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kongolo:
*A man in love is incomplete until he has married.Then he is finished*

*My late uncle used to say, "Married men live longer than single men but married men are a lot more willing to die*

*Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out a fish*

*The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret*

*A wedding is a funeral where you smell your own flowers*

Humorous but filled with very deep truths.

Every married man can relate with all or one of this.

ObinnaValentine:
Aswearugawd.. especially the fact that na only ur mama and sister(s) wey love you unconditionally

Even sometimes mothers and sisters "love" can be manipulative i.e unconditional but in most cases, they are the only females that can give close to what is called love, to men.

okoroemeka:
docile,been bitten by that gaboon viper is one of 1000 ways to die,next time you see one say hello and Pat the head,let's see if you will not die before coming out from the bush.

"Docile" lol.

Maybe he meant sluggish.

Gaboon viper wey kill my friend uncle for Abia earlier this year at his farm.

Rgade:
You can under rate a king Cobra but don't put the Mamba and "just" in the same sentence
The Mamba is aggressive but he certainly doesn't bluff.
The Mamba's venom kills in minutes bro,and they strike so many times they ensure that time is reduced even further

Mambas no dey bluff ooo

I've seen two different videos of king cobras in India giving a "dry" bite (venom-less threat) which it does by throwing its body forward and swinging its head at the larger threat (humans) but never opening its mouth but will bite when the threat doesn't move away.

Black mambas no get time. Na bite straight if u nor clear road for am.

Priapus69:
I thought the Boomslang was the most venomous?

Edit: I've searched it

Boomslang is venomous and kills a lot of people in Africa. The Gaboon viper is a terror too. It's an ambush predator that can lie for up to 9 hours under dead leaves and plantation waiting for prey to come by. It is sluggish and avoids humans though but would often strike in self defence when humans step close to it. It has the longest fangs of any snake in the world.

The inland taipan of Australia has the deadliest venom but it's a very shy snake that avoids biting and stays far away from human dwellings unlike its aggressive cousin, the coastal taipan.

The venom will literally "freeze" (coagulate) your blood in 5 seconds. Researchers are working on the venom to be able to use it in stopping massive bleeding in accident victims.

majamajic:
This is normal lazy unharmful python

If the venom of they "unharmful python" enter your blood system, if you survive above 25 minutes, then God specially came down to save you.

CaveAdullam:
This time around, the simps were quick to checkmate. However, stealthily, some simps will still expect a rejuvenated Mia Khalifa nudes and will be plundered. And you said a simping fiance is about walking her down the aisle?

As for the hoe, she got a simping government behind her and might probably come out victorious---eat the cake and have it back.

Who the f^ck pays for the cow when the milk is free?

Hahahaha

Just found out he did. Lol

Forget about the hopeless SIMPs, they are still the ones to loose

baiaon:
From Laycon and Erica
To Erica and kiddwaya
Ozo and Nengi
Dorathy and ozo(the simp did not understand the signals being sent his way or he wasn't interested)
To the very start of the show,Lilo and Ozo(the simp ignored her)

I hope the dude learns early. So far, he doesn't appear to me, to have learnt much from his experience in the house. There is nothing to worry about though. If e nor listen to men, women go show am shege and teach am lesson including marriage.

That's why I always advice guys who think that only Looks, Money and Status does it all, to look beyond it and add alpha/red pill traits discreetly to make the sexual game less stressful for them. Kiddwaya is a case study. Even, when he left the house, dude still maintained his frame and was discrete in talking much about their sexcapades (Nigerian guys can be very loud when they get a girl manages to sleep with them). With his looks money and status with dominant masculine traits, Erica will worship him for life whether they get married or not. He can always get her to do what he wants without much effort. That alpha value status is forever sealed.

Ozo had the looks, potential money and status over the average guy but had no dominant frame making him come off as creepy, weak, desperate and annoying even to his female admirers. With the camera on, people can pretend to be what they are not but when the cameras are off, we all know what gets down. The Nengi girl being touted as "chaste" would go down dirty on Kiddwaya (the signs were there), if there were no cameras. Forget the bullshît talk about having a serious boyfriend outside.

