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1. House Of Reps Okays Islamic Banking

2. 61Nigerians Deported From The UK

3. 43,000 Ghost Workers Discovered By FG In One Year

4 . Former IG Okiro Ordered To Pay N50M Over Shady Land Deals

5 . No Apology Over Islamic Banking – Sanusi

6. Striking Anambra Health Workers Vow To Continue

7. We Have 100 Volunteer Suicide Bombers For High Profile Targets - Boko Haram

8. Yar’adua Made Me Acting President - Yayale

9. Appeal To GEJ: 'Save Igbo Traders From Customs Harrassment

10. Boko Haram Splits Into Two Factions

11. Kwara ACN Warns PDP On Its Members Unruly Behaviour

12. Robbers Kill Police Chief In Ondo


13. We Can’t Pay New Wage :Abia


And does any of the above worth calling Nigeria a worthy place to live? am sure the answer is no therefore if the masses have choice of living a good life else where  pls allow them

Digriz:
One major problem wt Nigerians living in America is hardly they remembers home,always carried away by American life and nothing much to show back home.
If you do your statistics well you wl notice that others living in europe are better of than them.,i hv compared some of them in Germany,Austria and many other western europeans and some scandinavian countries wt those who hv lived in US even longer than them and d differences is wide clear.
You may be living a good life in America,spending a lot of dollars and Nigerians in your area may be seeing u as a big guy bt right back at home,u are penniless. No investment,no good house not to talk of assisting your people in Naija.

The above is a personal choice not a factor that determines a country's standard of living.

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1.   House Of Reps Okays Islamic Banking

2.   61Nigerians Deported From The UK

3.   43,000 Ghost Workers Discovered By FG In One Year

4 .  Former IG Okiro Ordered To Pay N50M Over Shady Land Deals

5 .  No Apology Over Islamic Banking – Sanusi

6.   Striking Anambra Health Workers Vow To Continue

7.   We Have 100 Volunteer Suicide Bombers For High Profile Targets - Boko Haram

8.   Yar’adua Made Me Acting President - Yayale

9.   Appeal To GEJ: 'Save Igbo Traders From Customs Harrassment

10. Boko Haram Splits Into Two Factions

11. Kwara ACN Warns PDP On Its Members Unruly Behaviour

12. Robbers Kill Police Chief In Ondo


13. We Can’t Pay New Wage :Abia

@Poster please refrain from self delusion and wake up to reality. Nigerian has a terminal disease called[b] "CORRUPTION"[/b] and with it, is deteriorating the country to her worse days in life. No security, no job opportunity, no good roads or water hence bad social amenities. over 70 million wakes up everyday with no hope for the future, while over 10 million may have no food to eat for the day. Senators killing senators, police attacking and killing innocent lives, soldiers giving out weapons to armed robbers, kidnapping another one, you name it.

Please do not mention any of your unfounded points to a starving young Nigeria that education is his concern not even the food to eat. Please do a re-think and call a spade a spade.

macjive01:
@tpia, are u married? if not

are u searching? if yes

Are u ready to settle down in the next 12 months- including dating, courting, and marriage rite, then start having children ? if yes

i have a man for u.

He is Igbo anyway, i know u re from the north, he is a gentleman, a fine one at that.

u wud definitely like him. He is handsome and having. good, tight job and his own apartment.

He wants a girl with a broad sense and mindset, someone who is modern and yet courteous.

He wants a girl who is intelligent and can engage him in intellectual and constructive argument and discussion.

a girl who is not boring. someone who is versatile. someone who luvs to travel.

a girl who wudnt full her face with food and transform into a bag of cassava over night.

He wants a christian, but im sure a casual laid- back Muslim won't kill him (after all, he hasn't been to church in 4and half years).

i strongly believe u fit that description, if only u re single. or whatever, but still available.


please, regard this with most attention and genuineness ooh.

Tpia you see your life, just come out from the closet i trust nairalanders they will take you as you are, haba

yeap, it's eye opening but it's the truth

M M M:
op
do men have spiritual wife?

yeap

toyemz:
@^^^
thanks for shedding more light on this
but your concentration is on women
now that's unfair
what about men, don't they marry spiritual wives, will they get to see the kingdom of God?


and i hope you are above 30 and married if not
I'm going to rightly( wrongly) assume that you are married to 3 spiritual wives and have no hope of seeing God's kingdom
Heaven or earth!

Though i know you have that full blown understanding of what spirit husband or wife is all about but unfortunately you've decided to shy a way from it, good enough. However, am willing to add more light to severe ignorance.

The reality is, ' having what is called spirit husband or wife is having convenanted relationship with demons, it's been westernised that's why they use the term husband/wife instead of calling a spade a spade "demon". Therefore, since anything to do with devil/demon is evil, God will never allow such person involve in evil demonic convenanted relationship to inhererit His Kingdom. This is the more reason why Jesus Christ came to Earth to cast out deomns and gave the mantle to us to do greater things in his name.

what about if a lady is age 31?

