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I hate people who lose all sense when they're angry and I find it more annoying in ladies. ^{if it was a guy i could punch him} Some people would just say anything in the name of anger without even thought of the offence, IF it was an offense.

spikedcylinder:
Why did you actually break up?

Thats something you need to analyze before you take any steps.

You should move on. Th fact that he has actually told you he wants get married is enough reason. If he's going to marry you, he won't be telling you that, he'll ask you to marry him.
Besides that, I think that at 20 you're not under pressure and regardless of how badly you love a person, if he's thinking long without you, then you're wasting time.
Just leave him before he leaves you.

I almost fell into a gutter once while watching THE BIGGEST ASS I'VE EVER SEEN. I got away with a bruise on my shin. Still haven't seen anything anything like that since then. _{and that was 4 years ago.}

Woman wey look me and still get liver to sound me? I never see the type but if I see am I no go fit sound am back. ^{I'm too strong for that.}
As for kissing, I think I'd be too pissed to think of that.

tangent:
quantity(women), quality(men).
knowing men's accessories are more expensive, a man can go shopping and spend £500 in two items. a woman can buy 500 items with the same amount.
i think men spend more on few items than a woman can spend.

Damn right. But the ladies usually tend to buy unnecessary stuff especially when they're not paying.

Whats all the long things y'all are posting?
A girl should have as few as possible. _{except she a hoe}

So come over and spend some time here. It should satisfy your craving even if its for a while. ABI?

skylash1:
My gurl of a year and 3 monmths relationship just made a fool of me.
It started last xmas she asked me 4 some cash to purchase something, that i asked her to give 4 days to raise her the cash.next she slept out to raise the cash.i found out about it heart broken cos i have never ever cheated on her.but,she cried and pleaded that she was sorry.open hartedly i 4gave her and let love reign.then came the shocker.
She told me this january that her ex guy is back on her trail and enticing her with money that she wants to eat him and jive.behind my back she started going to yhe guys house.
Last week i confronted her only for to tell me that she is confused between myself and the guy who she loves most,i tried to make her see things the right way all she asked for was time with the guy to sort things out.i persuaded her all to no avail.
So,i packed my bag and zoomed off the relationship.
Now,shes accusing me of jilting her and saying tht i didnt give her time to sort things out with her guy by eating his money and then come back to me,as if she was the only option ive gat, WHAT A JOKER.
Please,nairalanders how have i done wong?

Just one thing. You should have slapped the taste out of her mouth. She's just trying to console herself by making you feel bad about the way things are.
Piece of advice, tell her to go and shit. You can even show her to the loo.

sistawoman:
You cant be IN LOVE with two people.

She is double dating and you are allowing her to do so.

Find someone whos heart only flutters for you.

WELL SAID.
@ Poster
Guy she dey play you.

Its easy to forgive you for that 5 years ago. One can easily claim that it was naivette on your part but it will ba shame if you let that kind of thing happen now.
As for the guy, na giant Bleep up on him part. In fact you should open a giant can of Whoop Ass! on him EVERYTIME you see him just for the heck of it.[color=#000099][/color]

Sorry. Maybe if you stuck with him for a while, he might be able to accept you back. Some guys would suspect that their girl is cheating but to know for a fact that shes cheating would be very painful. If his way of dealing with it is to go frolicking you'll only have to deal with it. If you feel you can't do that, think of how he feels when he's trying to kiss you and he has that image of some other guy doing all sorts of stuff with you, then chill or walk away.
I hope for your sake that you actually learn from this experience.

patwhizkid:
So u want d ladies to start dropping their contacts on NL huh? Do u think they have time 4 online dating rubbish? Berra wake up 4rm ur daydream.

If you want to give people your number, feel free to do so. My question will not be answered if you went ahead to post your number or whatever. And when one gets a number it ceases to be "online dating" And I've been wide awake for a while. ^{as per omo eko gangan}

Anybody that is educated can never understand the stupid behaviours of the members of the lower house. It's an obvious issue of education, or a serious lack of it in this case. This problem, the way I see it, is one the reasons why Nigerias educational system will continue to be in the doldrums for the next 4 years.
When we have illiterates in places of power, there is no way there can be relevant progress made in any aspect of life in Nigeria. All of them should go and shit.

The scary thing is that they're all over the place now. Just go to the school campuses and you'll see them. They don't concentrate on their work, only boys.

adahna:
poor girls, really i thot nairaland guys are big boys, cos big guys dont look at dis type of shit wen lookin for a date, im ashamed of u guys;;;;uh Scandalous

@ adahna

Sorry if the poster burst your bubble.

She seems to like you but her holding back should make you ask some questions. How well do you know her? Is it possible she has a boyfriend somewhere and you're the back up plan if things don't go well there?

What I'm trying to say is that you should make sure she's not messing with your head and that if she eventually tells you she's not interested in a relationship,it wouldn't be that she has been moving while you were standing.

They're blindly in love and would rather believe that their man is exactly who and what they want him to be.

@ Hotstepper

take am easy now! the guy is complainin of heart issues.

@ Poster

The next time she comes looking for you, chase her away with hot pepper water since she insisted on ending it back then.

There's nothing to do but back off.

The girl is very likely trying to feel among in school and you're just the only person who can afford to help her out, even without knowing it. That way, she's using whatever relationship you have to blackmail you. The moment you fail to give her what she wants, she's on to the next person who will, and those people are not hard to find.
The truth is that when girls first get into school, they are indeed subjected to serious pressure from all angles: academics, boys (plenty boys) and of course, peer pressure.
Maybe she's asking for money for educational stuff. What course is she studying? You know how jjcs are when asked to buy stuff for schoolwork.
The only solution i can profer is that you talk to her calmly and let her know how all her demands are telling on you. Ask her DIRECTLY what shes using the money for. If it turns out that shes just trying to keep up with others in terms of status let her know she doesn't need all that vanity if its hurting you _{or your pocket}.
If you're forced to take the hard line tell her you want to take a break from the relationship.
And also note that if you are determined to end the relationship, there's no time like now. The sooner you're wounded, the sooner you start to heal.

I've never said those words to a girl. I think too much importance is attached to saying them and people just forget about showing it.

I once got a girl's number in front of some girl I was trying to impress. I knew this girl whose number I collected wasn't even halfway the standard if girls I like but I took the number just to make her friend pissed.
Funny thing is that she started calling me herself and then we agreed to meet. I didn't wan't anybody to see me with her so we met at night. Though we did nothing but talk,(I admit I did try create an opportunity for nasty stuff later), I made sure nobody saw us.
We talked till like 11 p.m. and so I had to see her home. As posterity would have it, on our way we came across not1 or 2 of my guys, but 5 of them. When they saw us the crazy boys just burst out laughing. I wanted to shit in my pants. I just acted as if it was the excitement of seeing me.
On my way back I caught up with them and they told me not to fall my hand like that. I've been runnin from the girl ever since.

Happy Birthday to you.
But seriously how old are you?

um, who's Ghetto P?

_{if there's anything better than black, it can only be blacker than black.} we can't shout.

Well done. This is very well put together.