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Though legally married but definitely there is a chance to hold it or call it off yet, provided the parents have not given their parental blessings and receive their token if they so will, and in this case they will to, since that's already in the offing. So if the trad is in high expectation and something grievous as fornication is discovered in one or both couple to be, it is the most acceptable reason to call off the relationship, infact were it to be in the old testament any one caught committing fornication before marriage is stoned to death without mercy.
So dear OP tell your friend the choice is hers, for if with what she can see, which is that the man she's getting married to is a man without God in his heart; and she still feel okay to continue, then whatever comes her way should be taken as her own making and choice.

Ecclesiastes 12:1
Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor him in your youth before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore.”

1 Tim 4:12
Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe.

Ecclesiastes 9:10
Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom.

Joshua 1:8
Study this Book of Instruction continually. Meditate on it day and night so you will be sure to obey everything written in it. Only then will you prosper and succeed in all you do.

Follow this biblical counsel and you will never regret even in your old age.

It is difficult to defeat terrorist when you think they are messenger of Allah. It is difficult to overcome terrorism if you think it's the fastest way to propagate the religion of Allah. This is the reason for the foot-dragging and front and back movement on the side of those who are shouldered with the responsibility of doing the needful.

Israel that doesn't negotiate with terrorist have some things in place to arrive at that kind of rigid position. Here is our darling kaduna Gov. who is far behind in any kind of security arrangement towing that same line of not negotiating with terrorist. Sometimes you have to act like a fool to fool a fool who try to fool you, he should continue negotiating to save those lives till he's able to put in place a worthy security measure. Otherwise he should expose his family members to same risk and allow them experience same fate, then nobody will tackle him again whenever such a thing happen.

A calm and peaceful city turned to a battlefield by those who claim to know GOD BUT DON'T.

Its a pity.That's 5m+ going down the drain if care is not taken. Somehow may be if Op were asked to donate 10% of that amount for God's work, he'll scream God forbid. But see how devourers penetrate peoples life, what they can't give to God till God's kingdom come they'll easily give it wholeheartedly to unprofitable course.

Look at how gentle looking he is, unfortunately a murder and a rapist at heart. He will definitely receive the same fate that befell the girl, so says the constitution.

Amotolongbo:
Bunch of confusing people.

Wale Oke is praying that God should remove Buhari
William Funsho Kumuyi And E.O Adeboye are saying different things regarding the same Buhari and Nigeria

They are not, they understand the enormity of the situation on ground are doing the needful on their knees. When their opinion is sought be rest assured they'll tell the president the bitter truth without mincing word. The reason they are not so aggressive with their word publicly, is to prevent an unwanted ripple effect it may generate as a result of their standing. Bishop wale Oke somehow may have capture the general mindset of the majority, but his word even if twisted or taken out of context may not have the same kind of effect as those two men you mentioned. Be rest assured they won't support evil in any form even if they do not voice it out same way like Bishop Wale Oke did.



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Unfortunately calling people who aside their spiritual standing could pass off as your father means you have degenerated terribly both morally and spiritually, you therefore need to ask God for mercy and grace to keep your tongue in check before it ruins you.

Unfortunately she's a deaconess or so in RCCG who should be more sympathetic, truthful and humane. To be a politician and a gospeller in Nigeria takes the grace of God.


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This is the same position and his co-travelers represent. They think patriotism is been loyal to a party or a person instead of the country, to good governance and to humanity.

At the end no where is safe or will be safe, the only safe place is Jesus. Surrender to him genuinely and you will be saved and safe from all ills wherever you are, for not even death nor diseases shall have power over you.

We have too many people at the helm of affairs who are not suppose to be there because they are actually mis-leaders. Just what legacy is this man hoping to leave behind for his generation born and unborn, and others too looking up to him as their role model.

Baby mama or wife? If Baby mama then both of you actually deserved to be pitied.
Birthing babies outside wedlock is fornication and the product is an innocent child with a wrong tag.
Repent do the right thing and have the blessing of God in whole in your life and family.
You can't be wiser than God. Sowing on a piece of land you did not pay for make you a thief and a trespasser.
I don't like to congratulate or celebrate people who lightly esteem God's law.

Abnormal generation making abnormalities a new normal.

If you serve the devil very well this is all the parting gift he can give you before dumping your carcase in hell. Don't disparage your maker by engaging in act that supports the archenemy of God and Man against the creator.


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If he ever tried to pull out to serve Christ then farewell, but if it's just for revenge like MJ God cannot be mocked.

@OP if your reason for this post is to go to heaven and not an excuse to continue smoking as other explicit or relative ungodly habits, then my counsel to you without mincing word is this, don't do what Jesus won't do or engage in if he were physically present on earth I.e don't undertake to do anything that stand in check against truth and godliness.

If Jesus were on earth will he smoke(marijuana etc) or take alcohol or practice polygamy or practice gay or approve lesbianism or commit murder or steal govt money as someone in position of authority. Whatever your answers are to this rhetorics, pls go and do likewise.

