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people try to justify their actions all the time and its not limited to religion. its human behaviour.

i dont subscribe to dogmatism. whew this is d longest i hv posted for quite sometime

@albaqir even till today there are people who hide under islamic laws to do all sorts. but we all can agree its not islamic but cultural. they think there is no divide between islamic and cultural law, and a good example is how women are treated.

there are lots of cultural laws that have been painted with religious brush
this we can agree on.

AlBaqir:
# Madam, nobody is questioning the defensive wars Muslim fought against the Kuffar. In fact that's not even the subject matter at all.

# The truth is post-Nabi era was full of blood and terrorism at the hands of Muslims disturbing the peace of the world in the name of Islam and the Prophet. They justify these acts with various ahadith some of which have been posted above.

# Saying ISIS, BOKO HARAM etc are not Muslim is a way of running away from the truth. Are they pagan or christian or Jew? They are Muslims no doubt about that. And all their atrocities (terror attack, slavery, child forced marriage, etc) are justified by what is written in "Islamic" books of jurisdictions. Here's one out of many:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reliance_of_the_Traveller

one and two i agree with.

three point. yes they arent muslims, they may say they are and justify with the islamic books. that still doesnt make them muslims, because we all know thats not what the books say, and theyve stepped over the limits. they dont justify with hadiths only, they also justify with quran. you and i can both atleast agree thats not what the Quran says,

even thou ISIS subscribe to the sunni creed, if we look back at history we will see the shias and sunnis has there contributions. even in today syria, sunnis and shia have both contributed, so we can do that blame game all day

i dont relly on wikipedia too much anyone can edit, if yu have another link pls share

there are hadiths i disagree with or better put i don't understand its context etc. and some i have come to understand are best understood when explained.

Some are often twisted similar to how some muslims twist the some verses of the Quran, until a muhadith explain better and u will be like ohhhhh. Its a learning process, you never know it all

is al baqir saying he agrees with all the Al kafi? because i can give myself job and go and start finding faults in it, i am sure i will see. when you look at something with the mindset of finding faults, you will see faults thats how the human mind work

what was america trying to do when, when they droped bomb on hiroshima, cuddle?

tintingz:
Real brainwahed program and it obviously happening till date.

Thank God many south-west Muslims here in Nigeria don't know about this brainwashed program , we would have end up like the northern part of Nigeria.

what brainwashed program. you need to go and reset your brain.

the northern part of nigeria has so many things the south west can learn from and vice versa. dont let tribalism blind you. even with the high level of education in the south there are so many things lacking starting from the family unit.

AlBaqir:
You better don't develop Armageddon of the brain with your "albaqir-shia imaginary thinking".

# Gbogbo yin sun ekori sibikan naa ni.

# Kuffar waging war with Muslim, and Muslims defending themselves with orders from the Quran as you and brothers posted those beautiful ayah. I don't have any problem with that. And that has never been my point of submission as you want the worlds to believe.

wat you are saying and wat tintingz is saying is different at least to me. dont let the shia and sunni divide block that

so whats wrong with saying i have been made victorious over my enemy and my enemies fear me?

whats the english meaning of terror? terror means extreme fear.

people have extreme fear for spiders etc.

So what is wrong?

Please if you want to reject hadith, you can, don't turn it to what its not.

people have conquered people all over history for different reasons.

Religion, Democracy, Colonialism, etc etc.

Really we could chose to go along sunni shia divide anytime anyday. however there are things we can all agree on.

What is wrong in conquering people during that time to accept islam, lets note the conquering happened during early muslims, not neccesarily during the time of the Prophet. They fought wars during the Prophet's time and it was mostly for self defence. and during war you let your enemies fear you. this is standard.

during any war, either when the mongols were conquering lands, it was done striking fear and terror into people.


Now we all can agree ISIS and the rest arent muslims and they arent at war either, i mean real war, because who are they fighting against? they are fools and thats me being mild they are animals and there is more than just religion regarding ISIS, this is a fact.

is @tintingz no longer a muslim ni? he sounds like he isnt?

he said "In fact I knew this as a Muslim then(even many Muslims too) I just defend "

broken homes are not the worst kinds of home. A abusive home is bad.

For some marriages, divorce is the best thing to happen. Let's stay away from sensationalism, its things like this that makes people stay in abusive, unhappy and frustrating marriages.

snapscore:
Why would they stop her from further doctor's appointment if she can afford one?

