₦airaland Forum

Lifeiseazi:
He was talking about Nigeria navy building there own warship, which will in-return provide jobs, build our security,economy and save the nation some extra money.

We can even start building for other African countries.

Yes, Sir. Thank you for drawing my attention to it, but if you go back to that comment, you can see what he went on saying about Nigeria BUILDING warship. those are battleships or battle canoes if I will be right. There is no manufacturing plant in Nigeria Sir. All Nigerians did here was assembled different imported parts. Steel, from china; guns from china; operational fixtures are all imported; Engine from china etc. So, what was BUILT in Nigeria? Even keke engine is not built in Nigeria

The man does not know what he is saying. He is one of the deluded. That is why I tried to engage his sense.

Sir, this is not a time for us to praise mediocrity. We know that the system is broken. Do not let a blind lead you.

What I proposed was for him to stop chanting MADE IN NIGERIA yet. He should ask the promulgators of such lies where the plants are located. Follow them and you will see Chinese there with their goods.

Here is the deal: Let30% of our manpower go to Turkey and serve in planning and design roles not, just laborers. 30% who will return home with the technical know how for future projects. Or, let them bring 30% of their workforce and use 70% of ours who will also serve in design and control. Fair deal. You take the money, I take a part of the knowledge.

Bro, let us not deceive ourselves, the only vehicle manufacturing plant we have in the country now is run by Innoson and he does not produce the engines yet.

So, look at the underlying problem bro. We are in 2022 not 1922. Look at India. Investing in IT and they are taking over the world now. Look closely at the depth that our leaders are sinking. It is lower than any rescue mission.

We do not Build anything. They are stealing your money in disguise. Ask them the cost of each of those assembled steel that they call boats. Have you seen the interior? Would you rely on those in times of war? They look older than soviet era coast guard ships.

This is the only way it will affect the rich.

Stop the Airport and the oil. You will hold the federal government to hostage. The thing was not well planned. They could have had like a million students packed.

Next, they should plan on tiktok to converge at the airport again. A million man blockade. Invite foreign reporters to the show.

Go on live streaming.

hahaha

jyz200:
Them still dy smile

That is what I am asking you to take your atheism to the latrine. Take your Egyptians gods and Buddha to the dumpster. It is that simple. Go and look for your mate. I am not.

This is a religious thread. You are absolutely uninvited. No one NEEDS you here. Read the lines and get the eff out of this space. Take your dusty suit to the loo

budaatum:
Unfortunately, you don't get to command anyone just as you can't be commanded.

budaatum:
I am not promoting Atum to you. I'm just correcting your lack of knowledge.

How else can I break this news to you that your correction is not solicited here. Drop it in your cesspool. Do not bring it to me.

budaatum:
Can you not write YHWH in Latin letters and still claim its origin is the Hebrew God?

No. It is called the tetragrammaton.

If you infer that your Atum is hieroglyphics or tetragrammaton, it would make it easier

advocatejare:
They know nothing about their religion. For example, you hear them lying that Muhammad was the best, and most handsome, but they didn’t know that he was so fat at a time that he couldn’t bow down to pray, he had to sit

I feel pity for some of them to be honest. And, sadly they cannot read Arabic. They chant and recite the quran like children rhymes without a single knowledge regarding the true meaning of the content.

They are simply destroying the east for themselves

I am all about the men always behind tinubu.

They are just like diapers padding up the sheet from dropping to the ground

Mindlog:
My interest has always been to have a clinical insights of the human mind and most especially that of children thus my relocation to the UK for my specialization in clinical child psychology, I see some immigrants parents here (especially Africans) who struggle with parenting as they struggle to find a balance when it comes to disciplining their kids, beating which is already ingrained in them or what is acceptable by UK standard.

I work in a facility that has young ones with conduct disorders and undergoing the Management Of Actual And Potential Aggression (MAPA ) training was essential before starting the job because my role involves continually being faced with unruly kids who by "Nigerian way" you will beat the hell out but my clinical child psychology background reminds me, that is not the way to go and can equally physically put them under control utilizing my MAPA skills.

Society and the people in it are evolving at a fast pace and the reality is that we must continually seek out what would keep the majority of the people on the "right path" (though right path is relative)

Well, I have interracial kids that I discipline in a defined way. I have my own ways because I am old school. My ex is of that western system but I ensured that from the early stage the issue of anger management never surfaced. They are well-mannered and they see that respect is one of the factors in Africa.

