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Sagamite: The average woman far more so than the average man.

To me, it is how you can differentiate men and women.

I say that with no reservation but rather pure aplomb.

I disagree

For instance many women would be willing to forgive cheating partner or to let go of their aspirations for the sake of their men and families. How many men would be willing to sacrifice everything for the sake of another.

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They are no different.

Most are as selfish and illogical.

All Men as in human beings are selfish and illogical. Selfishness and Illogic are common and natural human triats

That said, I have little pity for any person involved in the process of bringing a child into the world for an unnatural setting.

I have no pity for him.

http://news.yahoo.com/white-ohio-woman-sues-over-sperm-black-donor-153715939.html

Rapsainot: lols, think of those that love themselves so much before marriage, but couldn't continue with the so called love after it bro

The topic says love after marriage not before marriage, two different situations. And from personal experience, love after marriage does work, it requires the open-mindedness of both partners

Rapsainot: the probability of loving after marriage is 1/100. it's not that I'm a marriage expert I just don't think so because there are even some people who "courted" for years, yet they can't stay married for months

80/100

Fixed

Orikinla: [size=28pt]GEJ and his desperate jobbers are looking for cheap political points to fool millions of Yorubas to vote for his re-election in 2015.[/size]

I am confused, I thought you were pro-GEJ

aljharem: Yes I read and silly statements like this can only come from people that have been bribed



Can you be objective for once and find the root cause ?

What is happening in Ekiti now is not Uganda Idi Amin but South Africa Apartheid. Fayose is the will of the people

People do not want Fayemi, why are you media teams bulling them against their will.

Same way black people were freed from whites rule and the white media houses publishing how backward blacks are.

Yes we prefer our freedom to any pseudo-educated man that calls himself fayemi

Sagamite

They are no different.

Most are as selfish and illogical.

I do say all women are the same save for some characteristics attributable to societal factors and that also goes for men.

I should pay for what your father, grand father, great-great-great grandfather and co did to my grandmother and co?

That wouldn't be too bad, would it?

This definitely fits into the sexist narrative.

I object to the logic that is always attacking men in the West.

That said, I have little pity for any person involved in the process of bringing a child into the world for an unnatural setting.

I have no pity for him

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The government is trying to minimise public spending therefore it is an avenue to tag such rationale to be in the interest of the public - public policy. I wouldn't want to believe that they are aware of the injustices, And yeah I know that they know .

Frustration-Depression-Suicide-Extinction



Well, the feminist movement started well, issues relating to empowerment etc (it dealt with real issues) but it is becoming problematic.

sixix, I don't have a regime anymore(well like I did before). After my hair started breaking I now mostly wash my hair with conditioner because I don't use any heavy products.
I would have my hair in plaits and whenever I want to wash I unravel a plait, use coconut, almond oil and hair mayonaise a few days before then braid it again.

My scalp is very oily so it gets itchy if I do not shampoo.

I try to get my hair moisturised very well before washing with conditioner. I have been experimenting recently and soaking my hair in water when having my bath actually keeps my hair moisturised and soft

I have also been thinking about soaking my hair in the shower but the downside is that I can't leave the house with wet hair (and also the weather makes it difficult) however sometimes I do when I have got evening lectures. I think this should really work because when I was bald and on short hair, my hair was always drenched in water and the growth was really fast even though it was combed with a fine comb thrice a day. I think moisturising is the key ingredient to healthy and beautiful hair.

I now just use almond oil as moisturiser and use organics carrot hair cream and organics herbal tea tree gro(lite conditioner) once or twice a month.

I try to avoid hair products with harsh ingredients, I get build up easily.

I wash each plait individual in the shower, oil it in it's wet state and plait it back then do the same to the others. This now works for my hair because it has stopped falling out and has grown past my collarbone.

That was exactly how I have been washing my hair for the past two weeks, my hair is on the oily side so I have to shampoo weekly with a non-sulphate shampoo.


Your 'regimen' would be great for those who want to go natural but have little or no time and limited budget

Thanks for sharing

Sagamite: In the UK, we have the Sexist Theresa May as Home Secretary, so such things would not be happening soon.

