Crime › Re: Daughter Stand Up To Her Dad Threatening To Beat Their Mum & Send Her To Grave by siofra(f): 10:21am On May 11, 2022 |
Bonesbreaker: ur using abusive words on me ain't that bad this early morning sweetheart ur a beautiful soul don't start today with bad energy You sound like a narcissist. |
Crime › Re: Daughter Stand Up To Her Dad Threatening To Beat Their Mum & Send Her To Grave by siofra(f): 10:19am On May 11, 2022 |
Brandonx: She’s Brave ja but the man did say something like the wife has been running her mouth.
Women should learn how to control their mouths, I believe the man is not a beast to beat up his wife unprovoked.
The attitude of such girls shows she would eventually fight with her husband if he doesn’t conform to her ideas. Yes. Like Chidinma stabbed Usifo Ataga. He must have done something terrible because Chidinma is not a beast. Men should learn to control the way they talk to women. |
Crime › Re: Daughter Stand Up To Her Dad Threatening To Beat Their Mum & Send Her To Grave by siofra(f): 10:17am On May 11, 2022 |
Tonypens48: I saw this on Twitter and took my time to watch and observe the whole situation critically, and these are my findings. 1. The man was wrong, but he looked calm and had anger management control. He could have done otherwise due to the nature of the situation( 1 against others), but he acted in the best manner.
2. Parents should understand that the kids they gave birth to are growing not just in size and shape but also in maturity. The girl couldn't help and stood up to confront her dad after he threatened to send their mum to her early grave. Her actions have a potential danger. Though it came reflexly in the scene of a heated up moment, the best of her behaviour she displayed over her father is disrespectful. It could have resulted in something disastrous if the man had a temperamental problem.
3. I can't say much about the mum; she tried to avert further quarrels from escalating.
4. Whosoever did a video of the scene and uploaded it online is the biggest fool. You don't bring family issues to social media. All of that can be privately resolved, not by making a shame of your family in the public space.  May God see them through
Kindly check my signature for your Assignments, Projects and advertisement writing services. Are you done So they should kill the woman first before they make it a public issue? |
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Politics › Re: ‘no Nigerian Law Determines How You Get Married’: Yerima On Child Marriag by siofra(f): 9:58am On May 11, 2022 |
rickpat: I think a law Should be put in place giving a specific age before anyone can get married...to put this nonsense to rest once and for all...since people don't want to use common sense...mtchewww You think those greedy Nigerian politicians would agree  Paedophiles!!!! I blame the girl's parents  |
Celebrities › Re: Lady Smashes Birthday Cake In Boyfriend’s Face Not Knowing What Was In The Cake. by siofra(f): 10:57pm On May 10, 2022 |
silverlinen: Damnnn That's females for you Always ungrateful and unsatisfied They all are bitches and they all should be treated as one. Oga carry your car key go give your sister or mother jare, make blessings follow you unceasingly. peepydelano: Serves him right, loving an uncouth bitch comes with a price drmuchin: SERVES THE FOOL RIGHT HOW MANY CARS HAVE U BOUGHT YOUR MOM/SISTERS godofuck231: He was abusive and self centered , all men are scum, he used me, he's ungrateful , he beat me up and I was hospitalized, he threw me out of a moving airplane, wtin you don do the guy before his Russia attacked your Ukraine remains a mystery, this guy should never have had a witch for a girlfriend, she's a worthless beast Any opportunity to bash women senseless. It's just a skit  |
Romance › Re: WHAT'S The Physical Signs To Identify That A Lady Is Virgin by siofra(f): 10:51pm On May 10, 2022 |
Vinnie2000: *Very white eyeballs. *Smooth skin. *Nice, natural body scent. *Curiosity/ignorance when Sex matters are being discussed. Virgins are cool to date or marry BUT they are scarce. If u spend ur time searching for dem, u go old like Methuselah and grow Moses biebier!  So this seventy year old virgin has all those characteristics 
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Romance › Re: Guys This Is The Most Sane And Admirable Woman On Nairaland You Should Pray For by siofra(f): 10:48pm On May 10, 2022 |
Mtchewwweeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!  Your "men folk" will soon come and label you SIMP! |
Romance › Re: Someone Is Missing! : Where Is Thegidredpiller? (Pics) by siofra(f): 3:22pm On May 10, 2022 |
JamlinksNetwork: That gidredpill guy owns the romance section honestly...... Are you not him?  TheGidredpiller is in my dog's nyash. |
Celebrities › Re: Footballer Maduka Okoye Surprises Girlfriend With Expensive Flowers! (video) by siofra(f): 3:04pm On May 10, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Let You Parents Read Your Whatsapp Chats OR Sweep The Whole Community?? by siofra(f): 3:02pm On May 10, 2022 |
Read my WhatsApp chat.