Shehu doesn't seems to understand the concept of forgiveness. Nobody is fighting Patanmi as a person, since he's been paid from tax payers money, the same people said they don't want him to continue occupying that position based on the gravity of the allegation leveled against him which he rightly agreed. Will Shehu accept apology from a known rapist, So where is the lack of forgiveness?

My heart goes out to the people of India, may they find Jesus in truth and Spirit at this time, may they also find grace to jettison their age long allegiance and attachment to demons and Idols.
This is a lesson for those always shouting medical science up and down, India are well positioned when it comes to health related matters of any kind, but how their scientist and alternative medical practioners became so helpless at this critical time is a food for thought and prove that only God can truly deliver.
This further proves that the prayer of the saints in Nigeria is the only thing preventing this nation from spiritual and physical destruction and collapse. Kudos to all the genuine Christians in Nigeria, let's keep up the fight to rescue our Nation for Christ, the only savior of mankind. Africa shall be saved!

Despite Abdulmutallab's academic and career exposure in the UK, that did not stop him from birthing in the ocean of terrorism. Most Muslim no matter how exposed they are hardly able to live a correct normal life, the tendency to forceful convert others or re-orientate them against their wish at the slightest opportunity is fully rife in them. Reason I sincerely don't see Islam as having any religious resemblance, it's more of an occult society with cult follower-ship ruled by fear and terror demanding absolute obedience, giving room only for entry but stand in opposition to exit in any form.

genkins:
With 20 churches on every street, Nigeria has a life expectancy of only 54yrs,one of the highest in prostitution, rituals, paternity fraud, lack of electricity etc

You saw 20 churches on every street and that offended you but how you manage not to see hotels and innumerable red light spots on every streets, breeding those prostitutes, ritualists, serving as mating ground for the perpetrators of paternity fraud, and cesspool for fraudsters and those embezzling our collectively wealth thereby depriving us of good electricity leaves much to be desire. May be you should advocate removal of those spots serving as criminal rendezvous first.

HenryThegreat1:
The oyibu that produces what you are using to type now are they not serving God?

Everybody with their talent, if we are all scientist or inventors the world won't go round. If your wife is a man one or both of you will be useless.

Reelmii:
he is correct, when the bible said after death judgement, it does not mean that they have gone to either heaven nor hell, it only means that their fate has been decided because there is no repentance in the grave,, but it does not mean that they have gone to heaven or hell


that is why the bible said that wen the trumpet shall sound, the dead in christ will rise first.....u know the rest

If their fate is sealed already after death what's the basis for further argument. And if I may ask where does people who died without Christ go immediately after death? Support your answer or narrative with God's word not your personal opinion. Waiting!

OdumegwuOjukwu:
If God needed people in hell, God would have created them directly in hell. Stop fear mongering.

Matt 25:41
“Then shall He say also unto them on the left hand, ‘Depart from Me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire prepared for the devil and his angels.

1 Tim 2:4
For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;
Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

God didn't need anyone in hell but mans disobedience and self will is what made him a partaker of such awful place, hell was originally created for the devil after his deliberate, arrogant, willfully prolong disobedience that ended in a coup d'etat against his creator. Whoever joined him overtly or covertly in this rebellious pursuit will share in his fate ultimately at the end of time.

PlayMaker14:
I remember how one frozen food company used the picture of Cristiano Ronaldo holding fish like Peter in the Bible.


Until these guys starts suing them for right infringement, they'll continue cashing out.

Do you have to make this kind of depiction or comparison, what is wrong with you guys not being able to distinguish between carnal and spiritual things.

Some have engaged in all manner of abomination, uncleanliness and defilement yet for God know what refuse to give in to the actual act, such are not virgin. Real virgin are those who keep themselves away from all forms of fleshly pollution till married.

Living an unenvisioned and unintended life. That's what you get when you choose the archenemy of righteousness rather than the father of light.

Living an unintended life. That's what you get when you choose the archenemy of righteousness rather than the father of light.

zedman1:
Get out!

But you know he's saying the truth.

Kobojunkiee:
Please try to get yourself help for whatever it is you are dealing with there, abeg!.

These are facts of life that your woke mentality can't help when the reality dawn on you. The spirit world is more real than the physical world, denying it's existence and activities whether positive or negative is synonymous to denying your very existence. Better be woke and awake to realities before you are short changed in the game of life; much the same way the woke, sophisticated and revolutionary minded people in the time of Noah were destroyed by the flood.

But who are you for real? Even if pastor does not, with your whorish exposure couldn't it be possible she's possessed with a worse spirit than that of witchcraft. Some of this innocent looking young girls and boys, undergrad or working class are worse and more wicked than some lower level malicious demon. Some of them literally drink human blood in their closet, as they are possessed with various kind of hideous marine spirit. Glucose isn't the only type of sugar we have, same way witchcraft isn't the only type of evil spirit possession.

Bath Nnaji, the man who could have solved our erratic power problem of decades was booted out of office prematurely and unceremoniously on a very flimsy excuse. Our Elite don't want Nigeria electricity problem fixed, a lot of them are evil people.

It's actually the ignorant ones who doesn't know the truth about Islam, It is nothing but one of the Arabian cult that inculcate religious creed into it's practices to deceive the gullible and make it attractive to the public.