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armyofone:
na you be the man involved, abeg tell us true o, it is too early 2012

e for beta if to say she gree for me o but na too much yanga lead her go meet married man

To add,

She even have a nice 2 bed house (mortgage) of her own, drives nice 2007 car and make good money. She's my friend, so i know her very well with her ego, she never beg her baby father for support.

To all that have posted including ebonyvibe

Please lets not be deceived, the expectant single mom knows exactly what she's up to, am very much sure of that. She only wanted a baby from the guy and not even the material stuffs many of us think she's after.

There's one here in London, a high profile lady doctor making good money but don't have the characteristics of building a home with a man. To cut long story short she got pregnant for a married man of two kids. Though she vowed she will never ask a penny from the guy that she will take care of her lovely son in peace and joy; how sincere was the statement remains with her.


Note:
At least 90% of ladies who gets pregnant in UK or other westhern countries really wanted it from the oncept, let's not be deceived.

Prophecy or no prophecy, doom or no doom, boo boo or no boo boo, analogy or no analogy, war or war no,

Even if the whole entire world plus Nigeria mount war against Israel, Israel will still win like eating chicken and chips. I only believe the prophesy in the bible not TB the prince of liers.

michelin89:
Oh poor poster. Perhaps he should make more sensible posts.

Besides I have more than a reason to insult the poster:

1. He is chauvinist
2. He is a christian
3. He created the topic.

Common shut up your mouth, we all know on NL that you are possessed, abi no be you.

Many thanks

Please someone help me, how do i post youtube video on nairaland!

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Lax75:
Haba, How can I forget the soooouuuuullllll traain!!!

Haaaaa   you got it    "soul train" not souls n R n B 

Honestly those days were too great, pity the young ones now, all their programme is just full of pornos and violent scenes too bad.

senora aquila:
13. Captain planet
14. Power rangers e.t.c
Those days were so much fun.
Danger mouse

Danger mouse gives me tommy ache those days, it's full of laughter, very funny  :

[center]Nigerian Flavour

Cork crow at dawn
New Masquerade
Village Head-Master
Mirror In D sun
Behind The Cloud
Koko Close
Aluwe
Aworo and Fadeyi
Sunday rendevous
Tales by moonlight
Third eye
Spark---- RMD

Cartoon

Tom and Jerry
Superted
Voltron
Speedy racer,  yeah No.10
Sesame Street
Scoobie doo

BBC

Frank Spencer and Betie
Hallow Hallow
Jesus Of Nazareth
Dr Who
Robin wood

USA

The good times
Different strokes
VH1 souls and R and B
Bill Cosby Show
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[center]Easy and peaceful breakup will be the defining moment for all soldiers.[/center]

Jenifa_:
the solution will come when men change their demands on women to be submissive. if that happens, women will not mind marrying a struggling man.
until that day comes, most financially independent women have no other choice than to remain single or marry a richer man who they can be submissive to.

because it is impossible to be submissive to a man who is poorer than you. how can a woman sweat to earn money and at the end of the day, the husband (who is not earning anything) has control over all the decisions. won't the woman rather be single and have control over her own life?
and wait till she can find a rich man to marry then ehn ehn you can be satisfied to be a submissive wife. at least the husband will take care of her and she may not even have to work.  so it's easy to be submissive to a rich man.

but for the struggling guy, abeg find a job if you want a submissive wife. otherwise, women will continue to marry late.

at least Nigerian population will decrease small 

Jennifer your reasoning were obnoxious, it's highly pathetic, like one poster said, probably you are under 16.

As we are almost in the net of boko haram sectarian attacks, i think is high time we gave our own ideas of how to combat these demons roaming about the nation for no actual reason whatsoever, since our so called police intelligent are just weak to come out with credible and sophisticated solutions.

Nairalanders, please 'the technical idea you contribute may be the solution to the on-going problem of Boko Haram and could put an end to this evil threat eroding our beloved country. Seun/ moderators, please print out the sensible points and post it to the I.G, 'cause i believe nairalanders will surely have ways of ending the useless sects called Boko Haram.



My own idea

Here in UK Scotland Yard have hundreds of under covers ( (all Asians/Arabs decendants) ) that worship at different mosques, attends different islamic meetings with in-built secret cameras/communication methods attached to their bodies etc, with this method many potential terrorist has been caught successfully and it really works. I believe if the NPF could do same, terror attack will reduce dramatically. Just my 2p.

Freesia:
People need to stop thinking their lives will be more fulfilled when they get married,If you are not happy on your own,then even when you tie the knot you will not be happy.
We all know at least one or two people who had no business getting married,but they did it for the wrong reasons.I like to say Marriage is an eternity affair so choose well because you will be spending the next 50 plus years together,so you want to make sure you do it right the first time.

you talk well my sister, but the fact be say those 1 -8 factors are attributed to many ladies of this age no doubt about it. The worst of it all is when you see hundreds of them pouring out for prayers to overcome late marriages.

