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Martinez39s:
This is how it should be done.

The men deserve the seats. They look like blue collar hustlers hopping on the train to go earn a living to feed themselves and their family. The lady, on the other hand doesn't look like one who is going to get bills paid.

JasperVII:
The thing tire me...

It's most likely a Lady behind that moniker.

Deceptionlove:
Here Is the RedPilled Niggur who might have orchestrated the separation lol. He Is Game. My mind tells me Wizkid was still secretly Lashing that babe while she was married.

I won't be surprised if the story is true that Wizkid is lashing the babe. Wizkid sure looks like he has his "player" game legit, lashing the babes that rich SIMPs are showering with money and status to mask their ignorance and insecurity. He reminds me of Future, Machine Gun Kelly and August Alsina.

mrpaedo:
I don't want children but if I ever changed my mind,I would want daughters.They are naturally redpilled(hence less time and effort on my part)and male simps will forever be plentiful to lift and carry their physical,emotional and financial burdens.
I dont care about all these talk about sons carrying my name bla bla bla.
The continuation of the genes is the top priority

Daughters are more likely to pass your genes on than boys who may likely turn out to be SIMPs played by women into raising other men's kids as his. There are no clear, concise data on paternity frauds in Nigeria but estimates from centres in Nigeria where paternity testing are done has put paternity fraud rates from between 30% - 50% percent meaning that 3 to 5 out of 10 men are being tricked by their women into raising kids that are not biologically related to them. Personally, I think this is conservative as only few folks can afford to do these tests leaving out a high number of men who don't even suspect the fraud taking place nor afford the money to do a paternity test. These men include men who think they know women, found true love and brag about being proud fathers to their kids! Lol. The women are laughing behind their backs at the blatant ignorance.

Not talking down on my fellow men but even, raising men in the best of the red pill won't stop
a lot of guys from thinking that virginity, chastity, youth, homeliness (and other necessary virtues) are overrated like some of our "red pillers". Suspect SIMPs!

Trex4:
Please does Anyone know the answer to this question? Cc. Luminouz Skepticus

Just got back from a long ban.

Luminouz and TheUndercover already did justice to your question.

To add this, your time is better spent in doing things more valuable to your personal life than cold-approaching random girls on social media (where unfortunately, women get an overwhelming amount of undeserved attention). You are just one of the 100s of guys messaging her trying to get her attention daily. In most cases like this, the guy having unfettered access to her vagina is always not on social media with her and may even be tired of banging her, seeking other options.

Your mind can be better engaged with something more uplifting than worrying about her ignoring your message. Even guys with the best of game, looks and status still get snubbed, or met with rude gestures from strange women (and some that they know a bit) that they cold-approach on the street. Even women that give some form of green light or put themselves in position to be approached still ignore or act rude for reasons that has nothing to do with the man. The difference is that they either pass her shit tests playing it to advantage or move on quickly when when she behaves badly or waste time. Getting ignored takes nothing from you. You have a full control over what you feel and do, partial control over what others think about you, and almost no control over what others decide to feel and do about themselves. Put on your confidence as a man and move on (to the next woman), no self-deprecation. Be a man of options and stay on your purpose. I'm not saying you shouldn't flirt or cold approach once in a while. Never tolerate any form of disrespect and address or ignore as soon as you spot it.

Guys, please, Ignore the clown that dropped a comment above mine. No mentions/reply/quote till she fades back into oblivion like the rest before her.

We've gone too far with this thread to entertain any distraction and pander to their shît-tests.

saynotocultism:
Ok educated man. College of education . Abeg stay away from initiation ground make everything no come to reality for your eyes .

Franzinni:
Please o..

They should put him and serial killer James nwafor in the same cell ...

At least they both have the same rank in hell

Where is the killer of akwuzu SARS self?

Neddstark:
My brother who used to pay 8k in his shop saw a bill of 23k this month. Guy is considering relocating to Ibadan. Nigeria ain't getting any better

Na so e go relocate till e end for sambisa forest. Lol. Na everyone and everywhere these scams dey touch. No insult intended..

We need fight dis scam once and for all.

momodub:
All marlians line up here

Nairamarley wey don cast.

GTFOH!

Davash222:
I’ve passed my message, poco. All these ones you’re saying are not important.

She too dey yarn okoto.

Always bringing up their silly feministic talk to issues where it has no relevance.

That dude has serious mental issues. I hope he is caught and given the same acid treatment.

ybalogs:
We shouldn't just preoccuppy ourselves with ending SARS without adequate plans for those to replace them ASAP. Pretty sure criminals bare also scheming knowing fully well that their nemesis are being kicked out.

