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chukshobayo:
how do one give a direct, sarcastic style (sexual attention and passing their shit tests?

Too long to begin to type here. Package yourself and get out with men and women in the real world. Before then:

Go read HARDDON dating drills, Ubunja Miseducations (all on nairaland) and books that deal with social conversational skills. Other men here can also help with lines but avoid memorizing lines excessively. Women spot that shît very quickly and would shît test you excessively to embarrass you. Be more of expressing your self in a natural, confident tone that puts you ahead without being rude. Make your sexual intentions known in wits/sarcasm without coming off creepy and thirsty. Lastly avoid unnecessary long boring conversations that removes mystery and pushes you into her friend zone.

Davash222:
Lol


You’re a genius. Can I marry your brain?

Lol. Thanks.

Radking7:
I'd pick this kind of lady over any entitled bitch!
at least she has insight...

To be fair, ladies like that are a lot easier to get with than the feminist types but you'll have to be careful when dealing with their types so as not to end up with "I'm surprised that she has changed", " She was never like this when we were dating" etc.

TradCon (Traditionally Conservative, also called Chameleons) women have a sleeker game up their sleeve than their feminist counterparts. They sympathize with men and understand the issues that men go through but use it to great advantage in putting their needs first. Ann Coulter, Tomi Lahren are reminders.

Women are highly adaptable to anything you bring to the table and can manipulate her ways around it. Being red pilled doesn't make you totally immune to her manipulations. As long as you are fully grounded in the red pill, you can spot patterns that most men wouldn't notice and predict her bullshit on time. You can't be perfect all the time though. They are mostly a step ahead of you.

With that said, there is a lot to learn from these TradCon women. Pick their messages but be on your uttermost guard when dealing with them.

mrpaedo:
The doe or die album is available on the piratebay in torrent form

Thanks. I'll check it out.

mrpaedo:
Redpilled Song of the Day

AZ--Sugarhill

I couldn't get his Doe or Die album. Stuck with 9 lives, A.W.O.L and The Format. Great lyricist.

finickykblazy:
Funny, I had this type of surreal, all mushy relationship during service year. She was a beautiful, intelligent & matured lady, or so I thought. It was a smooth emotional rollercoaster, I thought I found the "one"(That time you confused a lesson for a soulmate), the conversations were great, J was romantic, funny, smart, attentive, creative, and a dynamite lay. We were as compatible as Dektol & Selectol.

Out of the blue, we started having these arguments over nothing & I would always apologize, it became a recurring scenario.
I would run off online, if I see she is online to avoid bouts of tantrums again.

Then, one day, she composed this epistle of getting ahead of herself in the relationship & she needed to clear her head. She blocked me on all social media; I was devastated, I thought she was my all in all. It was a really dark time for me but I pulled through, deleted everything that reminded me of her. Invested my time in bettering myself which paid off in the long run.

Well, she did came back with another epistle after 3 months of no contact. I was collared, confused & surprised. Telling me how sorry she was, and didn't know what happened to her then, and how God had taken her through a process and she's done clearing her head. She asked for a second chance, another shot at us; but I had moved on then. And YES, I finally got closure.

Most women are fickle bro, They don't really know what they want, the best thing you can do for yourself is to be strong, concentrate on personl progress and move on. Love is not by force. When you find the right one, hold on to her, treat her right and above all let God lead you..

Shalom!!

At the bolded: Sorry to burst the bubble of lies women have sold to you and most men for centuries. Women know what they are doing. They are hypergamous looking for better deals and better men.

This is what played out in your relationship. You got too comfortable being the nice guy to her and making her comfortable like most guys in love do. This pisses women off on a subconscious level. That's why men who are very disrespectful to women (putting themselves first) are often successful with them while the ones who try to make them comfortable (putting the needs of their women above theirs) gets treated with disdain. Your constant apologies even for offence you never committed made her lose respect for you the more. It's a sign of a very weak man. She brought in needless drama for excitement and you couldn't put her in place because you were too weak.

