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Martinez39s:
Like play like play, a simp will still commit to that trash.

Especially all these money-miss-road simps who fancy themselves as HIGH VALUE MEN.

Zabiboy:
Note this down here bro...
That girl would still get married...and probably to a guy richer( in finances) than me or you...
It's funny that many people on this thread still think women are the problem...We, Men are our own problems....Thats the pure fact..
Same men would attack ubu.nja( for example) on his threads and still come back to wail...
Same men would try to berate redpillers and then get punished for it...
Women hoe about because they know that Men are so cheap( which is true ) and no matter how damaged they are, they would still get married....
Baby mama's are celebrated for hoeing about but broke guys are castigated even by their fellow niggars too( A man can boast about spending 50k on top pvssy but can't give his fellow nigga a helping hand)...
So anytime you see someone saying women are this and that, just smile because the main truth is that We MEN are the main roots of what women have become

At the bolded, I said it on this thread at the beginning of this year that I would stop pandering to the male victimhood that some guys want to continue to live in. Women will be on their own jeje (seeking for SIMPs, friendzoned betas, attention worshippers), men won't let them be or stay AWARE when dealing with them, then, they get burnt and run back here so that I, BLOODYSPERM, Ubunja, Martinez39s etc will continue be expected to make posts that expose women to make them feel good without them taking any personal decision to better their position in life and with women.

At some point in time hustling in my younger in the middle belt part of the country in environments where promiscuity was rife (a club bouncer), I had a FWB friend who exposed me to her crew of baby mama friends (She was a baby mama herself having kids for 2 different guys). She was 23 at the time. What she told me at the time shocked me but in the light of seeing almost every part of the red pill, I know better now. She told me that to join her crew, you had to be a single mother. All of her crew members were teenage to early 20s baby mamas for guys who were mostly thuggish low lives in the neighbourhood. They were from all part of the country even down to the "sexually-chaste" north west/north east (I know one of them from Katsina State - for those who think women from these parts aren't promiscuous). These girls hustled as "hoes" hunting for guys with money, worshipped the low lives who they had babies for (for free) but would turn around to blame them as dead beat dads whenever they meet SIMPs who don't know the game.

She told me that they all intended to marry at some point in time and i saw a lot of them do (though there was nothing marriageable about most of them). At the moment, my FWB friend, has several men (including men based in europe and asia) on her case with marriage proposals and spending heavily on her (to prove themsleves as rich men) despite knowing that she is all shades of damaged. Personally, I wouldn't allow her stay more than a day in my place. Very nasty, can't cook and clean

Men are thirsty and are the real idealist pretending to be realists. Women are the true realists pretending to be idealists.

Only few things in life are more repulsive to women and beta men than a happy single man!

MGTOW Guys MGTOW!

Zabiboy:
I still don't see why we get worked up about this equality stuff.....
Personally , I'm in full support of equality if it what would open men eyes to see that women are enjoying under the blanket of "Gender inequality"
Anytime me and a few female colleagues are talking about plans for the weekend, they'll mention different places where they are going to enjoy "FREE FOOD AND FUN" of course sponsored by men who think they are superior and so are meant to handle bills....
Now, if you've met/discussed with smart women( who most call gold-diggers) you'll notice that women easily gold-dig men by making them invest( as per they are superior) and most times wont even give anything in return....I'v also discovered that smart ladies now even use men's ego to their advantage that's why ladies now eat their cake and have it despite men claiming to be smart....
Now, imagine you're a male artist and you charge 10M for a show and organisers paid you the 10M, if you go to the show and meet female artists( lower in rank) and you hear they were paid 50M each, should this bother you??
Personally, i think rather than opposing equality, we should just try and make sure we are improving and also getting the value for whatever service we render not minding if "females" are earning equal or better than us
My opinion tho
This is on the financial aspect of equality

Your perspective is always refreshing. You know your stuff.

