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Ah, they didn't date fa. You know how these gossips are. . . they link her with any guy she is a 1/2 mile radius of.

This Val Kilmer rumor is because of their movie. . . Alexander. They even had her dating Collin Ferrell (who played her son) and Oliver Stone (who directed). Let's not forget Nicholas Cage from Gone in sixty Seconds, Gerald Butler in Lara Croft, Clive Owen in Beyond Borders, Antonio Banderas in Original Sin, Ethan Hawk in Taking Lives and even Denzel Washington in Bone Collector

I guess it's easier to imagine her as a man eater because she oozes sexuality!! 



@ Topic
Err. . . I don't think I really need to answer that after the above

ariblaze:
@sisi

you claim to be aware the above happens

can you give us a legit albeit true case

I could but seeing as there is no way to verify if my story is true or something I spun out of my wild imagination, there is no point. 

gabrywyl:
HAAAA!!!! Even on Nairaland dey e like Instant Noodle ooo. . . See this:-



This is what I mean. Naija guys are constantly doing things like this. . . . . Dont dey deny anymore Ariblaze. Its a fact that MOST Naija guys just dey simply say all this love love thing like nansense!

Oh gabby. . . I don't think Eyonigger was serious about that.

By the way, saying I love you can also be used to smoothed ruffled feathers.

KarmaMod:
I consider that as "giving a push", not really arranged

and most parents consider what THEY think are suitable requirements, not yours.

Yeah, those are the overbearing parents looking out for their own self interest.

About Betrothal, it is not as archaic or horribly, horribly bad as some think it is. I know a few girls who were betrothed to guys (not old men ooh) when they were ye high and right now, they are together and very happy.

I guess in the end it just depends what the marriage means to the parents. . . Protecting your self interest or having your child's happiness at heart.

Tgirl4real:
awwwww . . . so sweet

I changed ma mind. U is d one

Ya know I got your back!!!!!

dani1luv:
Please dont make a scene here

Oh oh! I stepped in doodoo with that one huh?

See ya https://smiley.onegreatguy.net/bolt.gif


Seriously though. . . getting with Tgirl? You should be so lucky.

KarmaMod:
sisi, who excatly would you want to arranged this for you?

as in you'd accpet anyone or must they be aware of your "requirements"

Lol, usually it is the 'rents who will do this and they will be aware of your requirements.

Most people confuse arranged marriage to being forced into marriage and they couldn't be more wrong. It's could be something as simple as organizing an event, have both parties meet (they know why they are there. . . so no pretense or coyness) and you talk.

Tgirl4real:
What are u saying Sisi . . . no vex me o. I said arrange. Wetin be my own na, just find d right guy that fits the bill

Rotflmao!! What if I have find the right guy and it just happens to be Dani??

Wachu gonna do??!!

JJYOU:
i always suspected this is one of your hidden talents

where was you when i needed your services?

where is your part 2?

I don't know if I like the fact that you know me so well??

Part two is coming. . . my hubby is out of town right now, so I'm sorta in a limbo.

You know my life revolves around him. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif

JJYOU:
sisi is an ole lady from bukina faso

Heheheheh. . . it's teenager from Tunisia, thank you very much  

@ topic most naija people dont tell truth by lifestyle

u believe their i love u at your own peril

How do I love thee. . . let me count the ways!!!!

Finally some truthiness. Hehehehehehehe

ariblaze:

maybe they heard that you and them people you spoke of, give it up like candy when you hear i am nigerian

lets explore that possibility for an instant

Hmmm, I'd think they fact that girls give it up like candy makes saying "I Love you" a moot point but then again men are confusing lots. So let me see if I have this right, guys are quick to say I love you to certain girls because they've heard these girls give it up like candy?

Interesting.

Please let's explore that possibility.

Hmmmm, Me thinks Tgirl and Dani want someone to play intermediary for 'em.

I'm open!!

