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Family / Re: 10 Worst And Best Things To Say To Someone In Grief by slimyem: 9:38pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
I do the hug mostly.It speaks a thousand words. |
Family / Re: "I Am A Virgin, Therefore, I'm Classy." by slimyem: 6:57am On Feb 12, 2015 |
Shollypopzz? A guy shamed a virgin? That's news. I wouldn't have been surprised if it was a girl who did. Virginity is not class. That's a moronic definition for class. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Question by slimyem: 6:12am On Feb 12, 2015 |
How could he not have known? How long did they date? The lady's family kept it from him too? That's unfair? Will I cope at all? I dunno. it means I might not be able to depend on him physically,emotionally or even financially.I would feel trapped . I would hang in there for sometime and try to honour my for better and worse and but eventually my coping strategies would give way and I would break. Mental illness never goes away. I don't think I would want to help a spouse manage that for the rest of. my life. |
Family / Re: Hubby Doesnt Communicate by slimyem: 12:01pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
I don't get why you are complaining since he obviously has always been this way and you've been okay with it all the while. What exactly are you looking for now? Someone to chitchat with or a connection with him?if it's the former your husband certainly doesn't sound like he'll be it.You have acknowledged him for who he is then be comfortable with that. Do you derive sustenance and strength from your relationship with him,do you feel seen ,heard and valued as a wife?That's what important..I believe. Communication is not just talking away . You can say a lot to each other without saying anything. If you can identify you have this with your husband or something similar to what mutter has described,please be content and be happy. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Woman To Acquire Properties In Her Own Name by slimyem: 6:57pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
It isn't wrong or shouldn't be wrong provided the husband is aware and supportive of the decision. I've seen Nigerian men have a big problem with this and I've seen it tear families apart. it threatens their masculinity and their old-fashioned need to subjugate their women. |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 4:54pm On Feb 10, 2015 |
Damn! The madness remains the same still... How do y'all do this consistently ? Does it never get old? |
Celebrities / Re: Uche Elendu's Marriage Allegedly Crashes by slimyem: 7:26pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Aystarz: Been on the same planet as you... |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is This How People Get Employed????? by slimyem: 3:24pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
lmao.... No right thinking person should fall for this. Advance fee fraud. It's old. |
Family / Re: Your OPINION Is Duly Needed *caption* by slimyem: 2:36pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Coincidence.... |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 2:21pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
coogar:It would be an interesting topic to address. You'd agree it's a new angle.won't you? he should suck it up. identify with women who have been through the same thing he is going through.Go for counseling,hit the gym and get sexier for her,find out what he hasn't been doing right ,or where he got it wrong and fix it. at least,it wouldn't have caught me by surprise.This man was totally oblivious and the shock's hit him more than the act which is why he's gone this irrational. have you not seen many caught in the act videos online.Those ones are more arresting than this.You want me to post you links? besides,it's the disgust and total rubbishing of what a family should represent in times of downs like this that has caught mine and a lot of other people's attention not the sensationalism. 1 Like |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 1:47pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
crackhaus:l can say the same about men . It applies to both sexes.don't limit it 4 Likes |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 1:42pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
coogar:Well.. I have not been one to sway with general perceptions and I do know this.. nobody needs an excuse to cheat and no excuse is valid enough to defend cheating... How could he have suspected? Really? All those rebellious acts of hers weren't enough to make him indefinably aware? c'mon, just say it. He's dumb! If my wife exhibited half the signs she did,my senses would have responded to them as potential danger. ...and no,he didn't have to make a video to warn other book smart husbands .There's a whole lot of stuff on the internet and out there that's warning enough and it still won't change the world. Totally unnecessary..I'd add again. 1 Like |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 12:53pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
