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Thank you all for your comments. I feel more relieved. I have tried explaining to her but she fails to understand. I told her not to threaten me with marriage. A man has his time to get married not someone giving him a deadline for marriage because she is older than him

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Blame them. They are M O R O N S.

it's dumb kneeling on the floor to beg a girl for a date. When its ladies that beg men for marriage. When a lady is closing 40 without any man no body will tell her say rain is falling

off course. you can be sacked anytime. No condition is stagnant

[quote author=@TYM link=topic=754641.msg9109553#msg9109553 date=1315525016]Looking @ this issue psychologically, the lady n question hv invested so much n u, i want to admonish u to settle with her amicably cos know u hv deceived her, pls tell her u hv been deceiving her and beg her ,  Take your mum and your siblings and beg her. Because it is unfair for u to dump her after sleeping with her and spending her money. If she curses u Unclad it will work. u know u dont like her bt u r bound by her commitments so go make restitution! I wish u goodluck![/quote]I didnt deceive her. I gave her all I had. In terms of finance I provided for her.

haboosa:
@ poster , i know definitely from all your replies on this post both of u has gone a long way, please before i advice you on this post i will like you to answer this few questions
1. when did the relationship start?
2.when did you know she is older than you?
3.how many times you ve slept with her before you know the age diff?
4.how many tymes you ve slept with her after you notice the age diff?
5. what were you thinking when you are on her when you've notice the age diff?(banging your elder sis? ?)
answers to the above questions will form my opinion on this topic so answer now

-we have dated for 4yrs.
-The first 2 yrs wasnt serious as you have to take time to understand each other.
- I knew she was older than me at the last half when I gave her some dough to do her International passport. Though I didnt really take a look at the passport until when there was an event that needed her passport.
- When I noticed the age difference I overlooked it at first until she started making a reference atto it when we have a lil misunderstanding that she is older than me bla bla bla

i dont think we can have constant power supply with 4,000mw.Presently we are having over 3000mw with less than 5hrs power supply

in terms of size im heavier than her. When i dated her she didnt tell me her age. She told me her age in ranges so I felt I was older than her until I saw her International passport with the real age. I screamed. But the relationship had gone far  by then. I still had my patient and knew in my heart the time i will walk through the aisle. But she is dragging the issue of marriage in a speedy rate.

joaoche:
Poster you ARE JUST FOoL OF S;HIT, YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR EVERY JUSTIFICATION TO DUMP HER [B]SO YOU WOUNT FEEL GUILTY[/B] WHAT BETTER WAY THAN TO COME TO NL FOR HELP [B] WHAT A LOOSER[/B]

u were damn harsh. In marriage you have to take your time. Im more concerned about the threat and the age. Sometimes in our relationship when we have a lil misunderstanding she tells me that in age she is older than me and I should watch my track. She is using the age differences on me. Like she is more advanced than me, bla bla bla

Tx for ur comments. She has made it as a note to me that there is nowhere I can run. Like some peeps indicated that I should run 4 my dear life. She meant it as a threat. She is from Edo and have shown me sample of her threat. At a point she went uncloth ready to swear for me. I pleaded not to do so. I want to flea but where do go. She has all my details and even where I work

andromida:
The qxn is do you love her? two years na small thing i thought you were going to say a decade. If you dont love her pls free her marriage is never byforce.

I do love her but im considering the age factor let it not revolt on me. She is making the marriage by force and have made plans to deal with me if I marry someone else.

thanks 4 ur advice. She said there is no where to run to & I should make the marriage proposal snappy as most of her peers have wedded and she is waiting for me.

its good for them. When the FG brought means to evacuate 9ja citizens in libya where did they go? Instead they chose to remain

it is very possible. We Nigerians are cow.ard

im still waiting to comprehend this story

this country problem is beyond human. if they share that money N100,000 each to unemployed graduates it will go round with change left

why cant we live in peace. Is it bad for Igbo's to demand for 2 states? Even in Nairaland we are fighting. Please all those rebels should stay off ethnic crisis.

