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AwkaetitiBabe:
We both guessers

donbachi:
Stop masturbating with people pictures...u no go gree...na see d after effect

AwkaetitiBabe:
Tor. Me I'm wondering why she decided to leave d Op just like that.

MiVida:
I'll always tell you or any other guy the truth bro. She'll miss you so bad if you do what I'm about to tell you.


First, for the fact she's the first to call off the relationship by saying she wasn't in love with you anymore shows the ball is still in your court. just ignore her this period no matter how much you miss her, when she calls, pick it and don't sound like one person that needs pity just be straight with her on the discussion and never say you miss or want her back and finally, don't let her be the one to hang up, do it before she does after your discussion. All in all, just act like she doesn't exist anymore but bro, be rest assured that she'll Bleep another dude before coming back to her senses.

greatmarshall:
Then move on bro

chenzen:
It is not my intention to sound like a broken record... but the reality of that romance that u re putting your life into is that you re simply a pun in his game of chess in the end he s preserving his queen for his final conquest.



Ask me y and I ll tell u...

donaldtruman:
U re entitled to your own opinion.

So,b'cos I had a toxic relationship that I ended,I shld not be had another girlfriend?

Abi,it will take me centuries to open another account to tell lies?

U think this is a fabricated experience?

Just pray u don't meet this types of girls.

MissOffpoint:
Op where do you meet all this girls self.



First it was this one

https://www.nairaland.com/5404580/nairalandersis-wife-material

Now this.

Or is it the same person?

Ladylite:
You have a dream girl o.

Better treat her right or let her go.

She is giving you every opportunity to be what she wants you to be.

Advice her to be more morally guided.

If she is too much for you then quit

LOMBARDY:
This is more than anger issues..am sure he didn't even love her to start with

simonlee:
Sometimes, I think guys enjoy being played because i don't understand how you will find someone playing Suwe with your emotions and you'll still be going back for more.
I swear you will login Facebook one day and see her wedding invitation card...then you'll remember where you left your brain all this while!

OmiScarface:
I started dating this girl sometime around March .....we were seeing each other once a month due to the fact she was schooling in another state we were a happy couple till some weeks back I came to visit her in school and got hold of her phone just to see her texts with a guy who happened to be her boyfriend I confronted her and asked her about it she claimed she didn't really know what came over her. I decided to forgive her after she promised to break up with the guy ... I travelled back to where I stay after a week or so she sent me some screenshots of her telling the other guy that she was fed up with him and she needed him to forget about her ... unluckily for her I saved the screenshots after going through it I was not convinced she was saying the truth I had to message the number that was on the screenshots and found out it was a course mate of hers who she planned the whole stuff with
I decided to leave for good ....a few days later her friend called me on the phone begging on her behalf asking me to forgive her ...I decided to give our relationship another chance
After a few weeks a friend of mine called me to let me know that he met my girl at a bar with someone and asked me if we were still together cos the way the girl acted towards him ...she even even told him if he liked he should go and tell me ... I asked her about it she said the guy was just a friend in school ... I told her I was going to break up with her due to her actions she didn't seem to bother so I gave her space .... But my heart was so into her I kept coming back and she kept acting in a way that suggested she was no longer into me ...I decided to go for good
Yesterday she messaged me saying she was disappointed in me that I've forgotten her and all sort of things like that apart talking for up to an hour or so she promised to break up with the guy .. saying it's me she loves but I should give her time so she could break up with him
I don't know what to do cos she says it might be up to a month before she breaks up with him...and I know I love her so much ...I just hope she's not trying to play me again..

PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVISE SHOULD I GO BACK IM AFRAID IM GOING TO GET HURT AGAIN

Kingstel:
Mehn...some girls ehn!
A few female here deserve a gift for being honest.

Some girls would rather die than confess they were not virgins.
How can a guy like the OP prove her wrong?

So, is there a way to test in the hospital how much activities have been done on the pussy?

Apart from blood stains and tightness, what else to watch out for? Will she enjoy it at the early stages or it will be causing her a little pain?

