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RavagedHeart:
No. The few friends I had laughed at it because they couldn't believe such could happen to me, because of how I use to shuffle women. They asked me to jump on another train, but I already relinquished other girls at her request. Until now I don't understand what happened. This same girl begged me to drop other girls and value her more, she complained I don't give her enough of me because I have other people.
After I put all myself in her and no other, her behavior towards me began to change speedily.

Too bad that you had to go through all of this. I'm glad that you are healing and you'll be past it with time.

It's a lesson for you and the rest of us. I didn't read the whole of your story but I'll pick on the bolded part because I find a lot of guys committing that error.

For the bolded, women will nag you to change but hate you when you change into all she wanted.

It's illogical and crazy in the rational reasoning of men, right? Yes. But in the crazy and illogical world of women, your value just dropped by a million points. You can't hate her for it, as annoying as it is. That's how nature wired a lot of females when choosing potential long term partners. You just have to know your way around it.

To her, you just failed a major shit test and by her innate biological compass, you are not strong enough to be a man of your own, stand your ground and defend your position meaning that you can't protect her and her offsprings. You placed her needs before yours. She saw no "leader" in you, to submit to. So, she dropped you and moved on to someone who you might be better than, but she considers "superior".

What you were before you met her which where hanging with your male buddies (social proof) and having other ladies hovering around you (pre-selection) was what got her attracted you.

As a man, you can drop certain things you do just because it's your decision. Never ever make it because of a woman. She has to earn her way into your life or else, let her leave on her own accord. If she is stubborn and hard-headed, bounce her off. It's waste of time and energy trying to change an opinionated and unsubmissive woman.

Merimental:
no politician is a saint.

I'm simply attracted to Trump 4 his foreign policies n zero tolerance against Terrorism, gay rights etc.

Gay rights indeed

Otii4god:
because a canal man like you can never understand the things of the spirit as it will always look and sound foolish to you bro

That's how you people carry your ignorance to disgrace Christianity.

As a matter of fact, 99% of Nigerian Christians are church goers and god of men worshippers lacking deep understanding of the bible.

It's the reason why there is so much religion around but no spirituality with evil dominating everywhere more than ever.

Read what you wrote again and ask yourself if you are not making a mockery of the scriptures, by placing your faith in a mortal flesh (politicians for that matter) who are highly imperfect.

Femi Fani Kayode and Righteousness89 are needed to come spit some of their delusional conspiracy theories and other nonsense about this progressive technology.

Make una dey there dey watch progressive technology till the world leave una, for una 13th century thinking.

Unveiling for building site of uncompleted buildings?

Righteousness89 leave trump alone and come do better prayer for this one

Righteousness89:


You will not appreciate the So called " Prophet of Doom" until you meet your Doom!

Then will you Understand that you would Have Listened to the " Prophet of Doom" but alas it's too late because you have arrived the place of Doom..

Make use of this Precious opportunity to Humble yourself and Surrender to JESUS!

There are many just like you who have died today are right now in Hell! They are begging for just a Second Chance to Hear this Message of Doom like u call it!

Oga, go sleep.

I'm not one of the brainless zombies here who blindly follow religion or follow religion without deep understanding, that worship you and cower to your threat. Take that crap elsewhere.

Ogun and Amadioha join hand kee u dia.

Fake prophet making mockery of Christianity and black people.

Snow02:
please tell me you're trolling

He is not. Even if he was, I can assure you that there are hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of Nigerian guys who reason like this. The thirst is real.

Put your ears out more and you'll find out that the "sharp guy" on your street is a hopeless simp.

When they call simping a pandemic (SIMPandemic), it isn't a joke. COVID-19 still dey learn.

HeliotJ:
Thank u. I know I will still do more for her. She told me to establish her before the new year for next year and i will do that. But I will not steal.

Please she is having sex with the father of the boy, how about that? She told me if I prove myself she will love me. I need to do everything because she is everything to me

She is still having sex with the father of the boy because you have not done enough to show that you love her.

When you establish her before the end of the year, she will stop having sex with the father of the boy.

Make sure you take care of the boy like your son so that the mother will deny the father, the attention and the boy, respect you like the good father that you are.

Righteousness89:
What a Life!! So Many Lessons of Life Here!
If the young had known that His Moment of Departure was just by the Corner, He would have Paid more attention on feeding his soul.

A whole fast automobile turns to mere Iron..

This is where you understand that Everything you can see and touch is Vanity!