By the way, the German courts should have made her pay him back every dime with interests. That said, it appears they are better than UK and USA.

In America, a man has up to 3-5 years to prove the child is not his, if he does not, then he is liable for paying child support till the child is 18 even though the child might not be his and could be a produce of cheating on him.

Why? Listen to the typical moronic argument.

"Because it is in the best interest of the child"

This enables some women to do what is called "Father Shopping". Which is basically, naming the most financially well-off former sexual partner during the perion as the father of the child and obviously it is ungentlemanly to ask for paternity test from a "victim" (according to society) you "used for sex" (Men are regarded as brutes and exploiters in Western society), so many men might just do "the right thing" or dumbly believe women don't cheat, and then the sexist law traps them after 5 years.

Obviously there is no legal obligation on women to be forthright and declarely lawfully and correctly who the father of the child is or declare if there is a doubt.

Why? Let me tell you why.

"Because women are not suppose to have responsibilities. Only men should.

Welcome to the world of "Hating Men" of the West.



http://www.christianpost.com/news/jailed-for-nonpayment-of-child-support-but-its-not-his-child-92576/

And some fcking c*nt wants me to be a "real man" and support giving women power but no responsibilities.

And 'you' say black women ain't loyal , shooting that woman wouldn't be too extreme, I think


. You are simply paying for your past mistakes



I came across another judgement from the US. A lesbian couple got a child though a sperm donor. They had the child, along the line they went bankrupt and the court mandated the man to pay the child support.


[url] http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/10595447/Sperm-donor-must-pay-child-support-to-lesbian-couple-court-rules.html [/url]

The rationale: "The ruling suggests that in Kansas a man can only legally be considered a sperm donor if he goes through a doctor.
Shawnee County District Court Judge Mary Mattivi said: "A parent may not terminate parental rights by contract even when the parties have consented.
"The parties' self-designation of (Mr Marotta) as a sperm donor is insufficient to relieve (Mr Marotta) of parental rights and responsibilities."
Ben Swinnen, a lawyer for Mr Marotta, said his client had only been trying to help a couple who wanted a child and he would appeal the ruling."

Rawdeal: so after I said I cut my hair which was 2 weeks ago, I've been taking biotin 5000mcg+cod liver oil + folic acid. I have really bad nails. splits in the middle.
Biotin hasn't helped the nails. they're not growing faster as everyone said it does, my hair has grown under my braids about 1cm since my BC two weeks ago. I think that's a little faster than normal growth but I have faster growth in braids.

Your nail and hair are mainly protein therefore you need to increase your protein intake.

I changed my hair regimen, I needed to maximise my time and money

Weekly

Hello Hydration for detangling and pre poo

Rainforest Shampoo for washing

Boots Ingredient Coconut and almond Intensive Mask plus Palmers Protein pack (I mix the two together) for my deep conditioning- I deep condition every week- leave it on for 30 minutes

Boots leave in conditioner and Aphogee leave-in conditioner: I mix them together in a spay bottle, with a little bit of glycerine, rose water and water (optional). I apply when it is damp and then leave it to air dry.

Coconut oil and Black castor oil for my edges; Coconut oil and Almond oil for my hair.

I moisturised with water or my leave-in mix every two days.


Hot oil treatment with coconut oil once in two months


Yield , Onegai and kandiikane do you mind sharing your hair regimen?

Inner peace

kolidave: This? at this present age and century? When I have my electric grinder and manual grinder there. Even sef I could take it to the local pepper grinder beside my house to grind for nuffin less than 50bucks. Na hin I go con sidown like old woman with this tin dey grind pepper,lailai not me. The world is changing and moving,'out wiv the old in with the new'.... and oh! That tin no dey add ani special taste to the soup abi Maggi dey inside d stone wey I no know about?

#It does, event though we had a blender and generator, sometimes the whole family opted for this. I have used the three and I can confidently say that the taste differs.

Ipledge: Toyin Aiyeanku still remain my best actress in Yoruba nollywood.she brings reality to anything she does.

