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[quote author=MJBOLT post=103164944][/quote]MJBOLT, permit me to put this where it's "necessary".

https://www.nairaland.com/6622807/polyandry-outcry-over-south-africas

Ubunja, it seems SA's rising matriarchy you talked about is about to be formally legalized.

King Shaka must be rolling in his grave right now.

IronGalaxy:
I as a South African does not support this decision

SA has been growing in matriarchy in recent years. The usually conservative and hyper patriarch Zulus are now lowering their standards to be "woke" and liberal. King Shaka must be rolling in his grave now.

The future would be interesting to watch.

sweet7oyin:
Women don't have the power because they are looking for or sleeping with powerful men.
That has happened since the beginning of time and men still had the power.

Men did not lose the power because they saw women for only their sexual benefits
Since the beginning of time men have seen women like that and still had the power.

Infact the more powerful a man is the more women he had for just his sexual pleasure check the bible and quran.

Men have stopped seeing themselves as the prize and have started simping more like begging girls to be with them and also by dealing with girls that have low interest in them.

Now talking about the brotherhood you are right.
But feminism is actually a negative to girls and women especially in the west(United States)

Most women about 1 in 4 women are on antidepressants
Most women are single and even reported highest rate of sadness
Infact as feminism has grown women have become less happy.


Actually a man should have his money and know that the women just come to compliment and the big part of that is sex and yes that same sex you can get it from any woman.
There is no chosen woman that would give you more than sex actually.
Cause when you start telling a woman about your problems she starts to complain in the longrun just watch acrimony.
Thats why men should be self sufficient and all.


When you get to a point that your value is evident and you don't see a woman more than sex and sometimes for feminine care.
You become very attractive to them and they don't joke with you Eg wizkid davido and the likes

In summary
Men did not lose power because they are dealing with less valuable women
They lost power because they stopped being the prize and started making women the prize.

Thanks

Valid points.

At the emboldened above, understand that women (of today) are not "single" in the way men understand and experience "singleness". Women are never "single" in the true meaning of the word. Their singleness is a big scam.

I understand what you are driving at, though.

hakym619:
At one glance, it seems that the verse is saying to eliminate all religions and establish Islam only, but that is completely contradictory to the following verses:

“Had your Lord so willed ˹O Prophet˺, all ˹people˺ on earth would have certainly believed, every single one of them! Would you then force people to become believers?” (Quran 10:99).

Therefore do remind, for you (Muhammad) are only a reminder.You are not a watcher over them; (Quran 88:21–22).

There is no compulsion in religion (Quran 2:256).

Say,... “ To you your religion, to me my religion” (Quran Chapter 109)

8:39 is saying to strive until they are not persecuted or driven away or continuously attacked and until they can practice their religion “entirely” (all 5 pillars) without fear. And this verse was applicable for the time period the prophet Muhammad was present

Your "taqqiya" is admirable but be aware that we see through it all.

Good luck to these jihadists. They are the true Muslims.

MJBOLT:

that girl is a cold blooded killer,"murder through stabbing" is a crime of passion.
The man probably had plans to dump her or wasn't giving in to her demands,she got angry and stab him to death then decided to withdraw his money. I've seen this scenario play out dozens of times on ID Discovery and the crime channel

The girl looks like one that has been on the "street" so long to be "down for anything". Don't let the teenage, innocent look or age fool you. Some of these young broads have dick mileage longer than a lagos "danfo" bus. She may have suffered abuse very early in life "toughening" her up for the street. There could be a lot of motives for her action but I highly doubt "passion" being a part of it. A lot from her body demeanour and actions after the murder, gave her out.

That's Chidinma's photo attached. Pure Street Hustler.

Jerry59:
@ the bolded

I’m not saving anybody... they need to go through those heartbreaks themselves. Hopefully they find TRP in their quest for solution

The worst of men to "advise" is a man "in love" (single or married). They are terrible and more miserable than women in love. They'll snitch and throw you under the bus for any reason just to be in good books of the pusssy. Be cautious of your dealings with this type. Advise them better when they are out of love, facing a break up, or common-sense aware (since some men are now subtly avoiding the term, Red Pill like there's a big deal about it).

Trex4:
https://www.nairaland.com/6619085/chidinma-ojukwu-how-stabbed-michael

The thing scaring me apart from the murder is that she still went ahead to withdraw money from his account after killing him. It takes a certain mindset to do something like that.

They always say a simp and his money are soon parted, but with the worst of all skanks, a simp may also part with his life. There could be more to this story than the public confession the slut made and it's unfortunate that a life was lost in all of it. As the case gets to the court, more would be revealed with time. I'll give my opinion based on the information out at the moment.