Before coming across the red pill term, it's been a regular part of me to drop whatever ego thing as it concerns women. As I'm indifferent to them and less concerned about their opinions about me (They would say I'm emotionally "selfish" narcissistic and all).

You can't shame the shameless.

I save my ego for self respect and healthy competition with other men.

ubunja:
Every game has its rules. As long as you play the game according to the rules you're given then you have nothing to worry about. Problem is most guys here are unteachable and refuse to do as they're told. And they'll meet with the same roadblocks and headaches they've been meeting since secondary school. Go up and down this thread and see the anger and bitterness and total negativity about women. Some posts here are so negative you wonder if the poster is even interested in meeting women. It's not how it should be. If you hate women then women will hate you. And your headaches won't stop.

You should understand that some part of the red pill are not meant to go mainstream or be exposed to a lot of men. It's like placing pearls before swines. It either irritates them, confuse them as they don't know what to do with it. Understanding the nuances of sexual attraction in the modern dating scene, eliminating the trick mentality and the mastery of sexual discipline is one I've noticed that it's a bit difficult to internalize by a lot of men.

In my opinion, this thread has progressed so far making it obvious that a lot of men are getting the basic knowledge associated with the red pill. However, we still have some dudes who seem like they are hopelessly stuck in the rage stage of the red pill, perpetual male victimhood and appear comfortable with it. It's a matter of time. They will outgrow it.

atobs4real:
NIGERIA IS SITTING ON A GUN POWDER WAITING FOR EXPLOSION

Country wey don explode unofficially.

Maxymilliano:
Hope they all have their voter's card to correct the mistake in the next elections

Which stupid mistakes are you folks always correcting in the NEXT elections?

Suffer nor dey tire una?

By 2023, you all will vote another idiot into power and start screaming by 2027. After voting in other idiots in 2027, you'll start waiting for 2031 to correct the mistakes till your lives are destroyed.

[quote author=temi1290 post=101701855]Cheating gone wrong

A surprise love call to a lady on a popular radio station turns sour as the lady was heard moaning live in the midst of pleasure with a man..

🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

The Mudder Squad Nigerian Police All Nigerians Rohr Bella Shmurda #Publicfigure journalists#JusticeforHinyHumoren pic.twitter.com/2QbYd7P1eI

— Oluwaseyi Samuel (@Oluwaseyi0208) May 14, 2021

for "lover" boys

BLOODYSPERM:
"My girlfriend has shared a bed with male friends in the past, and I don't care because I'm secure enough in myself and trust her enough to know nothing will happen."

What a foolish Simp

BLOODYSPERM how dare you say that I'm a foolish simp?

I have/ I'm holding frame and I'm rich!

Girls are trooping to my table and with enough money to spend, I can have plenty and change women as much as I want.

Guys, make money so you can have more women than Jeff Bezos and Ned Nwoko!!

WiszyFraud:
Did you know??

Regular exercise changes the way your DNA functions

Explain how Regular Exercise influence DNA function.

As a scientist, I'm curious!

Clowns

GTFOH!

kingthreat:
They are two northerners. Let government start using this NIN thing to trace kidnappers. This is too bad.

"Let government start using NIN.."

If you still believe in, or waiting for the government to help your situation, then, you are a hopeless f**l. No insult intended.

TOPCRUISE:
Despite that I don't know what 2 men see in her. Those 2 that married her are big fools for not keeping to their vows after knowing all these about her

BadBradley:
I am more concerned about the man who married a girl like her in the first palace

You guys, are the only ones who spoke my mind on this thread.

I'm not worried about the travails of a badly behaved, attention-seeking and lousy celebrity slut. She'll always be sent back to the street where she belongs. Olosho wey marry, go temporary vacation.

As a man, my business is with the 2 fools who put up with such a super damaged lady. When it comes to marital risks, Nigerian men go to great lengths just to satisfy their stupid ego, sexual thirst and some outdated societal expectations.

I won't be surprised that there are tons of rich SIMPs out there jostling to marry her despite her poor marriage value and knowing that it will end in tears.