What baffles me a lot is that many posters here knows the concrete truth but at the same time arrogantly shy away from it .

Take it or leave it, no woman with spirit husband or man with spirit wife will inherit the kingdom of God, call it myth of fiction the fact is the truth still stands and will come to reality soon and i mean very soon.

I beg where Agbani dey now,

Am very much convinced that some Nigerians will support Argentina

How many years in prison if you steal from the government?

obowunmi:
@ OP if your friend really likes him, she can make him brush before they start a make out session,

Buy him a good toothbrush and toothpaste

Give him chewing gum

Advice and encourage him to go to the dentist.

Advice and encourage him to stop sugary drinks and gulp more water.

No one is perfect including her.

very sensible

CV

@Aloy


Bia, try find the true and full story of this your news, i beg really need to read it,

Please experience people should contribute plssssss,

Half of those money squandered went to ATLANTIC BAR and COLOSEUM- Vauxhall.. This guy can spend almost a grand in one night.

Plus call up girls, yes i remember

What about if your wife has beaten the hell out of your mother before returning back from work what will you do; kiss her and lead her to the bedroom?

@ifyalways

from what you've posted so far i have no doubt that you romance the main guy himself "diabolis" every day and night

obowunmi:
Well said lovejo. Most naija men will say "she's not a virgin, who wants use and dump chick." Just FYI.

lovejo:
reverse the role, can u marry a girl with two kids? same law should be applied.

Yes i will if i really love her, so because  of that the marriage will not go ahead, sorry i think you're both short sighted in your tots

African_queen:
I don't know what to say to you. . .

i can now say "sorry love" cos in your other post you sound very intelligent

African_queen:
. If your friend really love his kids his 1st fear should not be if she'll leave him, it should be if she's good enough for his kids. But if I really love a guy and he hides stuff like that from me I might forgive him cos I know d value of kids no matter from which womb de came from. . .

Sensible, intelligent and just what he needs now, Dipo join nairaland now i can't cool you down alone o.

Orton1_0:
^
wtf??
Your comment no meke any sense - die

God bless u jare Orton, i was even expecting something more sensible i know say na rubbish she drop

livedit:
What's in question here isn't so much the fact if we would date a man with children, but not being told he has children when the relationship got serious between him and her. How long have these two been dating? I can understand his woman would be upset because he never told her up front what the real deal is, because that would make me wonder if he is not hiding something else. So now this would cause trust issues. I'm sure she feels betrayed, hurt and not important enough to share something so important as this.

At the same token, these are innocent children who don't have anything to do with this. So I'm hoping she is NOT taking it out on them. I would be upset no doubt, but I'll need a complete explanation why he didn't trust me enough and take into consideration my feelings of holding back such pertinent information about himself. Sure, I can understand he was in "fear" that she would leave, but that's a chance you have to take when you are dealing with another life not just yours. He didn't give her an option rather or not if she would want to continue seeing him or break it off with him since he have children already. So it could be a deal breaker for her and it's her every right. I can sympathsize with her on that.

But at the same time, I wouldn't totally dismissed the guy. Especially if he has proven to be honest in "other" areas of his life and treated her well. But ultimately, this is HER decision if she decides to stay and stick it out with him. You claimed that she "loves" him. So who knows, maybe once things cool off for a bit and he give her time to think about it, she may give him another chance. But a definitely sincere apology is in order regardless of his reason behind it. You don't play with people's lives and emotions like that. By the way, that comment about (not even angels in heaven couldn't pursway her to marry him) was more than likely said out of anger/hurt.

Trust and open communication is just two of the prerequisite in a relationship in order for it to work. Right now, all he can do is back off and give her space to digest all of this. Because of his selfish act (again, regardless of the reason) he have to accept the fact that it could be over between the two of them. He didn't want to lose her not telling her, but in the end result, it did more harm than good. So not telling is not the best policy. Right now, he should be more focus on his children and making sure they are taken care of. Make sure his life is right with God first and everything else will work itself out. And making sure his priorities in life is on the straight and narrow.

Bottom line, he made a mistake. He is not perfect. So he should be forgiven despite his inequity. But if it don't work out between them, then hopefully he will learn from this mistake so he will know not to do this again with his next relationship.

Absolutely detailed i give you 90% in fact i have told him to join nairaland that there are some intelligent ones that can cool down his emotion. Again i give it to you livedit.

@segunjowo, toohot4you, Mygoldie thank you i have already sent all the advise/counselling to him am sure he might have read them all.

I also feel for him as he thinks he can't get any good woman again, though i think he's a bit shallow in his tought though. Anyway thanks to you all.

WARNING, WARNING, WARNING

Don't ever get married to someone that doesn't love you or pretending, it's deadly. One day he/she will run into life frustration and may decide to waste you at the middle of the night. Any union with the absence of love is of the devil, so please beware.

ppp

well

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well