LOMBARDY:
Pls Goan sit down...I know someone will come here and blame the lady!
Is she not human? Why must the husband be treating her like garbage if he doesn't f*ck outside?
This is the 5th time she left and returned..that shows she is trying to make it work despite zero efforts from the husband.
Nigerian husband's like feeling like a god at the time

How can he leave the house by 12am without quantitative explanation to his together forever whilst she is still struggling to feed the baby?

raheemadejoke81:
Just look well before you enter one chance relationship ooo.

1StopRudeness:
I don’t even know why she’s ranting. It’s something they do to guys all the time with their entitlement mentality...now she has met a guy that behaves like a girl in begging for money....she now thinks it’s not normal
The guy even try...one week is too long for some girls....I have met a girl that asked for money the next morning....she could barely wait for day break...I woke up around 3am and saw her what’sapp chat she sent It just a few minutes to 1am asking for money for rent...

Orjioorji:
women are necessarily evil, but if its the other way round you a***hole bitches will say its his responsibility to pay or give money to the lady, whats wrong with a woman helping her man, this is the reason i dont even accept common gift from bitches because they will always remember the #10 they give you but will be quick to forget the millions you as a man give them.

Flowdada:
Good morning good people
I'm the only child of my late parents and on the 10/10/ I turned 28
My current monthly salary is 30k
But my uncle wants me to get married
he said on my birthday that I should start thinking of getting married...
He keeps on saying that my late father and him got married at old age and he doesn't want a repetition from me..
I need your advice guys

AntiBrutus:
You are not alone. They are rampant, way more than men would love to admit. They hide under the cover of needing your "support" when they are down. Yours is how much? I had one ask for 400k to cover the logistics fees of a project he claimed would net millions. I no even answer am.

They target women that have jobs with low responsibilities. The older you are, the better- as you might be desperate to get a horseband.

rockstarB:
I met this new guy. It's long distance and we say we want to make things work. He will visit soon according to him. But he is asking for financial help barely after one week. Last week I sent him 2k for fuel, now he is asking for another money. He said he will bring it when coming next week. I am disappointed.
This is the reality women now has to face, how come it's during the time we met you're suddenly broke? Yet it is the women that are gold diggers. He isn't the first person, more women just need to speak out as much as the guys are complaining about girl asking for financial help barely into a new relationship.
Update; now begging for sub money I don't know what is wrong with some guys of nowadays. No dignity
Friday morning rants

Quality20:
women are naturally misers and greedy things. most dont even wanna hear u talk about ur monetary problems b4 shutting u down, thinking u are about to ask them something, when in fact u are only heading to something different. even my elder sister who is well-to do would be telling me life is difficult, and yet I have never asked her anything and I don't call her cos she might assume im stylishly trying to ask her money

chudyprince:
Second to the last pic resembles Lil Bow Wow

otherway:
Hmmmmm! I got so emotional and shed tears when i read this part. at this time in the last 3 years i was so broke and i remember borrowing 1k from a niece but today i earn about N1M a month when converted to the same Naira i borrowed and this is just the starting point for me.

Indeed the state of being broke or poor is relative and temporary.

GOD BLESS YOU TOKS BABA for your never-ending insightful threads. I just hope ladies learn.

Toks2008:
That you should vamolotripicity otherwise you will viscuterlocomoto...

Shey you get?

happybee:
This is gonna happen in Nigeria soon..

xynerise:
They never knew sex in the kitchen exist?

Crazyemberr:

Interacting with humans, i've come to the realization that people are generally;

Superficial Shallow, that most often refuse to look beyond the surface. Conclude on individuals we barely know and act on this fixed impression. We judge based on financial/social status, physique, intelligence and so on.

Hypocritical hub
Publicly we pretend to possess virtues not in us. We gravely err behind closed doors only to come out, condemning with a burning passion, the most little of sins. Not minding the skeletons in our closet.

Predical
It is in our nature to segregate. To push aside others and isolate them because we share not the same views and believe in our respective philosophies of life. Diversity (race, tribe, religion, sex, nationality), a thing of beauty, now divides us.


I personally think these are among the few major social vices (on which others are built) that destroys not only our relationships with each other but our community as a whole.