Check Kijipa ife, you will confirm what I said

She is the best, all her acts are very natural. The facial expression, her reaction, her tone, everything is always on point.

I thought I was the only one who noticed it

temzybabe: Amosun is really trying in Ogun state.

The hallmark of a good leader - governor is to 'do' and not to 'try' as per his responsibility.

Sagamite: I knew all the above apart from the highlighted from the start. That is why I never felt your were a raving feminist.

I am very good at reading people's post and deciphering the ratiocination behind it.

The problem with you was that I noticed you unfollowed me after this thread started. So I figured you were pissed off I did not agree with the moronic law.

It is a daft and stewpid law that shows why I have a deep hate for fcktards. They help destroy society and they are the majority so we can't avoid them being in position of power in a democracy.

I am a strong advocate of geniocracy. I HATE fcktards!

Yeah, It is because of your never ending battles with your 'hmmmn', you are always going on and on and on but I still read your posts.

I am far from being pissed off, I can't even if you tried your best .

Sagamite: To be frank, you have not been.

You only asked questions, not state an opinion.

But I think your initial psychological position was that I was being misogynistic by not being a raving moronic supporter of this stewpid law.

I only mention you to read the arguments, not because I think you are some raving feminists.

Zekkmixes was the typical woman before, but clues are showing she has seen the other arguments and know she was wrong. So mentioning her was just for more information as well.

It is only the third one that is a raving feminist lunatic that thinks it is women's right to have an advantage, privilege and no responsibilities.

Well, I stated the main reason that could have prompted it the bill which is the issue of consent in rape cases., all my other statements were based on legal premises. I never assumed you were misogynist I believed you were right and I understood where you were coming from, my issue was with your non-acceptance of the law, the law is the law, you are bound by it till it is amended.

I only mention you to read the arguments, not because I think you are some raving feminists.

Tis settled

Sagamite: Don't mind them.

Let me give another scenario that you would see EnlightenedSoul shifting deviously about.

Lets say some multimillionaire sports guy in the US leaves his hotel and goes out to town to enjoy himself after a game in another city. This guy has bags of money from his $9m a year contract and he loves to spray and show this in clubs.

He buys bottles of champagne and Don Perignon in the club and gets plasteredly drunk. Then one of the project skanks that have an app on her phone that gives her a "Baller Alert", then gets with him and he takes her back to his hotel and hits it. Then she gets pregnant.

What will the US law and EnlightenedSoul/Sixix/Zekkmixes say:

1) "Oh, he was raaped and the girl needs to be arrested for taking advantage of him"

or

2) "That is his problem. He is going to pay for his actions dearly and exorbitantly for the next 18 years. Next time he would not drink so much and should wear a condom".

Guess which one they would say.

Majority of Women = illogical and selfish!

No, women should not have responsibilities. Only men should. But we are equal.

Note: A "Baller Alert" is a system where someone sends registered girls a notification of which clubs sports stars just entered in the USA. This normally leads to queues of hot girls, in their most skimpy attires, heading to that club. It is called "Baller" because the stars play American Football, Baseball or Basketball.

My stand on the 'Yes law or transgender' issues was neither of a chauvinist nor a feminist, I wrote based on my own opinion of why and how the law would be interpreted. I do not consider myself as a feminist, the only agreement I have with the feminist theory is the provision of equal opportunities for both sexes and I try as much as possible to be objective on gender issues. And even If I were to consider myself a feminist, it will take the prefix of 'Yoruba' as in Yoruba Feminist.

1stola: 5).Sir Alex Ferguson (on Arsene Wenger): " They say he's an
intelligent man right? Speaks five languages! I've got a 15yr old
boy from d ivory Coast who speaks 5 languages!".

FOOLISH RACIST

How is it racist? The guy was alluding to the correlation of the number of languages Arsene Wenger speak with his intelligence.

Doluseun: omo ale Ni o.
tell your ajimobi achievement/s and compare it to akala s own...oponu ayirada

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Bode69: [color=#990000][/color] So on point, only if Nigerians can measure progress and not personality we would have gone far in this country. While the likes of Ajimobi keeps on deceiving them with federal government project as state funded.