It's ignorance of TRP and game that makes some guys put themselves in difficulty. For instance, you see a guy gets chosen by a girl with clear signs, instead of the dude to take control of the situation and lead (as women naturally expects men to), he spots the signals, then go on to start begging (note the word, Beg) for date, relationship or that crap called love. The thing pisses the girl off and shuts him down immediately in disgust. Others tolerate his betaness and use him for free meals and other bills. Then dumps him when a better male comes on.

4gunners:
I wish all guys can read this thread.

My girl is given me attitude cos I didn’t allow her to open ATM on my head. As an Oyel worker , she is expecting flow of cash like that of dasuki gate. This is someone I started dating not too long ago. I will always say this, these girls ain’t loyal, it’s about the money they will collect. She acccused me of always doing the opposite she tells me. Worst part is that, she doesn’t know how to appreciate.

Girls here that feel entitled to their partners money should have a rethink. Until you tie the knot, that guy doesn’t owe u anything.

Relationship should never be one sided.

If you are still in that slavery you call a relationship, you better end it as soon as possible. From the little you have described, you are not loved and to make it worse, she is not appreciative of the things you have done for her. Trust me, you'll spend the rest of your life trying to please her, even in marriage, and it will never be enough. God forbid, you lose your job or shit hits the fan, you'll know that the only woman or women that love you is your mum and sister. Street nor get joy. Soulmates are a big lie.

YEBOmadiba:
Groups of protesters have demanded more stringent immigration laws while marching through South Africa's capital city of Pretoria directing their anger at African immigrants.

Under the banner of #PutSouthAfricansFirst, small groups of people marched from Church Square to the Nigerian Embassy.

They said government has failed to put South Africans first and have called for the mass deportation of illegal immigrants as well as the revoking of grants and other state benefits.

Various organisations including South Africa First and “Only One SA” have handed over a memorandum of demands at the Nigerian Embassy following a march through the Pretoria CBD.

Action for change’s Nandi Gachwari said their demands were clear.

“We demand an end to human trafficking in Pretoria and, broadly, South Africa; the deportation of all illegal immigrants; the exposure of corruption in flawed Home Affairs processes that grant citizenship to undeserving foreign nationals.”

High Commissioner Kabiru Bala said while he accepted the memorandum, it was unfair that only Nigerians should be blamed for South Africa’s social and economic ills.

The organisations vowed to return to the streets if their demands were not met.

https://ewn.co.za/2020/09/23/unfair-that-nigerians-blamed-for-sa-s-social-ills-says-high-commissioner-bala

I understand the Nigerian part but Zimbabweans?

I don't get it.

The Thebeles (northern ndebele Zulu cousins), Sothos, Tswanas, Mfengus (Xhosa cousins) etc have their origins in SA and are domiciled in both countries. Maybe it is the non-nguni shonas. It's crazy.

Anyway, I've always seen Zimbabwe as a cultural extension of Bantu Mzansi. I may be wrong.

IronGalaxy, XhosaNostra, Ubunja I'd love to know your opinions on these.

Ethnic dynamics in Southern Africa is one that I have been very curious about.

baiaon:
Exactly.As goodlooking as he is,he was still simping because of his ignorance of the game.A guy who was pre-selected when he first entered the house,became an object of ridicule and scorn amongst women within and outside the bbn house

I followed this year's edition of Big Brother Nigeria keenly than the previous editions because of the sexual dynamics that played out and what men can learn from it concerning the sexual market place, masculinity and self worth. I'm glad many guys (at least from Nairaland) are picking up on it.

LastSamurai:
My bad. I was just annoyed when he tried to give a bad impression of guys who are players (including myself) when he said there is no glory in when we 'whøre' or bang as many pussy as we want. Kindly go through the comment again and you will notice he wasn't referring to ladies who whøre, but men who do. That's just too reductionistic to me. If it's his personal choice to remain celibate then that's his life and let him keep it to himself. Let him save as many girls as he wants to. After all, he will make a good priest.

If you notice I only attacked that particular point he made about condemning players.

If an opportunity presents itself I will bang that pussy. I don't beg for pûssy. I've always been red-pill and I've maintained that frame for a very long time. I understand the game and I've never been a clingy man.

That being said I want to give a big shout out to all the OGs who contributed immensely to this thread. Y'all are doing a good job.

Now, I get you. I have my issues with the line too. My grouse was with the choice of words used being that you and Cave agree on a lot of things except for few issues where all of us don't agree. It's expected. We are all good.