I do not see them as I would want to but we hang out and I teach them what discipline is. one thing that I cannot tolerate is destructive kids. I'd better go to jail than allow that to happen to my kids.

I want you to put yourself in the place of the people that we reference. Are you like them? How did you break out of that hold? I am very expressive. I am hardly violent and I am a big guy. Even when I get pushed, I know that if I lift my hands on anyone who doesn't look like me, it might be destructive. I am a product of corporal punishment just as you. I am very aware of the consequences of my actions. I have lived almost 30 years in a civilized world so I should know better

The fact is that, different stroke applies to different folks. Some kids take order from just a stare. some require literal manhandling. some of them you have to actually bully them to make them feel small.

I totally get you and I am challenging you in your profession cos you are the expert in this but this is my own experience.

Some parents do find it difficult to cope. That is true. My sister had to leave The States with her family to Lagos for five years just to fix the kids who were at the time running out of control. It worked for them.

I am old school and I always advise black parents to begin discipline at a tender age. Because the system will corrupt your child and eventually send him to prison for you or place a knee on his neck.

I really cannot teach someone how to handle his kids but for mine, you gotta be disciplined. And, whatever attitude you bring, you will get a rebound. And, I feel discipline thrives on intent. A child knows if it is love because it shows. What do you do afterward? Just discipline and another discipline?

You guys are the experts and I do not subscribe to anyone saying NO to discipline. But if one presents a subjective disciplinary formula, I am all in.

spiritedtete:
You absolutely don't have your fact right I assume you are still in your 20s. You are not writing anything factual.. Tinubu never touch your federal government money, we all know how obasanjo government dealt with him... even as a Governor he never got any allocation for over 6 years from federal. My problem with him is not becoming the president, but his health status. He should have nominated an Obi and we would have had a repeat of 1993 election.

Sure, he didn't receive federal allocation? https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Nigeria-Federal-revenue-allocation-to-states-1999-2007_tbl2_279463673

Are you one of those being deceived by the government? Okay, he didn't get any allocation from federal government in 8 years. And, you believed that? so, Obasanjo pocketed the 311,928,495.035.61 naira Lagos allocation.

How did Obasanjo deal with him?

I am not a voter anyway to begin with so is not as if I am campaigning for anyone. But it is only fair to establish honesty here.

I did. I read it.

I am not attacking anyone. I am being Nigerian for a minute. We are real people right?
Is there something in it that you would like to bring my attention to?

Lifeiseazi:
Did you even read that comment at all or you just want to attack someone cus the way you sound angry,wailing and attacking everyone on this intelligent thread get as e be o.

Bro, what I posted there is the quran but you called it nonsense, why? Are you an unbeliever?

Truthday:
You're saying nonsense about what 6 don't know about islam. No reasonable Muslim will take you serious. Islamm isn't a head thought religion. The best for you is to go learn before saying anything about islam.

It is electrifying at this point that the poor converts are left in limbo, astonished and looking drench in tears. They attack me but when they check to see these in the quran they disappear. It is alarming at this rate.

advocatejare:
That is what happens when a religious leader is an illiterate who only copied and pasted without understanding his actions!

But Christ lived and died before the 70 CE. So, how did they create him when they themselves HEARD of him?
And, think about this, did they also create the prophecy about him that was written before they became an empire?

Also, think about the fact that there is no document or reference to back your claim.

More so, you can reckon that if they wanted to create Christ, they would have done it in Latin because we had Khristós in Greek before Christus in Latin.

MindHacker9009:
To know The True God yes.

But to know Christ or Chrestus is another level of deceit.

The Roman Empire created Christ after they destroyed Jerusalem and the Jewish Temple in 70AD because the Jews were waiting for a Messiah to come and defeat the Romans for them

Okay, let us pretend that corporal punishment brought us here. We are richer than a few countries that I know of that are not examples of corporal punishment. Let us talk about Venezuela and Cuba for a minute. Two countries that I am privileged to have visited. What is the reason for their pervasiveness or economic downfall? Need I mention the Philippines? Nepal? Or Morocco?

if we have to focus on aggression, why are the Egyptians more aggressive than Nigerians? Or, why are Arabs more aggressive than Nigerians?