The lesson to learn is that a simp(s), mind-altering drugs and a prostitute (or prostitutes regardless of age who need to be very masculine and aggressive/violent to survive on the streets) are usually a bad mix with stories that never end well. Having worked in such settings, i know what these "hustling" girls are capable of doing from robbing clients to setting them up for murder. A lot of them have cultist (street gang) affiliations and also diabolical.

The worst, was allowing a street-hardened hoe access to your money (typical of Nigerian SIMPs trying to show off) when she could get you robbed/killed for the money or get her criminal counterparts (often males) to do the job for her. I just hope guys in the "regular" habit of picking hoes (and their immature, idiotic counterparts on nairaland fond of boasting about, and posting pictures of their dirty hookers) learn from this. If "street" no dey "smile", know say these girls nor get "joy".

My happy take out of the whole issue is that a high achieving simp has "probably" been saved from a lot of problems in life if he had ended up "saving" this super-damaged hoe when she is ready to "settle down", the romance section of nairaland also "saved" from horrible and annoying stories like "wife stabbed husband to death" "Help me! my wife changed few months after our marriage" etc

SOZINN:
Is this how South African women test their men.

Good one from the dude.

Craze people! Dem think say na every man be mind reader.

How I go dey wait money, wait Jesus, still dey wait smelly vagina matter?

Say u dey meet mumu men wey no get sense, dey carry vagina matter for head nor mean say all of us na the same #ekpa

Emotionss:
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When a woman is desperate for commitment from a man, she pretends to be feminine, submissive and supporting. Na when she succeeded in wining your commitment that is when you will begin to see her true colors gradually.

Before you know you go open topic for Nairaland on how your loving submissive wife/girlfriend have changed all of a sudden and how she is making your life unbearable.

at the bolded

BLOODYSPERM:
#Bluepilled Alpha
#Redpilled Beta
#Masculinity

I did reprimand a brother for this. Very valid.

While the red pill often discuss men's relationship with women and the society in general, there is a lot about the dwindling "masculinity" leading to subsequent "pussification" of human males, that is often ignored. I won't let this "escape" me.

Martinez39s:
Dr Boyce Watkins would be proud of him.

CaveAdullam:
Better than Game of Thrones?

I won't say it is but like game of thrones, it's filled with red pill truths from the angle of poverty-stricken streets of black america. In fact, most of the cast (characters) were from the poverty-stricken, crime prone neighbourhood of Baltimore, Maryland. Most were not professionals but "raw" actors/actresses (some were ex-convicts).

If you are rooted in hiphop, you'll find it interesting. I came across it in 2009. You need to see it.

ubunja:
you remember that MariaLavina debacle! Lol. That was a turning point in the movement.

I "respect" her tenacity in fighting against nairaland red pill when it started. Same for some of the popular feminists (some were moderators). These female folks were quick to notice what the miseducations and other red pill related thread would do to liberate men. There is still a lot of simping out there but the awareness is being created. In the west, MGTOW is becoming a more alarming phenomenon. Men are dumping the "formal dating" and "legal marriage" for good, making them less exploitable by the "system". Corporations that were built on the backs and support of men who were trying to play "woke" by shaming men are getting it hot (Remember Gillette, and the Marvel Studios). Future events will be interesting. I hope I'll be alive enough to witness the massive change coming.

Martinez39s:
I remember travelling to my home town earlier this year. Even in Ibo towns, hardly does anyone frowns on a girl marrying as a non-virgin. The standard has dropped.

It's the same in other regions of the country. Old traditions, in some parts of the south west (as I'm aware), older women were always there to confirm the virginity of a fully betrothed female. Where it was confirmed that she was not a virgin, she was returned back to her father's house and her family ridiculed. Now, you have teenage girls popping out babies for men who are not responsible while waiting (when older) for guys who have hustled hard to get their shiit together (Dual Mating Strategy). The ones who don't have babies have multiple abortions. I won't blame anyone on this as there are a lot to blame (that's a talk for another day). Women are adapting to their new freedoms, I'm adapting equally. Others can do what they "wish" about it and I'm in full support if it is, for the benefit of men.

DeusMagnus:
thank you for putting that guy in his place. He's been enjoying the disorderliness in the house under the guise of sarcasm. Feminine traits.

Women (mostly young and middle-aged) enjoy drama and love to stir it up. Sometimes, they bring this "drama" to their men and if the man isn't "masculine" enough to put her in place (passing the shiit test), she will make his life miserable and later disrespect him for being "weak". Where they can't do that, they seek for it in watching movies, and reality TV shows.

