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Lactation amenorrhea isn't as clear cut as you posted.

It's generally just for the first 6 months, and even that doesn't apply to many women.

AbuUthaymeen:
ANY AND EVERY METHOD OF "BIRTH CONTROL" IS ABSOLUTELY NOT ALLOWED IN ISLAM . . . . ITS THE SAME AS BURYING KIDS ALIVE.. 1. withdrawal method 2. using pills 3. fear of poverty and others are n0t all0wed. . try listen to family planning 1-3 by abu ibeji. . .its comprehensive . . . would have love to create thread about it but am afraid of m0re pe0ple turning kafir just like they did on genotype issue . . by rejecting quran and hadith to follow their qiyas

Smh. You gave a fatwa without proof but will be jumping about saying proof proof.

There is Hadith supporting coitus interruptus (withdrawal method) and that's what the sahaba did during there time the initial post quoted the Hadith. But you ignored the Hadith and said people should listen to Abu ibeji after shouting on different threads that people should not be listening to scholars without proof.

You people should kuku kill your wives directly instead of killing them small small by getting them pregnant every year. Smh.

If not that you are something else, because people had different opinions from you, you declared them kafir. Even the sahabas didn't always agree.

Fear for yourself first.

And before opening new thread check to make sure that topic doesn't have an existing thread or else you risk me closing it.

kelizosuy:
I almost took mistoprostol at week 26 to induce miscarriage, I can't count how many times I've cried and blamed myself for being pregnant. And my baby is so peaceful, no MS not even once, no sign of pregnancy except for the tummy but still my mood swing is nothing to write home about. The worst part is that I live alone.. Please apart from seeing a specialist is there something else I can do about it?

Sorry about that, it could just be hormones without logical reasons as to why, pregnant women who have everything going for them ie a supportive spouse, money, a good job etc can still suffer from it.

Depression during and after pregnancy is really real. It's a good thing you are aware that you could be depressed.

Since you are almost at the end just try to keep positive thoughts like mamas have suggested and be watchful you might be at risk of post partum stress disorder (ptsd) or postpartum depression (ppd). You can read online for more information

imurboss:
Good pm to you all pushing and waddling mamas,trust we're all good. Congratulations @mzleemah....God bless your entire family and congrats to all august team that have birthed their lo.

Team october,how're we holding on,hope we're getting ready,abeg make una help me chook mouth for my matter o.Yesterday i went for scan at 32wks according to my lmp. The result shows that one baby weighs 2.63kg at 35wks while the other weighs 2.17kg at 33wks 4days. Edd for the first is now 28/9 while the other is 8/10,though i'm not so concerned about these new edds as the very first scan i had gave me one date for both,which is 9/10. My concern is why these discrepancies in weights and ages.Then the one that worries me now is that the presentation for the first is breech lying right oblique,this has got me really worried since. Does it mean all this while i feel heavy down there,they have been sitting down while i'm thinking it's the head. Please what can i do to make bring them to cephalic.....Thanks

Teamoctoberfornoloss#teamsharpsharpdelivery#

Scans calculate gestational age based on the fetus weight and development, some fetus grow faster than their actual age some are slower. One of the reasons babies weigh differently. Twins are 2 different fetus their weight can't be exactly the same. And as regards position, they change positions all the time. One needs to worry only when it's 36 weeks.

AlBaqir:
@ Mod Sissie, kindly respond swiftly. This guy is abusing NL Islam section; apart from the frequent hate speeches, day in day out he opens several account with different monikers:

# AhluSunnah

# AbuUthaymeen

# DeathStroke001

# TrulySalafiyyah

Those are the ones I can remember. Only God knows how much more he has opened.


* AhluSunnah, try to stick to one moniker and stop being a jerk hiding under different monikers. Perhaps you are getting ban often and you cannot control your frustrations. You can beat banning (which sometimes is automatic) by stop using derogatory words.

He is not truthsalafiyah, I think (writing style is different) and he has different monikers even when he gets banned. And if you haven't noticed all this olodo ni e statements has reduced.

For mamas with babies that don't like bottles, not all babies like feeding bottles but you can feed breast milk with a cup, please feed gently and don't let it enter the nose.