The actual products of corporal punishment are not the leaders who are in power. Everyone in power today is a product of nepotism. In Saudi Arabia, you are being monitored like a little child. There is Shariah in place that serves instant justice.

Like I said earlier, the anarchical system paved way for lack of accountability. Even the men in power today will tell you of how it was yesterday. They know! The reason why they do not promote it is because they will lose control of power or they might indict themselves by so doing.

The number of serial murder cases is higher in white neighborhoods where kids are overly spoilt and raised to be soft balls. The suicide rate is higher in India and in the white communities where people are raised like eggs and glass. Nigeria is not the world capital of pervasion. Give that to the US and many other western countries. Nudity is still restricted in Nigeria. How many girls feel comfortable in bikinis in Nigeria? hardly a few. How many girls are actually into this runs business? I know the number is high due to our population, but the level of sex trafficking and sex exploitation in Vietnam or in the Asian continent is mindboggling in comparison to Nigeria.

Are Nigerians truly repressive of their sentiments? No! Nigerians are in the top ten league of the loudest people in the world. Travel around and foreigners will tell you. Many of these are people who have no name to be accountable for. Nigerians are very vociferous and expressive. The only issue here is that when a Nigerian is in a premise of anarchy, he tends to exploit violence as an option. . They have absolutely immersed themselves in the absence of lack of accountability. Nigerians throw curveballs because there is no discipline. Nigerians are the most disciplined in places where discipline trends. Go look for Nigerians in Ireland, in Angola, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Trinidad and Tobago, etc. They have a good name because they are held hostage. You can see that Nigerians are currently being contained in the UAE now since the grip got lose they showed the government that they throw curveballs. Now that the government tightens it, go and see how well-disciplined Nigerians are becoming in the UAE.

If you talk about people who instill fear in children, you go to Asia. Places where people are killed for violating simple family traditions. They call it honor killing. A woman has no right to fall in love or be loved. People are traded like goods. A man cannot decide who to marry. Those are people who are raised suppressively. Nigerian parents discipline you for a particular misconduct. Not a perpetual control of feelings. Respect you might say, is regarding elders or speaking against and institution. Which is obtainable in the palace of the queen as well.

I do enjoy talking with sound minds like you cos the challenge and exchange is good . But, the impact of anarchy is fuels the curveball. Nigerians are very decent if they want to be. All these thieves in power feel absolute cos of the anarchy.

Mindlog:
I read all you posted but would love to focus on the highlighted and I am glad you brought that up.

Aggression that is very prevalent in Nigeria is as a result of repression of feelings...... from childhood, overwhelming majority of us were not socialized to verbally express our feelings as it has always been regarded as being "ill mannered". Many Nigerian families didn't and still don't provide a safe space for their young ones to express themselves, many were raised to repress for fear of punishment . So when they become adults and no longer fear of being punished, they "explode".

Lest, I forget.....the overwhelming majority of today's Nigerian leaders are products of corporal punishment and we know where we are today. Corporal punishments do not transmit values, it aids in repressing emotions that would very likely manifest in some other forms.

Nah for me. I do not understand why they just can't give Nigerians or Africans the chance to excel. Why must we have an Arab or a chinese in all our projects?

why?
Even mohammed is calling on his partners to assist him to take down his two wives when he had a fight with them. allah is his GABRIEL AND OTHER ANGELS ARE HIS ASSISTANTS
surah 66:4 If you two [wives] repent to Allah , [it is best], for your hearts have deviated. But if you cooperate against him - then indeed Allah is his protector, and Gabriel and the righteous of the believers and the angels, moreover, are [his] assistants.

To have our money given away to all these sharks who come to Nigerian to enrich themselves and then take it back home. I shake my head

I am scared.

I will not be able to trust the integrity of this construction. This to me is a death trap.

What company is building this?

What is the project cost?

They say, "when a garbage truck passes by, it either moves the feet or the neck".

They also say, "When a man needs a woman, his eyes pay attention'.

If you have been blind to all these facts on either images or video clips, I hate to be the one to tell you to sign in a home for special need.

If you claim to vote for someone because he is from your region, it makes you a racist, a tribalist and non-progressive. Your intents are not objective regardless of your education or exposure. You are limited.

I will not vote for ANYONE. Nevertheless, honesty matters. Let the voters vote judiciously not by coercion or deceit. What you are doing is telling lies that he did this and did that, but when you check the record, you too are the very one praising Buhari for projects initiated by Jonathan.