Nayah:
I really think people should consider many facts and do not think as we were in the 60's or whatever, Ithink we should respect decisions of people, whatever your choice, I'll respect it cause we don't know people past or plans, too easy blaming or targeting someone because he doesn't do like the others

For me marriage is about consolidation, love and building not age! of course some of you might tell me " a women who's above 30 is difficult for her getting married" and so on, while I've seen many married woman at or above this age who's enjoying motherwood and marriage and some who get married earlier have divorced!

Marriage is too important for me to leave it only in the hands of the others, I'll get married when all conditions will be fullfied

Good point but what benefit is it after getting married at age 37 and still end up in divorce due to pride of life plus many factors listed by those pastors.

The point here is women or ladies should employ morality in their life styles.

iv4real:
@ skyone you said 80% of women and not all the women in UK get married before 30. So in every society there will still be ladies that will get married above thirty.

Yes agreed but have you taken your time if many of those getting married at age 30 and above are really happy about it.

iv4real:
What is it with some guys in nairaland, always bringing up threads to bash Nigerian women. NOT EVERYBODY IS SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED AT A YOUNG AGE. WHICH OTHER SOCIETY HAVE YOU SEEN ALL THE WOMEN GETTING MARRIED BEFORE 30. GETTING MARRIED EARLY DOES NOT GAURANTEE A SUCCESFUL MARRIAGE.

Here in UK statistics shows that 80% of couples who were married got married before age 30 including Prince William. And those co-habiting mostly starts between age 21 - 26.

Swift SMS:
Goodness me, it's amazing how some of our numerous pastors/preachers are full of theories as to why there are late marriages. That spiritual husband part is the most hilarious one of all (am not mocking anyone just saying). t.

Well i can categorically tell you the issue of spiritual husband is on the board and can not be erased. Many likes of yours knows this problem is the epitome of late marriages in women desiring one.

Swift SMS:
I grew up in one of the north central states, where I did all of my schooling from primary to tertiary institution. I needed to get out of that state broaden my horizons, get some exposure, work, earn a living and gain some financial independence of my own. Marrying any of my suitors then would have meant settling down in that same town/city where I grew up, settling for a job with the state civil service (you all know what the civil service is like) and settling for a life of mediocrity and simply becoming a Mrs. with children (nothing wrong with that) it just wasn't my cup of tea at the time. [/b]

I don't regret my decision to turn down suitors and zap from my home town as quickly as possible. I have indeed broaden-ed my horizons and continue to do so, gained exposure and financial independence. Things I would not have been able to successfully do if I stayed back home and got married at that time because men from my place have a certain mentality and are set in their traditional ways that doesn't allow a woman certain things.

Right now am not married because I am still not 100% certain it is something I truly want, some days I feel like it, other days am like hell no because of the many negative stories I've heard from friends and acquaintances about their marriages. But as a believer I talk to God about my ever shifting feelings on this issue of marriage and I pray your will and not mine be done.

God has a plan for my life and if part of that plan is marriage and children then so be it, if it is not so be it I won't kill myself oooo. Whatever happens my utmost desire is to make heaven and see the saints gone before me and Jesus' face, now marriage and children will not guarantee my going to heaven. I won't lose sight of what matters most.

Obviously number 1 applies to your belief above. And where you failed woefully is your foul belief of career over family life. Yes you can strife for better future but hey your silly move is not the way to go about it . Ask many women  that has left wearing your shoes how regrettable their life is today.

Fellas please take this topic seriously, the truth you contribute here might redeem that your close friend, relatives etc who is finding it difficult to get married even in her 30s.

This last Sunday we had 3 different pastors that gave 15min sermon, each on the issue of late marriages. What i gathered from each sermon was a sharp concentration on women's vices though they all gave men their own portion to clear as well but most of the sermon was directed on the ladies. As a matter of fact one of the pastor being a woman used a term the [b]" 21st century ladies, " [/b]and went to on to describe how the current face of civilisation has destroyed the true heritage of women whom are supposed to be ACCEPTABLE to God.

In nut shell, i managed to gather that many among the vices of these so called 21st century ladies are ,

1. Bad attitude towards their spouce, no respect whatsoever,
2. Lack of good upbringing, already loosed at the age of 10.
3. bad media influence
4. Taking advantage of the law
5. intimidating the man with good job, money etc
6. Love for money
7. sexual lust for other men
8. Spiritual, spirit husband, generational curse etc.

Please do not pass insult, contribute sensibly with your experience, thoughts and solution.

info.fta:
200% = Hardship
Hardship + Bombing = Revolution
Revolution = Failed State by 2015

You are almost 100% correct, it will come to a time when people will prefer to ku ku die than to live and suffer immensely. And that means fatal revolution up and down the country, i pray it won't happen though.