Small cup with a side corner for safety. Check online for more information and safety concerns[/quote]

Sansa143:
And wat words did I write dat is spam?Is it d hausa lang I used or which?Cos I can't recall writing any offensive word!

It doesn't have to be offensive words, i just checked and it's because of the Hausa you typed.

Anti spam is a programme not a person, if you get banned by it just send mail to mod to unban you.

Sansa143:
Evening all!
Rant time!
So am bak 4rm d ban!I thought we were sisters in dis forum but I got d shock of my life wen one of us decided I should be banned 4rm posting in health section entirely 4 a whole 24hrs!I am really disappointed in whoeva did such!I hold no grudge against d person!Since dats how it is now,is best I become a peeper!Thanks alot!

Anti spambot banned you, not someone. The spambot automatically bans if it picks some of the words you typed as spam.

As Salam Alaykum Warahmotullahi Wa barakaatuh

We have always organized RAMADAN IFTAAR in the past few years, Unfortunately this year it was not organized due to logistical problems.

In place of the RAMADAN IFTAAR PROGRAMME we bring to you EID GET TOGETHER

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As Salam Alaykum Warahmotullahi Wa barakaatuh

We have always organized RAMADAN IFTAAR in the past few years, Unfortunately this year it was not organized due to logistical problems.

In place of the RAMADAN IFTAAR PROGRAMME we bring to you EID GET TOGETHER

Are you in Lagos or Ibadan?
Do you want to share a beautiful moment with your brothers and Sisters in NAMUSORG?
Do you want to meet all the interesting members on this forum ? �����

If yes?
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Meet and greet
Games
Admonitions
Nasheed
and so much more.........

Save the date:
19 Dhu Al-Hijjah 1438

September 10, 2017

Lagos Venue : 50 Johnson Street Off Bode Thomas Surulere

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Please Signify Your Interest In Attending in the thread below
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As Salam Alaykum Warahmotullahi Wa barakaatuh

We have always organized RAMADAN IFTAAR in the past few years, Unfortunately this year it was not organized due to logistical problems.

In place of the RAMADAN IFTAAR PROGRAMME we bring to you EID GET TOGETHER

Are you in Lagos or Ibadan?
Do you want to share a beautiful moment with your brothers and Sisters in NAMUSORG?
Do you want to meet all the interesting members on this forum ? �����

If yes?
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Meet and greet
Games
Admonitions
Nasheed
and so much more.........

Save the date:
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booqee:
hay god.. doctor? I hope it doesn't mean something serious..? I have an appointment soon, I would discuss with doc, hopefully it stops before then..

funny thing is itching can be sweet, but the moment ur hands are off, it leaves a lingering pain that really stings.. for that reason alone, I'm really trying not to itch..

Garlic works wonders for it. Peel a whole garlic and insert it, leave for like 2 hours and remove, repeat again for 2 to 3 days. It works better than many topic creams and it's totally safe. It's yeast infection, it's common in pregnancy, it will go and reoccur again for many.

Disclaimer: the 1st garlic you insert will be peppery, don't fear or remove it, it's sign that it's working.

Try not to itch it, itching makes it worse and might cause bruising. And if you wear pant all the time, try to not wear pant all the time.

For mamas with babies that don't like bottles, not all babies like feeding bottles but you can feed breast milk with a cup, please feed gently and don't let it enter the nose.

Small cup with a side corner for safety. Check online for more information and safety concerns

Aww from bad news to good news.

My deepest condolences, God will provide another for you. Amin @phlakkeys

Which of his mercy can we deny? @atumomo, so happy for you. Stories like this gives renewed hope. Safe delivery and good health for you and baby by Allah's mercy.

beautifulrosa:
Beautiful mamas in the house, pls i want to have an anomaly scan. Am a first time mum n as soon as i got to 20weeks i went for a scan....but it turned out to be the usual scan. Nothing different.

Do i request for anomaly scan? Or how?
Is there a special lab for that.
Pls someone shd refer me to a good lab around Ikeja where i can run d scan

Pls enlighten me. Thanks

Many scan centers don't do proper anomaly scan. A proper anomaly scan should be done by a fetal medicine expert.