SOZINN:
You should not make fun of other people's viewpoint or say that the word "alpha" is bastardized in the manosphere because it doesn't match your "almighty" definition or that god like figure you have in your head. For those who have trouble defining what an alpha truly is. I suggest you read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi.

You might be surprised to see the people he referred to as alphas.

SOZINN, you should understand better. It's no issue. Things have to be cleared up. Your perspective was understandable and mine came from another angle from which some folks reading may not notice.

I already issued a disclaimer that it's no personal attack nor mockery before someone gets emotionally riled-up.

SOZINN:
Talk about being an alpha

An "alpha" with a "Stripper" for a "Fiance" ? LMFAO

I know "alpha" means a lot of things to different people and I hate using it because it is the most bastardized word in the manosphere.

A rich dude elevating a woman in the business of promiscuity (strippers, porn stars, retired celebrity hoes etc.) who has been fuuckked by many men, which the red pill is totally against, to the status of a "Fiance" in the first place, doesn't appear "alpha" to me (in my own opinion). If she was one of the girls on his sex rotation, I'll understand. She has the hallmarks of a super-damaged lady who can't pair-bond and has a likely hood of divorce-raping him in court when she wants to "cash out". She is for the street.

The only things which I see in the photo shared is that he has "common sense" cutting off the distraction (which most women are) to the wealth-creating ambitions of a man and to the red pill, it's a plus, kicking a hoe back to the streets where she belongs. I'll call him "alpha" if he doesn't bring home another hoe as a "Fiance" or "wife".

On this thread, I know we are at varying levels of understanding of the red pill, but I'll advice that we should thoroughly check whatever memes, photos, screenshots etc before sharing them so we don't pass off the funny and sometimes, ridiculous beta attitudes of rich SIMPs (who most guys consider as alpha) as indication of being red-pilled.

NOTE: This is my exclusive opinion. No attack on anyone.

Jman06:
My own problem is that I am currently struggling with getting attracted to girls! Not that I am gay or something, God forbid! Just discovered that ladies no longer trip me like before! Please, does attraction to the opposite gender decline with time

Like I remember how I used to struggle with my craving for the opposite sex during my late teens and early twenties. But right now, I can't point at any girl that make me go love sick like before. Hope all is still well with me o? I am worried because I may still decide to marry and I wouldn't want to be in a loveless marriage.

It's very normal. It's your brain and body adjusting to the fact that women are not special to you anymore. Now your brain has better priorities above women.

