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[quote author=alfredo4u post=74548738]Paying her school fees and feeding her for four years in school and after everything she dumped me for my friend........

Today, the two of them are working for me in my fathers company.

That is a Good Testimony, Kindly Delay their Salary for Months n Sack both of them on same day

larryking540:
No matter how beautiful a lady is,her heart might not be beautiful, and no matter how ugly a lady is her heart might not be as ugly as she is,

Look b4 u leap, ,,,,some females are after help not love so b careful , I have quickly learnt to differentiate between help and love when asking a lady out

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Bro, u just spoke a FACT about Lady of nowadays.. They pretend to Love u as You dey Spend or sponsor them. Immediately, u re out of Cash or gat other tinx to attend to or u gat Challenge, then broda, You see their Definition of So Called LOVE.

I don wise sha..

[quote author=obembet post=74547698]It's very bad to cheat, that is my regret so far that make me lose the man of my dream.I wish he can give me second chance but God knows the best

Share yours guys


At least, u see a Lady that come out to say the Truth and not blame d guy for their Fault..

Appreciate You..

[quote author=NIGHTMARE0O7 post=73817056] she is a Yoruba woman now,
So I'm not surprised at all., [/quote..

You must a Bastard 4ya Word, y like causing Issues?


i just dey look pass oo

ZombieTAMER:
Only zombies that hate this country will think otherwise...


Zombies are wicked..
They don't want anyone else to progress

With Buhari That corper will stay at home for years before he gets any job..

But we all Know Atiku means jobs

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You must be Atikulated i guess, why do we play our Life for the Benefit of this Politicians?
I pity Nigerians, instead of standing to speak with One voice, we pretending. I know 1 tin for sure, God mercy on me , my household and everyone who want good for Nigeria, Amin.

manikspears:
feminist no go talk now o

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Yes oooo

Benwems:
The bad thing is that the girl will still have another side guy or other boyfriends. You hardly see any girl without multiple boyfriends these days.

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Boss, You just spoke a Fact... 90% Truth

PotatoSalad:
Lol. Touch anything in my house and you'll meet your maker real quick.

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Bro, u dey Ves oo

redsquare:
Common girlfriend, not even wife or fiancee. Any girl that tries this rubbish with me must loose at least one tooth. The idiot will tell me whether na her papa give me money buy those properties she destroyed.

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Bro, u dey Ves ooo.

Tamarapetty:
200lvl counselling education student'' she really needs counselling. . Some ladies will just be using their two left legs and hands to chase away a good guy. Smh

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!st Time i would hear a Female judge without Sentiment, Thank You o

krissy123:
I get the fact that a relationship shouldn't be built on lies and he has a right to be upset...but come on. A divorce? Cos she lied about her age?. She was probably feeling insecure and didnt wanna lose him at the beginning.... they ought to work out their differences not get separated after being together for so long.

Understand ya Say, but to Me, No Mata what, A Woman should never Lie to a Man because of Securing a Relationship..

Liliyann:
Message not understood!!
Love issa scam,those in it, are doing it for their selfish gains!!
I don't believe in it

hMMM, wHY?

[quote author=juanjo2 post=72916115]Please nairaland, if you don't have any news for us again, just post Buhari's picture or Lai Mohammed's own let us insult them[/quote


You re just so Funny

Donmedrac:
Terrorist..


I can bet buhari grave there's a bomb under that hijab....

Don't worry Christianisation is currently happening in the north and you all will pledge your support to God Jesus....

And throw away your pedophilic prophet called Mohammad cause he's mad.

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As u ever type ''And throw away your pedophilic prophet called Mohammad cause he's mad'', i Beg Almighty God with Al Quran that u will Receive the Hardship dos who have ever said this word has got in the Past, Amin...

newdawn2017:
My dear, d@'s lie. Most Ladies never go back 2 their vomits, I myself finds it repulsive. Unless she never really left in her heart,

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My Dear Sister, It a 100% Lie that Most Ladies neva go back to thier Vomits n am saying this with Fact i have seen around..

Ladies, are easily deceived by thier Old Men, Most especially when their current Relationship isnt too Find and they Notice somtin way the d Ex dey do and Current cant Afford it..

QueenSuccubus:



Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

As i read this Post, i knew it most be a Female comment...

Saff:
1. Never give a man money
2. Most guys below 30 are unserious
3. Listen to his actions not words
4. Don’t open your legs too soon
5. Stop going after men with good looks, aim for the ones who can provide.