But check this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/2349556/4d-ultrasound-doppler-scan-pregnant

The place is located in Ikeja
Where it can be done in Lagos: OMVIAL 4D Ultrasound Centre, 9 Fadeyi Street, Off Awolowo Way, By Ikeja Bus stop, Ikeja. Cost #5,000. If Doppler is required, then it's #7,500. Tel: 08036166396, 09099745678

Marhyaam:
#Sigh#..i really appreciate your contributions@sissie I get your point and I will check the link In Sha Allah... To others who think it's bidah I clearly get your points also and may Almighty Allah guide and direct our minds to the right path(Ameen)

Amin.

Congratulations to all the new mamas in the house

esha01:
Congrats to all d mamas dat have birth their los, may God bless and keep them safe.
suremum , congrats. We return all praises to God. Some docs can give someone high bp o. May God keep protecting us and our los. Pls is anomaly scan like every oda scan?

No it's not, it's more detailed. Like they check all the check ables, measure the limbs, look closely at the heart, look at the spine, measure the head etc. it checks if the baby is growing normal or if any abnormalities. Usually done 18-20 weeks

Most important is to do what was prescribed after bad dreams.

And she should not make it a habit of fasting after every bad dream but a one time thing. because then it becomes problematic.

For what to do after bad dream read this link:

https://islamqa.info/en/9577

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iamgenius:
Pls dont look at one angle b4 you answer an islamic question. The Prophet(peace be upon him) says: A judge who judges a matter correctly will have two rewards, A judge that tried to reach a correct judgement but later erred will have one reward. May Allah Straighten Our Ways.Aamen

Next time, ask me why I advised her like that, and don't tell me what to do, because you don't agree.

Drop your advice and leave it alone.

An inner mind or voice can be instincts, or a way of talking to oneself.

For example something good happens to me, and my mind tells me to do sadaqa as a way of gaining Allah's Favour or saying Alhamdulilah nothing wrong with that.

Inner mind or invisible voice doesn't necessarily mean jinn whisperings.

And her family decides to join her, that's alright.

Fasting can be done for different reasons, it's not just during Ramadan or mondays and Thursday. Fasting is a form of dua.

One can decide to do tahajjud of 10 rakats, and along the way decide to do 8 not 10 all join.

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Balance is key.

Their are stages, their are extremes.

Accidents occur, doesn't mean a child is a bully, beating your children doesn't mean they won't turn out to be bullies.

The grown up kids (grade Sch and secondary school) who bullied others the most, where those who were bullied at home too.

Using cane on a toddler is much, doesn't mean using cane on a child above 5 is too much.

There is child abuse, so many of us have normalized this.

Beating doesn't always = discipline.

Disciplining ones child is a must, disciplining a child can be done different ways.

Many of us have been abused and conditioned to see it as normal.

At a stage what they need is smacking (smacking is a form of beating) at another stage smacking won't do.

Using violence to stop violence doesn't always work.

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Upon all the beatings some parents gave their children, it didn't stop them from becoming criminals, neither did it stop the polithiefians, or make Nigeria a 1st world country.

It didn't stop the oga in the office from maltreating his staff members, or stop us from lying and cheating each other.

It hasn't made us great. Great as a people, great as a nation.

If your child is being violent, try and investigate to know where your child is learning it from, kids are sponges they absolve things.

A parent might have been the one to first slap a child and the child learnt slapping back etc, or what they watch, or from the neighbors or maybe there is violence in the house. Mummy beating the older siblings, or older siblings beating each other or daddy beating mummy etc.

And about rolling on the floor etc, children throw tantrums. Smacking might help but don't just shout but explain why it's bad to do that.

Using Cain on a 2 year old is really unfair on that 2 year old. How big do we think the brain is sef That smacking, time out, and other non capital punishment won't work except cain? On a 2 year old oh. What level of beating will the child receive at 10?

Abeg let's not normalize child abuse.

I find it funny how people go on about children of nowadays abi is it marriage of nowadays. As if the parents and grandparents all had good marriages just because they stayed together.

Does length of marriage equals happiness??

I personally am trying to stay neutral and don't pass judgements, there really isn't enough to make a informed judgment. However marriage is not a do or die affair.

Lol, when did Buhari carry lighter and fluid and burnt the children or slaughtered them.

And this is your own reflection?


Allah's rahma is above our comprehension.

Literal vs figurative

What is the issue.

Saw your mentions. Didn't see the mail