₦airaland Forum

SaintLucia:
INEC should not worry, they should just follow their rule of not conducting election in a place where there is insecurities. The burning should continue till 2023, a big advantage to APC and a big disadvantage to IPOB political party PDP cos that is their stronghold.

It's a big advantage to APC no doubt but what do they stand to lose as citizens?

Since you have been voting PDP, APC, APGA and the rest for donkey years, what have they done to benefit your life, and the life of your loved ones regardless of whatever region, tribe or religion you represent? The country hasn't benefited the easterners (nor even other part of the country in anyway) except the few elites and the psychological cope that my "brother" or "tribesman" is the president. The North has more folks ruling for years but they account for more than 60% of Nigeria's hopeless poor.

The worst man you should fear in your life is the man that has NOTHING TO LOSE as with the case of the eastern agitation. Such man has all to win.

Vecto:
I would appreciate your in-depth exposition on this question.


Who rules the world?


Men or women?


ubunja, nwaezeemmanuel, Skepticus, CaveAdullam. Pansophist, Martinez.

A few powerful elites (who are predominantly men) rule the world.

heartofcity12:
Simps don’t learn. Lmao
They’re in a hotel with rough bedspread, even if he hit, that 10k is way too much for the coochie

And na dem dey always get money. Money-Miss-Road Crew.

Anyway, a simp and his money are soon parted.

Emotionss:
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Edo is currently under south south but it was not so in the past when we were practicing regional government.

Akwa ibom
Delta and Edo State are the state's that mostly made up the the 70% Redpillers in south south. Rivers State, Bayalsa and cross River State have some of the Weakest and unproductive men in the entire south. It's only a matter of time before their women start to dominate them fully.

Una just dey throw generous percentages around. 70%, 40% Red Pill lol. If these your rough percentages were close to reality, how come Nigeria parades some of the most miserable, irredeemable vagina worshippers on the planet and have a worldwide reputation for it? Why do Nigeria rank high in number of men deceived to raise other men's kids (paternity fraud)? On the internet (including red pill forums), you have a lot of men (Nigerians) carrying feminine vibes as emotionally-laden trolls, attention seekers coupled with almost single-digit intelligent quotient.

To me, all these percentages are far from the reality on ground regardless of the region.

Jessepaid:

Girlfriend of the year my ass.

Read the part: "I picked up his bank card" lol

The phone was bought with his money.

neyohh:
It depends on how we define well behaved.

As long as they still have some value system guiding them, I'll take them over the chaotic liberty loving liberals.

I think a lot of men want it that way too, though it's a lot different from what you see in reality. I like to work with reality and know my way around it, getting the best out there for me.

neyohh:
Very true but still better than the south at least for now. The south is looking like a gigantic brothel for whores right now.

I started chatting with a Hausa Fulani girl i met on Instagram recently, you know those innocent looking fair skin decently dressed girls on Instagram, to my surprise she sent me nudes within 2 day's of chatting and that's when I knew the whole of Nigeria is fcked...

She said she knows she's a sinner and that's why she prays a lot

Imaging my shock, me that I'm trying to connect with a decent lady.

Spent some time with our family northern freinds year's ago, they still had it together back then, the man had three sexy wives lol , all educated and well behaved, a dream!, but I guess they're slowly sliding away from old trads.

True. They are sliding away slowly and their women know this. The only folks who are yet to get the memo are their blue-pilled men who are still trapped in the illusion of the old system of Islamic theocracy. It's the same illusion being spread by some men who think they understand the red pill, that Women born in the Christian Conservative parts of Southern United States (Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi, Tennessee, Texas) are better-behaved women and marriage prospects over their more liberal counterparts (e.g New York, New Jersey, Maryland etc).

ObinnaValentine:
I have seen the video of the kano students harassing a female student..Not that she was dressed scantily dey were basically ridiculing that type where u dey surround u and make jest of you trying to touch and stuff like that..it was embarrassing..and to the person that reported that here know that there is nothing 'redpilled' about that..imagine it was ur sister being treated that way..even if say she's pretending to be chaste and shit is no guarantee to embarrass her..I will get the link here make e no be like say I dey talk only

I avoided commenting when the guy shared it earlier because I didn't know the details of the case and didn't want to make a hasty conclusion.

The girl was fully covered and the harassment got physical - the worst of it.