It's one thing to not be able to afford the surgery and it's another thing for an appointment.

She has had the injury for long and needs surgery, the only thing that can be done apart from the surgery is to redress the wound, and she does not need to see a doctor for that.

As salaam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu.

The Nairaland musim community will like to request for Nairalanders help once again, if we recall, we've done different humanitarian services at different times with your help Alhamdulilah i.e https://www.nairaland.com/2449436/nairaland-muslims-donate-relief-items , https://www.nairaland.com/2114230/jazakallah-khairan-nairaland-muslim-community#51883761 Back to school program etc.

kindly help donate to help sister Nafeesah, as this has been verified by us.


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Aminat508:
Inalilah Wahinailahi Rojiuna!


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So sad right now! !!


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Innalillahi wa inna ilaihim rajiun, May Allah give the family the ability to bear the loss. Mama Kazeem is in a better place insha Allah.

Wa alaikun salam.

snapscore:
Salam alaikum sisters,

How easy is it to get a maxi cardigan that doesn't show the shape of the arm?

You can buy a bat wing maxi cardigan

May Allah heal her. Amin

. Full Name: Almujahidy

2. Gender: Male

3. Choose where applicable :

a. A male seeking a female- (wife)

4. Date of birth: 17th Feb, 1988

5. Genotype: AA

6. Blood Group: O+

7. Tribe: Yoruba

8. Religion: Islam

9. State of Origin: Kwara

10: Present Location: Ikorodu, Lagos

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11. Single Status:
a) Never Married

12. Employment Status

a) Employed

13: If employed,
Brief Description of Work : Mechanical Engineer in a Power plant.

14: If Employed, Average income per month:

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If Unemployed, how do you intend to cater for your wife.
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16 Height: 5.7 ft

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20. Highest Academic/Professional Qualification:
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21. No. of years living as a Muslim: 29

22. Level of knowledge and practice of Islam...

b. Fair

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No

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27. (For men) Would you want your wife to work or be a stay-at-home wife/mother? if she wish
Anyone that is OK by her .

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a. Cap b. Scarves c. Hijab d. Niqab

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I'm a humble and easy going person who strives to improve in my dealings in life especially my relationship with Allah.
I'm a graduate of mechanical engineering from University of Ilorin and presently living and working in Ikorodu, Lagos.

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I want a religious Muslim lady who is at least average in the practice of her Deen. A lady who uses hijaab and between the ages of 20 - 25 years of age. Her level of education should be either NCE, ND, HND, BSc or MSc .
She should be averagely OK from her look.

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Almujahidy

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Full Name:kaffy

2. Gender: Female

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4. Date of birth:16-12-1988

5. Genotype:As

6. Blood Group:A+

7. Tribe:Yoruba

8. Religion: Islam

9. State of Origin:Ibadan, Oyo state

10. Country: Nigeria

11. Single Status: A
a) Never Married b)Separated c)Widowed d)Divorced

12. Employment Status: A
a) Employed b)Self-employed c)Unemployed d)Student e)Trader f)Artisan

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15. Do you have any disability?Not at all

16. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 15, please state your type of disability.

17. Highest Academic/Professional Qualification: Higher National Diploma

18. No. of years living as a Muslim:28 years(since birth)

19. Level of knowledge and practice of Islam: B
a. Little b. Fair c. Much d. Advanced e. Scholar (Expert)

20. Willing to relocate?am Lagos based n not willing to relocate

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24. (For men) Would you want your wife to work or be a stay-at-home wife/mother?

25. (For Women) Do you cover your hair?once in a while

26. (For women) If you answered yes to 25 above, what type of covering?
a. Cap b. Scarves c. Hijab d. Niqab

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Am an educated simple lady with good morals to keep a man n my home. Focused n very serious minded about marriage. Good communication, very loving n lovable.

28. Describe the kind of spouse you want or name single Muslim Nairalander(s) you fancy as spouse(s) (Not more than 3). Use only Nairaland handles in your response.
I want an handsome Muslim guy in his early 30s, educated, serious minded about marriage n focused in life. Working n based in Lagos. Yoruba, AA genotype and sociable to a good extent.