Feel free to express your disagreement with anything shared here as long as it is about the red pill with language that doesn't appear to be harsh on the next man.

baiaon:
@Emboldened The guy called Ozo on big brother Nigeria also suffers from this.It is underlined in his comment below.
A guy on nairaland once discussed the issue with ubunja.He said it is linked to the male ego.I also suffered from thesame mindset too.

Unfortunately for him, in the real world for the most part, men get at women they can and women get at men that they want except the woman has hit the wall and lowering her standards.

The Ozo got punished for his ignorance of the game that women have mastered.

LastSamurai:
Bullshit.

What exactly are you saving the young girls from?

"There is no glory in whoring" Says who? You?

In your attempt to sound intelligent you ended up sounding dûmb and fôolish

The bolded is unfair and unnecessary to one who has contributed so much to this thread. A lot that you have learnt from. Shutting down another man who has been very active with the pills here, when you haven't contributed one seems a bit extreme.

I do agree with the idea of letting a lady that is close to you or who you consider a deep friend (sister, niece, close friend etc.) know that whoring is not a good for her. In the end, it benefits men and the society too.

Even, if you strongly disagree, you could express your opinion without the insult. He is not paid to contribute anything here. All has been done out of good will.

We don't have to act like mindless brute to each other, at the slightest disagreement when we agree on a lot of things. Society doesn't have much support system for men. Let's not make it tougher on ourselves.

topboss1:
ALL U HAD TO DO, IS TO GO DOWN LOW.


GO DOWN LOW, GO DOWN LOW.


HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

When you are done sending the money, please use small change in supporting the winning money team.

Text VOTE Laycon to 32052

seunmsg:
That is the alternate account you created tody. You must actually think Nairalnders are fools. Why are some of you so obsessed with impressing people who don't know you on a faceless forum? Why?

Signs of acute low self-esteem.

I can tell you that behind that moniker is a man-child desperate for attention he doesn't get in real life.

It doesn't take so much to spot them.

topboss1:
mynd44, abeg help me here with this crazy people.

tell dem am not Ineedmoneybadly:





we no dey same location, via ip verification.

You are too loud to be a Nigerian millionaire or "abroad" one.

Better go back to your macjob or cutting weed for that red neck.

Onozboy:
Una don hear am

Those cursed fools no go hear am oooo.

E get why they are called "cursed".

KingAzubuike:
Me and u no be mates okay? Neither am I mates with your beloved laycon. I will comfortably pay him his 85M twice and ½ over. Abi how much is 85M naira? That's less than $300k and here you are farting over such a paltry amount. As for you, I can take care of you and your family for the next 10yrs. So swerve and look for your grade.

"Do you know who I am" crew.

Nigga, go sleep abeg.

Yeye man wey dey behave like child.

Brubembem:
Nobody born of a woman can rip me on social media, that person hasn't been born. If e sure you, enter set.

100% of my replies against her last night got deleted. To tell you how brutal they were.

Anyone with sense will nor go low with someone who calls a fellow human a "walking corpse" for a condition that is genetic and not of his own accord.

I will never even, in insanity, think of going low to call the Erica (that you are attracting curses to yourself because of,) a "walking corpse" if she was SC or had a congenital/genetic ailment.

Only low live wrecks will think of getting down with a cursed soul like you. I don't envy your status at all.

Nilknarf:
They said more than this about Tacha and she's doing perfectly fine now

Una don start the agenda of Spouse killer

Continue oo

Please don't put tacha and Erica in the same shoes abeg.

With her flaws, Tacha is way ahead of your Erica in all ramifications.

Kleenatics:
The mad woman is not only a shameless pro.stitute but a killer.


Imagine planning to kill her 3 children??

To be fair, Erica needs a lot more help than her fans are giving her. That's the issue with social media/celebrity status fans.

If her borderline personality disorder isn't treated early, she may go into marriage and once stress that comes with marriage hits, she may be a spouse killer.

In saner society, she would be getting regular visits to a shrink now.

Brubembem:
These miscreant disease carriers are ready to blame Erica that she made Laycon a sickler.

Pathetic idiott! Instead of them to discuss about the disease their fav is suffering from, they are busy dragging Erica.

Thank God Erica didn't even hit the walking corpse.

A walking corpse?

This reminds me of what Chad Boseman went through with his cancer and tried so hard to keep it from the media because of evil people like you.

