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banned 4 laughing 2 much

sugar

only if he agrees to have 21kids

chamotex:
Letz get married so we can raise our kids the way u've mentioned.

Vegas??

_{i want 12 kids tho}

drive through wedding they never last oo, unless u wan to b paying me child support every month

no nah i want a big white wedding

12 kids nahh dat numba small na, lets have 21 and break world record so our names will b in the Guinness book record

u go gurl ! kick their asses

longest time

st Anthony, i love him and st Jude too

i dnt have kids yet ( still yrs away lol ) but i do take care of children and this what i do with them when it comes to housework

1) I Post a "chore chart." and have them involved in the creation of the chore chart. i Decide together with them what chores will be listed and will be expected to be completed. I Use stickers or tie a pencil next to the chart for record keeping.

2) Chores should be appropriate to the child's age. Children in preschool should always have to put away toys. Children in early elementary school can help also with pets and putting their laundry away. The older children can also help with bigger tasks including vacuuming or sweeping, mopping, dusting, changing sheets, laundry and dishes.

3) Rewards for chores should also be age appropriate. It doesn't always have to be a monetary allowance. You can reward their responsibility with coupons for 1 on 1 time with a parent, a special activity of choice or a play date with a friend.   more time playing games, watching tv etc. just any fun thing that will boost their spirit and make them more eager to do the work. and always tell them what a great job they did. you know words of encouragement helps big time

4) there should be consequences if the work is not done. There is no reason to get upset and angry with your children when they do not want to do chores. they are children so just be easy and patient with them. it takes time

if i was a boy

cant remember

wldu tip the scale to weigh ur weight

gabrywyl:
You get butterflies when you see him, your heart pounds if he calls, and kissing him literally causes goose bumps. With chemistry this amazing, you'd figure you're destined to be together.
As it turns out, not necessarily. "We often mistake a strong physical connection as a sign that two people are meant for each other," says Paul Dobransky, MD, founder of womenshappiness.com. Yes, chemistry is key to a lasting bond, but it isn't the final word. Other factors should be considered too, and they take some sussing out. New findings describe the characteristics in a guy that actually predict relationship success, some of which you may be overlooking.

Dating Trait #1: He Knows What He Wants
Any guy you're serious about should be able to articulate his long-term goals and passions (sorry, fantasy football and Xbox don't count). He can't ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions his life in the future, and how you fit in. "If a man has no idea what he wants to be when he 'grows up,' then it will be impossible for him to commit to you," says Dobransky.
Don't assume he'll work things out, because when he does, you may realize his ambitions don't mesh with yours. "This mistake has contributed to the starter-marriage phenomenon, in which couples in their 20s and 30s suddenly realize they're going in different directions and divorce at an early age," says Dobransky. "It's preventable as long as you're both clear about your plans."

Dating Trait #2: He Has a Sunny Outlook
Any guy you're serious about should be able to articulate his long-term goals and passions (sorry, fantasy football and Xbox don't count). He can't ally himself with you until he has a sense of how he envisions his life in the future, and how you fit in. "If a man has no idea what he wants to be when he 'grows up,' then it will be impossible for him to commit to you," says Dobransky.
Don't assume he'll work things out, because when he does, you may realize his ambitions don't mesh with yours. "This mistake has contributed to the starter-marriage phenomenon, in which couples in their 20s and 30s suddenly realize they're going in different directions and divorce at an early age," says Dobransky. "It's preventable as long as you're both clear about your plans."

Dating Trait #2: He Has a Sunny Outlook
A recent study led by the University of Oregon found that women who had upbeat partners felt more satisfied in their relationships and -- this is huge -- that the man's level of optimism determined the relationship's staying power. Not only is it nice to have someone help you see the silver lining of a situation that totally sucks, but cheerful guys are good at keeping things in perspective, so they don't let little conflicts get to them and can go with the flow.
Along with having an optimistic POV, it's also crucial that the guy you're seeing can make you laugh. "It's an important stress valve for any couple," says Les Parrott, PhD, coauthor of "Trading Places."
"Having a sense of humor helps you weather the rough patches that you'll inevitably encounter together." It shows that he is able to let loose and doesn't take things too seriously. Plus, you'll have a better time together if you can see the funny side of things.

Dating Trait #3: He's Open to Changing for You
It's true you may not be able to change a man, but a guy should want to change for you. If a facet of his behavior irks you (for example, maybe he's not attentive enough in certain circumstances), he should be game to hear you out, listen to how you'd like him to do things differently, and then act on those suggestions. "When a guy is truly in love, he is more self-reflective and will work on the aspects of himself that bother you," says Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of "Love in 90 Days." "Studies have found that successful married couples change each other quite a bit over time."
More important, a man needs to have the capacity to transform and grow with you -- e.g., he takes an interest in going to art galleries with you, even if he's more of a couch-and-ESPN kind of guy. "If he's not willing to expand his interests to mesh with yours, you're going to outpace him," explains Kirschner. "It's likely you'll grow restless, and the relationship will become stale."