I did not see on person online who gave any accolade or appraisal to Jonathan. Buhari and APC took all the glory.

The project that you call Lagos, was not built by Tinubu. Tinubu might have initiated a few but the credit as was done to Buhari should also go to the governor who completed the projects.

You all make it seem as if Tinubu is still the governor of Lagos right now. We know Lagos when he was in power. It was a land of agberos. He fathered the so-called traffic wardens that Fashola had to establish LASTMA to accommodate these hooligans in a recognized body to do the job that the federal government had already created the ministry of transport for.

We are not stupid. We know stuff. I am also Lagosian. I know what is going on. Tinubu has never served my family or given us any role or money. We are not the type that will line up for stipends in exchange for our souls. I am speaking because I have relatives that are suffering right there in Lagos.

Lagosians are not all having a pool party. Many are in severe penury. As I speak to you now, 65% to 70% of Lagos is either fully or partly owned by Igbos. Lagosians sell their inheritances more than any other tribe. Many Lagosians have fled the country. I live here in Abuja and not Lagos because Lagos doesn't feel like home anymore. Every close relative does not live there anymore. We are losing our heritage.

A place that I used to visit in Ojo in the 80ies, the last I stopped by, my relatives were all gone. From house 1 to house 46 every single tenant is Igbo. As a matte of fact, I felt like I was in Onitsha or Enugu right in Lagos. Lagosians are now being pushed into the swamps or out of the country.

This is not about being tribal but being real. Lagos is congested already. I am pained that soon I will have no home anymore. In fact, I have no place that I call home. Everyone is here and there and my kids are growing up even worse off. So, telling all these lies to polish an old man and make him look sanctified is poopoo to me. I can see clearly we're this is heading. The country is collapsing. Someone just has to stop these influential men from holding us hostage.

LiveWithIt:
All this claimed evidence, did you live with him to know if truely he peed, carried drug etc or just mere talking
If you have access to his house or his personal environment give me evidence I'll believe your propaganda

Sir, this is simple. If you are a strategist you can apply this simple economic trick used by the Chinese.

I willgive you an example.
1. I contract you to build my ship. I will pay you so and so. I need 30% of the workforce to come from my country because the people are unemployed.

2. I contract you to build my ship. I will pay you so and so. I need this project manufactured or at least assembled in my own country. You will move 30% of your workforce to my country and hire 70% locally. This will boost the employment rate in my country.

If you consider these two scenarios, which will be more logical to you?

secondly, which will better your life the more?

Speak for the average man who cannot afford a phone to type his pain. I await your comment.

Artbydris:
Not every advanced nation aspire regional military power, while we can develop our capabilities, we don't need bases in neighbouring countries. That's a great misplace of priority except we want to start meddling in their politics.

Nigeria, unlike the US, Australia and most of Europe and east Asia has a very low risk of an external conflict. We could work to become a major arms exporter though.

fact is that I will not vote for anyone. I am very objective and neutral. all these noise about tinubu this and that is disturbance to my ear.
We all agreed years ago that this man failed Nigerians. now, that he is fighting for the presidency, we threw away the sadness of the common nigerian as a sacrifice to lionize this snake.

this man took over billions in our treasury after the Military. What could have stopped this man from excelling? everything was stand still and i do not see why a serious performer will not excel in such a premise.

This man did this, this man did that. Enough! Stop using campaign rhetoric to fool the simple minds.

If you like him, state it and do not pull up lies to make him look surreal. You all will make Abacha look good eventually

spiritedtete:
Even though I will vote Peter obi, I will be objective on what I know... Tinubu increased the teacher's and Lagos state salary, pension was beginning to be paid on time and housing and lands were allocated to teacher's around lekki scheme two.

Okay, good score. Barracks was not the only thing that I mentioned.

Is it the responsibility of the state to decide salaries for educators? Please list the responsibility of the state and let us tick the options that tinubu accomplished.

I want you to look at this little boy in the attached and tell him the responsibility of the state of Lagos in which he lives.

spiritedtete:
Come off it... it is not the responsibility of the state to maintain the police barrack...

Yaradua never peed on people's couches.
Yaradua was all-inclusive.
Yaradua never had too many dots and questions like tinubu
Yaradua never claimed that it was his turn.
yaradua had no enemies from all sides of the country.
Yaradua was a simple man who listened to advice.
Yaradua was not accused of drugs.
Yaradua respected the right to representation.
Yaradua did not sleep in any convergence.
Yaradua did not have a long chain of loyalists to hold the country to a ransom.

