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she is a freshman in college

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i just hate when the alarm clock starts ringing in the early morning when it is cold and all you just want to do is to cuddle up and sleep some more but then you have to wake up .

i hate the sound of it, it is the most freakishly annoying sound! i really want to hear in the morning but then i still have to use it

yes i think they can and they do. marriage doesn't complete anybody contrary to the popular myth, it is only a person who can complete themselves.

If one think they need to be half of a couple to be all of who they are, they're engaging in "wrong thinking." one don't need to be half of a couple to be complete.

single life just like marriage is also a vocation.

bigmodo:
I have decided that i am taking a third wife due i am dissatified with my first and second wife. Could imagine that they are unable to give me a male child? What am going to do with 13 female children which they have given me? And i don't want any more females. People what do you think about this?

congrats

women always have to carry everything on their head even things beyond their human control. i wonder who never told you that women are the ones who decide whether to have a girl or a boy. i suggest blaming yourself for not having a sperm that produces a male child , (after all is what you put in them that they bring out) so maybe you should consider getting a capable man for your wives. nonsense

women dont create children God does, so i suggest instead of wasting your money/goats/sheep/wines etc in marrying another woman use those money to bring up your 13 females and  pray to God you serve to bless you with a male child cause he is the only one in position to do that, your wives including the third one you are going to marry dont have the authority or mechanism to do it

they blame the mothers because society as a whole has defined the role of mother/women as caring, mothers are the one who teach their children the cultures, morals and everything in between, so when things go wrong especially with the behaviors of children the mothers generally are the first ones to be called upon because it is their duty as mothers to teach their kids how to act and behave. and some men usually tend to take this as their excuse expressway forgotten that it takes a village to raise a child and mothers cant do it alone.

Tgirl4real:
Going back to the teenage pregnancy issue. Is abortion the best solution in this case?

i honestly hate abortion and i can honestly say i will never allow my daughter if she comes home pregnant to even consider abortion. the guilt of it will never allow me to sleep and chasing her out is even worse cox then my BP/guilt will definitely go up lol thinking how she is doing/where she is/ what is happening etc. it will be painful though you know to see your daughter who you thought knew better than not to come home pregnant but then she is still mine and i will accept her. so abortion is not an option for me.

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[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=249630.msg3624134#msg3624134 date=1237601561]Nice write up!

Oh yea, he's noisy.
You know how these ppl are. . . ."so cute", "awww" etc.

Well, sometimes he makes me laugh, I won't lie.
In church when I scowl him, he points his index finger at me and moves mouth. Because that's what I do when I scowl him, points at him and tells him to stop it.

When the pastor starts preaching, he screams amen.

Bring toys to church so he can throw them and make noise with them abi?

And there was this time he almost pulled this lady's weave off. She was sitting in front of us and he pulled her weave.

I loff am o, but he's too troublesome. Imma have to start leaving him with his father on sundays [/quote]abeg no kill me with laughter here o

the toys dnt really have to be gianatic, it could be just little superman/hero little statues, cars/ just any little thing that could help keep him busy since the church dont have any special room/programs for the kids and i dnt suggest keeping him at home

i sure do know what you mean ! cox in my church i have these little kids making noise, every loud (their parents dont really give a damn and during announcement you could hardly hear! they only take them outside when they start crying) and the little boy even brings his toy car to drive on the church seats! you can imagine the noise

since he is still a baby, i'd maybe suggest bringing materials for him . This can be children's liturgy books, picture books, crayons, and small snacks, just to keep him a little busy, cox yes like u said sometimes it gets a little boring and dry for adults not to talk of kids!

Ignore comments that belittle your effort to make him part of the church life. People who make these comments about behavior of children have little understanding of what the Church is about or God's acceptance and welcome of little children. I'd suggest you to have found low tolerance level and his behavior may appear to be worse when you are more concerned about what people are thinking rather than concentrating on encouraging him during service to keep quite. Don't let "bad" days discourage you. Evaluate what has happened, change expectations if necessary and try again. You are not alone to seek advice from others with kids in the church as well.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=249812.msg3624042#msg3624042 date=1237597464]Very nice method.

