought I would see you call a woman submissive.

pbs4real:
u need an iron hand to calm u dwn.

Nigerian men mentality.

Have you ever heard the way up is down? What happened to petting?

linusbnn:
So sorry if you have a man like me as husband. That your father's house that you love so much, I will send you back there. I display my authority in relationships so if you dnt like it,you quit. I respect women and they must obey me whether good or bad.

For every Ahab, there's a Jezebel. For every Adam, there's an Eve.
U just might end up with a woman who loves being dominated. U can't marry someone like the lady u quoted. C'est la vie

Kazrem:
Let we married men say to it.
You politely inform her but not for seeking permission but as a notice. Something like this, "Baby my friend agarawu23 is coming to town for his clearance and will be staying with us for 3days. I will like uyou to upkeep yourself and do other necessary things for him to have a good stay.

And she will reply, "Baby I forgot to tell you, my grand pa is sick again and wants to bless all his lineage in case he dies. I'll be leaving tomorrow. Its just for 1week". Sorry I'm telling you this late.

tosyne2much:
You are a man of wisdom


Our customs and norms have placed women beneath men

That's the thinking that kills marriages.
There's no resting place for the head without the neck. I'm not married yet but hope to be very soon. I know my limits as a wife but if something like this happens, and my hubby goes ahead to bring the friend, no wahala but I'll suddenly receive a call from the village and leave the house for them. Its humiliating.

musicwriter:
If I have children they'll not go to school, but they'll be the most educated among their peers. I'll school them myself. Nobody will brainwash my children.

Well, if their mother insist they go to school, that would be after I've tutored them to secondary school. By then they would be able to differentiate between what is chaff and real education.

Just this evening I was in a bookshop sifting to buy a book, and I saw this book with nice caption and flipped the pages randomly (as I usually do) soon I saw a line saying "Fidel Castro initiated steps to colonize Congo". I immediately dropped the book cause I knew then it must be a book espousing American view of history of Africa instead of doing an unbiased job. You begin to wonder how many people that have read that book thinking it's a true historical account.

A million hugs for you. May it be well with you. You will never regret the sacrifice.

After nearly being initiated into cultism as an informant at a very early age by my teachers, I have decided to hustle now, set up assets cus once I start having kids, I'll become a full time housewife and homeschool all my kids.

Akathriel:
Forget about Oil, this is a very good news. Israel is about to become a Nuclear wasteland.

@Palestine - Get ready to be independent!

Listen to yourself. Nigeria is about to be smitten by poverty and you are happy that it also means Israel MAY be levelled by a nuclear warhead.

Israel has anticipated this and has been working towards it for years now. Knowing how intelligent they are, I daresay Iran will be shocked if they try anything funny.

its the equivalent of 10usd

MrCork:
.^^^^ther u go...she come to nairaland to find man & then when u catch them out...she claim she a busy woman lookin for msn!!!(no ofeense)

interesting.........
so the most appropriate place to seek a man is nairaland?

Well, Im really a busy woman and Im not searching.

MrCork:
....an juss for the record..I aint one of thoise homebase guys who chase u up & down like mechanic...am from pekam london!!

I just knew it wont pass peckham, of all the places in London.

MrCork:
....u drive range rover spot simply mean I get any females I want includin u...truss me!!

d way you are just going on and on about this range is boring me. It takes more than a mere range hse to catch my attention.
If a range is all you have to offer, you arent ready. Trust me.
No offense

MrCork:
..and pliss come bak n talk to me when u lightskin!!(no ofeense)

awww, he's begging.
Boy, I cant grant you this one, Im a busy woman. Today is a rare one for me. Enjoy the attention while it lasts.

MrCork:

hav u being to london?..fuk no!!
..do u hav man?....fuk no!
Do u drive £28,000(cash) range rover spot?... fuk n0!!!
...are u on ma level?....fuk to the motherfukin nI!!
..sweery go bak to bed..mennnn..Goat!!(no ofeense)

Have I been to London?..........Yes and many other places you can only wish for.

Do I have a man?.........Yes, someone 10 times better than you

am I on your level?...... Of course not, I'm way beyond you


Do i drive a range?...... No but i can afford more than 1 if I need to

Clown, you need to go back to bed

MrCork:
... sweery go bak to bed if u cant spek english..mennnnn..am a Londoner..ma niggga!(no ofeense)

You're a peacock Mr Cork!!!
Who are u forming for?
Laffing out loud...........
No offense swirrypie

MrCork:
...an juss in case u ask..did I mention I drive £28,000(cash) range rover spot!!

smh, u drive a range so what
do u know what I ride

MrCork:
..they r IBO people usin yoruba names!!(truss me)

Big man, a ti gbo. we have heard.

MrCork:
...thery r IBO people(no ofeeense)

LWKM, your biz, your headache.
We all know the truth.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Meehn you fuçked up
Where is the THUMBS DOWN smiley when I need one. Seun take note. [/color]

Flye:
Honestly I'm really mad at u for allowing her to maltreat ur sister even though u know b4 hand.

bammo:
Sorry about that. But u fvck up And i'm dissapointed.. Why did you send your sister to her despite knowing her character

paranorman:
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Nawa o! No chop me nau
Accepted, it was a wrong of me to keep mute after everything but I was quite young then. Its not like I dont regret not talking now.
She mistreated me, but I never thought she'll go that far with my sis. She always favoured my sis over me.

Finally, I shared my experienced as a lesson to anyone out there who is suffering and smiling as I want you to know its not righteousness but foolishness. I didnt go back the traumatic memory lane to be judged or to let everyone see how much of a cane I deserve.