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goodnature:
Salam, let me commend u for opening this thread. "Jazakhumulahi khairan" You are doing a wonderful work. Pls keep it up! I have posted on this platform but no response yet. You can reach me through: bola.lamina@gmail.com

To participate, go through the thread and fill the form. Wa iyyakum

IdisuleOurOwn:
Let me use this opportunity to ask a favour from you. I will like you to open a thread where one can ask question, question based on our daily activities and actions as Muslims.


I look forward to the thread.

We already have threads that serves such purposes

MSMS is still fully functional, sorry we've not been updating the thread with new profiles.


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1. Full Name: FAB

2. Gender: Male

3. Seeking (Choose applicable gender to you): Female

4. Date of birth: 1988

5. Genotype: AA

6. Blood Group: 0+

7. Tribe: Yoruba

8. Religion:.Islam

9. State of Origin:.Kwara

10. Country:.Nigeria

11. Single Status: Never Married
a) Never Married b)Separated c)Widowed
d)Divorced

12. Employment Status Student/Entrepreneur
a) Employed b)Self-employed c)Unemployed
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13. Height: 1.69

14. Weight: 63kg

15. Do you have any disability? No

16. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 15, please
state your type of disability.

17. Highest Academic/Professional Qualification: Undergraduate

18. No. of years living as a Muslim: Since  birth

19. Level of knowledge and practice of Islam; Fair
a. Little b. Fair c. Much d. Advanced e. Scholar
(Expert)

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21. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 20, please
state locations you are willing to relocate to or
just respond with “anywhere in the world’ if you
have no inhibitions about moving at all.
22. Do you have children? No

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many do you have?

24. (For men) Would you want your wife to work
or be a stay-at-home wife/mother? Open

25. (For Women) Do you cover your hair?

26. (For women) If you answered yes to 25
above, what type of covering?
a. Cap b. Scarves c. Hijab d. Niqab

27. Tell us about yourself in not more than 100
words. Cool, calm and passionate about both this world and the hereafter.

28. Describe the kind of spouse you want or
name single Muslim Nairalander(s) you fancy as
spouse(s) (Not more than 3). Use only Nairaland
handles in your response.  None on my mind. Would be glad to meet a
kind, responsible, literate, well-mannered and pious Muslimah.

29. Do you subscribe to any sect?

30. If you answered 'yes' to question 29, please
name your sect.

31. What is your Nairaland handle?

32. We require that you create a new nickname
that would be used for the purpose of this
service, please state it here: FAB

33. Your Phone Number: It will not be published
on Nairaland but to make contacting you easier.


34.You agree to our terms and conditions? Yes

1. Full Name::

2. Gender: Female

3. Seeking (Choose applicable gender to you): Male

4. Date of birth: 20 July, 1982

5. Genotype: AS

6. Blood Group:O+

7. Tribe:yoruba

8. Religion: islam

9. State of Origin:Lagos state

10. Country: Nigeria

11. Single Status: never married
a) Never Married b)Separated c)Widowed d)Divorced

12. Employment Status: employed
a) Employed b)Self-employed c)Unemployed d)Student e)Trader f)Artisan 

13. Height: 5.6ft

14. Weight:90kg

15. Do you have any disability? No

16. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 15, please state your type of disability.

17. Highest Academic/Professional Qualification: HND

18. No of years living as a Muslim. Since birth
19. Level of knowledge and practice of Islam
a. Little b. Fair c. Much d. Advanced e. Scholar (Expert) : Fair

20. Willing to relocate? Not really

21. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 20, please state locations you are willing to relocate to or just respond with “anywhere in the world’ if you have no inhibitions about moving at all.

22. Do you have children? No

23. If you answered ‘yes’ to question 22, how many do you have?

24. (For men) Would you want your wife to work or be a stay-at-home wife/mother?

25. (For Women) Do you cover your hair? Not always

26. (For women) If you answered yes to 25 above, what type of covering?
a. Cap b. Scarves c. Hijab d. Niqab: cap

27. Tell us about yourself in not more than 100 words. I am a simple easy going lady who is down to earth. I respect both elders and young ones cos respect is reciprocal. I take others the way I take myself and appreciate good people around me. I like my privacy most times. Although m not perfect, I have flaws and also appreciate if someone tries to bring out the best in me. I love Islam and I wanna have a spouse that will work with me to make my faith strong.