I'm seeing an increasing number of men (who are typically betas) engage in this bitchy antics of "enjoying" or "hanging around" drama and it gets very annoying, seeing matured males behaving like gossiping market women seeking for attention.

In my opinion, a man is better off stirring "drama" in his lady (to excite her natural urge for chaos that can lead to sexual attraction) than doing that in male groups. The feminine vibe is much on this one.

Itzlinda:
I don't think Nigeria has any cultural instinct any more. We lose it all the moment we normalise premarital sex and other vices..

We also give women so much freedom. Women and freedom don't mix together. They must certainly abuse it.

Tbh there is great sense to Islamic position towards men.

Sometimes sexual urges are very hard to control by both genders.

Prophet Muhammad s.a.w said 3 matters should never be delayed..
3 matters should not be delayed:

•prayer when it's time comes.
•burial when the funeral has arrived
•the marriage of a single woman when a well-suited man has proposed.

f we begin marry off this girls at once they are in their prime 17-20, the level of hoesm and olosho would greatly reduce.

The last paragraph is true but the real question in reality is that: Can it be achieved at a high rate by this present society who frowns on it as "archaic"?

Even the so called "religiously conservative" parts of the country are gradually relaxing their "cultural standards" that have typically controlled women's innate hypergamous tendencies over centuries and woman's natural conditioning has taken over. The disastrous results may vary depending on the region but its effects are visible everywhere.

Calibrator:
I am presently studying and really enjoying the silent power play on this thread.



Will the New boys usurp the Old blocs who built the Republic?

Or Will the Republic cease to exist before power will change hands due to the unwanted interference by exiled dissenters?

Perhaps the Republic will implode from within due to infighting amongst the Old blocs?


Time will tell

I don't think anyone is here for "power play" like some of you in your "feminine" element (craving for "drama" or "entertainment" ) that litter nairaland, always do. Sadly, it's mostly guys (confirmed male monikers) you find engaging in this type of nonsense (gossiping included) on every thread (creating multiple monikers) and hiding under "just joking" or "sarcasm".

The issue in question is common to forums that discuss the red pill. In fact, both views are right depending on a lot of factors. There is nothing new. In the end, everyone will pick what works for him.

I'm a big fan of "arguments" like this, as long as it is related to men issues (political, sexual etc). If there is truly a power play, there is always a lot to learn from both sides and they have been respectful in articulating their views. Your "business" should be picking what suits you (or disregarding all if you are not into it) than going about "egging" for power play "dramas" like girls in a sorority room.

SOZINN:
The patriarchs who are doing what is requisite/mandatory to rebuild civilization are the same men who are raising other people's children. It is what it is.
Anyways, these patriarchs and those players are to blame. They coerced women into adultery.

aysuprano:
Let me tell u my story

Around last year my girl broke up with me

We had a very serious relationship but she say she dey go

While dating I had no reasonable job and no apartment for my self

We meet at friends place to knack

After she left , I had to sit down and restructure my life

Now I have a manageable job

I have a standard apartment with all necessary gadgets

I have a running business and I'm living a very good life

Makes me really think this relationship thing can change ur thinking and the direction ur life goes

She has no blame here. As a matter of fact, she did you a great favour by leaving you, which in the end, made you step up and not be a broke "nackson".

GIANTPLUSHUB:
So many benefits of being single but don't get carried away with the benefits and stay beyond the single Life after allowing good and great girls slip off your fingers due to your carelessness. Remember, you can't stay single for Life.

There are still good girls out there. Just have the belief you Will meet One and don't mistake the quality of a good girl to a bad girl when you meet the good girl so that you don't miss or loss the good girl.

There are "good" girls out there (whatever good means). Only few guys will be extremely lucky to have them. It's tears for the rest of men who will be married to these useless leftovers.

Being single has its own downsides but most men who don't get married are not missing a thing, not getting married, except tons of problems.

Jessepaid:
to hehehe...


Bella Thorne's case is just bonkers


Men still pay for some over used, washed out, bleeped out Hollywood pvssy...


It's bollocks

The "uncontrollable" thirst for vagina that you call bollocks is what some men like Timothy Stokely (creator of onlyfans), Leonid Radvinsky (creator of myfreecams who also has a stake in onlyfans), the Nigerian creators of codedruns are using to make a killing. Martinez39s called it "digital pimping".

It's an era of hook up culture and cheap sex everywhere. Entrepreneurs should start looking in that direction as a significant number of the human male population would go any length, even at the risk of poverty and their lives just to get laid with a worthless pusssy.

