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Bleaching your skin doesn't change how you feel inside and your man is a womaniser. Bleaching will not keep him with you. You are suffering from low self esteem and you measure yourself by how men find you attractive. This is one of the worst metrics to use to judge yourself.

I wanted to give a genuine reply to the question, but then I forgot what the question was. But the person below me is not as forgetful. He will answer your question.

psychokinesis:
Since she was born..she has never had the urge for sex. What ever you do to her she doesn't feel anything.. What might be wrong with her?

It's either she's an asexual person. You can google this. It is real. Or she is a lesbian. Sex isn't all that is required from a relationship. Asexual girls like companionship.

NEROSKY:
The very first week and month, i knew she's my wife, because she's everything i dream of, 3 to 4 months down the lane, i found out we're both AS, even if i have not told her my intentions of marrying her, my actions have long told her... My fear now is, i will never find anyone better or who's like my girl, God why me? Or is it we're not meant to be "I just dey para since last week i found out," which kind winch genotype be dis? " i have been with many girl but none is close to her up bringing, is either they're too materialistic or have worse behaviour or just incompatible or too confused (unstable )... See bad luck, all her sisters that got married was AA... She loves me so much

You're suffering from Oneitis (The belief that there is only one person in the whole world for you and if you can't get that person then your life is incomplete). Get your mind out of that mentality. God will provide you with another.

brainyack:
this is where people get it wrong saying pes has overall better player model, pes has a few better player models like barca and bayern in previous years. fifa lost licensing rights to barcelona that is why they dont have camp nou in fifa 17 and even with that fifa still did really well with the player models in barca you guys are here showing off half baked comparisons have you seen the one of real madrid? here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjQ2qsAwa_o

pes got crushed fifa used head scans for players so pes can not obviously keep up cos that is more realistic players for fifa or can pes draw em all? and mind you its not like fifa's model of the A-list players are wack like check out Manchester united players and look at the state of rooney in there lol......i am normally on to just read comments but i was having a conversation with sirliu on my thread; https://www.nairaland.com/3358242/fifa-17-demo#49961451 and he went on to say frostbite sucks *scoffs* really? if you played battlefield 1 open beta ( best fps ever lol ) you wont say something like that. so in conclusion if pes has a few "better player models (and not like fifa cant compete with it) and fifa has MORE realistic player models thanks to head scans of several clubs and sirliu said it himself and in quote "FIFA has better stadium and lighting effects" oh and he forgot to say better gameplay, better online servers and more game mode all that good stuff with several real looking players why are u still playing pes? lol

You're talking about the frostbite engine with relation to battlefield. But the FOX engine is actually much better when it comes to character models. Go and play MGS 5: The phantom pain. Frostbite is good as an engine for lighting and destruction physics, but character models on the game are skirting on the uncanny valley. Go and watch reviews where both games were compared and go and compare reviews on metacritic and you will see the consensus of what I'm talking about.

napa:
We've been married for five years and he has cheated all through these years. He keeps late nights without any tangible reason. He travels in and out of Nigeria for the purpose of meeting different women, he chats dirty with different women. He calls random women at home e.t.c. He is also very quick to apologise and promise to turn a new leaf anytime I confront him with evidences.
The issue here is I'm getting really fed up of his kind of life style, I feel he is taking me for granted and just playing on my emotions because he knows there is nothing I can do after his apologies. He too relaxed with me and feels he can do anything and get away with it. I work and he does too but he knows I live a triangular kind of life. From work back home then to church, I'm more of a homely person. I'm beginning to think it's my fault for him not getting on his toes. I don't intend reporting him to any of his family members because he won't be chastised.

I need candid and matured advice please.

You may have to consider leaving him. But you have to report him first to someone he respects. He has to know his actions have consequences. Go and get yourself tested for STDs.

brainyack:
how will you just player and face models based on a 5 mins video with such few a-list players? look dude u might like pes but dont go around saying frostbite sucks

I have played both games. I enjoy both games. I have shown you videos and links that show what the consensus of people think about both games. Not just my own view. I have shown you two videos that also show the difference. Short of inviting you over to my house to see both games for yourself, I don't know what else to do. Everybody knows that PES has better player models and FIFA has better stadium and lighting effects. This is an objective fact. I can post 10 videos and you will still say the same thing. I even linked you to metacritic so you can see what user scores and you can view individual reviews. Do your research.

