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SirShymexx:
Word. Truer words have never been said. A lot of people underestimate how powerful women are and the fact that it's a woman's world. Mother Earth is a woman and she birthed continents and countries, hence we qualify nations/continents with "she" when being poetic. Even the fact that the average man's weakness is a woman adds credence to that. Also, when a man deemed strong and powerful gets destroyed, look closely and you'll see a woman. Samson had Delilah. Adam had Eve. And even Gaddafi had Hilary Clinton cos without Hilary Clinton, Obama wouldn't have joined UK and France to topple Gaddafi - he would have listened to Gen. Robert Gates. Hence Hilary Clinton celebrated the victory alone after Gaddafi was killed...Obama was indifferent about it.

Conversely, for a man to be deemed strong and powerful - he needs a woman as well. That's how powerful they're on both sides. Men just have that huge vacuous egos and self-aggrandisement - till women get them where they want them and snatch their balls.

Also, based on the dynamics of today's world, I don't even think being principled can keep a woman in check. Those who believe in principles only always get carried away till they meet their Waterloo. Even the guy didn't see this coming cos he met the chic when she was insecure and had low self-esteem and perhaps got carried away cos he felt he's in control and it will always be like that with the cash cow he invested everything in. Personally, I believe the holy grail is either the woman loves you unconditionally or she's just the cultured/virtuous/loyal type that doesn't mind whatever space/structure you put her in. And once you're with a woman like that - don't abuse it or rock the boat cos once you do and third parties get involved, it's over.

You are right. From that video of Tiwa, it showed she's done with Tunji and severed any attempt to ever reconcile the two. Both can only be used as lessons for everyone.

murmee:
You talk carelessly. How can you say she was fucking the big boys in the industry? Were you there? Just because someone said so does not mean it is true. Is that not how someone said Linda Ikeji was sleeping with a particular person just to run her down?

And you believed the edible caterer?

Cybertext:
Oga there's nothing like Joint venture between a Musician and his/her Manager, (just like saying a footballer's agent is a joint venturer to the footballer)... A Music star can only have one manager but a manager can have more than one Music star to manage ( that is if he's good at his Job).... the Music star will be the one to employ the services of the manager, but the managers role is simple:: look for shows and more shows, get endorsements and get more deals that are shared based on an already agreed percentages.
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the same Apply to Sports using (football as a reference).. A football star can only have one agent but an agent who manages all the financial deals, endorsements, transfer talks e.t.c of the fooballer can have more than one footballer in his company.
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It is only a record label that can have a form of Joint venture... that is for example Mo'Hit records which was said to be a joint venture between Don Jazzy and D'banj... (don't knw how true that is tho).

In football, a manager is the coach. He's responsible for nurturing a raw talent to stardom.He puts all the efforts to package the product you see today.Tunji deserves his full credit for building the Tiwa brand we see today. Tiwa would still be in the streets today if now for coach Tunji.

Don jazzy is just a record label owner whose job is to record and distribute Tiwa music while the rest is done by Tunji.

Tiwa de-marketed pampers live on international television. The legal department of pampers might likely take legal actions against Tiwa.

It is now left for pampers competitors to milk this!

SirShymexx:
I've been reading ya comments on this issue since yesterday when I saw one of ya comments and you're one of the few who can read between the lines and you understand what's going on. I'm sure it is either you have been with loads of women, was raised around a lot of women, and/or observe the experiences of those around you. Your comments are so on point.

Even before proper details started coming out - as soon I saw the news about the suicide attempt by the guy and his rant, I knew he got hustled by the chic and most likely lost everything. It happens everyday and once you see a pattern - you don't need to be a psychic or rocket scientist to know what's going on. A lot people don't know how utter cunning women can be and getting into messy war with women is something you can't win, especially in the court of public opinion. So ya holy grail is to always use ya brain and not ya heart when dealing with them.

The ball was in the guy's court when he discovered her and they started dating. Once you start mixing business with love and you know it's going to affect ya business cos no one would want to sign with a management company where the owner only cares about one artist who also happens to his lover - he should handled the business side of things and paperwork. He doesn't even need a lawyer for that...just a template from the internet is enough. And every time it expires, you renew it. If he had done that - he won't be as messed up as he's today. An investment is an investment and ya paperwork has to be right at all times.

Even if he isn't business savvy, he should've listened to Notorious B.I.G's 10 crack commandments, especially rule 3 and 7:

Rule 3: never trust nobody.