ABANGWABOI:
If I see some dudes wey be so called celebrity for naija wey dey settle at their peak, I go just laugh, especially people like me that love spinning plates, they would settle down (marry) and start cheating on their wives which even brings more issues for them in the marriage and personal life..
It begs the question, how many female so called celebrities in Nigeria settle down at their peak ? Your guess is as good as mine, just a handful of them, check Tiwa Savage, Hemi Alade, Teni, Asisat Oshola, Toke Makinwa, Juliet Ibrahim, Niniola, Seyi Shay, Even the old Rita Dominic, Genevieve etc the list is endless..
The all know that with marriage comes enormous responsibility and sacrifices (ask emmaodet) and don't want to be bothered with such, the prefer to remain single at their peak and enjoy lives (Spinning plates.. Yes women does so too) A certain well to do young man but not a celebrity divorced his actress wife a few years ago and he said categorically that his wife would leave a 4 months or so old baby to go Clubbing, the story went viral then, the issue is, she was still relevant in the social circle and don't want marriage to tie her down and hey, she was the one that initiated the divorce..
Compare Davido and Wizkid recently, and you would found out that ones OBO is spotted with a new girl, people go into frenzy both male and female gender insulting him, reason is because he made chioma a permanent girlfriend and later upgraded her to fiancee, now check Starboy, no matter who, where and when he is seen with a woman, nobody raises eyebrows coz he is much single and in a non committed relationship..
I love OBO songs and stuff but I prefer Wizkid personality..
See as Starboy bash Linda ikeji that time, tell am say em punnani dey smell, say em manager Bleep am come dump am for hotel cos of odour, threaten to send his goons to beat her up, it was then CP Fatai Owoseni of I am not mistaken that called both of them to settle the rift, ever since then both Linda ikeji and other stupid Feminist / bitter women knew that Wizkid is not a kind of dude to mess sound with.. Zero chills like an Alpha Red piller, not taking shots at OBO cos personally I love his songs and a fan of his music, if na Davido he wouldn't have been brutal in his dealing with the situation, he for like form gentleman..so tey some stupid girls come dey accuse am of rape, until he discovered that it would tarnish his image before he reluctantly did the needful and then the girls apologised that they were chasing clout, naso my guy quick quick forgive them and released them from the police..
I remember when one of Wizkid baby mama, I think Bose Ogulu (not sure if na she) wanted to use their child to milk him of money upandan, for Dubai trips, shoppings etc, the news made FP on Nairaland here, despite him been rich he refused to part with his hard earned money for nonsense frivolities, he gave her a reasonable token and ignored her whatsapp messages and she now leaked the chat online still he didn't big, his family told the baby mama that if she can't take care of the baby that she should hand him over to them to raise, naso the matter die.. but if na OBO from my observation, em go sharp sharp pay every Nonsense bill for a baby mama to gallivant around the world, Emmanuel Adebayor did it for Dillish Mattews (former Big brother Africa Winner) and later regretted it and she called him a childish man on IG when Adebayor started moaning that despite his spendings she was not loyal..
The number Alphaness and Redpill is to be STINGY to any woman that is not your wife nor blood sister (helping someone out of philanthropic gesture is not included) if you don't practice this, you be learner..

Personally, I no be celebrity but I no gree make one woman tie me down e come be when I be celebrity, God forbid..
Just like a brother said here, Women wants to settle towards the end of their peak after enjoying life to the fullest (a recent case of Uche Ogbodo, she even bragged on dating Footballers, politicians, celebrities too but at 37 yrs now she wants to settle) while most men settle ones the become settled or strain fame and status, robbing them the chance to enjoy themselves and be left with and old worn-out tasteless woman and if he dares cheat, hell would let loose (a case study of Emeka Ike, you wonder how the heck a young cute man with fame settled with such a woman)
As for me, since I dey naija and e never gynocentric reach oyibo own..
I go Spin plates without commitments..
I just say make I Shalaye small oo..
God bless TRP..

Wizkid's personal/love life is a very interesting one and confirm the opinion I have once shared about observing a man's personal life and his relationship to women he is intimate with over what he says or what he portrays to the public, to confirm his level of understanding of the red pill.

The lyrics of most of his songs are known to be pro-simping and pusssy worshipping but when you compare it with what goes on in his personal life, you'll know he is playing a smart game. I don't know much about him deeply but from what I know so far, he is one of the famous celebrities not known to overtly lavish gifts on, or openly worship the women that he is intimate with. That hasn't stopped him from taking advantage of his high SMV to bang the best of women/sluts around. He is not known to be currently married or cohabiting with a woman or women. You know what that means. Ghost in plain sight just like Leonardo DiCaprio. Very smart bachelors.

Seeeker:
Someone divorced her husband because of me at a time. She's my secondary School classmate. We met 14 years after secondary School and she threw greenlight at me. I responded well but told me she's married. She said she had an eye on me in secondary School. I tried to reject the offer to be close and she refused. I tried all means to ensure we don't meet physically again. She lured me and sex happened. I didn't ejaculate for up to 2 hours despite not using any drug. Even I can't spend up to 30 minutes with my girl. But for this woman, we were on it for up to 2 hours.

Next thing was that she started demanding for 2nd round. She couldn't concentrate on her life again. She sent her younger sister to me to beg me. I refused. She thought divorce would make me see reason to be with her and she divorced the man. She told me she is no longer married. I blocked her on all social media and changed my line. She still found me.