LiveWithIt:
Yaradua was sick but he performed better than PDP 16 years combined

Tell me the good, Sir.

Only if this sick old drug barron had let Osinbajo run.

I still feel so bitter that Osinbajo could not be allowed to join a new party like Peter Obi to exercise his right.

As it stands right now, having a sleeping pee-master in a rock is like providing a cave for a hibernating bear.

He is simply going to pee the whole rock to disintegration and crash this shaking Nigeria.

LiveWithIt:
Every man should speak for himself, let learn to see the good things also, I know what am saying

You will check your kidney after 8 years of tinubu. Did you see the man who trekked for Buhari? He is so black now that the latest iphone camera cannot capture the location of his nose and eyes on his face. He is still trekking with an APC coffin on his head.

That is if he is not beaten to a pulp before he gets to Abuja. That is what stupidity is. invest in the young. Many of your comparing the Queen of England to Buhari, go and see her in the casket.

What can an old man do in Aso rock? The country is shaking and there is no time for mediocrity. The insecurity is overwhelming the progress of the country.

LiveWithIt:
Olorun tiije

it is shocking that someone who is born to fork knows better than those who claim to have been born to learn.

This is not rocket science. We can build our own. China sends experts to learn from the US and bring the knowledge back home. I don't know why our government just wants us to fail. They just can't invest in the actual Nigerians.

b0rn2fuck:
We should build our own and rely on it. All errors,pros and cons and secret will only be known by us, depending on other country building is like hiding under their shadow as shield

LiveWithIt:
This is it, only tinubu will ever be able to achieve things like this in this great Nation, not one lie lie thief, who left his city to live in Tinubu's lagos...

I didn't mention name of the lie lie person but wait and see how zombie will flood my mention

Look at what you want Nigeria to be like

olorun maje

Look at Lagos Police Barracks after 8 years of Tinubu. This is what you want Nigeria to be like?? All he ended up doing is creating agbero all over Lagos for Fashola to clean up.

Does anyone have further pictures of the real Lagos not all these artificial pictures of Lagos that other governors created.

Manufacturer of WARships?

I don't know how much you are paid but shame on you. You are a disgrace to us. You have no conscience to the tears and pains of innocent Nigerians.

Millions of dollars that could have been used to pay lecturers to get students back to school is wasted on foreign soils on medical, looting, and then legal exportation of jobs when Nigerians are jobless and dying of hunger.

What is in the warship that we need for it to be manufactured in turkey? Nigerians are traveling all over rabbit holes to find odd jobs and yet you are chanting encomium on this evil dispensation for robbing Nigerians of their jobs. May your kidney and liver be found in Turkey if this is what you wish the average Nigerian.

may the drugs that will cure your children not be found in Nigeria but in turkey. You will go there to buy it yourself.

Do you know how many Nigerians died yesterday alone of poverty and lack of standard medical facilities? As you sing their praises, so we will when your turn or that of your children arrive. Ekweremmadu never thought that his daughter could be in this situation. He believed in his money and influence. Somehow it come backs.

Yours will

Quintopia:
The Nigerian Navy is not just an importer of warships by the way.

It is a rising manufacturer of warships in its own right, as seen by a few recent releases:

Made in Nigeria
https://guardian.ng/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/NNS-Oji.jpg

Made in Nigeria
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ESuPBdeXYAAcsN5.png

What the navy needs to do now regarding their imported ships is to reverse engineer them, and produce them locally, and export to other nations.

nothingspoil70:
Lagos is another country entirely. Competing with advanced countries like the United states and the United kingdom

Competing in what, Sir? In agbero or in sanity? Have you been to the ministries in Lagos? Have you been to the police barracks in Lagos? You didn't mention countries that fit that narrative but leaped to a gold standard.

What competition are you high and up about? ordinary camera? in 2022?

Look at how dirty the road is to begin with. Look at the safety protocols on a busy road.
Did you see the shrub behind the barrier?

tijahesurua:
Indeed we have to realise that we all are being deceived one way or another because we never take enough time and to see for ourselves what the truth is.
For example due to the infiltration of philosophies that teach false doctrines such as the immortality of the soul, the trinity, a hell of torment and even the date of Jesus' birth and pagan ceremonies that dishonour the One we claim to serve has deceived a lot more than we thought. I mean its part of the reason people leave religion totally.