The judgement may be harsh but the foolish betas are deserving of it, not because she is a woman or because I have a sister/mother. It's just basic common sense not to infringe on the right of others when they don't infringe on yours. It's stupidity to go play with fire and when you get burnt, try to blame the fire for burning you and other stupid excuses. It's the same for rape or unprovoked violence against women and even, men. A lot of boys/men need to be called out and punished for their stupidity with women.

For that guy who shared the link earlier trying to defend their actions, it is not defendable and it's not red pill trying to go make yourself look stupid before women. It is not representative of what this thread stands for.

Imagine young men who should be on their purpose in school, trying to better their future ganging up to harass a lady who didn't provoke them in anyway.

Leave woman and face una future, dem no go hear. Foolish Boys.

ikillbrokegirls:
Bro don't waste your energy typing even abba don't even know what he is saying. Let me tell you northerners will remain first class citizens whether they like it or not.
#redpillpatriarch

This has nothing to do with First class or no first class citizen. It's just strawman crap to protect your ego (no disrespect intended). It has nothing to do with ethnicity or religion either, and so far, this thread has avoided bringing region/ethnicity/tribe into the red pill discussion. The issue of religion/atheism came in when a lot of immature kids with no experience of life and a willingness to learn and understand, started spilling their ignorance over the thread.

Men from the muslim north (I'm talking about the North West and North East here) are loaded with some of the most annoying vagina (wives, side chics) worshippers like their fellow men in other part of the country. A lot of guys from that region (including my experience) made comments attesting to this fact. We cannot all be wrong. In my own opinion, Islam has done a great deal in limiting the bad effects of women's brutal hypergamy to some extent in these places (and unfortunately, created a shadow sex world full of sexual perversion that is not known to most people, even within the north), but has not prevented men from putting vagina on a pedestal above themselves.

Also, the woke liberal culture of the west (with its baggage of feminism and rights over responsibilities) is quietly creeping in, and the culture of sexual purity and feminine virtue associated with women of these parts is slowly eroding. Same is also being reported in areas that are strongly pro-islamic), like in North Africa, the Gulf Arab states of the Middle East, Central Asia (Turkmenistan, Azerbaijan) and countries of Eastern Europe with high Muslim populations (Bosnia, Albania and Kosovo).

No lose guard!

#BetterBachelor

Jeon:
Red pill is also used by the alt-right movement, a loosely organized white supremacist group that is unified by the belief that political correctness and social justice are tools for attacking white identity and Western civilization. In this case, this set of ideas is the red pill that members are expected to have taken.

Whether dem use am for distance left or for purple people, pick d one wey dey useful to you as a man in whatever part of the world and dump d rest.

I've seen one guy share similar sentiments some days back and I'm like why should you care? The term "Red Pill" is just semantics. Most of what constitute the red pill is just basic common sense that all men regardless of race, religion and economic background should know but weren't thought by the society. Of course, there would be nuances of the red pill peculiar to individual societies like race, state welfare etc. It's left for you to use your head to pick red pill facts vital to your purpose as an individual in life.

MODIFIED: I just found out that I'm mentioning the trolling comments of one of these jobless attention-seeking clowns that litter nairaland creating accounts everywhere

Benwallt:
These girls should stay within their means. Get something doing n fend for yourself till the right man come asking for you, please. This is pathetic

If these greedy Nigerian girls stay within their means, make I die.

Even if you advise them from now till eternity, they still won't listen to you. This evening, some would still go to hang out with rich ritualistic/serial killers. Dem no dey ever learn.

oyolohi:
"If a b*tch wasn't there when you were broke, don't take her seriously when you become rich."

This is BULLCRAP. Stop teaching boys this.

Women are always after something... I learnt that the hard way.

If she was "there for you," It's either she has no better options or after something else: sexual? Commitment?

Fear any woman despirately after your commitment; she'll get back her investment—which is literally an investment—in a thousand folds. They can literally kill you if it gets to that. No woman is FATHERchristmas!

These women who'll be "there for you" are usually way over 30. It's diminishing options, bro. Their game is to find someone with a bright future and guilt trip you aka "be there for you." I've seen it.

Be warned. Okay.

-oyolohi

The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus

heartofcity12:
Nowadays some of these ladies are looking for excuse to cry rape, so don’t give them one. Also you don’t want to be manipulated with sex.

If she is not a virgin, get her the fûck away from your house, lodging or whatever as soon as possible. Don't keep her around (at most) more than 2 hours.