I gave up and satisfied her many more times. She asked for marriage and I told her I can't give that. She flared up. I sometime ago made a thread on nairaland about it, which reached front-page and some said it was a fiction. I deactivated that account though because people were saying I wrecked her marriage intentionally.

Somehow, she became a bornagain or something, and she stopped disturbing me. We are still communicating. She recently remarried. So, something required that she travels to the city where I live and she told me she would try to avoid physical contact with me while in town. I asked why. She said if she sets eyes on me, sex must happen.

You did the best thing avoiding her completely and it also increased her rating of you.

She is your sex "slave" for life. Your sex imprint on her must be very strong.

ABANGWABOI:
Just like someone said..
If the law no potent.. why ladies dey fear DNA test ..
No Cap..

Wahala for men who dey carry love, dating and marriage for head.

Once, your woman has been sexually imprinted by another man over you, it's just a matter of time before he seeks this man (or men).

Women fûck men they are sexually attracted to and marry who can provide. Men would often marry women they are sexually attracted to. Most times, the women don't feel same about them - recipe for later problems in marriages.

One of the reasons I advice men to deal strictly with women they sexually imprint or women who find them sexually-attractive over those who see them as just "providers" (image of the typical middle class/wealthy family man).

Though, it's not entirely fool proof. A hoe will still cheat but it reduces the chances of headaches for the man and paternal fraud.

Martinez39s:
Noted. I will look it up.

She is from Auchi in Edo State.

Regardless, your points are very valid.

angelfallz:
The fact that there is even such a bill is cause for concern. It has even passed the 2nd reading in the house of reps.

They are just getting bolder and making it obvious.

Before now, they have been making these moves in subtle ways that most men are not noticing including those claiming to be red pilled. These subtle techniques are done to PSYCHOLOGICALLY IMPRINT gynocentrism into the sub-conscious mind of men the way, Homosexuality was done in the west by adding homosexual characters into (movies and series from the late 2000s and upwards). Gradually, people started to internalize it and what was repulsive and strange, started becoming normal and acceptable. It's a long term process but highly effective.

For Instance, The Group, Feminist Coalition was in charge of donations for the EndSars protest. On almost all the billboards used, feminist logos was inscribed on them. While it was a good cause to save young men who are mostly victims, Feminist Coalition placed it there because they understand the power of imagery, one known by those in the media and advertising industry. Put the most repulsive image in front of a man for so long, it will start to appear normal to him.

"The Future is Female" inscription on tee-shirts you see a lot of female wear these days may seem harmless or just another feminist fad, but it's passing a bold message and sinking into the subconscious of men, till they started giving in, into the entitlement of these ladies.

It's not a feminist scare. It's just a message for men to open their eyes more. Some of us know where the long game leads to.

Martinez39s:
She is going to be one of the richest women in the world alongside McKenzie Bezos, thanks to divorce.

McKenzie Bezos and Melinda Gates are top dogs. Katherine Mayorga, the club worker ( "packaged" term for club prostitute) that accused Cristiano Ronaldo of rape, and her types are steady cashing out on a low. She just waits for an increase in the paycheck of our alpha top dog, (here, Cristiano Ronaldo), then gets the courts to help her get her own share.

Yahoo Boys (Internet Fraudsters) still dey learn work for where these women dey run street

BLOODYSPERM:
Bill Gates was never an Alpha/ Patriach he's a liberal that pedestalized his wife knowing her history of fvcking around when she was his employee and deciding to settle down with a used Hoe who had more sexual experience and relationships than him , he was to busy building a big corporation than developing an Alpha's frame with regards to women , who ever said said having much money will keep ones marriage, most of the time it's an incentive for women to stay married especially in gynocentric Societies, we work with statistics and facts, divorce data shows the higher the socio-economic status of man in relation with his wife the less likely he his to divorce his wife, equal earning partnership with wife or less earning than wife have the highest chance of divorce at 50% divorce rate where women initiate 75% of the divorce