Stop all these foolish talk.

All that Nigerians are asking is that SARS be directed to doing what they where created for which is arresting robbers, and other violent criminals which they have not been doing or be disbanded. Can't you see, robberies, killings, herdsmen, banditry everywhere?

Leave EFCC, ICPC and the police cyber crime unit to tackle yahoo boys. EFCC has been doing well in that regards and no one has complained about them profiling innocent people or killing anyone.

laidima88:
All these later protests are excesses to me, during the course of the earlier protest the IGP already released statement to reform SARS then let's give them the chance and see the outcome.
Learn how to embrace constructive dialogue.
I still stand on my words, in this Nigerian situation I can never join any protest, I can't come and die young, there is no how u can end SARS if u die, I rather survive now with the hope to be in power one day and end it.

Ode, this one is still giving himself hope

An adult still thinking and believing the illusions he was given as a primary school kid that he is the leader of tomorrow and that if he is an obedient, docile kid tolerating his future being destroyed by a older, selfish generation, somehow, they'll he nice and hand over the power to him. Tales by moonlight

Sorry to burst your bubble of illusions, with your mentality, you'll only survive and die later as a coward without getting that power. Buhari and his counterparts took the power as young courageous men from the old men at the time who couldn't manage shît. They didn't beg nor wait for it. Whether you agree with me or not, fact is fact. Power is taken not given. With young men of your coward mentality, Buhari and his counterparts will never hand over power anytime soon.

See those planning to take over power 2023, 2027. They are all in their 70s and part of the generation that made Nigeria a wreck, having been in the corridors of power for about 40 years. Dey there make pant dey wear u!

Adakintroy:
The Yahoo boys will.lead you all astray. Many are in the heart of this protest..don't trust their motives.the celebrities have profited from them too many times to condemn them.

A Yahoo boy is a born again greedy person. They can not be trusted.

They justify themselve by telling you it was the country. That will mean they were once good guys until the country made them sin. Attribution#. They were never good and can't be now. They know there intents. It's greed.

When they started making money they still did not leave. Why..?they were greedy and the door was shut. they are trapped in an endless circle of greed that brings about torment and purnishment. The few other deaths or maltreatment can be said to be those caught in the crossfire. They want to use their death to bring about their salvation..dont allow them. They are still yet to condemn Yahoo openly. Don't mix with such crowd. Their justifications is strange. They are liers.

Whoever God send to purnish them should not concern you. The soul that sinneth shall die one way or the other.

You can't rationalize the deed of sars. Say what you can..the banta is a lot deeper than rationality.its spiritual. Good people don't have the stomach for hard judgment with enough torments in it..they don't know how that's for the others ones. And God have access to them as well. Mind your business and go your way..this does not concern you. This is not a protest like you understand it.


For the ones who innocently pass on I say rip. But go on sars. We know you following a saint trail. I can sleep well knowing that Yahoo boys have something that terrifies them.

They are looking for rationalize excape root. Lol.

Welcome to hell.

You are a big fool. I hope you don't have kids so that you don't continue to ruin the human race with your genes of stupidity.

The EFCC, ICPC and the police cyber crime unit are the one tasked to arrest yahoo boys not SARS.

Since EFCC has been arresting yahoo boys, do you see people complain about their highhandedness? Why are the complaints about SARS all the time? Isn't that suppose to make sense even to your dense brain.

Since SARS took on the useless work of robbing, maiming and killing innocent youths and yahoo boys, has it reduced robberies, kidnapping and banditry.

I pray that SARS kill someone very close to you so that you can understand the pain of young men out there trying to make a life for themselves.

Lekside230:
Thanks very much.

And lastly change that church where you were told that she is the one. The girl is a solid proof that most of all these predictions are fake.

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Pls unblock her and apologize..
Go and borrow more money and make it 30k and give it to her..
Be a good boyfriend..
Hustle and work hard just to make her proud..
Pls don't let her want anything.. provide for her, that is why you are the boyfriend..
Call her friends and apologize to them..
Remember, if she dumps you, no girl will ever look at your face and even greet you talk more of dating you..
She is all you got.. treat her like a queen and serve her well enough..
Do recharge her phone from time to time..
Give her money to make her hair and regularly change her wardrobe..
Pls always make her happy even when you are sad.. and always love her no matter what she does..
Continue Bro... ride on...

You think say I go call you SIMP ??
No.. You are a real man.. and that is how real men behaves.
Congrats Bro..