We’ve no case against Patience Jonathan –EFCC
From Our reporter
Thursday, September 08, 2011
Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, Mrs. Farida Waziri, yesterday debunked claims that the First Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan is under any form of investigation by the anti-graft agency. She said such a report was mischievous.

Waziri made this clarification while receiving representatives of the Women Empowering and Enriching Lives (WEEL), an Abuja based non-governmental organization, who paid her a courtesy visit at the EFCC’s corporate headquarters in Abuja .

The clarification is coming on the heels of renewed media reports that the anti-graft agency had on September 11, 2006, seized $13.5 million dollars ( USD ) from Mrs. Patience Jonathan, when she was then wife of the Governor of Bayelsa State, Mr. Goodluck Jonathan. According to Waziri, the visit of the NGO provided her an opportunity to respond to several enquiries she had been getting on an alleged pending case against Mrs. Jonathan.

“Let me state clearly that the commission will not allow itself to be used to drag innocent people’s names into crimes, cases or allegations they know nothing about. In this particular case, I have read my predecessor say in media interviews in September 2010 that Mrs. Jonathan was not in any way involved in any case of money laundering investigated by the EFCC under him. I have thereafter checked our records and cannot find any case of money laundering against Mrs. Jonathan or the President himself. So, each time I get an enquiry or read about this, I often wonder where this is coming from.”

Waziri maintained that if the person said to have investigated Patience Jonathan for money laundering had as far back as September 2010 disclaimed this, she wondered why people were still referring to it. She said the commission did not have any account or records where $13.5 million was recovered from Mrs. Jonathan in 2006. “We should learn to separate the truth from blackmail. Our society can only thrive on justice and fair play if we uphold the right values and shun the politics of pulling innocent people down,” she added.

She maintained that she would not allow the commission to be used in dragging innocent people’s names into allegations they know nothing about. “I think that is criminal and a big sin. A good name is better than silver and gold. People work hard to build their names and image and then to come overnight and cast this damage or scandalise to hunt someone, I think, is a great sin and I don’t allow it.

Each time we receive petitions, when it is not anonymous, we look for the writer to come and adopt it. But if it is anonymous, we don’t put it in the waste bin, we carry out covert enquiries to see whether there is any substance in it. If there is substance, then yes, we are looking for whistle blowers so we do something about it, but we do not for the sake of politics or the sake of sensationalism drag peoples names in the mud. I know I have been a victim of such and I know what it means and what it takes,” she stressed.

She also said when she took up the job, the late president Yar’ Adua called her and asked if she knew what it entailed to handle the job. “He had told me that my name will be rubbished, I will be scandalized, people will write all sorts of rubbish against me, tissues of lies will be concurred against me. He asked if I realized that and I said yes, I have been through it before and now,” Waziri explained.

She said there was no record anywhere in the commission that Mrs. Jonathan was under any investigation, adding that when the former governor of Delta State, James Ibori allegedly offered $15 million bribe to the former boss of EFCC, the money was kept and remained intact at the Central Bank of Nigeria, CBN.

http://sunnewsonline.com/webpages/features/newsonthehour/2011/sept/08/newsbreak-08-09-2011-001.html

buhari shud go bk 2 his villa

Nairalanders, i have been pondering a lot lately. I have a Girl friend two years older than me. She is in her early 30's. She is on my neck I should get married to her else she skins me alive. My question is : Is it right to marry someone older than you? Be it love or whatever. She has promised to go nak.ed & swear if I don't propose to her

some should retire so others can be employed

I dont think that will ever work.

The name is worth it 4 them. We cant leave with terrorist

im just tired of discussing about this nation. even if it rises or drop there is no impact on the masses

i agree with him until we break up

Northern govs meet over security crisis

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Written by Adelowo Oladipo, Minna Wednesday, 07 September 2011

THE Northern Governors’ Forum has announced that it will hold an emergency meeting to proffer lasting solutions to the security challenges facing the country.

The Chief Press Secretary to Governor Mu’azu Babangida Aliyu of Niger State, chairman, Northern Governors’ Forum, Malam Danladi Ndayebo, said the northern governors had agreed to move in to halt the killings in Jos, the Plateau State capital.