I no get strength. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Left My House To Go Have Sex With Another Man by siofra(f): 7:47am On May 10, 2022 |
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Health › Does This Mean Masturbation Is Bad For Men? (photo) by siofra(op): 9:11am On May 09, 2022 |
...or good for men 
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Romance › Re: Most Nairaland Men Reason Upside Down by siofra(f): 9:07am On May 09, 2022 |
Na today you know  |
Politics › Re: Must Peter Obi's Son Own A Car, African Mindset..Olayemi by siofra(f): 9:06am On May 09, 2022 |
Anyiamaka: OP, must you own a phone, a laptop with internet access? You need to change your mindset too That is a necessity. Owning a car especially in developed countries with highly developed transportation system is not a necessity. |
Celebrities › Re: Elon Musk Alleges Plot To Kill Him In Bizarre Tweet, Internet Goes Wild by siofra(f): 9:03am On May 09, 2022 |
Eeyah!!!
You will be immortalised. Generations to come will know your name. |
Romance › Re: If Kitchen Utensils Could Talk, Which Would Be The Rudest? by siofra(f): 7:51am On May 09, 2022 |
Vinnie2000: Spatula. Him go tell the housegirl 'Charity, no use me masturbate today abeg. I nor well. You don mean it! I can only imagine what tissue paper, soap and Vaseline has to say about Nigerian men. |
Romance › Re: Women Narrate How They Discovered Their Boyfriends Are Gay by siofra(f): 11:09pm On May 08, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Women Narrate How They Discovered Their Boyfriends Are Gay by siofra(f): 11:05pm On May 08, 2022 |
Kriss216: I'm not your Oga! And I thought you were intelligent. Oga is a title just like Mr or sir. I don't know what you're thinking  |
Romance › Re: How to get permit by siofra(f): 11:03pm On May 08, 2022 |
Forthepeople21: Can anyone assist? Change the title from "expatriate" to "refugee or immigrant or even exile" an expatriate would not be so desperate for papers. |
Romance › Re: Women Narrate How They Discovered Their Boyfriends Are Gay by siofra(f): 11:01pm On May 08, 2022 |
Kriss216: There's no difference between SIMPs and Gays...same bloodline.
If you're dating a SIMP, just know you're dating a Gay. Don't change the narrative, Oga. Everybody knows the redpill and homosexuality are synonymous. |
Politics › Re: Yohanna Maigona: Dutch Declares Interest To Run For Governor In Plateau by siofra(f): 10:48pm On May 08, 2022 |
tuzle: i dont see any inferiority complex here, dont we have blacks in governance in white man land. if he meets the necessary requirement to contest, why not. all the blacks that have been in power in plateau what have they done ? trying something different isnt a bad idea. But people on this thread are already endorsing him when they know next to nothing about him just because his skin is white. Isn't that foolishness  That's how they vote in bad leaders. |
Politics › Re: Yohanna Maigona: Dutch Declares Interest To Run For Governor In Plateau by siofra(f): 10:45pm On May 08, 2022 |
Benitoh: You're an ignorant fool.... What that guy said is the plain Truth, what else is black man good at aside destruction and evil
If we hadn't chase the white man away in the 60s we might be far ahead of Dubai and London by now, who knows. Please I'm a black woman and I'm not destructive and evil. Don't project your misery on me. I know that misery loves company. And it's obvious from your write-up that you don't read. Bad governance is not an African thing. Many European countries have gone through phases of bad governance and corruption at different points in history. Stop doing as if it's an "African thing" |
Politics › Re: Yohanna Maigona: Dutch Declares Interest To Run For Governor In Plateau by siofra(f): 10:39pm On May 08, 2022 |
nedekid: Best thing tgat can ever happen to people of plateau. Oyibo seems to handle things better. I don't know why. You know what, here in naija, who will you buy a 10 year old used car from, a Nigerian or oyinbo? My half caste paddy has used his SUV since 2001. That car, if he removes the number plate, he will sell it as fresh tox! Still factory paint! Dont know how, but they seem to manage things better than black folks. They chop money with fear of God. Get your disgusting white worshipping ass away from this thread!!!  Ignorance is a big problem in this country. |
Politics › Re: Yohanna Maigona: Dutch Declares Interest To Run For Governor In Plateau by siofra(f): 6:40pm On May 08, 2022 |
35824L: Kai, see chance for Plateau people to have a white man to govern them and change their mentality. If he upgrades Plateau state to South African level before the ANC started destroying that country, it will benefit every part of this country. Plateau already has the natural ambience what is needed is just an enlightened finishing touch to put everything in order  I don't understand this inferiority among black people 
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Politics › Re: Yohanna Maigona: Dutch Declares Interest To Run For Governor In Plateau by siofra(f): 6:37pm On May 08, 2022 |
ogtavia: If they know what's good for them in plateau state, they should vote for him. Better days ahead for them Why? Because he's white  I'm assuming you Know nothing about this man. |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Left My House To Go Have Sex With Another Man by siofra(f): 6:33pm On May 08, 2022 |
Mtchewwweeeeewwww!!! You disrespected her privacy and expected to see what  Ntoorrr!!  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Gay Guys Like Hitting On Straight Guys by siofra(f): 12:00pm On May 08, 2022 |
Flamemignon1: I'm so sorry about your experiences with queer people. Seriously, this makes me super sad,that you think gay men and straight men can't be friends is the same trope when people say straight men can't be just friends with straight women. I'm not going to belittle and gaslight your experiences because it's valid,I've seen straight men validate their homophobia because of actions like the ones you mentioned. I would advise you to cut your relationship with those guys because irregardless of their sexuality,they are just men willing to take advantage of their friends for appraisal or ego boost,if they were straight....they would've done the same thing to women..... practically,they are sex offenders and I advise you to take action when the sexual assault persists or report them to the appropriate authorities