I love your sarcasm. Most times, it's letting them see their foolishness stare in their face.

wearsandtrends1:
wetin Genghis do?

The 12 million people + that the Mongol, Temujin (Genghis Khan) and his sons killed and other destruction that accompanied has been estimated to contribute to climate change and global warming. That guy was a ruthless killer.

Regex:
I'm on the fence on this issue. I haven't made up my mind yet, but a part of me wants me to pick this mgtow part. It's been a year since I last been in a relationship and to be honest, with everyday I get a clearer view of what I want. Within this one year, I learned to control my anger, learned a powerful skill (information Marketing) and I picked up programming too which rn I'm very conversant with python as a language and now I'm learning Javascript to become a web developer (goal is to become full stack). A year without any woman, no calls from anyone, no ups no downs no keeping my mind preoccupied with "what is she doing right now" or "who knows who she's with" thoughts. I'm planning on going another one year because I have a lot of goals I want to accomplish like hitting the gym, learning PHP, getting a job as a programmer getting another source of income and I fear one year would not be enough.

I didn't pick this path because women rejected me, no! I'm very good looking even gay guys hit on me but I'm not gay. It's just, I realized I spent my love on the wrong person instead of on me. I'm the right person to spend my love on. I should have loved me!

Well what I'm saying is, after next year June (because that's when I started this journey) I'd check if I'd continue or not. But from the look of things, I might disappoint my momma in giving her a daughter in-law.

Personally, methinks you'll get back into the dating scene and be purple-pilled. That's perfectly fine. At least, you know what you are getting into, and being the best you can be while committing exclusively to a woman who is worth it. Not some used, out of shape thot. It wouldn't eliminate her manipulations and shit-testing but you can predict patterns and put it in control.

The path you took is the one I admire best which is, going your own way for a while before getting back to the dating scene. I notice that it works better for men in the long run than advising men to game women or rush back into the dating scene immediately after being exposed to the red pill. For the latter, some may be successful but for the former, the beta-conditioning from childbirth that a man can't do without a woman will be broken off and for the first time, the man realizes that he can actually chart a course in his life without worrying about what the society thinks of him in relation to his ambitions and women. Whether he gets back to dating or going his own way, simping, thirstiness and sexual frustration is reduced, destructive behaviours from desperate sexually frustrated men like rape, crimes of passion is eliminated.

fattprince:
True. I should keep it to myself from now on. Thanks for the insight to now think I've always thought to tell girls I'm planning on laying that I'm not cut of for marriage. Foolish me, where is the mystery if I tell them from the onset. Once again thanks man.

One other thing. I like how you explain things to we that one to become redpilled. No insult or shaming. You are a real Alpha.

Thanks for the compliment. If you insult or just aggressive for no reason, you are still insecure and not comfortable in your own skin.

Brother, do understand that staying unmarried or avoiding long term relationships like cohabitation comes with its own negatives too. The real question should be is can you cope with and overcome this negatives. I've made up my mind to accept the consequences because when I weigh it with the benefits, the benefits favour me and my ambitions better. It may not be the same for the next man.

When it comes to telling people about your decision not to give out your commitment to an exclusive woman, it should be only with friends/acquaintances that vibes with you on a deeper closer level and family. Family would often object but with time as you better yourself as a man, they'll most likely accept you for being yourself. With others, you can deflect by telling them that you are still on the search for a good woman, trying to make more money to impress your woman (pretending to be a beta to throw them off) etc. Sometimes, you can fake it (for me, I do wear a wedding ring on my 4th finger to prevent them asking me these silly questions. You may also find ladies giving you mating signals too as long as you are fit and look good. A man with a wedding ring gives a signal to other ladies that you have resources and capable of attracting women).

Not giving out commitment doesn't mean you can't get sex or engage in short term relationships. You have the benefits of being in control of your time, space with room to manoeuvre.

In all, make sure you stay on your purpose and making moves (hustle and health) to always be better.

fattprince:
I said same thing on ashewo but someone was insulting like its his marriage.

You shouldn't care what they say, though, it's unexpected. However, do try not to make it known to everyone that you have an aversion to marriage. A lot don't care and a lot don't understand and might start to get at you. Also, if you are in business, you might lose money from married beta clients who may call you "irresponsible". Your money or business connections is the most important. The rest is personal. Keep it to yourself.

