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Wait how does it work. . . Is the next person gonna give a letter after completion?

Oooh I loved this. . . Not cheating!!

Name - Priscilla
Animal - Porcupine
Place - Portland
Food - Papaya ( we can use fruits rights )
Thing - Pot

Tee hee hee. . .   

I think they are so afraid their wives will stumble on this site, read these things and have the senses knocked into them. . . hence the destroying marriage crapola.

By the way, destroying marriage? One would have to be extremely insecure in their marriage to think that way won't they? 

To the Just Good Men, there are other words for Frustrated ya know? Here . . . A Thesaurus. Just type in the word, click enter and voila. . . New Words  (Like Magic? I know!!). Please feel free to play around with them words. . . mmmkaay.


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igwe 1:
What promise?

What promise?? 

A little Flashback is in order here. . . .  Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Girls, You can take your complaints to . . . .  .
I still don’t see how one could decide to bite the finger that feeds him.
You guys-girls make your living from this site, why can’t you contribute to the growth of it.
Arrant nonsense!![color=#000099][/color]

Bites the hand that feeds him? Are they complaining? Have you his threads. . . the Kudos and the pats on the backs are piling higher the Eiffel Tower yet here you are bouncing off the wall over something that does not concern you.

Oh you dear, sweet simpleton, How hard is to understand that if he loses business, it is his business . . . Not your, not Nairaland, certainly not the other Auto dealers.

Do you get it. . .  Do you?!!! 

Please stop using the tired excuse of trying to make Nairaland better. It doesn't hold water . . not anymore, you've done a fine job rubbishing it.

Okay, enough talk, meet me on the romance section for some. . .

Rotflmao!! Awww, this is not nice. . . the poor guy. I did feel sorry for him though, I don't understand why they had to boo him, it was so unnecessary. I mean they people got what they wanted already and his rating is at an all time low. . . What was the point??

Kobojunkie:
After all we have been through in Nigeria, you really want to sit back and give them another 5 years of your life for free instead of going out there to bark down their spines to ensure they do it by then??  

Lol! Call me an Optimist.  


But nah that's not what I am saying. . . I am talking about getting into a back and forth "Yes we can, No we can't" thingy over this issue. If you notice. . . I said the only way to really silence the critics is when the project come to fruition because no article, no picture, no video and no swearing under oath is gonna do it.

blackspade:
This project is already well into it's first phases of construction, with finances not being a problem as of now. This project is not solely in the hands of Kaduna State officials, but it is also being administered by officials in charge of the Millennium Cities Initiative (note meetings in London). I will post some articles in order to help answer some of the questions asked in here. . . also check my sources in my first post, much information there too.

And after you post the articles. . . then what?

Don't you see, it would be another round of "Oh it's all smoke screen, they are gonna screw the people, they are taking advantage of the almanjiris (good for them by the way HA!) and the uneducated Mallams (not that we care. . . we just like to poopoo on anything the Nigerian Federal Govt does).

Unfortunately, the only way to silence the critics is after the project is over and that would be what. . . another 5 years?

Alrighty then, see you in 2014 Bro, in the mean time, seat back and relax yourself. . . have a tall glass of burukutu and enjoy the progress.

Kobojunkie:
It could start off as an white elephant project BUT if the people make sure to push for the success of the project, every way they can -- Be it to ensure that information is made available for them to scrutinize on a regular basis or ensuring that any questionable characters be removed as soon as identified. That is the major problem we have. The people are not as involved in all matters as they ought to be and that needs to end for these plans to work for good.

Thank you for not totally dismissing it, It get very demoralizing when every new plan is shut down by onlookers before they find out more about it. For once it would be nice to hear. . . that's a good start.

More!!! More!!! MORE!!

Blackspede give us more. . . . Please!!!

I honestly admire some people sense of certainty ooh.

Me. . . I wait until AFTER the deed is not done before I start with the "I told You Sos".

Guess I am just a coward

blackspade:
I'm glad you're enjoying the progress, it's certainly good to know we have governors across the nation who're working this diligently to develop stable economic markets.

Enjoying it? I'm Loooooooooving the progress!!!

More! More! More!!

We. . . errr. . . I want MORE!!!

If you build it they will come. Okay but who are the theys?

Why. . .  those who will spend the money to boost the economy of course. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/65.gif

Awww look at him. . . so handsome!!

Hehehehehe!

Wow!!!!  

IMPRESSIVE!!!  

God Bless Gov. Namadi Sambo!!! More grease to his elbows!!!

@ Topic

COOL!! The are rejuvenating my hometown. Me Likey!!!

strangleyo:
housing for civil servants?