Believe it or not " THE ILLUMINATI, FREEMASONS, AND JOINT CARTEL FROM US AND EUROPE" controls the oil prices around the world (FORGET OPEC) . And if you don't abide by their rules YOU WILL BE SCOOPED i mean the leader/leaders of that country would be politically removed and someone who is more favourable will then step in.

debrief08:
. I had an Aunt who nagged her husband to the grave so I know how bad nagging can be, Naggers like are like all abusers who look for a weaker man who won't fight back, its all classic abuser behaviour.

True life experience: A uncle of mine here in London died of nagging from his wife, in case you know him "he used to live in Hackney, name: Mr Bola Dada" . A year later, her wife got married to celestial church pastor, name: "Mr Tayo Ogunmefun", please type the name on google you might grasp some stories about this evil pastor.

kWE KWENUU , I carry yansh for ibos

Tudór:
It gets to a certain stage one has to ask why this a frequent occurence amongst RCCG psators? Something is wrong somewhere and its obvious G.O Adeboye is a thief and a friend of thieves and thats why he attracts thieves.

You are frustrated by your atheistic view of life and the more it emerges the likely you go off completely.

I think the likes of the OP and Aloy- emegor will rather count Nwayanwu, Abiola, Nzeribe, Igbinedion etc to be one those Nigerian icons what a shame and delusion.

Nigerians of your calibre loves to be slaughtered by those ruling the evil age we are. Please get grip on reality.

Am a yoruba man and i think "AWOLOWO" started what is called corporate corruption very systemic indeed. He carried out his devil sent assignment by siphoning money from federal treasury to his private companies. He collaborated with cocacola chiefs and own the only license to trade the product until the arrival of IBB, also did some little bit of white substance movement with the likes of OOni of Ife, young abiola then, Tony Ani, Nnamdi Azikwe, Mobolaji Bank Anthony, Fernandez etc. before the young ones like Nwayanwu, Okoya etc took over.

Agui ironsi, Dinka, Obj, Akintola, exploded corruption in the government before IBB introduced the nuclear method of stealing by government. Hence, we are where we are today.

odemchi was denied visa loto plus green card so no need to argue again ja re

nagoma:
All the selfish ones can go to America. They will live for 60 years in "comfort" and die in there 70sm or 80s and so what? I will stay in Nigeria and and try my best and die here. I will urge and advice  my children to do the same. In that way my own country will one day develop. I am not a quitter and not a coward. I will sacrifice my lifetime for Nigeria and not for America.

Try it and when they grow they will screw you up , joke but really Nigerian is the graveyard of talented children not all but 90%, the system is designed to ruin lives and not to improve it.

swezenberg:
I once had a very pretty friend, a family friend to be precise. The day she told me about this thing I was shocked. She was losing all her suitors one after the other to other ladies. She came to me and said she needed deliverance over the spiritual husband she has.

She openly confessed a man comes around to sleep with her at night in her dream. I was shocked I promised to help her get a good loving guy only for the relationship to break shortly after then. She tried another herself she even got herself pregnant in the process only to lose the baby and the relationship again. The mother took her for deliverance at Mountain of fire and she was delivered she’s eventually married today with a baby boy but the mother died shortly after marriage. She was a very loving woman who tried her best for her children.

I think it does exist. It is only those that have been affected that can say much about this. For those that have never experienced it, it will continually be superstition. I pray it does not happen to you all. The other experience with another lady was fatal I don't want to discuss it.

God bless you, a lot of ladies have it like no man's business. The one that baffled my imagination was when a friend of mine "a lady" told me there are even class of spirit husband that some are rich and some are poor, honestly i was shoked to my bones. I thought she was joking but she wasn't. I later asked her, do you have one yourself she said Tayo yes i do but am seeking deliverance. Fellas after day i refrain from womanising.

Just curious, please is there anything called fire service in Nigeria or Local ambulance?

Last March/April during Easter period i watched in horror how two police men gave a pregnant woman serious slaps at Mile 2.

SUNNY45:
@ Skyone, U mean the American society is devoid of terrorism, homicide, robbery, scandals, corruption, brutal killings etc? U must b a big joke!!! A land where ure a 2nd citizen?

And Nigeria where you are rated a 1st class citizen that money can buy your human right + your birth right   hence Obama is black, oh sorry i thought Condolezza Rice was a blondie, what about the attorney general "Eric Holder" is he A white ginger man; ? My guy you be nunatic .  As long you have great vision and potential the sky is not the limit in United States.


Deji Bankole freed from embezzling over 10 billion naira

Election rigging of the first order

Electricity, water, good roads, food is beyond scarcity

Over  5 million children are not fed properly due to poverty and bad governance

Over 1 million graduate jobless with no concern for etc


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