Bill Gates has always been a bluepilled Simp with Progressive and Egalitarian ideology , He never had frame, he's smart money wise but he knows nothing about women's nature, his Society gynocentric culture clearly has influence over him, Africa and Arab societies are still Patriachal and they value intact family unit even a polygamous household , divorce is a big taboo in such Societies and most western and liberal men and women alike see divorce as normal even so-called traditional conservatives believe that divorce is normal , the govt systematic legislature with regards to alimony, child support, splitting assets even incentives divorce for women as they initiate 75% of the divorce


Just like Dr Dre wife left him regardless of his wealth and fame, same with Bill Gate, both men decided to marry used Hoes with past experience and thought their marriages would last, even Kanye west too experienced the same thing, it's their society that normalizes divorce and encourages men to enter long-term relationship with used Hoes


Rule 1 of redpill
Never marry or save a used Hoe with sexual experience


Bill Gates Never had frame, same with Dr Dre , even Kanye west, they are good with money but never understood women's nature ,all settled down with used Hoes, They were never Alpha's, They were just smart business men who didn't know their worth and settled for an equalist partnership with their wives thinking that by divorcing them they are showing love and respect and treating her like a decent human being with rights since most women in Western gynocentric Societies see marriage as an oppressive patriarchy , marriage is no longer a sacred institution in western societies


Bill Gates has always been a bloody white knight even in his marriage

All you said about Bill Gates is probably true but you didn't touch on the first line of my comment you quoted.

PUA, hard patriarch, blue pill, player, marrying a woman with less body count/virgin etc won't save you when the courts help her to deep into your pockets. Being a man with such a high SMV makes you a bigger target by the system. Bill should know better from the experiences of other men in his social class. I'm not against holding frame when engaging with society etc. It is a necessity for a man going somewhere with his life to hold frame. All i'm saying is that men should look at the bigger game - future consequences. Giving the government power to certify your relationship with a woman is playing a loser's game. You already lost before the match started. If the red pill doesn't give you sense as a man, Red Pill 2.0 will. Though some like Nicolas Cage will never learn. In 5 marriages, love is still his drug of addiction.

Bill Gates will pull out of this and even earn much better but it's not the same story for every man. For every Bill that manages to get back up, there are 100s of men who would never get back up, financially and emotionally.

The men protecting lives over pusssies are no fools.

MJBOLT:

It's a reason I don't envy half of these dude "saving" hoes every Saturday.

Make I "burst"people head here, "small". It may sound controversial to the religious folks around here but if you have an open mind, you'll get the crux of my point.

Some, who run to their religious leaders who they greatly admire to pick girls for them (in marriage) would likely be given girls that these religious leaders are tired of banging. The same girls get rewarded for spreading their legs for these religious leaders under the guise of "prophecies " "miraculous anointing" or "working for God". The man who is the admirer of this religious leader is the fool who is being played. These religious leaders would often sponsor the marriage while continuing with his banging escapades.

#InsideLife

ikillbrokegirls:
Bill and Melinda Gates say they are getting divorced after 27 years of marriage, saying "we no longer believe we can grow together as a couple".

If I say M****, them "earn more money" and "hold frame" folks, go say we "too talk".

So much for making more money and holding frame.

#RedPill2.0

luminouz:
You have made points bro

I'll talk on this "value", subsequently. Though a lot of this stretch into the PUA/Gaming women aspect of the red pill. It would be a little extension of what Ubunja/Harddon has talked about on this platform, already.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe....


my anger here is this....


up to 10 people have complimented her...


yet e no do am....



she still dey find my mouth...

You don't understand the "effect" of the "drug" that "attention" means to ladies. Even, aging don't affect it that much (some grandmas still use make up/filters to appear younger).

"Attention" has the same "currency value" as money to women but the truth is that, this "currency value" means that you'll be "relegated" to the "friendzone" level like the tons of other beta simps/orbiters around her. The "simp/orbiters" who would get a "taste" of her would have to have "simping value" as "wealthy providers" on the short term (packaged prostitution disguised as dating,) or in the long term (as marriage or cohabitation). The dudes getting her coochie for free or "close" to free is probably not in the list of those giving her these compliments. They may even, be tired of her already wishing that some simp take her away quick.