HOUSING FOR CIVIL SERVANTS?

The only thing civil servants in Nigeria need is the pink slip!

Fire the bastards. We need the FG to become smaller not bigger.

Ouch!!!!

fs:
JustGood, I don't think anyone is saying that a woman cannot cook for her husband/family. I think the issue is when people say she has to do it or when her husband is completely content with doing most of the cooking and then people OUTSIDE the marriage decide to concern themselves with what's not their business and say he shouldn't be doing it[size=18pt]. The point is that it is not any particular human being's work.[/size] Some women love to cook, some men love to do the same. Anyone of them in a marriage should do it. In your case, your wife loves to do it, no problem. The problem arises when either party in a marriage does NOT like to cook. In that case, I think they should just both do it together or pretty much have a detailed discussion on how it's going to work before they enter into a marriage.

People forget that when we were growing up in Nigeria, many of our parents had help (maids, drivers, guys that washed clothes, etc). In my house anyway, my mother did NOT do everything. We had help. For those of us in the US now, labor is not as cheap as it is/was in Nigeria, so we have to do everything. [size=18pt]Ofcourse, this needs to be shared to maintain a happy home[/size]. And at the end of the day, I'm hoping that is what we all want. Because if that's not the case, there's no need to get married. Why live a miserable life for the rest of one's life? God has created us on this earth for much more than that. Everyone should just try to figure out what their end goals are, because to tell the truth, I don't think this thing is as complicated as many make it out to be.

Thank you fs! You hit the nail in the head.

I just don't know why this is hard to get. why anyone would be happy to tell the world his wife was late to work because she was cooking him food. Does that show how much she loves him? Is this supposed to show how much of a man he is? How can any man who claims to love his wife want the additional stress of having to rush to work, make up excuses and maybe even face the ire of a boss on her? How can he not put her feeling in consideration? No matter how loving and capable she is, she'd have felt a twinge of uneasiness about being late to work. . . she is human after all. . . So why would anyone take pleasure in this? I'm beginning to think there is a deep seated psychological problem here oooh.

I mean Fs in you honest opinion, is there anything wrong with a man saying "Darlin' don't worry I'll take care of my meal, you get ready for work so you won't be late" Is it. . . is it? 

I find it truly sad that  some men think this is just women being belligerent when it isn't. I'll tell you what, a woman who doesn't know how to cook will go the extra miles to learn just so she can cook for a husband who is considerate. CONSIDERATION. . . that is the key here. Nothing more, nothing less. COOKING, CLEANING, WASHING AND LAUNDRY (ING) should not be anybody work in a marriage, it should be shared. We. . . man and woman, husband and wife are supposed to find ways to make life easier for each other. . . why is this a hard concept to grasps for some men??!!

Mai Suya:
Well said fs, yours has always been a  refreshingly sane voice among the vacuous hullabaloo coming from your peers. Do women  really think that by being rebellious, by usurping or at best undermining the man’s authority, by showing you can 'stand up to him', that will get him pander to your desires? FAT CHANCE!

If females feel that men are getting worse, it’s simply because they (men) are responding to their(female) worsening behavior. Understand this: he is a man; he is built to face challenges, he does not bow to them, he faces them squarely, much less when coming from . . .

Look, you ladies should get it right: I go to the market, cook, do the laundry( sincerely I do!), heck, even wash her undies with stains of em . . . you know . . . 'aunt flo'(uggh!). It doesn't take anything from me, and I can boldly say many Najia men will gladly do the same. Jeez, are we animals? How can any right thinking man, seeing his wife is expectant, incapacitated or just plain tired, still expect her to run kitchen to prepare food for him? That will be criminal.

So what then is the problem?

We will not take orders from our wives, nor will we not bow to her rebellious inclinations, as the female contributors are advocating.  I will do her duties when, in my finite wisdom, I feel I should. THAT"S WHY I AM HEAD   ladies dont like hearing that, huh? TOUGH

In Africa we have traditional respect for someone who is older; since in over 90% of the cases the man is usually the older one, it will be disrespectful for his wife to be giving him orders.,

_{*Sing and Dancing*}

Oh Mai gida has Spoke, Yes he has.

What he says is law, Yes it is.

Because he knows best, Yes he does.

Oh Mai gida na, Mai gida na!!

Thank you Allah for giving me this mai gida

I bow before Allah but only after I bow before mai gida https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/77.gif

Because Mai Gida is the best man, Yes he is.

And he knows best, Yes he does.


Never say I didn't do anything respectful to you. . . Ka ji ko?