Dating Trait #4: He's Still a Little Mysterious
The beginning of a relationship is always exciting because you're just getting to know each other. But even after the newness wears off, it's essential that a man keeps you guessing. "If you can never quite pin down what makes him tick, that's actually a healthy thing," says Kirschner. Although at first you might feel more bonded to a guy who shares tons of personal information with you, over time, you risk losing the intrigue that pulled you to him initially. You might start to see him as more of a friend than a romantic partner.
Of course, you want him to open up about topics like his family, but he should keep some boundaries too. Relating every detail of his life (think updates on his nasty toe fungus) is relationship-killing TMI. A good gauge in the early stages of coupledom: He doesn't spill all about his pals. "It's an indicator that he understands how to keep things private," says Kirschner.

Dating Trait #5: He's Responsible with Money
Besides giving you a heads-up about money-related conflicts you might encounter in the future (one of the topics long-term couples argue about most), how a guy handles cash reveals a lot about his character. Positive signs: He keeps the receipt after paying for a meal, or you notice several credit-card offers in his stack of mail (it may indicate he has good credit).
"A man who doesn't track his money shows a lack of patience and self-control," says Dobransky. "In fact, guys who are financially reckless share many traits with men who cheat." But you also don't want to be with a tightwad. If a dude doesn't splurge now and then, it may mean he'll be stingy in other ways, such as compromising during a fight.

Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.

"I got this from Yahoo News"

kinda agree with that one

gabby, trait 1 and 2 are the same thing, modify it

May kelly:
Mothers are responsible for having a bad society today. Our society is bad is because of the carelessness of our new generation mothers.

u sure do have seriously problem w/ yourself

TOYOSI20:
I like ya style jare, if he'll agree to purchase a whole new wardrobe of the latest, . . . . .

and the trendiest clothes then he can mouth off, otherwise, i say he needs to tape it shut!!

yes oo he should complain to me if only he has the money to spend on new ones if not let him swallow his complains cox i wouldnt give a damn

hmmmm, for MR Sissy lol , if he doesnt like it, he berra have enough money to spend on new ones though i will still have to buy what i like cox i will neva dress like a nun just to please him , however if he has a good reason for the amendment then i will have to compromise, only with valid reasons oo

TOYOSI20:
LOL!!!, he might as well rip 'em off, cos me i nor send, Mr Sissy nko??

TOYOSI20:
Ma dear Siiisssssssyyyyyyy how u been hun, wetin dey naa??

In fact na the whole thing just they crack me up oo ma dear!!

honey i have b here oo so how u dey

so if ur guy no like ur dress sense, wetin u go do

tope2000:
some women tire me o
u dont even have to wear expensive stuffs to look good
most importantly know what suit ur shape better

yes sis, shape, color, n pattern combination is the keyword not expensive or cheap clothes

TOYOSI20:
ROFL!!!

Sounds like a joke to me!!

which part? the guy complaining or the girl listening to his complains

JJYOU:
may God have mercy on you

y should the lord have mercy on me instead of u

my dear i dnt need ur prayers, i have Jesus so pray 4 ur self

doyin13:
answer the question my friend. . . .

tell her oo, she is here preaching this n that and i just asked her a very simple question n she here already praying for me

ibkaye:
Blood of Jesus  

chei, i don die of laughter oo

landwin:
My friend told me that she doesn't feel comfortable staying with her father because whenever she is at home she feels as if her father would rape her and another friend told me that whenever she is at home her father keeps looking at her

then they should avoid staying alone with their father.

tope2000:
@poster
wat is ur obsession with rape?? are u alright

exactly, he/she has about 3 rape threads now, na wahoo

tope2000:
Gosh . . . . .i thot i was the only one that feels like that
Sometimes i just feel like bitch-slapping some females on  how they dress

sis, u r nt alone oo , u knw when some pple think of fashion they think of wearing rags n the likes thinking it is fashionable, so anyways i dnt really see anything wrong in her guy complaining about her dressing if only he has a legitimate reasons for doing so

tope2000:
Hissssssssssssssssssssssss . . . . . . . .doyin misled us
we thot u were a guy

me too!

tope2000:
U r a meanie

im just saying nah, , u knw sometimes pple dnt always knw wot is right 4 them even in fashion so someone needs to step in

JJYOU:
every good mother knows not to say yes to their kid all the time. what has love got to do with warped thinkings? what has love got to do with self indulgence?

some things are outrightly wrong.  this is vile and wrong every where.  the world is  bad enough as it is.  the consequences of our private lifestyles on the general well being of our society is being felt as we speak. today Europe is reaping the fruits of it 1960'S free for all permissiveness.

who knows what will happen in 20yrs from now when we begin to reap and harvest  the consequences of the permissive society we are building today.

do we learn? does history not teach us anything?

so supposedly one of ur current or future child/ren happen to be gay, will u disown them?

so wot do u want us to do since u dnt have a sketch of them

landwin:
Last Night as I was walking down the road, two men in their youths came up to me and almost raped me,I started screaming,then a man came and chased them away and rescued me,I thanked him and I kept imagining what would have happened if that man wasn't walking on the road. I couldn't stop imagining how lucky I was.

i always thought u were a male anyways lesson learned i suppose, nights r dangerous, good thing it didnt happen.

tope2000:
I dont see anything wrong with ur dressing
I think ur bf have issues

maybe this is just the finer ones n not the ones the boy is complaining bout

none

i want a combination of both, so create a third man