coogar:Satan resides in the belly of many other women and men alike. Women have been cheating since forever and it isn't about to stop so what's the big deal in the story that he had to make a video about? there's no twist,no particular scheming of any kind. Nothing surprising or exceptional about it all. Just a load of regular rubbish he could have spared us. This revelation makes him the silliest of men, a weakling and a dumbo. To think that he never suspected her and also didn't believe her confessions of infidelity at first makes him the more so. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 12:12pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 12:07pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
This man is such a sissy!! This is so beneath what a grown man should do. Very juvenile. If all women that have been cheated on all make videos like his,www would probably have shut down long ago. As it was in the beginning..... He just needs to suck it up and move on...! 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Popular Lagos Pastor, Poju Oyemade, Weds In Grand Style(photos) by slimyem: 11:54am On Feb 09, 2015 |
100Cents:Does the woman in that picture look like a "girl"to you? and how do you conclude all that you stated was her motivation to marry him? Did you even read her profile and how quite well she's done for herself? Na wa for you o. Milking every chance you get to thrash ladies even when there's no basis for it.Only God will be your judge. |
Family / Re: The Cry Of A Heartbroken Nigerian Husband In Houston whose wife cheated by slimyem: 10:31am On Feb 09, 2015 |
That first video is over an hour long.. how did y'all watch it? This man's action makes no singular sense. what's news or peculiar about a woman cheating on her husband? Na today nyash don dey back? ...and did he say he wanted this to serve as a lesson to people out there? Where's the lesson? he's just made a mockery of himself,his wife and their family names. He sure is pained but this is certainly no way to heal. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Uche Elendu's Marriage Allegedly Crashes by slimyem: 9:54am On Feb 09, 2015 |
The man does not look anything close to a billionaire.... ....some things billions cannot do ... 7 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Popular Lagos Pastor, Poju Oyemade, Weds In Grand Style(photos) by slimyem: 9:47am On Feb 09, 2015 |
I'm glad he's finally made a choice. An over-eligible bachelor for so long.... I'd never stop wondering how he managed to remain single and not stumble all these years with his ministry and status. Happy married life to him. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by slimyem: 9:29am On Feb 09, 2015 |
alutacontinua:liar lair...pant on s fire 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Men Find It Difficult To Apologise? by slimyem: 9:26am On Feb 09, 2015 |
Women are more invested in maintaining harmony in relationships and also more in tune with people's feelings than men are. Men mostly have a different understanding of what calls for an apology.Has more to do with their psychology and make up I suppose... Doesn't mean there aren't men who say the words when they have to and even when they do not have to. I'm sorry is like morphine to the soul.. It is one word that should be a part of everyone's vocabulary in their relationships with people regardless of their gender or marital status. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: His Wife Does Not Work ! by slimyem: 8:43am On Feb 05, 2015 |
Work is a lot of things but I'd prefer to the definition as a physical and mental effort directed towards "earning money" regularly. Otherwise,it's mere activity/chore that alternatives could be found for. this has been overflogged. |
Family / Re: Is This Morally And Culturally Right by slimyem: 7:36pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
....Much ado about nothing... ...only if the woman knows how many other women wants what she has. I would relax and enjoy it if it were me as long as it is not affecting his major duties as a husband . I don't know why culture and morality has to come in here... 5 Likes |
Family / Re: If your life was a dream....what would you change? by slimyem: 7:28pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
My life is too real to be a dream and I can't change anything that's happened.No point entertaining thoughts of change |
Family / Re: His Wife Wants To Be Spending His Money Without Intimacy. What Should He Do? by slimyem: 7:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Why is the man enduring ? Why has the unresolved issues remain so? the husband's concern sounds like that of a boyfriend who doesn't want to be "mugued" than that of someone who wants a real solution to issues plaguing his marriage.. Do they both even understand what it is to be married or why they are married to each other? 4 Likes |
Health / Re: How To Keep Vagina Clean And Healthy (NHS) by slimyem: 6:53am On Jan 21, 2015 |
SirShymex:this is an unfair generalization and you know it.... 3 Likes |
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