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princesa:
back to topic

Mi is the bomb!
i love his crowd mentality most, that was what gave him the HipHOp awards, i think
keep it up Sisi

Pulling me Back

http://music.sharemusic.com/_Pulling-me-Back/audio/317913/1713.html

na2day?:
hell yeah! 

Sweerat are you telling me this is fair. . .

AMAKAONE:
@OP
*smh* they surely did not beat you enough.
Was this not you a few months ago trawling NR for a "babe"?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=21499.msg581612#msg581612

Where was your wife then ehn?
Or had you conveniently forgotten that you had one?

So  now the shoe is on the other foot and you are coming here to cry?

Useless men wey dey Naija sha!! God save us!!

Because now you are suspiciously absent from the Proceedings. . . what you advocate clothes need dry cleaning?

spikedcylinder:

Oturugbeke!!!!

No wonder! Maybe the wife caught him with his free thinker so she went to get a free thinker of her own!

Shior!

Hehehehehehehe

Yeah, some people won't see anything wrong with this now, after all it i just good behavior to troll the net for girls you can tell to bend over so you can do 'em from behind while your [size=4pt]_imaginary[/size] wife toils away in the kitchen.

na2day?:
actually, i dont think ahead, i have currently sign witness protection act with OPC and MEND in case of unforeseen circumstances

Actually dear heart, My daddy controls all of 'em and all he has to do is say they word and your protectors will be the ones dealing with ya

Sapphic:
LMAO! Haba Yaro, make up your mind now? Why add jara to what was a perfect post? But in response to your addition, [size=18pt]the fact that you are incapable of reaching a particular conclusion from the information given does not mean others are similarly handicapped[/size]. No be by force o, I came to my own conclusion, you came to yours. Unless there is evidence to the contrary, I am holding firmly to mine. Feel free to do same with yours. Do I look bothered that you do not agree with me? Not in the slightest. And nothwithstanding all your tiresome posts, I am satisfied with my conclusions. So if it makes you feel better that they have come from a crystal ball, hold on to that thought as it really is fine with me. Jeez. . . LOL

POW! POW! POW. . . .JAB! JAB! UPPER CUT and KNOOOOOOOOOOOCK OUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUT https://www.clipartof.com/images/emoticons/xsmall2/762_boxing_smileys.gif


Bwahahahahahahahahahaha!! You KILT it girl, you sure did!!

This is why I am very picky with whom I respond to, there are some people who just don't have the. . . errrr. . . how shall I put this . . . abin to reason properly, so why bother especially if all they can come back with is frustrated this, bitter,that,  lonely thus, spinster, no one will marry you, you will have problem in marriage. . . it's like https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/37.gif Hey mister. . . when do we get to the part where you start using the brain God gave you. I know he gave you one. . . he had to because he is not a mean God, see. Unfortunately we never do get to that part

Bitter, Biased, Blinkered, Buffoon. . . Alliteration at its very best!!!! 

Iyalode I bow to you!!!!! https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/77.gif

Re: Igwe
I don't know what is wrong with this my Husband fa. Last year, we both stood in front of the Iroko tree wearing nothing but a white bed sheet and he made me a vow that he would relax himself this year. I know it is not his fault that's why I took him to the babalawo myself to help me wash his head from the edi that is doing him. Anyway he promised me ooh, he did and now he has reneged on that promise. If this isn't a clear case for divorce, I don't know what is.

Oh man! I guess I won't be getting this car either 



_{Please forgive my crappy joke, I am not defending anyone oooh. . . I'm not good at it anyway.}

Jehovah!

http://music.sharemusic.com/_Jehovah-/audio/317669/1713.html

Lmao!! My Sister also took issue with AF's hat!!!

Here you go

http://music.sharemusic.com/_Forever/audio/317646/1713.html

Lmao!!! Now that's what I'm talking about!!

I'll upload it on EZShare. . . give me a mo'

^{Hey I am not doing my husband any favors fa peeps are supposed to go buy the CD ooooh}

Hehehehehehehehe!!!

Forever by Mr. Incredible!!!

showbobo:
hehehe lusty luster

Tee heee heee heee

Moonstone:
I absolutely love M.I. . . he's very hot (rap-wise).
I love his song Anoti as in I'm crazy about Anoti. The beat is hot and the concept is hotter. . . Wow - he's a refreshing addition to naija music.

Oooh another fan!!!!!!!!

na2day?:
wow, the biasness of the female mind

As opposed to what. . . the fairness of the male mind?! https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/23.gif

Hmmmmmmmm Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiicken
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