No Wonder King Solo the Richest Man Ever to live screamed Vanity upon Vanity! All is Vanity!

What Really Matters for us all is the Position and Place of our Soul in Eternity!!

What Really Matters is Where are you Going to once your time on Earth is over?

Only 2 Locations for Everyone Worldwide!
It's Either Heaven or Hell Fire!

Everyone, no Matter who you are MUST Miss one!!

Once you Miss Heaven!
You Can't Miss Hell!

Heaven has a Path and Ticket
Hell also has its Path and Ticket!

Heaven: Accept and Believe in JESUS Christ and Live For Him

Hell: Refuse JESUS! Live your Life anyhow!

Condolences to the Family of the Dead..

Prophet of Doom.

Always waiting for sad stories and misfortunes to preach your boring sadistic nonsense.

You seem to always avoid stories of success like Joe Biden's threads.

zoeycherie:
Yes, it has happened to me twice now and I'm beginning to sense a pattern.

Every time I meet a Nigerian guy living abroad, he turns out to be a massive asshole. You get the vibe that they hate women or they think that every Nigerian woman that talks to them online is after their money.

They are rude, dismissive or just very arrogant.

Is it impossible to meet nice Nigerian men living abroad?



PS: Home based Nigerian guys, do keep your unoriginal "gold digger" comments to yourself. You guys marry transgender nurses and foreign grannies for paper, so you're in no position to judge me.

Gold Digger

Abroadian Guys don dey get sense these days!

HeliotJ:
I know I have to make money because she need to care and her child, but she is not sex with me. I want her to love me but how can I to do that? Please help me already I use to spend all my money for her but she doesn't show appreciate of it

You are a good guy. You both deserve each other.

Make more or borrow more. Steal, if possible.

Train her further to be better than you in English even though you need it more.

A man must sacrifice everything he has to make his woman better than him to show that he truly loves her.

You can also, try making moves to get married to her as soon as possible. That way, she would give you sex.

Trust me, I'm an experienced dating coach and marriage counsellor.

HeliotJ:
Pls I see d tread and good..yes.

And I was not good on English,pls don't be angry if the language is not good.

I have something in my mind that worry me a lot.

I am dating a single mom. She told me the father is not good, but she is till meeting him in his house and always telling me it is about d child. D child that the man is not taking care of and I'm the one doing that. The boy is 4y years and I' am being the one that is paying his school fees since This year that we are dating. I am not the buoyant type in terms of money. I manage a shop where I print and photocopy materials for students close to university. I don't have any savings because I the one taking care of this lady and child. She expensive and beautiful type and I love her so much. But now she is not giving me sex again, Maybe she think that the boy is enough for us. She told me we can Only have sex until I show my love to her and prove it. And I don't know what she mean with it

I loved her and I want to marry her..how i can make her to love me?.
Pls ubunja, Martinez39s, glycolysiss, pansophist and every people that saying something in the forum

Make more money. If she says it is not enough, do anything on earth to make an "extra - more".

Love is not complete without money.

Then shower it on her, her son and the baby daddy.

Give her everything she wants and train her child dutifully as yours. There is food, cuddle and valuable vagina waiting for you at the end of a stressful working day. Put a ring on her finger

Trust me. She'll love you more than your mum.

As a single mum, know that she is a strong, independent woman who is fertile. All she has to bring to the table is sex. For you, you'll have to sacrifice your life for her and clean up the used trash of other men, as a real man.

biggace:
I wanted to say something before but the last paragraph made me retreat.


I don't advice a man that is in love.

Good one. The guy is half-way into being driven by the woman to the red-pill.

I'll make it faster.

CosmicPhoenix:

GLYCOLYSISS made a reference to it that no woman is chaste. She just need the right guy and the right moment to drop her panties.

Married women are a lot easier to bang than it's generally thought and would do it without anyone noticing unlike men that are open about their philandering.

If the man in this photo challenged her with evidence, the woman will deny it with all her life.

blowjohn:
Over the years, more specifically the past three decades prior to this presidential campaign, Trump has had a voluminous history of rap references. An article by FiveThirtyEight this past July noted that Trump and his brand had been referenced in about 266 songs, dating back to 1989. That equates to about 10 references per year. According to the report, during one year (2013) there were 33 references. Whether they were named after him or had lines dedicated to his wealth, these songs represented just how much has changed since the walking business… man dipped his hands into politics.

Take a trip down memory lane to see how these Trump tight references changed over the past 25 years.