28. Describe the kind of spouse you want or name single Muslim Nairalander(s) you fancy as spouse(s) (Not more than 3). Use only Nairaland handles in your response.: I want a spouse that will make my faith strong. I don't want a fanatic/extremist. I jus want a simple person who also can cater for his family needs with my support as well morally, financially etc. Yes! I want a neat spouse both in appearance and living area.

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Full name: ERINOLA1234

Gender: FEMALE

seeking: MALE

Date of birth: 19-10-1994

genotype: AA

tribe: YORUBA

religion: MUSLIM

state of origin: OGUN STATE

country: NIGERIA

single status- SINGLE

employment status: STUDENT/EMPLOYED

height:5.6ft

Do you have any disability? NO DISABILITY

Level of knowledge and practise- MUCH

Willing to relocate- NO


Do you have children? NO CHILD/CHILDREN

(For Women) Do you cover your hair?YES i cover my hair

(For women) If you answered yes to 25 above,
what type of covering?
SCARVES AND CAP

Tell us about yourself in not more than 100 words: AM A COOL, LOVING, CARING, EASY GOING, VERY UNDERSTANDING, AM FROM THE FAMILY OF FIVE, THE FIRST PRECISELY AM THE BEST AND MOST
DYNAMIC I CAN SAY, I LOVE MEETING PEOPLE.. AM EMOTIONAL, THOUGH I CAN
BE SCARY AT TIMES, I MEAN I GET SCARED SOMETIMES.. I LOVE SAYING THE
TRUTH NO MATTER HOW HARD IT MAY BE.

Describe the kind of spouse you want or name single Muslim
Nairalander(s) you fancy as spouse(s): my type of man (have not really know any nairalanders yet)- I WANT HIM
TO BE COOL, CUTE, VERY UNDERSTANDING, TOLERABLE, WORKING AND RESIDES
IN LAGOS

NO SECT

You agree to our terms and conditions?

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DevotedOne:
Bismillaah ir Rahmaan ir Rahiim. As salaamu alaykum. At least three posts are missing from the following thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/3006711/never-stop-learning ~ I had updated, some of the posts with material because I didn't want to interfere with similar material on someone else's thread. The updated material and the posts are gone. What could have caused this obvious misjudgment. And I've received no response from moderators.





Wassalaam. DevotedOne

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sherryshitt:
Jazakallahu khayran sis for taking time to input something.
He is someone who thinks as long as he adheres strictly to the 5pillars of islam, then thats it. He knows basically nothing abt the sunnah of rosul(pbuh). He thinks practising the sunnah is extreme, he doesnt know Zinah is a major and punishable sin in islam. These are all but few. The sister is question isnt satisfied with him, as he is not as religiously committed, but the family thinks he could change as Allah changes who He wills.

Allah guides whomever he wills

It's one thing not to practice, it's another to think it is extreme.


It's one thing to commit Zina knowing it's a sin, it's another not to even know.


Istikhaarah is really important, one needs to seek Allah's guidance, and she needs to know that even marriage could be a test.

She should access the situation, it's always better to marry someone who you can strive for jannah with, can she take on the task of helping to guide him? Etc

May Allah guide her right. Amin

sherryshitt:
Asalam alaykum waramotullah. A question for all: Is it ideal or advisable to marry someone who isnt as religiously committed as u are.
Say for instance, a muslim lady who is striving to bcm more pious and trying to adhere to d basic principles of quran and sunnah now marries a rational muslim guy who hardly knows anything outside the 5pillars of islam. Thanks for ur swift response.
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It depends really

This is not a yes or no question. It depends on who he is as a person? His he interested in learning more, his he open to learning more, his he Alright with the wife's level of Islam, or he doesn't even understand why she has to use the hijab for example.

There isn't enough to give a proper advice.

FriendChoice:
If she is pious enough to draw the husband more closer to Allah (SWT). Then it's a welcome development and she will get reward for the Jihad.

But according to your post, she is not yet pious. She is only striving to become pious. I strongly believe that the husband might make her less pious as she was before marriage. Except if her piousness can make the Husband more religious, then I advocate such marriage.

Basically it defends on the wife's ability to be steadfast.

I know nothing but He the knower of Knowledge Knows.

Should a Muslim refer to himself or herself as pious? Aren't we all striving?