Lmao! Spike, I like you too much to have you become 7th wife.

dyabman:
i never did talk about hottness anyway , Beyonce dress berra than vick period , arun oju ko now,

Arun oju ko. . . you are right. However, HOTNESS was not what you asked for.

Bwahahaha! Ina ruwan angulu da kitso that is to say it is not me who will marry him now. . .

With the mike

Rotflma!!!! I put another one there and look at my post before this for what you'd have to contend with

spikedcylinder:
So you know a thing or two about arranged marriages and you have been doing anyhow since. Where is my husband?

Rotflmao!! Check now. . .


@ Topic
There is nothing in the books which states you can't have love in an arranged marriage, the only difference is. . . it is does not overshadow everything else.

Arranged Marriage.

I'm an observer Gaby. . . I observe.

gabrywyl:
So how did you know all those stuff?

Oh Gaby, the stories I could tell. . . .

Okay now. . .

What is going on here??!

First 6'4 eyonigger now this??

It's got to be the water. . . Yes, Yes, that's it.  

gabrywyl:
Wow! Something new to learn. Sisi, are you a Nigerian?

Proudly so. . . . https://africangfx.com/a/a/nigeriaf1.gif

Hehehehehe

eyonigger:
Fanks o jare!!! I'll work on my self esteem to perfection before i set off to owerri

Lmao! Now I know you are just playing.

Good one. . . hehehehehe.

Sweetie, let me put this in perspective for you. . .

Yao Ming, who is currently the tallest basketball player is 7ft 6 inches.

Here’s a pix
[img]http://blog.calsun.canoe.ca/mediam/yao-ming-houston-rockets.jpg[/img]

Except you with your 6’4 self and your girl with her 6’6 self (just a foot shorter than that guy above) live in a society of 12 feet-ers, there is nothing average about you two.

Then again, your topic makes sense if that is the case. . . both of you living in the land of giants, I mean.

By the way, saying “I am afraid of what her friends think”  does not scream swagger!!!

spikedcylinder:
I didn't see anything jor.

Lol. . . Sorry. It's there now.

@ Topic

3 Reasons

1) They don't know what it means. It seems like Naija men label any warm and fuzzy feeling for a girl who isn't their relative. . . Love. This is also why they can hate quickly. . .

Boy meets girls, five minutes later boy tells girl "I'm in love with you" girl goes. . . . "Hmm, Nah, I don't think you are" boy gets offended and starts hating girl.

See. . . No middle ground.

2) They think every girl is just dying to hear "I love you, I'm in love with You, You complete me, I wanna marry you" and all the other empty words.

3) Sadly, many girls fall for this, many girls expect this and get offended when they don't hear it after 2 dates.


By the by. . . Do women expect it because men do it or do men do it because women expect it?

eyonigger:
You are allround correct. Gurl u have followed through all my threads. na waoo .CIA

Errrr. . . you. . . you said that already. 

showbobo:
Stop hating bruv. . . And that still wouldnt change SISI's obsession for him

You are absolutely riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight It wouldn't. . . it just means more of him to LOVE and ADORE!!!

https://images.zaazu.com/img/flying-kiss-anim-flying-kiss-love-female-smiley-emoticon-000547-large.gif

HeatFusion:
@post
What is love, if not for the serpent that preys on your heart? If captured, the heart is encompassed in thorns, feeling its stings and pain.
The heart rarely escapes the clutches of Love. How could it? It cannot withstand the black holes that sucks it into its own dimensions of pain, joy, lust, and lies.

Awww Ruby, you had me at. . What.

HeatFusion:
OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I love sonnet 18. . . .I memorized it for memory sake!

Sonnet 18 continued:

By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou growest:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this and this gives life to thee.

Shakespeare is a fountain of Metaphors.

Now their relationship is in good shape.

HeatFusion:
OMG!!!!!!!!!!! I love sonnet 18. . . .I memorized it for memory sake!

Hehehehehe. . . Sonnet 18 sets my heart on fire!!!

Waves of passion washed over her and she made no bones about showing it.