I've been on my purpose and making a decent life (by Nigerian standards) for myself. I've had the the so-called good, loyal soulmate wives of my friends flirt secretly with me for a good fûck. Things that I have seen from women in marriages and long term relationship of my male acquaintances and friends eeehhhhnnnn, I don't envy the marriage or married folks. I've seen some guys open thread discussing their sexcapades with married women. If you have a good game, and a very low-key discreet personality, the married women to these betas are easier to get laid than a street hooker.

NeduLuiZ:
Cardi B came out to say she drugs men and rob them during her stripper days ...nobody coughed!

Why would anyone cough when the society worships her type as the Strong Independent Woman

The bîitch has taken her slutty ass to onlyfans to get some of that valuable simp money and attention. When hoes marry, they never retire, they only go on vacation.

fcdgrand:
romance is not for you if you are true redpiller because romance bring love in you and love bring weakness and weakness bring you down. no attension for over used pussy, make her a baby mama and take the child but if she is a virgin i mean hymen intact virgin marry her

The guy still lacks deep understanding of the red pill. From his write-up, you could tell that he is still in his one-itis phase and worrying about his girl - classic feature of a beta.

To be able to have a girl, you must be ready to lose her. Personally, I'll advise the guy to ignore the red pill and worship his special woman. Men in love are poorly receptive of the red pill or even aggressively against it. I stopped making mention of TRP to them as they find it absurd. The good thing is that women will always punish them for their weakness and they run back to the red pill. By that time, the homeboy would understand it better.

Darkwallet:
Simpanzee.
See all she listed.

Lol.

Jokes on the simpanzee.

Gotta love the lady. She is putting her needs first. One can tell who would hold the reins of power if the relationship sails.

GLYCOLYSISS:
Public appeal :
Take these guy serious at your own peril!
A guy that was even claiming virginity is overrated, in
these thread, https://www.nairaland.com/6167211/shes-not-virgin-getting-married/, and even some guys claiming redpill in nairaland, were busy shaming that guy for wanting a virgin as a wife.
When a man wants youthfulness in women, he's termed a predator.
When he wants a virgin, he's shamed, termed archaic and need growing up to do.
But when even the most broke woman wants the richest guy in the world, it's termed "standard " and "we should respect their choice" !
Pr*Clinician post in that thread got me fuming within me, and the same guys will go in here claiming trash!
Take guys like these serious at your own peril!

There are posers everywhere and here, it's no different. When the momentary thrill of TRP fades off, their true nature shows.

No one is perfect at all times but once people go against all what they profess frequently, they are basically just clowning. A lot of them are still the same thirsty, mediocre-pûssy worshippers and sexually-frustrated losers out there. Be the man of your own purpose and lead your path.

Thanks for calling them out.

Trex4:
Does an Alpha male pay for sex? Like paying prostitutes?
Cc. Ubunja CaveAdullam

Alpha means a lot of things to different people from the most meaningful reasons to the most ridiculous like looking before turning off a generator lol (trust me, I saw a guy make this comment on NL as sign of his alphaness). I avoid using the term in serious discussions for this. My use of the term in this comment is on the loose generalizations of it.

On a general note though, spending a decent amount of money (according to your financial strength) generally on refreshment or dates on course to getting sex is okay. Spending excessively in hope of getting sex when there are no clear indicators is when simping comes in. Spending on her doesn't mean you'll get sex at all or the best sex (if it happens).

Paying hookers (picked in clubs, brothels or on the internet) for sex where a price has been agreed is not alpha and not beta (as long you are not "worshipping" the pûsssy that is also being used frequently by other men). It's just what it is: Paying to ease konji and nut off. It's transactional. Pay the biîtch to get off your sight as soon as ejaculation is done. Business over. I've seen some men on the ashawo thread (which I find beneficial for men who desire sex) do the silly habit of hyping prostituting pûsssies when passing them to other guys like helping them hike the price because of her looks or location. Whether it's tight or not, STDs or not, looks etc, what makes the pûssy of a prostitute in Lekki or Maitama different and special than the one from Ajegunle or Agege, when they are all been used by different men for cash? Just pay for your sex, give your reviews and let the next man decides for himself if he is going in, and you move on. No glamourizing vagina that is being fûçked loosely by other men. Some also abuse libido boosters that are risky to their health and lives just to impress over-fûcked vaginas that they are paying for. If she don't like your sex game, her overused cuntus and loss of emotional pair-bonding is to blame. Not you.

If you have a high libido, still on your purpose and need to get your konji off once in a while without the need for a relationship/girlfriend distractions or you are truly celibate because of extremely bad looks (congenital deformities) and poor status that makes you of no sexual interest to women, i am okay with paying hookers and moderate masturbation for men as long as it will get them off simping while forcing themselves on women who don't like them and doing destructive behaviours like rape.