There are a lot of crap likely to happen if you keep her too long after being denied sex:

1. You would most likely start begging for sex (looking pathetic) and start to acquiesce as a simp to her stupid demands (for a sex most likely would not be enjoyable since she is not sexually moved to you). Non virgin women who deny men sex are very manipulative at this point and would even mock your misery outside.

2. Sexual hormones will flood your head leading you to do silly, miserable and despicable behaviour like rape and violence.

If she doesn't give up the sex, the sex isn't worth it anyway. Keep your dick in your pants, swallow your pride and keep your integrity by withdrawing attention and resources.

aomine:
IT SOUNDS SILLY BUT WE CAN DO IT TOO MANY MEN DONT TAKE CARE OF THIER BODY JUST HUSTLE HUSTLE

When we say this, men would say 6 figures is better than 6 pacs. 6 digit earnings is essential for a man, no doubt, and they must strive to earn that bag, but if it is all you have got, you are looked as a money bag to women. There is nothing bad in using your money to attract a woman or simping plates (for multiple women) but always understand it that if it is only money, or other material thing you use in keeping a woman, you are dating a GOLD DIGGING HOE (packaged prostitution) and you are no different than the guy who goes to the brothel to pick a cheap hooker. The only difference is that the latter and the hooker are more "honest" in their "transactional" relationship. Since the former (using money or material things to keep women), seem to be the case in a lot of marriages of today, it has made some men call marriage, "PROSTITUTION WEY GO CHURCH" or "PROSTITUTION WITH A RING".

Another fact that is worth noting, is that the lady you are giving your time and money for some pussy will give it (same pussy) for free to a guy (broke or rich) who she finds sexually attractive or excites her sexual fetish/fantasy. Only a few men get to achieve the latter in their lifetime because women don't find a lot of men sexually attractive (A research done by tinder had a lot of women saying this) plus the TRICK MENTALITY infused into men by the society from birth.

Even with money, a lot of men don't put themselves in the best physical shape which is the phenotypical expression of genetic fitness plus the health benefits (female attraction aside).

MJBOLT:

Shadayaknight said it best "never go to prison(where there's no pussy) because of pussy"

Or you become the pussy in prison

#PickTheGoddamnSoap

Altairx440:
now I see,much love bro.
No disrespect but are you Martinez

I'm not Martinez.

Altairx440:
I get it that's why there was a (with women) in my quote above,nevertheless men should strive to be better men,gather wealth so as to make life easier for themselves.
truth in rich alpha at a kind of disadvantage, a broke alpha will most likely get genuine sexual attention while a rich one will attract both genuine sexual attention plus goldminners.
Also girls/women would be more willing to spend on a broke select than a rich one.

Your last comment/quote was spot on. I just tried to clear the air on those who may think one is against acquiring wealth.

Altairx440:
I've mentioned this before lol,a rich simp can never be better than a broke alpha(with women).Alpha is alpha whether rich or broke,yes a rich alpha will be accepted and celebrated by all but the broke alpha still get his thing going behind the shadows.
Most of heartofcity's recent posts all point out to broke alphas (select broke alphas) or atleast men who ooze alpha traits.
Saying A rich simp is better than a broke alpha is like saying money will buy and keep a gal,simple.

Don't get me wrong. Men should strive to acquire wealth. If they can't, at least, they should be able to solve the basic problems of food, clothing and shelter. There is nothing better than being rich for a man but being rich is not a guarantee of loyalty from women. Men are better loyal, in this regard. In fact, money can be a "disadvantage" when it comes to being "red-pilled" with modern women because most of these women (modern) will only see you as a "provider" over being a sexually-attractive and physically fit male (natural attraction). They wouldn't mind birthing kids for "broke" guys who give them the sexual vibe of natural attraction even in paternity fraud. There is a reason why Nigeria ranks top with the highest number of men (mostly married) raising kids who are not theirs.

If you think a lot of broke guys are not passing on their genes, then you are highly ignorant.

heartofcity12:
Men have suffered. Now you see why paternity fraud abound in the society.

That North wey some ignorant children they hype because of Islam wey dem dey practice get some dark secrets wey only men wey dey game know.

The sexual underworld of the muslim north tolerated and catered for homosexuality before the western world made it a big deal. Hajias having secret sexual escapades even under their "patriarchal" husband's watch. Stories plenty. I just dey laugh. #InsideLife

heartofcity12:
Another one

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heartofcity12:
Another one

Women fûck men who they are sexually attracted to, but marry men who can provide - Red Pilled Realists. Women are the "chosers" for a reason.

