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Whoever the dude is needs to step far away from his wife. That is an abomination. There's no help in that.

Why are you posting the sex tape of another human being online? What is your gain to see another person humiliated? Are you a child. You know that it is very difficult to remove something once it has been put online and things like this can make someone suicidal. If she takes her life because you helped to spread this nonsense, her blood is on your hands.

I wonder how you'll feel if someone secretly filmed you naked masturbating or doing whatever and posted it online. Give yourself some empathy and some sense.

Please what is the price and can I trade in my 970 plus cash for it?

mamagee and her questions. Lol. You stated that she was fired, but you didn't ask her why. So you come to nairaland to ask people who don't know her why it happened. Logic.

Tales by moonlight brought to you by bella and her phantom messengers who always send their problems to her.

Give her a holy book, e.g the bible, then make her swear to tell the truth and nothing else. Then you hit her with the question of her virginity. P.S. I don't know why you care if she is really a virgin, but I don't think I can marry someone I have never had sex with. Sexual compatibility is important to me.

What did IFA say?

AnodaIT:
Hmm

As someone who has lived in England, I can tell you that this message was typed like a Nigerian that has never seen outside the state he/she was born. Fake bloggers with their fake stories trying to drive traffic to their website. SMH.

There's one way to find out how he feels about you. Make your move and see how he responds.

You haven't created a romantic connection with the girl. They probably give you their number so that you will leave them alone. You have to engage in proper discussion with the girls whose number you want.

Adamsmith234:
the topic in church last sunday was aboout sexual immorality and the preacher was talking about how u have blood convenant with anybody you sex with,and you also get possessed by any demon or trouble in your partner.fear catch me no b small cuz if ah begin count dey no of girls wey ah do bleep,talk of the ashawo's na just god go save me,as ah dey here nw puna dey fear me#ah regret going to church

Pastor's be adding spice onto the word of God until it is unrecognisable. Go and read your bible. Did it mention anything about Succubus and Incubus when you have sex with a woman. That's why I don't swallow anything all these guys who call themselves "Men of God" say. If he's trying to tell you not to commit fornication, that's alright but all the lies they add to the story to make things seem scarier. SMH.

They have to have a honest heart to heart talk. Especially about trust. It's his choice whether to forgive or not, but it isn't easy to throw away a relationship that has lasted that long.

If you watched Twilight, you will notice that the vampires never sleep. Edward was always staring at Bella while she slept. Now I ain't saying she's a vampire, I'm just saying that's what vampires do...in the twilight movies.

I don't think he has an attention problem. I think he doesn't want to have sex with you. He might have thrown the Viagra away because he felt emasculated by you. Slapping him makes things worse. Plus you mail makes it sound like you are the bread winner. And maybe he feels like you are not making him feel happy. Talk to him to get to the root of the situation.

You asked the question and you answered it. And I bet you are the shyest person here trying to feel like don juan.

You can love more than one person. The question is what you do about it. Even when you marry, you will still love other women and wonder about whether you made the right decision with your wife. The thing to note is that feelings come and go if you let them. As for the equality thing, you can't really measure love but you cannot even love your children equally. You can only be fair to them. So you can't love two people equally, but you can love one thing about one person and another about another person.

habby51:
Never you think you are smart. You keep collecting money from him and yet, you're denying him your pus§y. Must annoying part of it is that many of them will say no sex for now oooooo. But they can keep collecting/demanding for Figo. Of which they are not virgin, so why all this paparazi All this pussy then they use form bros, if you see it you'll nearly vomit ( condemned puna) wider than coal pot. My advice to all guys out there, don't be fool by some foolish babes.
You have the control at your hand.
All pu§sy na for fuckkkkkk.

This is what happens when you toast girls by showing off and bragging about how much money you have. So you spend money on the girl and expect her to open her legs for you. If you want sex for what you are spending, then go and get a prostitute. At least then you can be honest to yourself. I have never dated a girl that routinely asked me for money. I she isn't making her own money or independent, I am not dating her. Keep going after the girls who recognise that you are a broke ass and watch them take your money and leave you hanging, instead of looking for a babe that will lift you.

You have got to love internet anonymity and the way it allows strangers to call you stupid when they don't know you just to puff themselves up.

nubian999:
Stupid people be like :

What you are experiencing is called Loss Aversion. It is what happens when someone has invested in something, so the person has a vested interest in making sure that thing succeeds. It is why if you spend money in an expensive restaurant, you will make sure you finish the food even if you're not enjoying it. Forget what you've put in and all the things you have done for her. When you meet the person for you, you will know. Nobody will tell you. She will not be perfect, but you will know she is the one because she is not a checklist of attributes but the person that completes you. That is what you should be looking for.

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Why bother replying

I'll give you some advice, but I don't know if you will follow it.

The main reason you don't currently really have friends and a girlfriend is probably your vibe. You probably are not good at reading social cues or making social interactions. So you are going to set yourself some goals.