Governor Aliyu, who returned to Nigeria on Tuesday morning, after performing the lesser hajj (umrah) in Saudi Arabia, said he was alarmed at the fresh fighting in the erstwhile peaceful state, declaring that the bloodbath must stop now.

“I am horrified at the new wave of senseless killings in and around Jos, the Plateau State capital, beginning from the clash between Muslims and Christians at the Rukuba area of Jos which left 17 persons dead and several others injured.

“Since then, targeted killings have spread to villages around the state capital, taking a terrible toll on the people of Plateau State. This development is condemnable, reprehensible and, therefore, unacceptable.”

Although Aliyu did not give a specific date on when the meeting would be held, he said the crisis in Plateau State was an emergency and would be treated as such.

He said he was already consulting with his colleagues with a view to convening a meeting in the next two weeks.

Aliyu said the meeting had become expedient in order to break the cycle of violence and to proffer lasting solutions to the sectarian crises rocking the state.

http://tribune.com.ng/index.php/news/27850-northern-govs-meet-over-security-crisis

IBB renews battle with OBJ


THE verbal war between former military president, General Ibrahim Babangida and former president, Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, has continued to fester as Babangida said on Tuesday that he stood by his earlier statement on Obasanjo’s alleged squandering of national resources.

Babangida said this while debunking reports that he recanted on the allegation he made that Obasanjo wasted the sum of $16 billion on power sector as revealed by a National Assembly probe.

Babangida spoke through his media aide, Kassim Sule Afegbua, stating that he meant what he said on Obasanjo and never recanted at any time.

Babangida was recently quoted as accusing the media of quoting him out of context on Obasanjo on the interview he granted to newsmen on the eve of his 70th birthday in Minna, stating that he had lost many of his friends since the media war between him and Obasanjo broke out.

Afegbua, in his statement said Babangida “wishes to state clearly and without fear of contradiction that there is nothing like “recant” on his part. What General Babangida stated on the 30th August, 2011 was that the media misquoted him on his earlier interview granted prior to his birthday of 17th August, 2011.

“The contents of the newspapers’ reports were different from the screaming headlines that were carried. That perhaps informed Chief Olusegun Obasanjo’s misplaced outburst to the effect of calling General Babangida a fool at 70.

“General Babangida still stands by the contents of that interview where he made allusion to the squander-mania that characterised Chief Obasanjo’s government with particular reference to the $16 billion reportedly wasted on a fruitless power project, as revealed by the National Assembly power probe panel.

“There was nothing extraordinary in what General IBB said to warrant Chief Obasanjo’s outburst and scathing remarks on the person of General Babangida.

“In the light of the above, he wishes to state arlier position.

unequivocally that the idea or notion or impression of a recant does not arise at all. His response to Chief Obasanjo’s outburst remains in force and valid, hence it will be wrong for anyone to report that “IBB recanted” on his earlier position.

“He will not allow history to record it for him that he kept mum when someone reportedly called him a fool. All the issues raised in his earlier response have not been contradicted by Chief Obasanjo save that he resorted to name-calling and abuse.

“He still holds the position very strongly that former President Obasanjo’s regime recorded the highest revenue in the history of Nigeria from independence in 1960 till 1999 when his government came into force. Over N16 trillion was shared among the three tiers of government during Obasanjo’s government, out of which about N7.4 trillion was spent by the Federal Government.

came into force. Over N16 trillion was shared among the three tiers of government during Obasanjo’s government, out of which about N7.4 trillion was spent by the Federal Government.

“This is aside from other non-oil income that accrued to his government within the same period. Needless to state that the government went on a spending spree, which culminated in several sharp practices and abuses, particularly in the privatisation exercise. The records are gradually becoming glaring for all to see, thanks to the National Assembly probe panel.

“IBB will be prepared to offer further clarification should the need arise but let it be recorded that there was nothing like recantation as previously reported.”

http://tribune.com.ng/index.php/news/27851-ibb-renews-battle-with-obj

they are the cause of their own misfortune.

our landlord will always amaze me. They know the short cut. They might take 6months rent for 1yr