She came up with their usual scam lines: "I need some space" "I need to find my self" etc which is what they do when they are trying to check out another man that has been asking her out. She blocked you everywhere so you wouldn't notice her game. She got off with new guy and probably seeing that you are a bit better than the new guy despite your masculine weakness, she ran back to you with another fraudulent line "I don't know what came over me"

Trust me: she knew what she was doing and had it all planned out. I'm glad you dodged a bullet in her because it would be a future of pain and suffering for you because:

1. She knows that you have a weak masculine frame that she can always exploit.

2. She would never love you. Women can never find you attractive when they don't respect you.

3. She might have had the fun of her life sexually with the asshole she went to me after dumping you. Get pregnant and push it on the "loving" guy like you. I know girls who have done this. Fûcking bad boys on the side and dumping the pregnancy on their "loving" boyfriends.

4. It would all end in premium tears because that slût you call a "soulmate" would dump your sorry ass as soon as she finds a more superior guy.

I hope you took the lessons you learnt from your past relationship into your new one and hold your frame like a dominant man of superior value putting your needs ahead of hers.

You seem like a pretty decent guy who wants to get ahead in life but grossly unaware of the highly manipulative and evil gimmicks of women despite the fact that popular culture glamourize love and portray women as such pure innocent beings.

I'd love you to search for these monikers and read their topics.

Ubunja (the topic The break up she initiated for no reason applies to your scenario)

Martinez39s

Glycolysiss

Dpsychologist

I like the concept mrpaedo brings to this thread. Pragmatic representation of red pill concepts.

rottencorpse:
Ubunja, Glycolysiss, skepticus, Martinez39s, pansophist

If the story is true, the joke is on the simp fuelling her narcissism.

luminouz:
Yeah...but he still said he is willing to pay for her lawyers fee(I dont know what he is doing that for)

It's still a simp move. It's like paying for the gun and bullets of an assassin who was unsuccessful in getting you murdered.

gbagyiza:
I am from the North also but I can say categorically that all these pictures r rubbish. What are they celebrating? No be North spoiled Nigeria, truth be told.

Gbagyiza nu

God go help all of una

Even OP don dismiss

Dpsychologist:
Great inputs bro

I appreciate.

drealcivilceno:
¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #8
Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.

@ Dpsychologist, Can you elucidate abeg!

#5 Never let women be in control of the contraceptives so you don't become victim of accidental pregnancy setting you up for child support etc and be sure of the baby's paternity to prevent paternity fraud

#8 Some guys suck up when met with a lady's first line of defence in rejecting their access to her and self-deprecate in front of her or away from her by desperately begging or making statements that lower your value. On approach within seconds, women know if they want to fûck you but will always shît test you to access whether you are really deserving of it. Even if you checked all boxes for what makes a man great to a woman, you might not get sex from all the women you approach/tickle your interest all the time. Swallow your L with your confidence, manly pride intact as a man and move on. No making statements that make you look desperate or as a loser.

Bad boys/Players get rejected a lot than is known but they move on quickly to the next woman without dwelling on it or feeling sorry/pity. Women respect this because it's a subtle way of passing their shît test and may come to find you attractive later on.

noCAP:
see wetin my guy dey talk after I showed him this thread. I just laff

Men in love and men who have the hope of love illusion are the ones that are the most difficult to discuss the red pill with, except they are open minded and receptive of new information. They learn best at heartbreak and other nonsense that comes with long term relationships.

It's nothing to worry about, Chief. Men that have always rejected the red pill often get driven back to it, by the women that they worship. This is the only thing that I appreciate in women.

If as a man, na only your diick, u dey think with, woman go reset ur foolishness wen dem show u shege.

Dpsychologist:

“ Porn gives a guy his reward for free; a reward that should be her single best agency is rendered valueless when a man can get off to an infinite variety of sexual experience at the click of a mouse. It’s unlimited access to unlimited sexual availability without the stress of learning methods to earn it from women as a reward.