Rule 7: keep ya family and business completely separated.

Anyway, the more I read this story - the more I see a pattern with how Robin Givens and her mum used Mike Tyson and hustled the guy, while she was fvcking Brad Pitt under his nose. And her interview is reminiscent of how Robin Givens also destroyed Tyson in her interview with Barbara Walters. Though there are a few nuances here and there.

Have had my experiences and got fascinated to undertake a personal research to understand what it feels like to be a woman. The results when compared with observable realities was mind blowing and gave me my epiphany.

Women in the strict sense of it possesses the power to make or mar a man. from the naive church girl to hijaab wearing Muslim sister or the hustlers. They all have it by default. Men need to wakeup up cos the veil of religion and traditions once used to keep women in check from exercising such powers no longer holds. It's a woman's world as of today and no man can win it against a woman once she so decides to move on you.

I have nothing but love and respect for the woman and understand that it takes a lot for a man to handle them. A man without principles will be tossed and made mess by women. Once your creed in principles is top notch like a Taliban, women will love, fear and respect you even though you drink garri. Some men would've still maintained command and control over Tiwa regardless of how big a star she turns out. Tunji failed in this regard cos he lacked the needed principles.

Unconfirmed rumours.Hope Tunji won't implicate Tiwa as a weed addict?

EgunMogaji:
Absolutely spot on.

How can you be married to a Tiwa Savage and hope to be married for any length of time and without a backup plan?

He fell in love with a hustler. He put all his eggs and staked his manhood and business into a marriage with Machiavellian Tiwa. He saw Tiwa as an end in itself while Tiwa saw and used him as a means to an end. Contract marriage would have saved them this mess. Hope unmarried males are learning.

jubrealguy:
would u love to work with someone u av found out to be stealing from you, someone who can't be honest about some millions, someone who would stop at nothing to tarnish ur image cos of some few millions he intend to borrow, I don't really understand what you mean by joint venture cos last i checked Tiwa is the employer here and Tunji the employee and he was sacked on reasonable ground........I guess what he should have done was pick himself back up, get another life because as much as his wife wouldn't do business with him, she's still willing to help him on other business ground that has nothing to do with her.

Going by Tunji's rant on IG and Tiwa's 45 mins video, you would know that Tunji is just a wussy guy who blames people for his failure, he had no money and had nowhere to run to then everybody around him became the villain, even his own father, that's what brokeness can do to u, it creates this kind of depression that makes u see death as ur saving grace. It does really show he has tried to get some few cash from Tiwa but he couldn't and he believed killing her name, hee career and brand was the best way to get to her but unknown to him, weeks will roll by and weeks will roll in and all ds wouldn't carry much weight again and one Tiwa single can allow her once again be loved by all and sundry cos she's good at what she does.

I pity the nigga tho it's not easy to lose things u once get all day on a platter of gold. The issue of broken marriages, infidelity and irresponsibility among men in this our country is really snowballing at an alarming rate and needs to be checked

In the real sense of it, Tunji built and owned the Tiwa brand. Just that Tiwa the brand grew big and powers changed hands so questions were asked and Tunji was fired. Tunji deserves atleast 3% of Tiwa brand for all his work in building the Tiwa brand. They should cash the playboy out and let him walk since he has lost the marriage and his son.

pangea2:
My guy!
A bottle of orijin for you.
Just on point!
What opened my own eyes to everything was when she said her husband stole her money!
Are they not meant to be one?
These people don't understand the meaning of marriage.
It's like saying you stole money from yourself.
The biggest problem of that marriage was a third party was giving Tiwa advice against her marriage and unfortunately the useless husband had no adviser and they boxed him to a corner.
Quite an unfortunate affair.
The youths that are suposed to learn alot from this are busy getting hoodwinked.
Many of them will still find themselves in this situation when they get married.

The odds were really against Tunji the moment Tiwa mum and family started living with them. They really did a fantastic job on Tunji the playboy. I give them credit for a job well done.

They had three options of putting a closure to Tunji by serving him official divorce papers, poisoning his food and claim over dose as a drug addict, engaging assassins or pushing Tunji to jump into a lagoon by constantly reminding him of what a failure he has been using his history.

I know more dangerous advice was given to her on how best to dump the useless husband and be free but the Tiwa I know don't have such heart yet for such greater evil hence she thanked God tunji made it easier for her to walk even though he alerted the public last minute.