"Donald Trump and Donald Tramp living in the men's Shelter" — Beastie Boys "Johnny Ryall" (1989)

"Niggas rolling hard, stackin paper like Trump" — Scarface "Money and the Power" (1991)

"I'm well known like Donald Trump" — Redman "Da Funk" (1992)

"Bleep Black Caesar, n----s call me Black Trump" — UGK "Pocket Full of Stones" (1992)

"Break yourself Trump, it's collection day" — The Coup "The Coup" (1993)

"Put more cash in my pockets than Donald Trump" — Master P "211" (1994)

"Rae's a heavy generator, but yo, guess who's the black Trump? / You rolling like Trump, you get your meat lumped" — Raekwon "Incarcerated Scarfaces" (1995)

"I'm just tryin' to get rich like Trump" — Ice Cube "Three Strikes You In" (1998)

"Can't stop until I got a Casa up in Trump plaza" — Kool G Rap "Mafioso" (1998)

"Trump change, I'm talking Donald Trump change / I'm talking Steve Wynn, I'm talking you know? E-Feezee" — E-40 "Trump Change" (1998)

"In hot pursuit of Donald Trump rap loot" — Pete Rock "Tru Master" (1998)

"The best couple they seen since Trump and Marla Maple" — Nas "Money Is My Bitch" (1999)

"Bill Gates, Donald Trump, let me in now" — Nelly "Country Grammar" (2000)

"I'm at the Trump International: ask for me I ain't never scared" — Jay Z "What More Can I Say" (2003)

"What type of nigga stay in the Trump for weeks? (Bad Boyz)" — Shyne "Bad Boyz" (2000)

"I'm Donald Trump in a white tee and white 1's" — Jeezy "Thug Motivation 101" (2005)

"I'm in the Trump International, 30 floors up (so high)" — Lil Kim "Shut Up Bitch" (2005)

"But love it, I still does it, breathing off a Trump budget" — AZ "The Format" (2006)

"That Bill Gates, Donald Trump, Bloomberg money" — Puff Daddy "We Gon' Make It" (2006)

"We fuckin with Donald Trump now" — Fat Joe "Jealousy" (2006)

"They know I'm hood rich, Donald Trump of the pumpers" — Fabolous "Mo Cars, Mo Hoes" (2008)

"I'm in Trump Towers, amongst earners" — Rick Ross "This is the Life" (2008)

"I'm so appalled, Spalding ball, balling / Donald Trump taking dollars from y'all" — Kanye West "So Appalled" (2010)

"I'm tryna stuff em until I can't fit no moreI'm talking Donald Trump level" — Big Sean ft. Pharrell "Get It" (2010)

"Take over the world when I'm on my Donald Trump shit"— Mac Miller "Donald Trump" (2011)

"Richest nigga in my hood, call me Donald Trump / The type to count my money while I smoke a blunt" — Jeezy "Trump" (2011)

"I'ma fire my blunt like Donald Trump" — Lil Wayne on T.I.'s "Ball" (2012)

"Black Trump, nigga, with fat pockets" — Raekwon "Google That" (2012)

"Resurrection of the real, time to get the richer than Trump" — Rick Ross "Pirates" (2012)

"At the Trump, and you bitches at the Radisson" — Nicki Minaj on DJ Khaled's "I Wanna Be With You" (2013)

"Up like Donald Trump, chain swings like nunchucks" — Rae Sremmurd "Up Like Trump" (2014)

"Going Donald Trump numbers on the corner" — Meek Mill "Off The Corner" (2014)



So when and why did blacks start hating trump?

The double standards though.

Political reality is a lot different from entertainment of namedropping money bags.

CosmicPhoenix:

Do not pay for what other men got for free.
Wahala for who no be virgin

Some of our red pillers here, won't agree with you.

"They" say "virginity is overrated".

The Bible like most ancient religious books around the world, where written in a time where boys transitioned into men very quickly, as life quality was brutish and short.

It was an era of the red pill. Men had to make sure that the best of women (youth, virility and chastity) was sought, to ensure the success of their progeny before war, famine or diseases wiped them off.

Joe Biden is flipping the whole States blue like a Crips Gang Parade

He must be a gang member

JasperVII:
I'm starting to feel sorry for Johnny Depp. Man has been going through a lot because of a woman who has so much evidence against her.

I don't feel pity for the dude.

Being a rich and famous actor puts his sexual market value very high. I personally consider him to be in the rare 5% of top men on earth, based on everything he has going for him, but somehow, dude lacks everything masculine and always seek out the worst of women.