Men are the opposite. Most of the time, they marry women they are sexually attracted to, over women who chose and "love" them.

Make I offend "lover boys" wey go read dis comment small. Some of the men wey go attend dat ur big lavish wedding with d love of ur life don bang ya fiancee taya and might still bang it after u are wedded (They may even be sponsoring your wedding disguised as gifts or donations from fiancee's friends or family). They are just there to see the loser "LAWMA" guy packing their trash (Not discouraging anyone from marrying though). Just making you see the reality on ground). #InsideLife

heartofcity12:
To the fellas that think you must only impress women with money to get them.

Abeg Off Mic before all these "A rich simp is better than a "broke alpha" (or whatever) come for you! Lol

It reminds me of Elijah, that year! The rich simp is raising his child now Lol #InsideLife

Altairx440:
Valid,thanks man

You are welcome.

I know the popular red pill trope of "Alpha Bleep ,Beta Bux/cucks" is the one that got you a bit confused. It is still the truth. Traditional alpha cucks (especially the types who give only "provider" vibes to their women over anything else) in marriages are still the same working donkeys for women, as their Beta cuck counterparts.

Altairx440:
Alpha provider??educate me bro

They say being "Alpha" is a mindset and a subset of men especially the traditionally conservative types, fancy themselves as dominant providers "holding frame" in the formal marriage setting.

Being a Beta Provider or Alpha Provider [at some point] is the most thankless job in the world

#StaySingle

ishowdotgmail:
God knows girls no dey use me play. I select who I Dey date sef and friend zone many.

Most time I just imagine some guys without a single girlfriend while I can count 8 to be the ones I’m dating.


Life no balance

The 8 girls don increase money for your account, buy you land or cars, nor improve your business, outside of the personal effort that has been bringing in money for you?

Make I burst your brain small, you and the guys wey no get girlfriends nor different, if u look am deeply. In fact, if those guys wey nor get girlfriend know d kain wahala wey dem escape when compared with the 8 wahalas wey u carry, dem go rush enter church go give testimony.

Man wey still dey celebrate women as im achievement for life no get purpose. No insult directed at you.

SOZINN:
Guy my head has imploded.
I swear
I never see anything for where woman dey
Chai omo
heartofcity12 please keep them coming.
Kai
I'm shocked.

Typical of men, there would always be exaggerations in some of the stories but most are not far from reality. If you have been on the streets, you'll relate with some of these stories. Most women are not different from single ladies to women married to men who treat them comfortably. Even, when I still had some level of blue pill thinking, I would never be caught dead chasing a lady (of this era), or asking her out for dates and formal relationships (I don't give relationship advice on this thread for this and other reasons). In my own personal opinion, formal relationships with this present generation of women are a waste of time. If she doesn't find you sexually attractive to a great extent and chose you, you are playing the game from 2 goals down lol. Girls having sex without regards for the presence of their boyfriends or elsewhere should tell you a lot. Open your eyes to the SEXUAL UNDERWORLD. I'll leave it here #InsideLife

Sadly, most of these men would never learn from these experiences. For some, love is an addictive drug for them. Others would think money is the problem, then they go on to make money (which i recommend) but the money doesn't teach them sense. It only makes them bigger simps. The rest, being obsessed with formal relationships where they are working donkeys for women, would remain unplugged from the matrix.

If you were to meet all the ladies who "scammed" these guys, they will appear as angels not giving a hoeing vibe. Women chose who they want to get down with, and there is only a little men can do in influencing their individual decision. What they tell you doesn't matter here. Women can tell you any bullcrap to get whatever she wants from you. She can agree to date you for six years while in her mind, she knows you are dating yourself but lead you on as the formal relationship-obsessed, sexual game-ignorant fool that you are before she moves on to the guy of her interest.

Zabiboy:

Many people dont know that over 95% of married people feel more alone while being married than they've ever felt all through their life being single...
But as usual, they'll come out and smile to the whole world to make us believe they are having the time of their lives

Zabiboy abeg off mic (at the bolded) before some of our patriarchy champions come for your head

I saw J.Cole play for the Patriots of the Basketball African League (BAL).

Impressive.

There were other Ex-NBA, NCAA and pro-talents present too.