Most glory hunter woman have silently eliminated men in marriages once they perceive weakness from the man. You've got to be on top of your game all through the marriage or your manhood is gone. life doesn't work that way whether you are in showbiz or not. All the brand hairstyles shows parties and singles Tiwa is so self conscious of today will someday be over and her sexy body will shrink.This is the human condition everyone must face.

The youths will someday marry and face most of these issues and will make same mistakes.If Tiwa and Tunji agreed to a contract marriage then I can understand. Tunji the playboy put all his eggs into this and got played.

CyberWolf:
This is where you strength ends. I've been holding myself from dealing with you to avoid ban having come out from 4 months ban, but you keep constituting nuisance on this forum. You are a hopeless criminal with an ediotic and erroneous upbringing .. Ozu nwuru anwu
In fact, go and fvck yourself.. Hopeless ediot

Don't mind the thing.

I see no changes.

The only Nigerian musician I listen to--Asa deserves all the endorsements of big brands. I wonder why we as a people celebrate mediocrity?

Tiwa is a smart girl. she has gotten all she needed from Tunji and wants to dispose. Marriage, baby boy and a thriving career. Tunji was instrumental to all these.His thoughts weren't properly channeled cos Tiwa in the strict sense of it actually used Tunji not through witchcraft but strategically. Sorry playboy, you got outsmarted. You broke rule one by falling in love with a hustler.

You should understand that Tiwa has gotten what she already needed from Tunji so ready to go solo since Tunji conditions has deteriorated after marriage. She walks away now on top of her game, a baby boy, no more when are you getting married questions,freedom to smoke weed and Bleep anyone.

She has one thousand and ten reasons as a woman to walk which she thanked God for that Tunji has now made it easy for her. I know Machiavellian principles when I see one.

Remii:
tiwa's interview didn't support that summision because she claimed spending all the money

Check her interviews and see how she acknowledged Tunji investment in the Tiwa brand. Tunji built the Tiwa brand you see today and deserves his due credit. I hope papers were signed so he can legally cash out.

That's not possible when we have Pastor Osinbade as VP.

I bet Bola Tinubu and Wale Tinubu would be a recurring theme in the next release.

Remii:
we are talking of specifics here. Was Omotola richer than Captain Ekeinde at marriage?

Same specific is applicable to Tunji and Tiwa. Tunji was richer than Tiwa at marriage.

Anyone can make his case and present his arguments to Facebook and get sowore served. As simple as reporting human rights abuses to the Hague with verifiable facts. Just a click away.

ObinnaIzuora:
Lmao. A nobody on a faceless forum with several monikers making mouth, no one even know you in your family sef. Lol

Mynd44, cage these immature kids roaming about cos if and when I go hard and personal on you ban me. Do your job.

Vaxt:
ur name fit u

Thanks.

Good Tinubu paid writer is feeling the heat. He needs to first shake off the tinubu baggage on him before initiated minds can take him serious. When I'm done with him, all those foreign medias giving him support will see his rotten yansh. I used to root for him before.

0ubenji:
Now the big question..who paid for the dubaian wedding tinx biko?
Or was it tiwa?

Maybe Don jazzy?

We prayed about it, and had the consent and peace of the pastor and family and I feel when you have the peace about something in your heart and God has showed you what way to go, there is no denying it. You just have to go that way.

What changed?

And now you are made and he can't afford diapers you walk away? This is injustice.

Tunji and Tiwa are smiling to the bank too.

onstelly:
Hahaha too old ok I respect that
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pcguru1:
Are you saying every madman on the street is mad from weed, i can't prove that they overdose on cocaine same way you can't prove they are mad due to weed.

fair enough.

onstelly:
Lol abeg let's not give ourselves headache cos if this ish, after when they started we are not there

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There's no evidence that shows that Tiwa prepared that food. It could have been Annie idibia, edible caterer,mother in law, house help or self prepared.

Experienced areafada.

pcguru1:
dude weed is 50 naira, Sk is 100 and Arizona 150 cocaine on the other hand is expensive, Weed effect wears off, but the impact from cocaine is much worse, I smoke weed its not as bad as cocaine and that's a fact cigarette is even much worse. Have heard anyone Overdosing on weed.

The law expressly frowns at weed, sk, meth, cocaine etc. Are you saying that most madmen on our streets today got overdosed on expensive cocaine?