Wow, you comment re Nice but Last i checked.

Any responsible Man would not collect Cash from Female only for Important reason.
Not all Man below 30 as u said as Unserious as u said, that is a Fact babe.
No 3 accepted.
4, you also know that, even when a Man does not wanna Open Female legs, They see u as not mature to Go down with them and you not fit.
5, this also applies to Men, do not be serious with a Lady because she is Beautiful, Most of them are Useless. Go for a Serious Mind Lady whom is ready to fight the battle of Life with you showing by Action not only Promise words.

survivor1986:
Ordinary stone go break that window abeg.

That must be a Nigeria Person thinking.. Gr8 Naija

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

Wow, this Story is so Unbelievable. But this re the Guys dat Paints Others in thier Foolish Colour. Sorry Angel but i can still Tell u, All Man Aren't the same.

Saff:
Most men of this generation are mentally weak and unable to handle life circumstances. Relying on weed/ alcohol, cigarettes or any kind of drug to function.

Most are lazy and not ambitious looking for easy quick money.

Not responsible, looking for a woman to help them or give them money. I don’t blame them, most were raised by women with the father absent or barely there. They don’t understand what it means to be a MAN.

Most men have poor financial management. Spend all their days on social media, betting, money on random women. It’s pitiful.

Most men never take responsibility for themselves. Always looking for one person/ thing to blame for their misfortune.

Rather be single, have a child and be happy than raise a boy into a man because his father didn’t do that job. I’m sorry.

Your comment re quit somehow but i Think you talking real of some Guys that re not yet Ready to be a Man

ebuka440:
You are a FOOL in capital letters. Your FATHER and your entire family are nincompoops.
Skowale can never be a human beings name but rather an animal. The muric or whatsoever they are called are trying to say that they voted in fayemi thereby making demands. It's unacceptable.
Besides, until the law court declares fayemi the winner then we will start debating on that. You are not ashamed to sell your vote of four years for#4,000.
Fool

Your Fool.. n Last time, i didnt Sell my Vote cos Am neva an Ekiti Born

[quote author=Rashduct4luv post=70683800]Wants to marry Christian woman

I like one girl, and we are gonna get WED in future. My parents are fully agreed with my decision, so her parents. Everything is going alright. The problem I am encounted with is, "She is Christian."

While discussing with each others, I have asked her to Embrace ISLAM, And I have been given many information regarding islam so she can understand each and everything, It seems she doesnt want to EMBRACE islam. As she said " I am very very strong christian, I just cannot accept any faith than christianity, I cannot become muslim. She doesnt eat pork, nor, does she drinks, She is a Chaste lady with her true feelings and a Clean heart.

This is true that she has nothing against my faith. She is agree to accept me with my faith and she wants me accept her with her faith, and the children would be MUSLIMS. This is what we have decided so far. Some of my friend adviced me to FORCE her to EMBRACE ISLAM, Like threaten "I won't marry you if you dont Embrace islam" This is what my friend adviced me, But as far as I realize, This wouldnt be fair at all. please Tellme Should i force her to become muslim? I guess, to embrace islam she must have the feelings that ALLAH is one and she should have the real feelings instead of fake feelings.

I dont want to force her cause I scare, that IF she becomes muslim JUST to show me, JUST to get married with me, Its gonna be SIN on me. I want she to become muslim from her true feelings and real feelings with that ALLAH is one and he is the god. I am trying my best to provide her knowledge of islam and to showing her the right path. Please tellme Should i force her?

IF she refuses to embrace Islam, Can i marry her? Can I and her get married and lives as husband and wife?.



Praise be to Allaah.

Allaah has permitted us to marry Jewish and Christian woman, on condition that they are chaste and avoid zina (unlawful sexual relations), and that the wali (guardian) of that Christian woman is a Muslim. Evidence here can be found in Al-Maa'idah 5:5.

What is meant by chaste is refraining from zina (unlawful sexual relationships).


However, we do not advise you to marry a non-Muslim woman, nor do we advise you to marry just any Muslim woman. For married life is not based only on beauty and attraction, rather the wise Muslim must look with insight at what is beyond that, because he needs to be sure that his house will be looked after in his absence, and he needs to bring up his children, and he will not be able to find that or other things which every wise husband seeks, except with a religious Muslim woman. This is the advice of our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “A woman may be married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her religious commitment. Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust [i.e., may you prosper].”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4802; Muslim, 1466).