Moreover, where I take offence on your post as a queer man is how you made all of us a monolith,you made it seem like all gay guys are sexual predators going back to the same homophobic rhetoric,I know you did it out of pain, betrayal and anger but we are all not the same and I'm sorry you had to go through that but "gay-straight alliances" exist because I'm a living witness. I do hang out in homosocial spaces but almost all my friends are straight, apparently there are five of them and they are all straight but we would die for each other as they know I'm gay but I'm gonna talk about my bestest (if that's a word)best friend,the bond we share is more like brothers..... infact, there's this stereotype that every gay guy has that straight friend they treat like their husband...lol and it's true because I tell you,we are so tight that sometimes we think we are clingy and this is a guy that's so secure in his sexuality that he doesn't think having a gay friend will make him gay (believe me, he's a complete womanizer) because I'm not the only gay friend,I'm just the closest,we met in France when I was there for my academic fellowship and we met in a gay bar,we really hit it off because not only were we the only two men of color there,we were also Nigerians,he was there to hit on a girl who would become his future fiance because women now have taken over gay bars (kinda annoying though because I thought it was a safe space for queers but now women are even more in there than gay men because they feel more safe than in straight bars but then they attract straight men to them). Anyway,I thought he was queer as he's really handsome and he's in a gay bar and I shot my shot,he just smiled and said he's flattered but he's looking to score a goal for another team,still remember those words,we bonded over a lot of things,anime stans, culture clashes and more and since then, it's history,we've been each other's shield in dark and light times, through thick and thin, he's that friend that I know will stick up for me and clothe me even if I'm naked (don't know if I will do the same for him though... kidding), he even introduced me to someone but I blew it because I was unfaithful (yes,I cheated...don't judge me) till date he still teases me about that because the guy was a business partner to his firm and it made the firm loose on in a deal because of the breakup,yet he forgave me,I helped him propose to the love of his life who calls me her second husband,he helped me get my business up even the smallest thing such as helping me pack when I was returning back to Naija to helping me get a capital to start up my business,yet till date he refuse to take back the money he gave me and he's never used his wealth to insult me or make him look superior rather he treats me like a equal,I don't think anything will ever ruin the bond we have and when his fiance gave birth to twins in January last year,he made me their legitimate godfather even though I wasn't there as I was busy with work,even though we were separated,he's always calling me like twice a week(I'm a terrible friend because I've never called him once),I've never asked him for something once where he will tell me he's broke or can't help out,even if he can't do anything,he will connect me to someone who can because he's well connected. When he came for his introduction last year june,him and his fiance slept in my house and when she went back with the kids,he stayed behind to take care of some documents about his life here but it was mostly to keep me drug free, I lost everything due to a terrible investment and business decision I made,I refused to tell him because I knew he would do something to help but for once,I wanted to be my own man then I got into drugs,during those Crystal Meth drug induced days,he stood by me and even made his introduction early so that he could come see me and help me get clean,his fiance begged me to watch him while she's gone because he's a serial womanizer and it wasn't easy, I had to remind him 3-5 times a day he's engaged especially when he comes across a curvy girl on IG,it wasn't an easy fit....I literally had to kidnap his phone from him. 80-90% of the things he had here,he transferred them to my name,from his houses to his old cars,he even quit going to clubs to stay with me because he knew I would join him and clubs are just gateways to getting drunk and high again. To be honest,I'm still trying to keep up with everything he's done for me but I just can't because he's far to wealthy to do so and by December,I will be going back to France to be his best man for his white wedding
Till date,I always ask him what I did to deserve a friend like him and it's always the same answer that his spirit just accepted me like a brother he never had since the day we met because he's an only child to super rich parents and he's adopted which me and his fiance are the only people apart from his parents who knows
TL;DR All I'm saying is you may have had a terrible experience with queer men who are supposed to be your friends,ditch those people because they are not friends but predators and gay people aren't a monolith,there are super chill gay people out there who will show you how great and beautiful friendships can be with a straight man. Whenever there's a rape story on the front page Siofra will always say "all men are dogs" but are all men dogs? likewise the same "all gay men are sexual predators" which is also a wrong narrative to paint all gay men into Wow!! Your friend is so cool!! Is he Nigerian? |
Romance › Re: "Don't Believe Sexually Assaulted Children" by siofra(op): 7:38pm On May 07, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: 18+ Only: Are Nigerian Men Really Good In Bed? by siofra(f): 7:36pm On May 07, 2022 |
No. They are NOT. |