Pornography which can be addictive too, gave men some measure of freedom in getting access to and enjoying sex in culture where almost everything is rigged against them.

Hugh Hefner, one of the pioneers of soft porn once said it that the greatest opposition he faced being in pornography wasn't from conservative religious groups, but from liberal feminists who have advocated for women's freedom through nudity etc.

I believe that the feminists were pissed that the new freedom women found for themselves in displaying their bodies on magazines and having sex in front of a camera gave easier access to sex for men. Lol

Dpsychologist:
Bro, i have been thinking about that for a while.

This contents are esoteric.

I got banned close to 10times on this thread. I had to complain before i was unbanned indefinitely.

I'm not surprised.

You are sharing valuable knowledge that will last the whole of humanity and these butthurt females know the consequences of liberating men. They are taking note of red pill activities in the romance section and reporting monikers. Do well to archive all the red pill nuggets as quick as possible.

Dpsychologist:
Mehnnnnn!
I am just coming out from ban a 2nd time.

The CANCEL culture here is real. I also faced the same with comments to help brothers, deleted.

It's got nothing to do with any anti-spam bot.

It's either a simp male mod or some cheeky female mod doing it.

I'm afraid threads with red pill contents may be deleted anytime soon.

Do well to archive the knowledge here to be shared on a private blog or some alternative medium free from the prying eyes of the mainstream.

You are spitting good red pill content. Thumbs up!

PUNAengineOIL:
You are right.
When a woman give you the "no marriage no sex" rule and as a simp you start making plans for marriage (probably because of sex) then your life is FINISHED.

After marriage is when the scales will fall off the simp's eyes. When a woman gives you a first condition/request/commandment and you oblige, expect 1001 more unreasonable conditions from her

True.

9 times out of 10, she is getting that mad sex on the side. Na u she dey package "good church girl" give. Can't trust these hooes Inside life

ongback:
If a woman truly love you, she would not give you terms and conditions such as marriage before anything else. What do you think?

Women make rules for men that they are not attracted to, on a deeper level, even in marriage. The assholes/bad boys/players she chose have run thousands of mileages over that pûssy without conditions.

mattfeuter:
Not to derail but I really want to lay emphasis on Being chosen!

I remember during my simping years, I had a girlfriend who I’d almost have an heart attack whenever she’s out lol, until I got to be with someone who chose me.

Boi, there’s nothing like being chosen. I literally tell her what colour of panties to wear, It was like using a remote control on someone.

“Be and so shall it”.

I’d like honourable gentleman to speak more on it for the congregation to benefit

Cc skepticus,pansophist,ubunja, glycolysiss

Your comment already described the advantages of being chosen and preselected.

It's the reason employers conduct interviews for prospective employees to test competence and conformity. You work better with who likes you or share the same goal.

Chasing an inanimate thing like goals, ambition etc works a lot and shows commitment and resilience. With women and some men, it works in the opposite. It puts you in a position of power.

ayenale1:
Any WhatsApp group with latest news that works like duta

I've been looking for that shiit too.

mrpaedo:
Redpilled Quote of the Day

Black humour

Men don suffer.

pansophist:
Women are the only "oppressed group" in the history of the world who lives longer than their "oppressor" (men), control over 85% of consumer purchasing, are more educated, die less at work, less homelessness, commit suicide less, protected during war, and so much more privilege than their so called oppressors (men).

#RandomThoughts

The United Nations and other charitable organizations disagree. Lol

Even COVID-19 is affecting Women and Children more. Lol.

Any male between 11 and 59 years old is a "no-factor" in these statistics.

chukel:
Bubu is loved beyond naija. Good man. But please, where is the road. I really want to see the road. I dont want to believe its that thing in the video. The surrounding area looks poverty stricken. Is that the capital of guinea bissau?

