₦airaland Forum

AbdelKabir:
The faatimah case is different, imam An-Nawawi has already explained that Faatimah voiced out because the person to be married is an enemy of the prophet(and Allaah) Abu jahl(la'natullaah alayhi), so there is a high chance of hatred being transferred to her through the daughter of Abu jahl thereby hurting faatimah, and it's haraam to harm faatimah....

The prophet also said: “By Allaah, the daughter of rasulullaah and the daughter of the enemy of Allaah will not be put together as wives for one man.”

poundlander:
@mr abdelkabir, you can always pass your point without preempting anyone sir.
also, you can't possibly know how a woman feel about polygamy since you are not a woman.
as a man, i will seek d permission and approval of my wife before engaging another woman.
a lady sited the case of Fatimah and Ali, but you responded that their case is different, how different is it? isn't Ali, a caliphah aware that the intended woman is/was a khafir, before even having the intention.
in conclusion, the sheikh you quoted only said his own position that HE is mot aware of any proof, that doesn't ruleout the possibility of one.
ma salam sir

Empiree:
Thanks sissie.

I think ikupakuti's post has been partly restored

AbdelKabir:
I hope this thread won't be over taken by some overzealous women again like it was in the past...because you never see them contributing in something intellectual and benefiting..... But by the time they see such threads as this, you see them as if they've just been released from their caves..

WAllaahul musta'aan

lartty:
My problem is that, it is hard for a muslim to get a psychologist or counsellor that won't introduce him/her to a pastor. i wish i can get someone i could trust.

onegig:
First depression has no religion or race and anyone using your current predicament to try and lure you or "gain a soul" is utterly wicked and doesn't have your best interest at heart.

Yeah, sometimes we may need to pray to try and solve a problem but not on this pretext and not when the person is at their lowest ebb.

As for whatever you are going through. You can actually type it out here and I am sure most would like to help you. Sometimes what we need is just a bit of talk.If it is however a bit personal. You could send Sissie a pm. I guess she could find a way around finding you the right channels to open your heart.

Jarus:
Yes, World Book of Encyclopedia is a book of fallacy.




You see why I don't come here again? Here is how low the level of reasoning here has reached since some of us left about 8 years ago.

If you want to leave, that's your business. I have gone past the level of getting worked up over someone leaving Islam. I assumed everyone here has the same level of reasoning with me in identifying basic falsehood.

latonyn:
Any interest-free I can do online and get paid for

latonyn:
Pls brothers and sisters, what online business can one venture in that will not contradict the laws of Islam.

tintingz:
The mods can ban me all they want, it shows the level of bias, sentiment filled in this section.

tbaba1234:
I miss Lagoshia because even though, we had clear differences in belief. He does not back people when they are dancing towards disbelief, he knew when to draw the line on sectarianism.

I am disappointed in your responses here.

Where will you draw the line on sectarianism and address some of the troubling remarks by this kid? Instead, you have quoted hadiths without contexts to support him.

AlBaqir:
# First, its ONLY you I have seen on this thread that agree wholeheartedly that some Sunni ahadith (especially in Bukhari and Muslim if that is your point) are lies and fabrications. Others will rather die protecting this book written 100+ years after the alleged author. If you also hold the view that those two books are like Quran, 100% free of error, then we do not agree o @underline.

# Second, history do not seem to favor early Muslims especially after the demise of the Prophet. That is a fact which many Muslims shy away from. Some even try their best to justify many heinous crime committed by some of these sahabah saying whatever they do Allah has forgiven them.

# Third, the only area I did not agree with tingtingz is his generalization sometimes, and many a times I had shown my disagreement. However, I haven't seen him attacking Quran . Only ahadith and some weird ideologies based on certain tafasir, fiqh ruling etc.

Sissie:
if you find it offensive (what he said), there is a report button, report it. what makes you sure i read or took note of all of friendchoice's post.

how i use to do is irrelevant, make your point without accusation.

tintingz:
What's offensive?

So when Friendchoice called me a foolish liar and even involved my unborn children is not offensive?

This is unfair, is that how you use to do? Continue, there is God.

tintingz:
Why are you hiding our post, it is unfair.

tintingz:
Here is a map:

https://www.newsrescue.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Middle-Belt-Nigeria.png

FriendChoice:
And those old military dictators knowledge is inferior to Nigeria's knowledge.

The knowledge of Nigeria is shown in the map below

tintingz:
These are statements of people who know better than you.

Among many others, Group-Captain (rtd) Jona Jang, former military governor of Benue State and the AD governorship candidate for Plateau in the last election, shared the same view with Lar. In an interview in The Comet of November 12, 2000, Jang’s emphasis in defining the Middle-Belt was again religion, even though he was quick to deny it. “We” he said, “have already stated what areas we consider the Middle-Belt, which are Southern Kebbi, Southern Kaduna, Southern Borno, Southern Bauchi, Southern Gombe, Adamawa, Taraba, Benue, Nassarawa, Kogi, the Federal Capital Territory, Kwara and Niger”. These are states or parts of states where Christians are in the majority.
http://www.gamji.com/haruna/haruna91.htm

tintingz:
My brother you can see the level of thier brainwashed program. I just SMH.

Imagine justify the conquest of Muhammad and early Muslims with ancient practice saying it was a norm to conquer and keep slaves, how i wish these people were among those conquered.

Conquering and keeping slaves was a savagery and barbarian act during dark ages, even bible god and his robotic men also did this savagery act, the new testament is like a repentance book the bible god did.

Many nation and tribes have lost their language, religion and culture due to invading, conquest by some greedy, power hungry, selfish barbarians. That's why I still respect countries like China and India.

AlBaqir:
# I agree with you 100% but am afraid that doesn't move a troglodyte.

# For example, child marriage (8 - 9 year old child). What's your take on it, sincerely. Both Shia and Sunni have authentic ahadith that a 8 - 9 year Old child is ready for marriage.