This link is a graphics comparison on nairaland on both games and the consensus is the same. PES has better player models. https://www.nairaland.com/3367434/pes-2017-fifa-2017-graphics

brainyack:
didnt you understand the video? the dude said fifa was better in most of the aspects he was only able to point out how real pogba and de gea looked and its not like its all that better that fifa's pogba and de gea it just looks more realistic. he said they only pay attention to a few players unlike fifa who actually do head scans for all the players in top leauges and some not even playing top tier football. and to say frostbite sucks that just sad cos u clearly dont know a lot about game engines.......do you mind me asking what console did you test it on?

I watched the video. I have played both games. The lighting in FIFA is better for the pitch, but PES has better faces and player models. I am posting another comparison video for you to test. I tested FIFA on a PC with a GTX 970 graphics card and up close, FIFA faces are plain weird compared to PES. I'm not bashing FIFA. I love both games but PES has better facial models and FIFA has better lighting model. Also you can tell by their metacritic scores which game the reviewers and users liked best. FIFA has a review score of 84 and user score of 5.0. Pro Evo has a review score of 86 and user score of 7.6. View the link http://www.metacritic.com/browse/games/release-date/new-releases/ps4/date


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTlWYMd2izY

brainyack:
what? you cant be serious right? sorr to ask have u played it? or compared both games?

I have played PES and the demo of FIFA 17. You don't need to take my word for it though. Watch this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hre3pF02Bh0.

The frostbite engine sucks. The players look plasticky. PES has better player models. However, the journey is a good addition.

Right now, her libido is low and she doesn't feel sexy because she has just given birth to twins. Also, there seems to be an empathy gap where you don't understand what she's going through. Get her to talk to you and you listen. Don't do it because you want sex, but because she is your partner. Don't do nice things with the expectation of sex as a reward. She will see through that. Everything will be back to normal soon.

gudbadgyal:
Hello Nairalanders, I wouldn't wanna bore you, So I'll just go straight to the point. I've been dating this guy for sometime now (just date oo) but his mom knows about our relationship and his sisters too. He's such a mama's boy and doesn't wanna work. He says he doesn't like Nigeria and he's waiting for his visa to get ready. He's dad is actually a white. He's idle and depends on me to foot the bills saying he'll reward me when things go well for him. He isn't willing to work and this is really pissing me off. However some one is gradually stealing my heart because he has been doing things my bf doesn't do for me, I'm so confused right now... Dunno who to go for
Need your advice please

I smell a scam. If his dad is white, would he need a visa? Afterall, you don't need a visa to travel to your country if you are a citizen of that country.

Amydove:
No he rarely takes alcohol and his friends always Crack jokes with that. Depression? Not that am aware of. The only medication he takes and it was recommended by a doctor was zinc supplements.

Don't be alarmed. You have actually hit the root of his problem. Masturbation. His body is used to climaxing from masturbating which means he is faithful to his body. He has to wean himself off that and stop masturbating. Remove all lubricants from his room and stop watching porn. Make sure he is clean for at least 2 months. Next, you have to take him for medical test for any STDs. If he is clean you guys have to start practicing coitus interruptus. Make sure you are taking birth control during that period. But you still have to teach him to pull out. Never let him satisfy himself by masturbating. Eventually, he will explode and you will miss the good old days of DE.

Patience, persistence and gentleness is key.

Davedgr8:
Good day guys,

I've been thinking, i don't know where i went wrong.
My girlfriend of whom i disvirgined is bent on ''no sex relationship'' in my mind, i said..that's if you will be able to resist me after making you wet.. So, i thought it was just a joke,last night, when i tried kpanshing.. Bae didn't allow me o.. I made her dripping wet, kissed, hot romance, fingered her wella.. But bae didn't gv me access into the honeypot.. When i pushed further, she started crying.. At this point, I had to leave her.

Help a bro, What might be the problem romanlanders..

Modify: we had a quarrel, which made us not talk for over a week.. We just reconciled some days back

The problem is very simple. Women enjoy sex, but they value romance more than sex. She knows she can easily get sex from anyone, but she needs to feel loved. And she needs to know that the reason you love her isn't just about sex. It's a weird thing, but that's how women think because it's their reality. So you either work on making her feel loved or you break up with her.

Note: Making her feel loved is not being a pussy and doing everything she asked. And you should not accept a no sex relationship. She has to know it is important to you.

KvnqPrezo:
I really wanna know ....
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Answer with sincerity...
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Will you still remind her or just forget about it...

Unfortunately, you are a novice when it comes to wooing ladies. I can't remember the last time I asked a lady out. I make sure they are mine first through seduction. At the very least, I make sure we have started kissing if not gone all the way before officially telling her that we are now exclusive.