I totally agree and that is one of the more reasons why we have the Bible as a constitutional guide for Christians. It is divinely structured to serve as a mentor and a power that supersedes our knowledge, age, experience, and permutations.

The infiltrations can all be traced back without difficulties and that is one of the selling points of Islamists. Because they thrive amidst the disparity that outrageously encircles Christian denominations. They are a political ideology that strives to derive legitimacy from Islam. My goal is to be an instrument to reach out to black Muslims that I also love as compatriots and tell them the verified facts straight from their own sources so that they can see how deceitful these big wigs have been and how they have manipulated the truth and painted Islam as a noble, peaceful and honorable religion that is worth dying for. And, the fallacious prospect of living in a paradise with 72 virgins.

They also stand the chance to know Christ and God so as to make it.

smart you.
We are left to wait for the outcome or the truth.
In any case, someone died and we can only sympathize right now.

justdogitto:
Whoever posted this was there when she saw the husband with the supposed side chick at spar...The person was also there to confirm the speed at which she was driving and the person was also there when the husband dropped the supposed side chick...The person was also there to confirm the death...

Well, your points are absolute and highly logical. I am glad that you live in a foreign country. Here is my question, The Nigeria of which you speak is the Nigeria of the millennials, right?

I am certain that you were born before the 90ies to ask such an in-depth question. With that covered, look back in time when you were little, is the crime rate comparable to what we have today? Was it possible for Nigerians who lived abroad to return back to their villages or to the cities and live normal? Was it possible for farmers to walk deep into the forest to plant and harvest their crops? Was it possible for a married man to live in the rural towns and sponsor his child through school in the city?

Considering the fact, leads you to a conclusion that it is not the discipline but the system that incapacitates the Nigerians. Had there been a time than now when Nigerians are stigmatized abroad for bad records?

So, the older Nigerians who received the hardest discipline, grew up to condemn the discipline that they had received because they got exposed to western lifestyle and spoilt their children with poor training. This is the effect that we are seeing now.

How many sexual deviants did you know back in the early 90ies? How many ritualist before Clifford orji did you know? How many drug addicts, I mean, apart from Tinubu did you know in the 80ies? How many kidnappers or criminals before Anini did you know? Rituals, I would say has always been a part of African tradition or religion. From the west to the east and south and North, Africans have never ceased to perform rituals. But, the extent of killing for money-rituals now is overwhelming. Why didn't we have these back in the 80ies?

Now, let us talk about functional Nigerian adults. in what sector in Nigerian economy did we lack functional Nigerian adults in the 60ies, 70ies, 80ies or early 90ies? Did you know the exchange rate of the naira to the dollar? Did yo know that Nigeria was once the top world exporter? Did you know that we had the biggest economy by a far-stretched margin? Did you know how respected Nigerians were? Did you know that Nigerians had so many no-violent protests before the 9ies? Did you know that Asians came to Nigeria to learn our skills? Did you know that Nigerian graduates were highly sought after in many countries?

So, speaking about functional Nigerian adults, we had them in surplus. And, those men are the product of corporal punishment. Check the trend. Thing went south from a particular period of time. Then, check the events happening in the country at that time. Nigerians are becoming too soft now because they are no longer disciplined. There is anarchy in town. If you engage in a heated argument with a Nigerian, his next move is violence or aggression. Why? he simply has no words to commute his feelings. He knows anger cos he is not disciplined enough to know his restrictions.

Back in the days, the discipline continues. After parenting, the community holds you accountable. You have a name to defend which can in turn, have a disastrous effect on your family or career. Today, a good name is on sale. There is subtle anarchy in town because of lack of discipline.

Mindlog:
No one can tell me that the white man is without discipline because I live amongst them and professionally do work with children and adolescents especially those with conduct disorders. I am glad you highlighted how mental and physical exhaustion reflects in the parenting but have you paused to reflect that despite the beatings some Nigerians got as children, that they turned out to become drug addicts, sexual deviants, ritualists, kidnappers etc?, We can't say our prisons are filled with people whose parents didn't beat.

What my focus is more on, is how has the beatings majority of Nigerians received as children translated into more functional adults in Nigeria, into a more humane society?