₦airaland Forum

ogugua88: [size=13pt]You've grown to be a married man's side piece of bum. There's growing up and then there's reversion. You can fill in the blanks.

I've made my own hard decisions and I'm grateful I did. I'm a better and happier person for it. It wasn't easy, but it was possible. It was doable.

Solving your problem is doable, except for the fact that you don't want to do anything apart from exonerate yourself from any guilt or wrongdoing. You don't want to change. Until you're ready to want a change and actually do that change, you'll be in your conundrum.[/size]

I like this Ogugua, you be correct babe. Your posts dey spit fire and brimstone. Me thinks the Op will prefer koboko to your lashing. But to be quite honest, I totally agree wiv you. We make our own choices which are based on our desires.
@Op, cut ties with the married man completely if you want to be free of the leprosy of adultery and stop fantasizing about him. Then if you have any atom of love for your boyfriend, you need to come clean and let him know what you have been doing behind him. You cannot build a successful relationship with him if you can keep that kind of crime to yourself. Remember the way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it. Karma is a b***h

Seun, are you a muslim or Christian and what are you afraid of?? Anyway, i noticed the controversial No.17 is hidden, you berra keep it that way. I also hate No.21, it takes the fun away. Now i'm beginning to hate nairaland

yuzedo: You know, i've always insisted that Jonathan bought his boyfriend Oritsejafor that contentious jet.

With this rebuttal, i can't help but consider this case again and my question is;

Which really is the more despicable scenario, having poor (or rogue) church members contribute for a luxury jet for his personal use, or having government utilize state funds to gratify this "man of God's" fancies??

Who told you Word of Life Church members are poor and he doesn't have poor children either so if his numerous children decide to buy him a jet, they can afford it. Let's stop thinking that these men can't afford their luxuries, we do not remember to talk when they give to the poor, we only remember when they are celebrated or appreciated. Same thing will happen to you the day you become rich and decide to reward your hard work with a bit of luxury. People will malign you and will forget when you were suffering. FYI, the poor will always be in your midst. I am not a member of his church but i happen to know that church even while the building was half built years back and i know some of their members (they are not poor)

*laughing and rolling on the floor* thanks for making my weekend

imperiouxx: This pacificguy is a man trying to impose a woman, well what about trying this:

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@OP, You need to let go of the feeling of hurt and betrayal if you must get your marriage to the point where it was before you refused your husband sex (that was mistake No.1). But you can watch the movie Mr. & Mrs. by Nse Ikpe - Etim and Joseph Benjamin. Think it's good for wives who have cheating husbands that doesn't appreciate their worth but still want their man back. Above all, take it to the Lord in prayers. There is no situation that God cannot change, the heart of every man is in the hands of God.
Note: Wisdom is profitable to direct.

tithe: To be frank she's possessed by evil spirit, take her for deliverance. I recommend synagogue.

You beat me to it, was going to suggest that. Take your wife for deliverance but not synagogue sha, don't believe in that guy

@OP, it is a 10,000 seater, fully air conditioned church which was dedicated on the 20th April as a centre for justice and reformation and on the 21st April as the Metropolitan of all HOTR churches. Knowing Pst Paul, I wasn't expecting anything less, he is a man of excellence. Besides that building was supposed to have been ready since 2000. Congrats to Revd Paul Adefarasin and all HOTR members.

mikeyhernadez: Go Tonto!!!. . . When you come back you go die like Goldie

You must be high on cheap drugs. Dunno how drug addicts found their way to NL, how can you be wishing someone dead? Smh

God bless you for this post. They have been marketing this Dominion Estate thingy to me for the past 3 months in the most annoying manner and they were making it look like Ibeju Lekki is 15mins away from Lekki phase 1.

WTH How can this 86 year old great grand father still remarry when boys are looking for young chics to settle down with? Na wa o! Money talks i guess

What of Jamb and Ansaru, who will grant them Amnesty if Boko is granted Amnesty? Why are they calling for Amnesty? Are they tired of making stupid videos threatening the govt? The people calling for Amnesty should be arrested including that misguided sultan, they are the financiers of boko haram. Money don finish for their pocket so they are looking for alternatives.
*The Nigerian Government does not negotiate with terrorists, period!
*JTF should shoot those cowards at sight

Irreplacable, Amazing, Magnanimous....one word can never be enough to describe my darling mum

My phone was stolen this morning so i decided to go to one of the mtn friendship centers for a SIM swap and i was told to go register my SIM first. I was surprised because i had registered this SIM like thrice in the past at 3 different friendship centers. The girl at silverbird gave the excuse that maybe the person that did the registration did not upload it properly and my question was "are you guys that inefficient that all the people that were in charge of the SIM card registration did not upload my data properly?". While lamenting to my colleague, he said his wife had gone through the same issue.
Is MTN SIM card registration fake or they just have inefficient people doing the registration? I really cannot understand why one must register each time you want to do a SIM swap

Low Sugar?? I don't just get it, what is happening?
May his soul rest in peace!

Enyeama, Victor Moses, Mba, infact all of them. Bance-ugly dyed dreaded hair and face, koffi-dyed bear bear, pithro..something - that thin boy

One word....Elated!

Burkina Faso said they will deal with us, we said "MBA", not on a "SUNDAY when Nigerians don go church come back"!""=))

We made it...yayyy!!!! Up Eagles!!! Enyeama is such a darling, Keshi the man of the moment, Mba the man that saved the day. But we collect yellow card no be small

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Kill souls just for N200,000. That guy needs to be sent to the gallows

As much as money is needed to foster the romantic part of a relationship, I believe in an open communication type of relationship. Guys should stop forming Mr. Macho by kepping quiet about their financial status or shutting the woman out because they feel they want to be the 'man'. Contrary to opinions, a good woman wants to help her man make and save money so she'll understand when you are open about your finances. Women should also learn to complement her man, that's why a woman should have a job or be engaged in a business. Then love love love!!! It doesnt cost anything to tell your spouse you love him/her. Send her a mail, an sms, a bbm just to say "I love you" or "you are beautiful" or "you are such a blessing to me". Trust me relationship with little money can still survive

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You don try Aguda Surulere Horrible

Fine boys!

What is KMT?

MODs, can you allow this get to the front page please? If other pastors birthdays can make front page, certainly this should. Thanks

Happy 50th Birthday To Pastor Paul Adeolu Adefarasin!

Happy 50th birthday to the Senior Pastor of the House on the Rock Churches, the Convener of the largest gospel music concert 'The Experience', a man of Excellence, Pastor Paul Adefarasin! God bless you Sir!!!

Why are Nigerian celebrities now welcoming babies without getting married their baby mommas? Is this part of the western influence on us? *scratches head*

take her to okija shrine and profess your love to her in front of okija juju ......she'll never forget you in a hurry

gimme a minute, let me consult the oracle

na wa o! *goes into prayer mode*