Dude just can't seem to be courageous enough to explore his social advantage in putting his needs above the women he dates in one-itis slavery. Amber sued him for spousal abuse but he was able to get audio evidence of Amber threatening him and even, physically assaulting him. Yet, he never left her.

Now, he is going down career wise and risks losing all he has worked for, in the family court system that is highly gynocentric.

That's what simps get when they fail to internalize the red pill. He should learn from Leonardo DiCaprio. Leonardo refused to get legally married to avoid the trap of the gynocentric court system. Plus, he also dates women 25 and below in age. Once they get older than 25, dude dumps their ass and move on to the next young, nubile bîtch.

Faithful007:
Who else noticed that GOP is not making claims about any election fraud, Only the Trump campaign team is running up and down with fake news. I must commend pence, his silence on trump claims and his refusal to say baseless things on twitter but rather congratulate the GOP members who have made it to congress, I really love that man! He or mitt Romney should come in the next elections, they might stand a chance.

Mitt has some dirt on him. I think Pence would be a perfect fit to challenge the dems in 2024. Anything to get these "unstrategic" childish buffoon out of the white house.

Judybash93:
I won't even consider raising kids to be a valuable benefit. It's more of a liability

I had to call it "valuable" because of the natural instincts of most humans to pass their genes into the next generation. I agree with the liability part.

thesicilian:
Pelosi has never hidden the fact that she hates Trump. So she's obviously happy to be rubbing salt on his injuries.

But the funny thing is, I see "Nigeria 2015" all over the current US political landscape, a situation where the leader they are all running towards now turns out to become their worst nightmare.

Make una stop this una yeye subtle blackmail and wishing the new president-elect bad.

It's not like your opinion matters, anyway. Majority of Americans have spoken through their ballots. Leave them to suffer the positive and negative consequences of their actions and inactions. Do your own in 2023.

How would you feel if Ghanaians suggests and pressures Nigerians to vote Buhari again!

Gbagbo treatment awaits the orange-tanned fûckface if he refuses to concede.

If he is not careful, he may join the league of dictators like Charles Taylor and Gbagbo reading newspapers in the comfort of Hague prison far from the civility of his home till he dies.

HuntSon:
The orange guy's hatred for blacks just increased .... he'll never change or learn

Can't someone on his campaign team snatch that phone away from the damn foool, so he would stop tweeting himself into trouble.

Some favourable decisions are coming his way but like almost everything else, he shoots it down or get himself into deeper troubles with his loud mouth and restless twitter fingers.

Joseph Biden is more composed which helps his strategic decision making.

Kranediggy:
Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke and are depending on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...




I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can settle down for love easily and all these few years contract marriages will end.

What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

ebenezer202l:
Dumbocrats and Beast of Biden supporters e go do una like film trick.
He who laughs last laughs best.

Bros, were you drunk when typing this

Just asking!

jimter44:
Trump can overturn the lead. A victory for Biden is a victory for lawless in the world. The world needs a tough American president like Mr Donald Trump.

This one is still in denial phase. Insanity setting in.

See a psychologist asap.

Nope!

Ho-es everywhere!

Barbecue, Beer and Freedom.

Values of men in "middle" and poor america.

YouAreFinished:
America is a secular democracy,and not a theocracy...it's people decides what it wants...your "christain values" is not by force.
Anyways,you mean christain values like this:

Joker09:
Lol. Reminds me of Ice Prince that his flashy ex gf was cheating on him with one rich Mr. Akin in some hotel, she was really exposed that year . A big slap on my nigga's face, imagine if he married that slut, what will become of them? I hope he wasn't really serious with her tho. U can't turn a hoe to a housewife, it goes against the redpill theory.
Many foreign and local rappers are simps tho. Tho we can't judge what anyone truly is through his music until we know them personally, we can only get a glimpse through their married or dating life.

It's best to confirm a man's deep understanding of the red pill from what he does in his private life in relation to women, other men and society at large, rather than what he says. Anyone can say anything.

One has to understand though, that there are levels to understanding of the red pill, circumstances in which it is being applied and levels of its application. Same with the blue-pill.

It's a reason why you'll find some popular figures sing, talk about the red pill or give vibes of it but are blue as indigo when it comes to their personal lives. It also happens in the opposite direction. I'll advise folks to take closer look at regular folks close to us when it comes to understanding the red/blue pill over celebrities who may not be worth they represent in the open.