The annoying part is when they decide not to go back to sleep after crying            for putting them down.

Is it advisable to use pacifier to shut them up keep them quiet? [/quote]depending on who you ask, some doctors dont like the idea of using it while others do not see a problem with it especially when it is used to
     * to sooth a baby to sleep
    * to help a baby to stay asleep when disturbed
    * to calm a frightened baby
    * to keep the baby quiet

The child's energy goes into sucking on a pacifier rather than crying! .

or you could try giving them their thumb to suck instead of pacifiers, cox their thumb are more hygienic than pacifiers also make sure they dont sleep with pacifiers. in their mouth, it is not advisable.

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=249630.msg3624014#msg3624014 date=1237596254]Sissy, I see you're online. yay!! Got a question to ask you. . . .

What do you do about a kid who doesn't want to go to church? And if he goes to church, he only goes to disrupt the service?

Do you allow him to stay home (meaning he wins) or do you continue to force him to go (meaning you win)? Or is there no winner in this situation?[/quote]Hey Ebony

what is the age bracket of the children?

i would like to know his reasons for not wanting to go to church and why he disrupts others in the church, however, i don't really think any reason he gives me will deter me to allow him to stay home and eat the pot of rice! he MUST continue to go church with me. you know, when you let them get away with things like this especially at the early stage, it is kinda hard to bring them back. and i wouldn't want them to go off without knowing the God that i worship. cox i believe that taking them to church starting at the early stage would be a crucial element in their faith formation.

i recognize that sometimes children do disturb and distract others, however you have to work hard to teach them how to behave at Service. you could tell them; "Wiggle if you have to, but Be Quiet!". Also i'd suggest maybe sitting in the front row so that they could see what the pastor/priest is doing and maybe it will get their attention, when things do start to get "vocal", you could just whisper to them "Look! Look at pastor/ priest! See what he is doing!" This may seems to settle them down and grab their attention.

Dont allow them to stay home, no matter their little sounds, take them with you, and maybe if your church has sunday school or other types of children program i'd suggest you enroll them. and maybe depending on the age of the child, you could try to explain to him the importance/reasons of going to church.

yes, the condom may break, or leak or may not be probably put.

they probably wouldn't even understand why they are on top of each other that first place

landwin:
Churches in Nigeria are now places where men come to show off their wealth and women come to see the latest fashion instead of coming to worship God, Although not all individuals but most of them.I know a woman in my church who would never close her eyes when it is time to pray instead she will open her eyes wide to see people who are coming into the church then she would bend down to see the type of shoes and dresses they are putting on.

and how would you know this, if you were closing your own eyes during prayers instead of shining them to see who is looking at who!

you are just as guilty as that woman. start being in deeper relationship with your God and close your own eyes instead of monitoring other people!

as long as they are not naked as in their fashion, i suggest you mind your won biz!

like the saying if you have it flaunt it!!

[quote author=~Small-B-Mighty~ link=topic=249512.msg3619300#msg3619300 date=1237529659]Why is this topic come here, i put it in romance. [/quote]cox it is a health issue not romance

@ gabby

how r u, i haven't seen u around 4 a long time

hope u r keeping cool

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hairstylist

i know that some companies/ business like hospitals require the test of HIV/aids test since they do come in close proximity with other people. some do require your consent while for others it is part of the contract, so they dont really need you to consent to it.

so just like drug test that some companies/business require, Hiv test is required also.

The reason for miscarriage is varied, and most often the cause cannot be identified. During the first trimester, the most common cause of miscarriage is chromosomal abnormality - meaning that something is not correct with the baby's chromosomes. Most chromosomal abnormalities are the cause of a faulty egg or sperm cell, or are due to a problem at the time that the zygote went through the division process. Other causes for miscarriage include (but are not limited to):

* Hormonal problems, infections or maternal health problems
* Lifestyle (i.e. smoking, drug use, malnutrition, excessive caffeine and exposure to radiation or toxic substances)
* Implantation of the egg into the uterine lining does not occur properly
* Maternal age
* Maternal trauma

Factors that are not proven to cause miscarriage are sex, working outside the home (unless in a harmful environment) or moderate exercise.

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soda

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