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this is just child plays IMO. why cant you just be upfront with him and tell simply because you supposedly wasted 5dollars for 1yr calling him and for him giving you the wrong number you cant have anything to do with him no more?

what do you stand to gain, promising someone from a foreign country with no relations there accommodation and picking him up from the airport and later change your mind and just leave him there stranded? what joy and satisfaction would you derive from it?

btw if it was you would agree to give some strange person  you havent met in real life and knows no single real truth about him other than the purportedly lies he tells you online, your family number?

my dear, this isnt anywhere near "revenge". its just pure silliness IMO. he didnt scam your of your money or promise you anything to deserve such.

and btw, dont you think its bit early to invite someone you have only met online into your home right way supposedly everything between you two was fine?

woman, listen some babies do get darker as they grow and this usually due to the melatonin in their skin. when they were born and probably still in your womb they werent exposed to sunlight but as they get older, their skin pigmentation begin to surface and this tend to change their skin tone and protects them from the sunlight.  these are genetics dear. dont worry or bother yourself over it

you need to tell that to your husband and while youre at it, make sure you are protected from the sun whenever you both are out in the sun.

i hope your over worried husband dont suggest any "special creams" and any other nonsense to use. hes still a baby, calm your husband down.

why all these sudden surge in "mother, wife, husband, mother wife husband" threads

after all my ups and downs i would spend my first million on my families

ma big bro, how you dey? longest tyme!!

i would have to say the wife not to say that the mom is clueless. but, most mothers only know well their sons behaviors etc when they're still young or still around them, however, a mother wouldnt spend 24/7 with his son everytime to know the changes in his personalities, behaviors etc unlike the wife who spends most if not, all her time with her hubby. and some sons might act and behavior differently when around their mothers and for some usually in pretentious manners, but when they are with their wives theyre usually themselves.

although, nothing is certain. it all depends on the situation but i would have to say most of the time the wife knows her husband more than the mother.

why not ask both? you may say mothers, but they dont know everything, same with the fathers. and it also depends on the kind of the "self medications" needed.

awww . . .he just couldnt wait!!!

happy birthday

mohawkchic:
[size=13pt]~Me & You Both!! I'm ceratin i dont want to do it Again!! ^{Yeah I'm that Selfish!!} [/size]

nah . . .one more would be enough

my dear, manage it and if possible supplement it with your money if you're working. not every-woman gets that amount every month and they still manage to get by. so, if you cant manage and unwilling to supplement with your money, you may want to maybe keep a monthly budget of how you spend the money and calmly bring it to his attention, so that hes aware of it, if hes able to top it good, if not then you have to find ways to cut down your expenses, i know things are costly these days but learn to manage and budget properly if you can.

sara j:
I don't agree with women dating/marrying
men who are 5/6 yrs younger or more.
I find it sickening to see women with men
young enough to be their sons,
e.g Madonna aged 51 and her boyfriend aged
22!!!
Although I do not have a problem with men
with women young enough to be their daughters.

double standard huh? you find it ok for an older man to date a young girl but not the other way around. interesting

Ebonyeyes:
Im pretty much disappointed in this post So if the modern day woman works a 9-5 like her hubby, she should still cook all the meals, clean the whole house, take care of the kids? when does she have time to breathe? or does society want to kill out women?

my dear its called the Second Shift

any other likable color other than pink. . . . > those pink up there r just too girlish

Kunbee:
Sissy why u dey vomit nao

those list makes no sense to me. i mean you dont go near your baby mama becus she has a loose vagina due to childbirth? shouldnt he have opted for adoption so as to keep "miss vagina" ever young? and with his other reasons me is wondering his score on his attractive on the sex appeal scale. you can imagine those lists

@ post

dude is prolly stressed and maybe have some personal issues you dont know about thats preventing him from fulfilling martial "duties". you have to find out what those issues are. there is no magic word that would solve your problem other than COMMUNICATION. seems like your marriage is lacking it.

tEsLim:
I swear down the problem might be from you and he can't tell you cos he doesn't wanna hurt you.