I never knew you were such a pathetic piece of crap, walahi.

This is not even trolling anymore. It's pure evil.

I haven't been active here so when I saw that lady rip you into shreds last night, I was pissed at her for being so vile.

Now, I know you deserve it. Even much more.

Devil

Iamgrey5:
The beauty in all these is that one can easily use the hatred displayed here as an insight into the lives of those displaying the Hatred.


They are obviously not happy and looking for others to spread hatred to.

Yes. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

topboss1:
EVEN IF DEM GO CHOP MY DOLLAR, I STILL LIKE TO HAVE TRUST IN WHOM I RELEASE THE DOLLARS FOR.


IT IS NOT TOO LATE, I CAN DISPATCH THE DOLLARS TODAY FOR TOMORROW FINAL VOTING.

For your dollar not to be a waste, put your money on the winning money team

Gbegirisoup:
WhorErica is a witch!


So she knew about Laycons predicament and used it to insult him.

Such an evil bitch! No wonder she abandoned her mother since the age of 19
.

Don't go low with them. Someone who is already down and in sifia pains has nothing to lose. Let them wallow in the mud of their failures, spilling all the gibberish they can. It's a coping strategy for them. It's a win for everyone in the end.

Iamgrey5:
I have not seen a more toxic fan base than Helites in my life, perhaps only White nationalist supporters of Donald Trump come close.

Of course, some are tribal in nature because Laycon is a Yoruba man, but I salute people from other tribes especially the igbos supporting Laycon.


Nigeria is definitely not as toxic as Nairaland.

Nigeria is toxic on average but the anonymity that the internet brings make them display more of that toxicity.

It's crazy but I'm not surprised that adults here(with a lot of them appearing to be married/having kids) can go low on a kid who is coast-clear to win in a few days, to mock his health status despite the fact that the kid has always been discrete about his health status and family as he knows the vile minds of Nigerians.

teepha:
Laycon shouldn't have disclosed something that personal at this stage. He should have kept it to himself just like how he has been doing since 12 weeks ago. Now he will make some other people say it's because he revealed his genotype that was why he gained more pity votes to win. He should have let us show them that we didn't play any pity card to win.

I hope with this it won't deter brands from endorsing him.

Laycon made a huge mistake but please let's forgive him by sending VOTE Laycon to 32052.

Stop playing into the hand of detractors. Just VOTE Laycon or canvass for him and move on.

Laycon was asked when he said it and also concluded that he doesn't like talking about it so he they don't think he is sick. He knows the vile minds of some Nigerians. The reason he avoids deep details about his health, family etc. Just music.

Anything innocent Laycon says now will be used by detractors against him. If he says, he drinks water, the shameless detractors (dem full here) will either say drinking water is a "disease" or go digging old tweets where he was drinking Pepsi that he is a liar.

Iamgrey5:
Yes she knew

Hence she told him to go and take his drugs and he would not live more than 50 years old.

No one is perfect but there is a time when defending someone's bad trait is not being a fan anymore but a mindless zombie.

Can most of those excusing her bad behaviour accept her as an in-law? It's always easy to support shît till reality hit close home with "God Forbid". People's hypocrisy stinks.

Brubembem:
Erica is lucky she didn't touch Laycon that night, she would have been arrested for murder.


Bbn organizers should do better next year.


Allowing a sickle cell patient in the show was very wrong.

BBN organizers should do thorough psychological tests on housemates before letting them in, so we don't have manic, bipolar, nymphomanic, borderline personality madness being displayed in the house.

Laycon's life and that of the other housemates were in danger after being threatened with death by a psychologically-damaged lady who should be in a strait jacket at the asylum. Not BBN.

KingAzubuike:
Laycon is a dumbo sha.. how will you come on national TV to tell the whole world you are sickle cell lol. Sorry o laycon..

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Everyone from the political section know say sense and you dey keep social distancing like Laycon's votes and the rest.

You are a dumbo sha.. how will you come to BBN Thread to tell the whole world that you are stupid lol. Sorry o KingAzubuike

IronGalaxy:
Nope

I know a a guy who bears the "Mawushi" name in KwaZulu natal. A career criminal though.

Got any books on the South African street gangs domiciled in the Western Cape, the Mongrels and Americans? Also, their prison counterparts, the numbers gang?