₦airaland Forum

cnnamoko:
We really need a law in Nigeria to jail people that kill beautiful and rare animals. Goat, cow, snake don finish?

Really? We have not even been able to enforce laws to punish humans killing other humans

masties2:
I have been house hunting in Lagos for over two weeks now. My experience has been horrible. I have spent so much on agent fees and bikes. Aguda, Surulere has the most inflated price for dumps. If you see what they call 2/3 bedroom flats. The finer newer ones come with its special price tags for those that can afford it. Total package is always above one million. I am so tired, stressed and pissed off. The number of broken down water closets I have seen this past few days eh! I ought to use hypo to wash out my eyes. House hunting in Lagos is hell.

I could have written this same lines as this is exactly my experience in the same axis. The only thing that'd be different is my own search is going on 3 months now. Tired is an understatement with respect to how I feel now. I am weary.

KINGinVALHALA3:
I would have agreed with you only if you were referring to our mothers and not present day ladies.

Cheers!

Go and marry your "mothers" sir. Abi you nor see 60 year olds and above to pick from in your area?

Bullshit!!

The percentage of #teamliabilitytoaman is so large it makes it difficult to defend the #teamnoliabilitytoaman

Emmayur:
As an Estate Surveyor and Valuer who is vast with the property market, i would say that the Op was spot on with his descriptions of the Lagos road side agent. If you patronise a registered Estate Surveyor and Valuer, you won't have to pay the 3000 - 5000 inspection fee and that will save you a lot of money.
Damages or caution fee is actually say between 10% to 30% of the total rent. It is dependent on the propensity of that property to get damaged. For example, you would be required to pay up to 30% of the rent for caution fee for a building with plenty glass finishing.
Please guys, patronise registered Estate Surveyor and Valuers.

is there any you know or can recommend for surulere?

^^^^I'm praying for you dude. I really am

One out of many similar stories that didn't end well.
Some men develop short memories as soon as things start to swell. So many "regardless of how I stood by him " stories out there and in some cases, the woman wins the bread till forever or till it wears her out.

Cool story though.

The education or sensitization is not enough. Health is not valued or seen as worth spending on until it's almost too late. Hospitals are last resorts.
I'm almost certain the statistics of pregnant women in Nigeria who never step in a hospital all through the course of their pregnancy would be jaw-dropping. Traditionalists would continue to have patronage until a lot changes. Until medical health care becomes affordable, accessible and trusted. It's a long road for us.

Shymm3x:
Check ya cleavage and tell me wagwan.

Or are you just a C/D trying to pose as DDs?

You haven't got over your DD obsession. You need Jesus!

What a man! What a joke!

On the long list of people I'd truly regard as needing HELP, you don't come close.
I hope you find what you are looking for.

.... making lemonades
God bless the poor and homeless

Lmao@ a 36 year old calling a 39 year old mummy. Shameless man he is. You are the only one to blame here. You indulged him and I'm really scared for your teenage daughters. I'm hoping uncle has not been "playing " with them. You have not been very wise.

In your situation and at this point, I would deal with it with little emotion. He needs to be pushed out. Give him and ultimatum to get a job, a life and get out of your house. Does he have a mother? Relations? A family house? Send him back anywhere but your home after his ultimatum lapses.
Where are those silent wicked feminine tactics too? The ones related to the "apari isu" proverb. Unleash them if you have to.
No one should be responsible for any ABLE 36 year old man under any circumstances circumstances. This is quite easy to fix when you are ready to fix it.

Doesn't look appealing

Chanchit:
So she now checks her hubby's dik when he gets home.

ain't that funny

What does this woman do for a living? I mean apart from being a celebrity's wife.

kushma:
Both jumia konga are fraud wanted to buy washing machine frm any of them so charted two machine both in jumia and konga login around 6am to buy it but the price was still the same it really made me angry but I really need it so I went to Samsung show room near ma side I was surprised the I saw 87 000 konga and 89 000 in jumia I bought it for 48 000 in d show with discount so d actactual price I bought it was 45 000 that was wen I knew the internet shopping like konga and jumia have been defrauding Nigerians.

what kg?

.. .

Omo taa ko lo ma gbe Ile ta ko ta. It simply means a child that isn't trained is bound to sell off a house built.
This is what you expect from dysfunctional homes.

What do you mean by age grade? It's not quite clear where your concern lies.
Do you mean the age difference isn't wide enough or too wide and she may disrespect you because of that?
Whichever it is, it shouldn't be an issue. That age difference is just fine enough I'M.
The most important thing is the value she has placed on that relationship and on you and what you have interpreted it to be.

Brandnew2:
Been ages....
This is what maturity does I can imagine.

It has. maturity?
How do you mean? I wasn't mature when I hung around?

we are derailing. Let's not ruin this thread.

Brandnew2:
I see you Slimyem.

I see you too.

Not far from the truth. Femininity is cheapened by women themselves. Some of these things just make some of us numb. Makes it hard to defend the some who stand out.
The other day, I saw a woman trying to catch a bouquet with her vulva out for the world to see and another one grinding her a$$ in a video while other women hailed her on . Shameful behavior all over the place. The only checking we do is talk about it and it doesn't stop the rot anyways..

Nigerians and perversion tendencies. Quick to strip a woman naked over every little thing. sick bunch of people all over the place

Ugly and poor-bad mix!

I don't understand the emphasis on intelligent in this case...
I also don't why these simple domestic issues should be heading their marriage to a crash. How big is the house? Isn't it just the two of them? What chores are there that they can't manage?
....and didn't you mention the woman is pregnant? Has the man considered that she may be fatiguing easily due to her state?

This couple in this story sound like married teenagers...

Sometimes I think it is necessary but then it is dangerous should the child aspirate the food.

I have done it before and will do it again if the child give me any trouble with eating.I know the art

Op is saying she never had a hint this man has these ways before marriage. I say I do not believe.
Quite a number of women compromise on some standards when it comes to marriage only to scream when it bites them much later.
There's no need to ask if you should confront him. You know you will,you know you will forgive him.

Confront him. He'd either defend himself with something lame or swear it was a mistake that won't happen again. You then forgive him and hope it doesn't.
You live happily on

What a thread! I wish I was here earlier.
Op was apt and fair with her analysis. The situation is one that deserves this attention. It's just sad that the guilty ones will remain set in their ways and the ones coming behind will follow suit. I am not surprised at the focus shift though...shameless men blaming their lack of scruples on women. We have seen it all.

For the women or girls so to speak ,the power to say no will always lie with you and It is really never that hard.

dinachi:
My dear, many guys will tell you the same thing. Puccy hygiene of many babes suck. I still remember the sad story a friend told of how the fiancée's rotten puccy sent him running out of the house like a desperate man pursued by two blood thirsty battalions of diehard Boko haram members. The babe had visited and when the mood was favorable they proceeded to satiate their physical cravings. In the heat of passion, my guy tore off his clothes and extended a helping hand to his babe who was more deliberate in disrobing herself. By the time he yanked off her pants to have a view of the glorious paradise awaiting his touch and love, he was rudely confronted with the stark harsh realities of hell staring him in his bewildered face. The sweet aroma of his room swifty turned to a dark and atrosiously evil smell that quickly changed the mood from romantic to a matter of life and death. The odoriferous rotten puccy gave out an evil blast of terrible odour that confounded my guy and sent him running out of the house in utter confusion. Needless to say the relationship took a nosedive from then onwards.

LIES!!