Maybe after marriage
1. you dont take hygene serious,
2. your virgina loosen due to child birth
3. where jeans to the bed (or same stupid cloths)
4, scratch hitch,
5. grown fat stomach, and wont even look one bit attractive,
6. and can't even start up a sexy relaxing conversation

Those are reasons I dont like to go near my baby mama anymore

**pokes**

napnap:
Has anyone ever been to a spa to pamper their skin? if i had tht chance, i would really love to pamper my skin,
I found a website that claims to cater for the needs of celebrities, and they even claim to have what stars like lil kim and rihanna use to bleach their skin. Id love to visit a spa someday if i get the money, maybe before my wedding i may look into spa beauty,  cuz i have a friend dat goes to spa regularly and i have no clue wat she uses, but her skin is so gorgeous, and she is very fair.

The website is www.Whiten-My-Skin.com

why would you want to be "white and very fair" were you dirty before

holy macaroni cheese!!!

these ppl are creepy!!!

ewwww

i don't see how this supposedly "positive pageant" is going never help with HIV awareness .

all those monies and prizes they're going to award to the winner should be put into developing more effective awareness programs not some absurd pageants.

it'd be interesting though to see the girls who would be brave enough to show their faces to such pageant and the more stigma they would face afterward.

its definitely weird for him to just straight into my kitchen and direct inside my pot of soup but it all depends on my re/ship with him.

can you write in normal font instead of caps? what you wrote there is unreadable in those CAPS

most who still abide by that tradition are usually ones who still lives in the village. those who usually reside in the city and have money often build their own homes separate from the general family one in the village

Radiant:
Do you know the burden in their family? Sick parents, school fees, house rent, feeding, clothing, hospital bills, you name it. What can N130, 000 solve in such a situation? When the basics have been taken care of then you can think of business.

you see then its becomes a business and for some greed. when are they ever going to leave then? till they run out of eggs in their ovaries? some supposedly "poor" persons know what they can do with 200K + depending how many kids they bear, but some there, out of there greed would never value it but aim for more, and you tell me its poverty. pure business i say.

I agree but have you asked yourself why they had to adapt to this measure? If you say it's greed, that's your own explanation. I don't believe a woman will sell her child out of greed. What does she have that she's greedy for more?

shes greedy for money. these ppl arent the only poor folks still living. i'd like to say though, i am not aganist or for what they're doing, like i say early its body and their choice. my problem  here how everything gets blamed on poverty as if there arent any decent poor person living out there

^^^^

how so? these things happen may you arent aware of it yet

Radiant:
Sissy please!! What bloody greed are you talking about? Greed and poverty should not even be mentioned in the same breath.

Anyway, what do you suggest these women do?

if they do a follow up to this story you would see that some of these women are in for pure greed and take it as business not as something they would do once and use the money to start or better themselves.  and from the tone of some of the women you can see that this isnt their first time.

and yes its their body and their choice. for instance, you always/sometimes hear some ppl say they prostitute their bodies bcus they are poor but you have to realize that not every poor woman out there who leaves in abject poverty would ever agree to prostitute their body for money.

and surrogacy isnt necessarily a question of poverty, middle class ppl also do it.

greed and choice. not all poor folks would agree to such. there are ppl these so called poor women here are better than still they wouldnt agree to such.

not as if its my biz what they do with their bodies, just that we should learn to stop blaming poverty for every immoral acts people do. we arent the only poor country. there are still some decent poor folks living.

[quote author=,mama-gee link=topic=333228.msg4728576#msg4728576 date=1255478858]Why in the world do you want to deactivate your account.[/quote]

dani1luv:
Ask the poster again

Godmother:
Attention seeker

dani1luv:
abi oh

OP just want know how to deactivate her acct. thats all. shouldnt she have to the right to

gosh! why all the fuss?

you should take food supl. when you have a poor diet and cant meet the recommended daily servings of vegetables and fruits but if you can, eat fresh veges and fruits and forget the bottles.

^^^^

what is "mojo"?