The problem with the world today is religion has taken over critical thinking. We have people quoting the old testament and yet, if you point out inconsistencies in their logic, the will say that rule no longer applies because they now use the new testament. If you're taking relationship advice from a man who has failed in his marriage and has gone against the bible in leaving his wife, then you're stupid. It's like taking financial advice from someone who just got bankrupt.

The husband is the head of the relationship and the wife should not undermine his authority while the man must respect and love his wife. However, a marriage is a partnership and each partner has a role to play in order to make marriage successful. If you're getting married because you want a slave that will cook, clean and bear your children, go to the village and pick up and uneducated girl. But don't be surprised when she also wises up and leaves your ass the way Oyakhilome's wife left him.

Exemplary:
I Sleep With My Son 5 Times A Day For Money — Shocking Confession Of A Mother
http://gossipking.co/2016/09/08/i-sleep-with-my-son-5-times-a-day-for-money-shocking-confession-of-a-mother/

La click on your link, la die.

I've never dated a chick that was dependent on my money. I met one that wanted me to take her abroad. I laughed at her request not knowing she was serious. The babe is still holding out hope that we will date. Lol.

There's no need to sexualise breastfeeding. It's natural. Let her feed her baby if it's hungry.

I would be wary of him. I would also record all my interactions with him to protect myself if he attempts anything untoward.

Girl360:
Hi everyone.... Okay how do I start this? Okay so I was at work one day, and this man came around. He used to work for my dad, and even stayed in our house for sometime... When he saw me he went like "ei you've grown ooo just some few years that I left, and you're now a woman...." Stuff like that. Now this is a man I never talked to. Took a chair and sat right infront of me, talking to me like I'm like that with him. Started giving me advice and all. I was really happy someone cared enough to advice me and all... Till he started using profane language. Like how every di*ck is a di*ck...and that an old man and a young man can fu*ck me good and I'll be satisfied... That if he were a young woman like me, he would choose an old man who's rich, other than a young man who has nothing to offer... Started talking about my butt and stuff like that... Talked to me for like four hours. Happens he lectures at the university I want to go to. He even ordered for food, saying I should eat with him. I refused. "Baby, why are you doing that?" Took my number... Calling me sweetie and nonsense like that.. Says he can't wait to see me in school... And that when am I going to visit them?(he and my dad). Now my question is do you think I should be wary of him, or am I misintepreting his intentions? Thanks for your advice in advance. Have a nice day.

Thank you very much.

Trudiee:
i commot cap for u bros.. nice one. these r the kinda ppl i love to see talk.

OP Your story is sad. Here are is my opinion.

Even without hindsight, I would not abort the baby. You are cutting your nose to spite your face. The baby didn't deserve to be punished for your sins. The year I graduated from secondary school, 2003, the best in JAMB that year was a guy whose mum didn't abort him. He went eventually went to an Ivy league school. I've forgotten his name, but google is your friend here. I remember his mom talking about it and how the guy is now a blessing to her.

I won't blame you for having sex, but you should not have had unprotected sex with the guy especially if you don't know his status. I don't care if he said another lady took away his virginity. I don't believe people who tell me they are virgins or on the pill. And you shouldn't believe a guy even if he says he has had a vasectomy.

I can never marry someone who isn't a degree holder. And I can never respect any lady that depends on me financially. What if I wasn't there, how would she live? Even as a corper, I went to NYSC camp without collecting a kobo from my parents. I know the situation of the country is hard but this is the time where you have to hustle. The first time I went to the cinema with a girl that brought her own ride, I was very happy. I paid for everything throughout the date and during subsequent dates, but she buys me stuff sometimes as well.

Why do you care what your people think about who you want to marry as long as you love the person. Tribe is at the bottom of my criteria for a wife and should be at the bottom of yours for a husband. You are the person that will marry him, not your parents. My colleague is a Yoruba guy married to an Igbo lady from Onitsha and after ten years of marriage, they call each other mine every time. It took me a year to realise that it wasn't her real name. The people who opposed the marriage initially are the ones that now come to ask them for money.

The way forward is to forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness. You cannot tell anybody including the man you eventually want to marry that you ever had an abortion. You can claim you miscarried due to stress. This is an issue between you and your God.

First, your friend is suffering from performance anxiety. This is probably the first girl he has had sex with. He can do the following:
1. Buy thicker condoms like Durex Extra safe which are not as sensitive as normal condoms.
2. He should have the second round of sex 20 minutes after the first round. He's guaranteed to last longer
3. He can make the girl climax using his hands and tongue on sensitive parts of her body especially her clit. A girl who has had an orgasm will be far less disappointed by premature ejaculation.
4. Distracting himself also works. I usually do the multiplication table in my head works. Also generally trying to have fun instead of focusing on the act also works.
5. Changing positions when you feel that coming sensation, slowing down during the act can help.