1. Make it a point every week to say hello to a stranger and give them a honest complement. It does not matter whether it is a guy or lady. But make sure you vary who you do it to. Have a good smile on your face while you do so. Don't be in a hurry when you say hi. Say it patiently and with as much confidence as you can muster. You will eventually get very good at it and notice that some of the people you say hi to will want to converse with you. Note: Don't complement their looks or physical attribute. You can just say "Hello. I like your shoes. Where did you get it from. I want something like that." OR "Hello. You have a good dress sense. What tailor do you use" OR "Hello. I like the way you smile.". If you can't find a complement, just say "Hello. Just wanted to stop you and say Hi. I hope you have a nice day." Eventually, you will be making longer conversations with strangers

2. Expand your social circle. Start attending events like weddings, events, parties, learning workshops and places where people tend to interact. Most people date others in their social circle rather than strangers they met on the street. Most people also make friends from social circles. It is a natural way of making friends.

3. Make it a point to always look good, dress well, brush your teeth and smell nice. People will naturally gravitate towards you if you look good, no matter how ugly you may think you are.

4. Even the best players get rejected by women regularly. The difference between people who are successful in life and with women is that they sit down and dissect what they did wrong and correct those mistakes. Don't take rejection personally.

5. Just enjoy life. When you enjoy life, people will gravitate towards you.

Dude. The only person that should care about her beauty is you. Maybe I'm wrong. The poster below me probably knows better.

That's what happens when you don't date independent ladies. Keep dating lowkey oloshos who don't love you and they will start threatening you with this.

Congratulations. Pat yourself on the back. You had sex with a girl. Yay. So did like 240 million people in the world. Yet I don't hear them kissing and telling.

Myhonor:
I've been dating this guy for 3yrs...and we have been friends for 5yrs...late last year we had issues because of something he did dat really annoyed me and I broke up with him... I only broke up because I wanted him to prove he really loves me... But I later realized I made a mistake and I wanted him back.. I tried apologizing to him but he already started dating someone new after a month... He told me he still loves me and I know he does but he doesn't want to break up with with the other girl.. He really likes the other gal too... We are still friends and he has been dating dis gal for 9months now... I still love him and am still trying to win him back to me over this 9months... Is this other gal just a rebound galfriend? Should I continue fighting for our love?? should I just move on with my life?? Thanks for ur advice

Sorry, you live and you learn. I don't think this is the first time you've used break up to threaten him. No relationship is ever smooth and he must be thinking that if he married you, you would also use divorce as a threat. Men don't like being threatened. I won't ask you to fight for him because it would be selfish of you to tear him away from his current relationship. Go the nuclear option and stop talking to him and calling him and checking him out on facebook. You will find somebody else to love you. Don't worry.

AfricanApple:
How can you even equalize sex with food.

if the woman is also bad at sex, the man would sought sexual pleasure outside. then I guess, if the man is bad at cooking the woman should sought stomach pleasure outside.

I know it sounds unfair, but it's the truth, no matter how clever your response is. It's just the same way a woman will leave her husband if he cannot take care of his family. Even if the woman has more than enough money to take care of them both. If you meet a man who can tolerate your inability to cook, then good luck to you. I hope you can keep him engaged. I know modern men who hve left their wives for the same issue.

AfricanApple:
I always wonder, are there people in this world who feels joy whenever they are in the kitchen or is just a necessity for us to go into the kitchen?
as for me the latter is the case. oh! how I hate cooking most especially when the whether is hot.

BUT
the question is must a woman know how to cook? must she be that perfect chef, whom people should bite their tongue at the taste of her food?

your answer should be with reasonable reasons

I often heard this phrase that 'another woman will snatch your husband if you don't know how to cook' like uuhhh? Is food the essence of our living?

Shouldn't it be a thing of choice?

My own opinion?
she must not know how to cook
If your wife/girlfriend cannot cook, I don't think its a sin for you to teach her or better still do the cookings yourself.

No matter how modern a woman is, if she doesn't cook for her husband, the man will find someone else. It's kind of like sex. If your partner is terrible at sex, you will start looking for other people who at least decent. There's a reason why they say that the way to man's heart is through his stomach.

Dude, I'm disappointed with you. First, you are a hypocrite and part of the problem with why girls lie about their virginity. I never ask a lady if she's a virgin. I don't expect her to be. Especially when I am not one and you shouldn't too. Why do you want a virgin? For your ego? To say you got there first? Afterwards, you will go and kiss and tell.

One thing I've noticed is that when ladies see that I don't care about whether they are virgins, they are less likely to lie to me. The ones that even tell me they are, I laugh in their face and tell them I'm not stupid and I don't care if they've had sex before.

The main thing important to me is that a lady loves me and is faithful to me when we start seeing each other and that should be you priority. Throw your hypocrisy in the bin.

MICHROZZAY:
#PALMCHAT

I don't have the answer to that, but the poster below me does. He will tell you what to do.

If your wife is cursing you, it means you have either provoked her so badly that she is lashing out by cursing you, or that she hates you passionately. I cannot stay married to someone that curses me.