What noteworthy development has he contributed to Oyo state, other than the usual construction of roads, buildings etc with shelf life do not exist a year. And None of which contribute to the overall well being of the people of Oyo state.

You lots deserve what you get

Hallmark08: I like to remind you that your resulting to name-calling is callous, ludicrous and has no basis, tell me any important project that the past governors who are native of ibadan (especially Ajirebi )has done in oyo state other than untold hardship he has brought, from destruction of markets, shops n building without providing necessary succour. Akala empowered local contractors and artisan during his first term in office, this is evident in the construction of oyo state college of agriculture in igbo ora, and lautech teaching hospital and so on, posterity has a way of
judging , while attacking personality you have to reflect what become of you if you find yourself in such position .

. Mr Poverty is my birthright , No politician is worth supporting, in particular all Oyo state governors.
A very lame excuse, if he cannot do it then he should leave it for those who can, typical excuse from an educated illiterate.

Sagamite

But he consented, he just[b] did not have the true information[/b] to influence his consent.

It is more than just having true information, the disclosure is very important because transgender issue is subjective, which she obviously is aware of it and knows what is. her sexual identity was the pinnacle of their relationship therefore it mattered a lot.

*She is a legally female and as such isn't she supposed to be treated exclusively as one - discrimination

If I told a girl that I am Dangote's son and she opens her leg yakata for me, have I raaped her when she finds out I only have £40 in my account?

If I pullled a girl in a club and take her to my den to do the fuku faka, only yo wake up the next morning and see her (in my shock horror) without her make-up as murrafugly, have I been raaped?

No, they are too flimsy to count as rape in the court of law. The psychological effect of these scenarios would be different from what you will go through if you had slept with a trans.

The law is an ass .

berem: well,I am yet to see any of the movies.

Google is your friend

let me help you-Sunmisola Otelemuye, Abe Sekele etc etc etc

berem: Olu Jacobs is a yoruba man and acts Igbo films. I have never heard him speak yoruba not to talk of acting yoruba films. So do you classify him alongside Desmond Elliot who is half yoruba and half Igbo?

Olu Jacobs have also acted in several Yoruba movies

handysuzy: The fact you have never heard him converse in Yoruba language doesnt make him any less a Yoruba man, and as for his movie roles, any actor can chose where they deem best for them to fit in. Ramsey Nouah is also Yoruba from Ondo state and you barely see him in Yoruba movies or speak the language. Kelvin Ikeduba is purely an Igbo guy, delta-igbo I guess, yet he acts in only Yoruba movies and I have never heard him speak his native language. Mercy Aigbe is Edo yet she acts in Yoruba movies only and speak the language fluently. Desmond we all know speak only English. I have never heard him speak Yoruba nor Igbo

Desmond Elliot have acted in several Yoruba movies.

Why should his ethnic group affect his eligibility? Is he not a Nigerian?

preciousjoz1: please what's the difference between bleaching and toning?

Toning means achieving an even skin tone/colour/look, the uneven skin tone are caused by hyper-pigmentation, scars, harsh weather, harsh body cream and bad diet. Skin toning usually focuses on certain parts of the body like the elbow, knee, neck etc

While Bleaching is about getting a total fairer skin shade

AbdH: Nikkah is marriage.
I get what you mean though, the topic is about the ceremony and not the things that come after.
Since we can commit sins on that occasion, it is imperative that we plan on how it should be, at least to reduce the amount of sins and bidah that could surface on that day.
That is if it matters to you.

Yeah, I agree but I don't think I will have that issue

TRADELYN: Sometimes, the so-called greenlights could be so misleading.

Guys, watch it!!!


* Picks third row*

Thank you

All these your greenlights could be just friendliness

sarutobie: vileness is an understatement.

MizMyColi: Even in anger, moderation is key.

Self defence has nothing to with moderation but it has everything to do with 'the moment' and reasonable force. For him, that action was reasonable taking into account his ability which has become a part of him hence the counter response is a pure reflex action.