Hope this helps

donquincy98:
A friend of mine seems cursed when it comes to lasting long on bed and its a big problem now for him and will still be when he gets married else a solution is found. Almost all the times he have sex he collides in me how bad twas. Currently,he has decided to stop having sex with his babe because it's more of downgrading him than upgrading him which his babe doesn't like still.

I have given him my own natural ways but he " seems cursed when it comes to lasting long in bed".

My candid question is, natural is not working,suggest artificial way to make it work.
Experienced and not insulting comments. Apart from these,just skip the thread, good.

The GTX 1070 is very scarce right now. When I get one, I can let you know.

Godvilla:
Do u wanna sell ur current GPU?
If yes, lemme know ur price and location

Even if he's wicked, it's either they let him go or treat him like a human being. The fiancee and her mother are openly disrespecting the man in front of a visitor. I can't treat any human being like that. Every human deserves to be treated with some dignity and respect.

queenesthr:
That man is a very wicked man. For even his own daughter to have no regard for him.

He must have been very wicked to them in his prime.

seyezy:
My dear, you need to read the post well before posting yours, The poster said she was initiated into lesbianism and I quite disagree with you on the opinion that people are born as lesbians. Because if they are,God wouldn't have had any reason to destroy the people of Soldom and Gomorah.

Please show me the passage in the bible where it said in clear language that the people of Soddom and Gomorah were destroyed becuase they were gay. Go and Read it again.

To the OP, you were not initiated. That is a cop out and you not taking responsibility. You tried lesbian sex and you like it. I know ladies who don't enjoy sex and they don't realise that they are probably lesbians. The best thing you can do for yourself is love yourself, pray to God and move to a country where you will be accepted for who and what you are. You can still become bi-sexual. It is possible, but it will cause a lot of mental headaches and self loathing.

An example, the Orlando shooter was obviously a gay guy but because of his self loathing, he went to a gay bar and killed 50 people. He refused to accept what he is.

You are asking us for permission to do what you know you should. If she is sleeping with a lecturer and she breaks up with him for you, the guy will find out and it can affect your studies negatively. It's best to just have a clean break up. Cut her off completely.

I would not suggest aborting the baby. That is like taking a life, but it's her own decision to make. I won't support or condone it. He has to step up to the plate and be ready to take responsibility for another human life.

It's not just about the max settings and visual fidelity which are a big draw. It's also the fact that you can run your games at a buttery smooth 60 fps. To me running at 1080p 60 fps is the best and I'll gladly turn down some settings to achieve that even though I use a GTX 970.

davien:
I don't get what the rage is about on playing at max settings... something even consoles rarely do.. But hey, if you can cheers to you.

Ran Watchdogs 1 like a breeze on my 850m,same as fallout 4,gta V, etc..

Laptops post 2016 would already be equipped with thunderbolt 3 that would support desktop gpu's like the 1080 and nvidia has announced that 1080 cards won't have a mobile series but would be port into laptops albeit scaled back in configurations... just to make gaming affordable to all.

Play Bayonetta 1 and 2. You'll forget DMC. It was made by the same people who made the original devil may cry.

AdeLaNa1:
Best DMC i ever played. DMC is the best Hack & Slash game i'll pick after GoW. Hope Capcom come up with a new one pretty soon.

WHY DO PEOPLE POST FAKE LIES AND STORIES FOR ATTENTION WHEN IT CAN BE EASILY VERIFIED!

A simple google search of the image will give you conflicting stories on why the girl wore the dress. Nigerians and promoting their blogs. Na by force to become the next Linda Ikeji?

Maybe she forced her daughter to have an abortion. If then, it is a crime. Also, we don't know what stage the pregnancy was at. For her school to notice, it must have become advanced and aborting at that stage may also be a crime. I'm just guessing here though, so don't quote me.

byteem:
IDNT GET WHY ARREST THE MOTHER FOR ABORTING THE CHILD .. WHAT SHOULD SHE HAD DONE...

KEEP THE BABY?..WHEN DID IT BECOME A CRIME TO ABORT IN NIGERIA .. THESE POLICE SEF... CRAZY HEEDIOTS ..

THE MOTHER AND THE DAUGHTER ARE THE VICTIMS HERE.. CANT BEGIN TO IMAGINE THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TORTURE..ALL THIS MUST BE HAVING ON THEM.