Kiss from a bullet!

baiaon:
I will never understand how.The make up makes them look like clowns because of how they put it on excessively and a white/indian/native south American woman's hair on a black woman's head always looks odd/weird

You will never understand it because you are in the best frame of manly mind that any man could be. Some rich beta cucks don't think like that. That fakeness is their appeal.

baiaon:
I once read a post by a man on nairaland which said he would never understand how a black African woman can place the hair of another woman's race on her head,carefully comb and protect it from wind,dust and rainfall.
Some Nigerian men have talked about this issue for years even the make up issue too but the women won't listen.As long as they see other women doing something (either good or bad)they will automatically copy it.Men's opinions about various issues generally doesn't bother women

You guys are right about the ladies having self-hate for themselves.

Truth be told, on a different scale, a lot of these ladies use these fake enhancements to appeal to the vanity of their rich simp cucks.

As we blame these ladies, these rich simps have a portion in it too because they love and encourage these self-hating behaviours in women which reflects their inherent shitty personalities too.

Ladies knowing this have now taken it beyond fake hair extensions into skin bleaching, breast enhancement and butt lift surgeries which these rich but empty men find appealing. It's crazy.

MRosario:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJwsIB0mwLk

If only the man in this youtube video had read this thread...Western men are really suffering.

For those who think women from certain religion and certain regions of the world are not prone to being dangerously hypergamous, this is a reminder that you are wrong. Always go in, with the perception that they all are the same. If she is an exception, she'll have to prove that convincingly.

Dude would have been jailed for 7 years because of this false assault allegations.

If you don't learn from the errors of other betas, you may learn the lesson losing your freedom or even life, in the process.

CaveAdullam:
Rainbowpill: another set of pill, or better still, a combination of all colours of pills familiar and non familiar to the manosphere ---which you have engrossed yourself, and has led to your bluffing and hysterical display.

No idea or opinion as of present is of itself purely original, but this doesn't signify plagiarism. There's a difference. You simply cannot trace the origin of original ideas, all opinions and ideas are innovations based on forebear principles. Simple as that!

Original ideas are like torchlights which one uses to search for the treasures buried in the tunnel, and in discovery of these treasures; they are used to test and expatiate more on the efficacy of the previous/former/ original knowledge, and also bring forth new paradigm to follow.

The Redpill has verisimilitudes with other subjects like; Mathematics, English Language, Religious studies etc. No one can claim to be an author in any of these subjects, anyone can teach it if he is an adept in it and the learners will never contemned him because the subject originated in Asia or Europe----doing so is stark foolishness especially when such subject resonates with everyone that comes in contact with it----this is how we know what is truth.

Then, back to the Redpill: as far as you belong to the manosphere you can freely gleaned from the words and ideas of others, use their words---laconically,---and in many cases, to direct other people to the alphas, reference their names or make mention of their books, blogs and social media ID. And of which Glycolysiss did, making proper awareness before the commencement of his redpill post and not guilty of what you ostensibly accused him.


This can only be true if you can prove it. There's no way one like Glycolysiss and Martinez39s can become enmeshed in the redpill and still remain a simp. No way! No need to even debate it. And mind you, the redpill is a continuous process: it is simply a facsimile to Oxygen.

No plagiarism in the manosphere: what is good for one man is good for all men if it proves to be true and correct after series of tests and scrutinization.

What you see is summary plus innovation. This is how the message spread: as religion does.


Redpill is Redpill! No African or European Redpill. It is the same everywhere because men and women are the same everywhere. The Redpill is the underlying factor in Ubunja's miseducations and Harddon's dating drills.

By the way, The Redpill is a praxeology and neither a movement nor a religion.

Have a nice day.

Thanks.

Way to close the conversation in fine, rational language.

I betcha, that rainbowpill of a bîîtch be wetting her pants in orgasm right now, from your reply.

MrColdsweat:
you don't get my point.

why didn't she beat you immediately you went astray?
why did she have to wait for daddy to come back to correct you?

Because that is their way of making you fear daddy and making you love them the more.

The little time daddy had to spend with us as kids, he spent it flogging us. Thanks to mummy.

After years of this manipulation, why won't we love mummy more than daddy?

You are smart to spot how these manipulations are done at infancy by our own mothers to put them ahead. She gets dad to do the dirty job while she comes as the saving angel. Lol.

It's crazy.