The simp who feels proud in his paying of 15k for a bloowjob will be a valuable "client" to be tricked out of his money.

MetalJigsaw:
"She arrived at my hotel room and we bargained and agreed on 15k for the Mouth Action and it was worth it".

- An idiot from the so called Ashawo beer parlor thread. What a stupid thread.

I kept seeing folks mentioning that stupid thread and decided to see what its all about and got disappointed.

I've never been to that thread and once I got in that BS was what I stumbled on.

Full grown ass simps feeling fly at fooling themselves Wasting money on worthless hoes.

What is 15k to an alpha OG? That's the red pill, bro. He must be beta. He should have paid more like 100k.

Make that money and spend it on 'em bitches.

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm........ You are right. It is not our fault though. The african tradition trained men to love their women, support nd train them so that in turn, they will be able to train your children well since women are always the one with kids 75% of the time while men are out struggling to bring food home but things are fast changing and the average man is very rigid to change.

The keyword is CHANGE. Female animals (including human females) are highly adaptive to any change that the society brings. Men create some of these changes. The problem is that men are finding it hard to understand and adjust to recent changes in the intersexual dynamics. It is sad.

Kolena:
Some guys come here with the sole aim of derailing this thread, and the best way to overcome them is by not replying them. Trust me, this works. Most of them start by making a comment or asking a question, and when given a reply, they find unnecessary faults in your comment. If you decide to reply them, unnecessary arguments ensue from there. Once you notice this, the best thing to do is to snub, or make a comment and give a hint that that will be your last.

Exactly.

Tons of these guys be radiating strong feminine energy like hoorny sluts. Just like ladies, they love drama, and love to get others involved in their silly dramas. They are everywhere on the internet. Nairaland is no exception.

No wonder they struggle to get women or make firm decisions as men. Forget the "alpha" posturing that some of these guys claim. In fact, if a man tells you he is alpha, the translation to me is that you are beta trying to hide your weakness. I snub these types like fools in real life so it's never hard for me to do on the internet which is anonymous.

Ignoring them is a power move for only a few who understand social games. I see it happen a lot in life. Where you can't totally avoid them, crush them wholly or manipulate them to your advantage.

ubunja:
good suggestion bro. But the miseducations have reached their end. I hear you though.

I'm posting elsewhere now and it's no longer articles. It's a fresh start somewhere else.

You have tried with the miseducations. Anyone (regardless of age and life experiences) who has a functioning brain and an open mind should be able to understand the miseducations and work with what part of them suit their lives.

You need to put a copyright and demand some form of financial commitment as you advance in the miseducations (which I observe that a lot of guys are struggling to comprehend). With financial commitment, people are more likely to take it serious. What is freely available will often be undervalued and even ridiculed, over time - avoid "see finish".

Martinez39s:
Thanks for the correction. I should have ignored J2281 from the start. As for Born2winñx, I thought I had settled with him to ensure no hard feelings on either side and that we moved on amicably; little did I know that he still had hard feelings and ulterior motives, and he kept roping me in with the J2281 issue. I was replying him at first, thinking he was speaking in good faith until it became apparent, after many post, that he was actually still butt hurt from our past argument and he was desperately trying to paint me in a bad light: from a proud person with god complex fishing for followers, to a man comparable to a white supremacist, to an egoistical bully.

In retrospect, I think he is just an emotional narcissist from the ashewo thread who was assliçked there (he said he is a celebrity there), and his feelings and ego were hurt in the past arguments when we opposed him and didn't give him the same treatment. Though he may deny it, he is trying so hard to shit of the red pill and redpillers, especially those he thinks are the leaders and prominent figures. You can see what he childishly wrote to you, you know he is up to no good and I am sure you won't honor him with a response. He is now here for petty power play so at to hijack this thread and be its new leader and establish his fan base and massage his god complex which he projected on me.

Whatever his personality is, or whatever thread he comes from doesn't matter now. Why should you give a f**k about what he thinks of you in the first place when it has no limiting effect on you? Can you control what a fool decides to type on his mobile or phone or computer?

After the "logical" responses (which isn't bad in itself) to him, has he changed anything or stopped him from continue, riling you? I've been shamed with everything imaginable since I started commenting on red pill threads on nairaland. Even a clown here, said his sister is a whoore. Do you think replying "logically" will change the mindset of a man already filled with oestrogens? Absolutely not. A frigging waste of my valuable time.