Al-Nawawi said:

The correct meaning of this hadeeth is that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was describing what people usually do, for they seek these four characteristics, the last of which in their view is religious commitment, but you, the one who is seeking guidance, should look for a wife who is religious. But this is not an absolute command.

This hadeeth encourages keeping company with people who are religiously committed in all things, because the one who keeps company with them will benefit from their good attitude and morals, their blessing and their good ways, and he will be safe from mischief at their hands.

Sharh Muslim, 10/52

But marriage to women of the People of the Book leads to a great deal of mischief and trouble, such as:

1. He may have to be courteous to this wife of his at the expense of his religion, especially if she is “very committed” to her own religion. This may mean that she will hang up crosses and go to the church, and the children will not be safe in this environment. This can be seen in the lives of famous Muslims who married Christian ladies.

2. She is not going to wash properly after finishing her period, or tell him not to have intercourse with her when she is menstruating; she is going to make him do something that is wrong according to sharee’ah and cause him physical harm.

3. He is going to be put in an embarrassing situation because of her careless attitude concerning dress and her mixing with men and speaking to them.

4. The states and governments of these women of the Book will be on their side and will give them custody of the children if differences arise and divorce takes place. This will cause these children to be lost and to fall into kufr. Such cases are too well known to need mentioning here and too many to count.


One of the poets said:

“Marriage to a Christian is an abhorrent action which leads to the kufr of the children for sure.

Whoever accepts for a child of his to be a kaafir is himself a kaafir, even if he claims to be a Muslim.

A man may become a kaafir, following his wife, and enter the Fire of Hell forever.

You must look for one who is religiously committed, if you want a sound marriage.

Forget about the people of kufr and beware of marrying them, for that will lead to a lot of evil.

The children of such a marriage will not be guided; they will swell the ranks of evildoers.

Secondly:

It is not permissible for you to force your Christian wife – if you do marry her – to become Muslim. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“There is no compulsion in religion. Verily, the Right Path has become distinct from the wrong path. Whoever disbelieves in Taaghoot [falsehood, false gods] and believes in Allaah, then he has grasped the most trustworthy handhold that will never break. And Allaah is All-Hearer, All-Knower”

[al-Baqarah 2:256]


Ibn Katheer said:

Allaah says: “There is no compulsion in religion” meaning: do not force anyone to enter Islam, for it is obvious and clear, and its proof and evidence are apparent. There is no need to force anyone to enter it, rather whomever Allaah guides to Islam and opens his heart to it and illuminates his insight will enter it with conviction; but whoever Allaah makes blind in his heart and seals his hearing and insight will not benefit from being compelled to enter the religion by force. They said that the reason for the revelation of this verse was concerning some people among the Ansaar, even though this ruling is general.

Tasfeer Ibn Katheer, 1/311

We advise you – once again (he who wishes to marry a Kitabi) – to leave the Kitabi woman and to pray to Allaah to guide his heart to that which is in the best interests of your religion. So long as you give her up for the sake of Allaah, then you should be certain that Allaah will replace her for you with someone better, for whoever gives up something for the sake of Allaah, Allaah will compensate him with something better.


Brother In Islam, i have something to comment on ya post:

The are not what we need as a Country, these re post that can go a Long way causing Hatred in Mind of a Common Nigerian.
Find about Islam, if u need Advice on what Almighty Allah as said on Marrying other Religion, why not asking a fellow Muslims or Ask within your Islam Family and decide on your Own rather than bringing to the Air to cause Issues.

And this would not get you the advice you need rather, it has shown that your Religion is One sided and given People impression that Islam Is Bad which is not.

Am not criticizing any one or Religion, and i would advice anyone reading this that God owns all Religion, Why on earth do You Want to Fight for GOD. Let Love Ourself no Matter Religion says.

Am a dedicated Muslims, i have my Mother to be a Good Christian and Loving, go to her church whenever she has something to do, play my Role as a Good Son & she does same too, family of both religion. We both celebrate One n Other Festi period like others re not coming.