It's not surprising though. The Guinean president is Fulani just like Buhari.

43 percent of Guinea Bissau population is Fulani. Their official language is Portuguese though. The president of Senegal, Gambia are Fulanis. OPEC president is Fulani.

kongolo and mrpaedo, I think we can pick the points valid to the red pill and discard what doesn't align to our path after the red pill. You guys being pro-MGTOW, i understand the anger that comes from CaveAdullam 's frequent pro-marriage posturing that appear as grandstanding, sometimes. There is no need for the vile insults. Cave is as red pill as crimson. Personally, i've never been a fan of marriage, cohabitation and long term dating (I've never asked a girl out or date and I still get laid with less stress) and its a decision i've made since I was 13, but I'm not against it for men who still dream of their unicorns. Countries with extreme gynocentric laws that are discriminatory against men still have men getting married/cohabit daily, despite knowing the risks. Though you'd wish they would not, but you can't stop it. There is nothing to worry about anyway, marriage rates are dropping worldwide, including Nigeria.

CaveAdullam, on your part too, you can share your knowledge which is greatly appreciated without subtle derogatory remarks at those who have chosen not to participate in long-term relationships with women for whatever reasons. Martinez39s is pro-MGTOW monk but you won't see him throw jabs at people who are married. Pansophist and some other active folks here are married but you won't see them throw shades at those who have decided not to tow the marriage path. We can all disagree to agree.

The aims of deep relationship between both sexes is pleasure and producing kids. Both can be achieved within the marriage and outside of it

Your advice for men to get the best of women in their chaste, fertile and highly feminine years is valid and appreciated for those who will consider marriage.

Remember, The Red Pill is just information on basic truths, not dictating what part you want to tow. Your destiny as a man is in your hands.

kongolo:
*A man in love is incomplete until he has married.Then he is finished*

*My late uncle used to say, "Married men live longer than single men but married men are a lot more willing to die*

*Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out a fish*

*The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret*

*A wedding is a funeral where you smell your own flowers*

Humorous but filled with very deep truths.

Every married man can relate with all or one of this.

ObinnaValentine:
Aswearugawd.. especially the fact that na only ur mama and sister(s) wey love you unconditionally

Even sometimes mothers and sisters "love" can be manipulative i.e unconditional but in most cases, they are the only females that can give close to what is called love, to men.

okoroemeka:
docile,been bitten by that gaboon viper is one of 1000 ways to die,next time you see one say hello and Pat the head,let's see if you will not die before coming out from the bush.

"Docile" lol.

Maybe he meant sluggish.

Gaboon viper wey kill my friend uncle for Abia earlier this year at his farm.

Rgade:
You can under rate a king Cobra but don't put the Mamba and "just" in the same sentence
The Mamba is aggressive but he certainly doesn't bluff.
The Mamba's venom kills in minutes bro,and they strike so many times they ensure that time is reduced even further

Mambas no dey bluff ooo

I've seen two different videos of king cobras in India giving a "dry" bite (venom-less threat) which it does by throwing its body forward and swinging its head at the larger threat (humans) but never opening its mouth but will bite when the threat doesn't move away.

Black mambas no get time. Na bite straight if u nor clear road for am.

Priapus69:
I thought the Boomslang was the most venomous?

Edit: I've searched it

Boomslang is venomous and kills a lot of people in Africa. The Gaboon viper is a terror too. It's an ambush predator that can lie for up to 9 hours under dead leaves and plantation waiting for prey to come by. It is sluggish and avoids humans though but would often strike in self defence when humans step close to it. It has the longest fangs of any snake in the world.

The inland taipan of Australia has the deadliest venom but it's a very shy snake that avoids biting and stays far away from human dwellings unlike its aggressive cousin, the coastal taipan.

The venom will literally "freeze" (coagulate) your blood in 5 seconds. Researchers are working on the venom to be able to use it in stopping massive bleeding in accident victims.