Adesiji77:
This is a mismatch! The article you referred to was posted on Friday, May 15, 2015

Lol, who cares when it was posted?
Isnt it the same story making Fp today?

I dont care what you think of Igbos or N- Deltans, just dont throw stones cus this time omo yoruba ni gan gan.

On the other hand, you can go ahead and speak ill of the offenders when you should have look and remove eye.

stonecoldcafe:
Nah, this is bull! Someone treats you like this and you keep quiet when she asks for your precious baby sister? Nah, somethings not right ere...

I didnt know she will go to the extent she did with me. I thought she just didnt like me. she had always gotten along with sis. never knew it was all pretense.

MrCork:
..thIs IBO people again mennnnnn!!(no ofeense)

bobby007:
obvious they are igbo,crimes like dis are committed by Igbo

teeowl:
what are their names? we need to know!

They are yoruba http://www.cknnigeria.com/2015/05/three-nigerians-caught-with-20m-fake.html?m=1

Hmmm, where do I start from,
While I was quite younger, my cousin married a bad woman who came in like a saint.

She always complain that she needs a maid to live with her. We started sourcing for a young relative whose parents needed help. So I stayed with her temporarily.

She made me scrub the rug with water, dettol and liquid fresher twice a day, mop the rest of the house everyday. I don't eat on the table but in the floor. I don't sit in the cushion but in the floor. Get shouted at every little thing and she asks me if my mum sent me to kill her. Accused me of being a spy. Everyday, I pray: God let them find someone fast.
I'm the kind of person that will endure you stepping on my legs till you balance before I ask you to shift as long as I'm not bleeding to death and so, I didn't even tell my cousin anything. I had a phone but didn't call any family, we attend church with our elder in the family yet I don't tell his family anything. She knew this was my weakness and exploited it fully.

Finally, I left, she brought a new girl, treated that one worse till the girl jumped out from the balcony of the 2 story they live in and ran away. She then came back to my mum and asked for my younger sister. (my sister is quiet like me).

She mistreated her till one day, my sister was forced to eat her tasteless food and rejected it. She kept beating her to eat, she ate and vomited, she then asked her to eat the vomit, my sis ate it and vomited it again then she started another round of beating till my cousin came home, she then shouted at her to clean up the mess.
She cut my sis 14inch hair out of pure jealousy. She has no hair and won't have cus of her wicked hrt.

Finally, years after, there was a guy I don't really like enough to marry but he was hot on me. She kinda knew his family, she ran there and was asking his mum to stop her son from having anything to do with my family.
She said I called her a witch and only visits her when I need money, I'm lazy and can't do any work, that she slaved for me while I wa at her place.
She said my sis is a thief an she stole her last kobo, she had to borrow her transport to my parents house.
She said my bro is a thief and went to steal and they caught him and were abt to Lynch him till she found out and intervened.
She said my mum is childless cus we aren't worth being called humans. She swore all these with a bible.

I cried when I heard it not cus of the man but cus I still loved her despite all, I just took it as human wickedness and moved on.

babestell:
Lol my dear. ..I met one like that too. .....If you see the way I use run....better to be single than enter a relationship full of deceit

Exactly o!
Some men think all women will jump at the mention of marriage even though they aren't worthy of marriage yet.
........like they are doing me a favour....

I know one lady whose husband flags with cane or belt. See her body full of maps. She must not eat fatty foods, watch certain programs, wear what he doesn't like, talk to who he doesn't like or interfere when the man of the house is talking. Kilode

May God see us through.

that your hubby is a pastor doesn't mean he will be perfect.
Pls firmly let him know that you can reduce the way u visit family but you will not stop visiting family.
These aren't friends but family for crying out loud.
Without them, will you be the wife he married.

Reminds me of a clown who said he loves me and wants to marry me but can't stand how I pump money to my immediate family. I must stop it for him to get serious.

orisirisi

nice

100% true.

searching4love:
[size=13pt]OOH LAWD. THIS IGBO PEOPLE ARE JUST TOO WICKED AND HEARTLESS HOW CAN SOMEONE THROW A WHOLE BABY INSIDE REFUSE THE RATE OF UNWANTED PREGNANCY AND ILITERACY IN THE SOUTH EAST IS TOO HIGH THATS WHY THEY DON'T VALUE HUMAN LIVES. REALLY SAD [/size]

I thought the Niger Deltans aren't part of the Igbos.
Isoko for that matter? They are one with Nigeria no call Igbo again abeg

Hilarious.

Perfect ending for a hectic day. Thanks y'all

[quote author=VICTORIA91 post=38296539][/quote]You are welcome.
But I'd rather you don't quote the whole story. Just my mention is enough. So pls modify.

Dear victoria91,
I understand you well well, I've been in a very similar case. This Bobo just left me to fall in love finish before telling me he's married with 3 kids.

I initially felt the same way you feel, I was ready to marry him especially as he also told me how it was a one night stand and she got pregnant and his conscience and family couldn't let him kick her out. He claimed the other set of twins were born cus the lady got desperate after 4yrs of him not even kissing her and drugged him. So I felt: this woman wicked o! So what I wish to do can be forgiven after all she trapped a man against his wish. But......... for the love I have for God, I refused to be the tool karma/the devil will use against her. That's how I backed out.

E pain me o, I cried to myself for weeks. Only for me to find out when I was coming out of the trauma that my so called Mr right was dating my friend and had made docs for her to fly out of the country (she was already pregnant sef). I went into another shock. For like 2yrs +, I was forming I don't need love.

Now, the guy I'm dating is 10x better than my ex and he's single with no strings attached. Could I ever have forgiven if I went to be 2nd wife for a lesser man? Did I say the energy of those lonely years took my biz to a new height?

Please learn from me and don't quote me.