Knowing what your "value" is to every woman in your life who has no blood relationship to you is very important.

ABANGWABOI:
Na her type dey shout men are scum for Nigeria..
E dn reach for yankee see say nobody get em time.. unlike men for here always pussy worshipping..
As a black woman.. White men no get your time, they see you as sub human and below them.. Black Americans/Canadians despise and hate you.. while fellow Nigerian (men) avoid you.. (who wants to be with a woke, vengeful and feminist woman in a gynocentric society) ..
What she is experiencing is what most of them are experiencing.. some ladies in the he comment section said that it seems they would marry in Nigeria before leaving coz their chances of getting partners abroad is minute.. lol

Babe nor know wetin dey sup.

Though other variables dey involved like economic factors, social factors (Canadians like most part of the "cold" west have a high "individualistic" culture), etc, Canada has a high number of men avoiding permanent relationship with women. The laws go wreck ur life if u nor "package well" as a man using ur big head instead of ur foolish dick. Only Australia and Japan come close. You either see men avoiding marriage/cohabitation totally (going monk), having baby mamas or hide under SERIAL MONOGAMY" where they "spin" or "simp" plates in "marry-and-divorce" arrangements pretending to be "traditional conservative patriarchs. Only a few are lucky to end up with wives who are " manageable" on the long term and they include couples who are immigrants from conservative backgrounds like Asia (Indians and Arabs) and Africa to some extent.

TheUndercover:
Thank you so much Boss! with this explanation, we can say the "far too much" in the statement can also mean a woman who's experienced in a negative way, not a virgin and the likes, right?

Yeah. Sure.

The author of the quote is known to share traditionally conservative views concerning marriage.

TheUndercover:
“A man will teach his wife what is needed to arouse his desires. And there is no reason for a woman to know any more than what her husband is prepared to teach her. If she gets married knowing far too much about what she wants and doesn’t want then she will be ready to find fault with her husband.” - Barbara Cartland.

Skepticus, Martinez39s, CaveAdullam, or anyone, please I need more explanation of this quote.

The quote is the foundation on what a healthy traditionally-conservative relationship/marriage is built on.

A man should be firm in leadership when it comes to relationship with his complementary but submissive partner. When the man fails in this, by not providing adequate leadership in the relationship, letting his woman get away with bad behaviours, or letting her indulge in pleasures and freedom over responsibility in the name of being "woke" or "liberal", he sets himself up for disrespect and even, marital failure.

A woman who can't be submissive to the sensible leadership that a man brings, radiating masculine vibes (lacks feminity) or being exposed to post-modernist liberal and feministic ideas (which is "knowing far too much " ) is "chaotic" and most likely, be a disaster in permanent relationship with a man who seeks a complementary, submissive partner.

SOZINN:
Vetted woman or Unicorn contradicts AWALT.
but okay
No arguments

SOZINN, you do mix things up quite a bit and I understand that it's not done with a malicious intent. Your red pill awareness is undoubtable.

AWALT is an indisputable fact of the red pill, no doubt. However, like I always say, it stops no man from marrying if they want to, but AWALT makes them understand what they are getting into. How they end up, is of no relevance to you, personally, EXCEPT learning from their experiences whether negative or positive. There are pros and cons to whatever every step everyman choose to take after swallowing the red pill. It depends on what every man what for himself.

That doesn't stop you from expressing your red pill "bias". If it's done within sane, mature and respectful language, even those who don't fancy your ideas will still agree with you.

For me, any form of legal engagement with a woman (backed by government) makes absolutely no sense to me, but if a brother who has swallowed the red pill, decides to go to Ikoyi marriage registry to legally pair with his woman of interest (knowing the risks) who am I to stop or discourage him?

Choose your "POISON" carefully!