Your contribution to this thread about all that concerns the red pill has been valuable. Even those who troll you knows this. Would they agree with you? Of course, not. Since what they do has no effect on you physically, continue to do what you do and leave the fools to do what they do best which is fooling around. This lesson is also valuable for you to deal with and ignore distractions in real life. A lot of men dealing and messing their lives up, with too much needless drama and trash that is better ignored.

Drenimarcus:
I will like to seek your opinions on this. I was with a friend yesterday. We talked about lots of stuffs and eventually our talk ended with women.

Where does the red pill stands regarding chivalry? My friend is a part time simp, only takes the pill when he is hurt and currently drooling over an almost 30 year old right now.

Thanks guys.

CHIVALRY IS DEAD and women killed it.

Save your Self, Black Man.

NYCnextStop:
I appreciate your courage to put this out here. My uncle in his mid 50's married a 24 year old virgin after he tried saving a hoe in her 30's in his first marriage, which eventually ended in tears. They are happily married and he has always admonished i never make same mistake he did

There's a reason why she is in her 30's single( pls don't ask me why). Life is unfair and don't go about saving hoes. Focus on you.

Similarly I have an aunty that i love so much but single in her late 30's. I see her only hope is to end up with a loser (it is what it is) but wish her the best

Thanks bro, I never want to share details of my personal experience and just stick to talking red pill but in light of a lot of bullshiit being thrown around, I'm taking great "risk" in letting them out just to show that what we say here are not just "theories" as some ignoramuses think it is, but it's a confirmation of what we see and experienced.

I remember some months back, on this thread, when a brother was trying to shield his "hoeing" female friend on this thread (she was dating, fucking and "billing" 3 men and probably more, at the same time - clear LovePeddler). I remember telling him that I still have good female buddies who are actively riding the carousel and I playfully call them "hoes" which they are. They are also aware that I would never pick them for a long term relationship or marriage seeing that they are skanks who cannot pair-bond.

I've grown above the childish feeling of guilt. I've seen a lot in life and I just tell it like it is but still keep an open mind to learn from others. Your uncle is smart.

MJBOLT:

if Ned can do it,so can we

To think that a 60+ year old man (Ned Nwoko) has to "teach" this to clueless boys of today, this, is an embarrassment to young men.

Only today, will you see a young millionaire/billionaire between the ages of 15 and 40 "brag" about "officially" dating a stripper or a porn star. Of all the best of women, your high SMV could afford you, all you could think of "officially" dating is the "public toilet" of other men?

Martinez39s, u too talk. A post to 3 posts of any moniker is enough to know if they are sensible or are just here to TROLL. You have no control over a troll on this open platform. Just ignore or click the "report" button to remove their comments. All these your logical "over-shalaye" is putting this trolls exactly where they want you and making you look like an hypocrite since others look up to you. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing to reply but be smart to know what the moniker is all about and abort mission once you notice they are here to clown or seek attention. Once, I reply you in a long comment, I make it known that it is my last time engaging you and it ends there. Any other thing you say is happily ignored till you begin to make a fool of yourself.

I post what I think is relevant to this thread. Aside for the few corrections that may be made to my opinion, I hold no responsibility for how you feel.

MJBOLT:

a 30 year old virgin??
I don't know about others but for me,women who are 30 and above are a no for me ,I would rather take my chances with younger ladies.

36 year old dude married my youngest sister who was 21, some years back in her 3rd year in a State University. The dude, who was financially well-off was willing to spend his life just to wife her (and he did). I struggled to understand his obsession with my younger sister at the time, till he told me (some days before the wedding ceremony) that she met her a virgin - a rare treasure among Nigerian ladies. His parents (my in laws) are always in contact with (and serving) my parents. It's crazy. Meanwhile, my other sister who rode the carousel didn't settle for the "best" of man in marriage. She didn't tell me directly but you could tell from close observation of her family life that she is just "managing" the loser who saved her.

SOZINN:
Ah, local man cannot anymore.

Una wey dey give "relationship and dating advice" dey really try.

The stories I know will come up from many guys who don't understand women and the dating game, might make me loose my cool and beat sense into some guys head with a 2X2 plank.

I know we all have our simping past, and I'm not trying to mock guys who simp to very annoying levels, but you just can't help wondering if some guys never had any form of male guidance in their life when you hear the ridicule and bullcrap they do with women and tolerate from them. The other day, I saw you and Martinez39s advising a brother who came up with the line "I love this girl. She told me to touch her ass, not her boobs. She allows another guy touch the two" bla bla bla i just knew the "dating advice" thing was not for me.

I can not can. If you were a younger relative of mine and told me that story, I go first smack that your head before we continue with the conversation. Lol *Just Joking*