*Say No 2 religion Fight, God Owns Religion, remember No1 can Satisfy God.
*Love ya Family no matter Religion
*Marry any1 that Makes you Happy & You both have common Goal for Life

Pls Note: Islam re not Terrorist and Christian re Not too. It is what our Bad Rulers instead of Leaders has done that is paying Us Back, Let Join Hand to Fight Them.

hyfr:
Davido dey prepare for hin political career and some jobless people are dying ontop of his dream
As for chioma .. she better make sure say she marry davido.. cos no man would marry a lady that’s been licking another guys feets

Na so

hitng:
How Co-Tenant Organised Robbery Attack Against Neighbour In Lagos

Police in Lagos have revealed how a tenant conspired with other members of his armed gang to attack his co-tenant. The incident happened in Ebute- Ikorodu, a suburb of the State.

The suspect, identified as Seun Hammed Olayinka ‘a.k.a D J Shy’, was alleged to have conspired with his gang members to rob a co-tenant named Omotoyosi Bello in their residence located at 32 Ajose Street, Ebute, Ikorodu.

The Commissioner of Police Lagos Command, Edgal Imohimi made the disclosure at a press briefing on Monday.

The police boss said the gang attacked the victim on 9th of August 2018, at about8.30pm and dispossessed her of an iPhone valued at N150,000.00.

According to him, while Hammed, the mastermind of the attack escaped and luck ran against three members of the gang who took part in the robbery attack as they were arrested by the command’s raider team.

Edgal noted that the arrest was made through a painstaking investigation conducted by the raider team following a complaint by the victim to the police.

He identified the arrested suspects as 29-year-old Solomon Jacob, 32-year-old Ifeanyi Chifalue and Akinola Micheal, aged 24.

The CP added that one English revolver pistol and three live ammunition were recovered from the suspects including the stolen iPhone 8. He said all the suspects will be charged to court soon.

“When I ask you the question, do you know your neighbour? Usually, at the end of every press briefing, it isn’t just a mere word rather it is a question we must ask ourselves all the time.

If Omotoyosi Bello knew that her neighbour and co-tenant at no 32, Ajose Street, Ebute Ikorodu, by name Seun Hammed Olayinka ‘DJ Shy’ is a member of an armed robbery gang, perhaps she might have given him up to the police. But unfortunately for her, the said Seun, a Disc Jockey (DJ) organised a 3-man-armed robbery gang to attack and rob her of her iPhone valued One Hundred and Fifty Thousand Naira only on the 9th of August, 2018 at about 8:30 pm.

However, through a painstaking investigation conducted by the Command’s Raider team, three of the robbers who took part in the operation were arrested and the iPhone recovered. While the said Seun Hammed Olayinka, a co-tenant to the victim, who staged the robbery is currently at large,” the CP said.


http://hitng.info/3024/how-co-tenant-organised-robbery-attack-against-neighbour-in-lagos/

Make dem Kill Them all without Further Delay in front of each Family House...

Soljaboi44:
Wishing myself the happiest of birthdays.
On this special day, First and foremost, I want to thank you God for the days and nights I've survived because without him my struggles are nothing in this soldiering profession.
I also want to thank him for the priceless gift of life that He has given me and for the wonderful people He has put in my life.

Happy birthday to myself!

Happy birthday Bro, Lond Life to you..

Mynd44:
Are you getting married for children or because you love the person and want to spend the rest of your life with the person?

You can get married for business, to cement ties or a range of other reasons.

Point is this, getring married for children is just narrow (no offense) since you can have children without marriage. If it is kids you want, knack up your landlord's daughter; why go through the stress?

Are u already Married or About to? Your comment is somehow

Patrioticooduan:
Ignorant people everywhere. You are thanking God for saving your life. If God loves you, he would not have allowed the gas to explode

You re a Big Fool for your comment

nnokwa042:
if I hate your religion with harming you then you need to be unlike you people that hate our religion and still kidnap our girls to forcefully convert them to Islam not done with that you people still kill us with sucide bombing and beheading

I see u are d Biggest Fool On EARTH

notoriousbabe:
Fake marriage, fake people,fake religion.

You Must be a Bastard for your Comment

Hofbrauhaus:
Atuku ABUBAKAR GCON is our next President. It's time to set Nigeria on the path of greatness.

Not these trabalistic cows currently occupying AsoRock..

To u is this d Type of Leaders we need? This re just Old Fools dat has no Plan for Us..

Destroe:
That's not body shaming, that's just stating the obvious truth, She's fat and ugly. Anybody who tells her a different thing is just lying to her

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I fear u for TALK ooooo