₦airaland Forum

fisayodayo:
Speak about issues facing us as a nation but not in a yeye manner. I’ve seen an Oyibo guy of 19 years with 4 children age difference is one.

chatinent:
Na so dem go dey born dey change their wife body to old mama.

Useless men who cannot maintain a women!

Islandlady:
Thank for the compliments toh i just find the whole scenerio of giving birth like chicken without proper care very annoying!

Well I am doing well in the both section jare!?

Islandlady:
I have always wanted to write on this particular article about the lack of enough gap or spacing of children by most Nigerian parents!

Few months back I was driving along that Abuja-suleja road and decided to stop by to buy some roasted plantain (boli) from a woman by the roadside! But I couldn't help notice her two baby boys crying profusely, she was holding onto one while the other was on the floor, initially I thought they were twins but after looking well, I noticed that the boy on the floor was a bit older! So I offered to help her console the older child because she was obviously frustrated and so that she can be faster with my plantain so I can hit the road back!

I carried the boy to console him and I was surprised by the way the boy clinged to me and immediately stopped crying, he was still a baby who needs his mother's attention and cuddling but all was cut short becos he now has a baby brother! I asked the women for their ages and she said the older was 2years old and his brother was 1year old! I was not really suprised but angry at the poor spacing between children by most of our Nigerian parents!

I mean if she has given them atleast a 3 to 4years age gap, the older brother will be old enough to console and play with his younger brother, while she will be able do her work without getting fraustrated and depriving the older baby of the care, attention and also stopping his breastfeeding at that early stage! This lack of child spacing harbits is very common among our parents!

I just want to urge our upcoming parents, new couples and singles hoping to get married someday and give birth to please practice a good child spacing of atleast 2-4years age gap, it has a lot of benefits and also give you time to take care of the child properly and also allowing the mothers body rest and become stronger in preparation for another child
Thanks for reading!

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

LUAN1:
you have been scammed Op, many Nigerian girls are using this borrowing format to scam any guy who SIMPed around Them, this happened to me too few weeks ago, met this girl which I liked so much, I asked for her number she refused, I Ignored her for a while, after many months she came by herself to give me the number, the moment she gave me the number my instinct told me that she wants to bill me because she probably saw me as a SIMP, that same evening while we were chatting, she started the billing, she indirectly asked me of 3k saying the Chase her sister out of school that she wish she could get 3k to send to he sister, I Ignored her, month later, she messaged me to help her with 1k to complete something, I Ignored again, few months again she massage me again to borrow her 5k that wen she come back From work she will refund it, I Ignored her the 3rd time , that was how she stopped chatting with me. Girl where no dey gree come my house,

Athemisia:
Same sh!t I said and Dem nearly chop me raw oooh...

newdawn2017:
it d truth. U shameless lots re bent on oppresing minority hence we detected & stepped away from ur struggle for secession.

Ddeliverer007:
But he lie?

Stephen2324:
No matter how sad their story is , don't let anybody move into your house.

APCnaPDP:
Thank you. Voting for Obi is a waste of time and vote. He won’t win. You are just voting for Tinubu and believe this, Tinubu as he is atm is not the best thing for Nigeria. Don’t waste your vote.

Rayjnr:
You political calculation to pull them down not by hate or sentiment or preaching, no body send you, the time we spend on social media discussing rubbish , let's use that time understand how the system works, before we can think of to oust them

donmik:
And to u trust your so called INEC to be just in spending the resources given to them in enduring voters don't come spending many days at the centre, forsaking their jobs and eventually be told trashes... this and that as planned by the govt and INEC.

What is difficult in registering for it if INEC chooses to make it easy for us?

The failure of our electoral process starts with th INEC being partisan and ethnic

Lightway:
Olodo, there is no earlier topic..

Go and suck your mommy's breasst, you little boy

Chienex24:
Sorry, but isn't 60 days 2 months? Won't it end by August 31st rather?

CapitalBank:
They will not. INEC should also make sure there are enough machines across the country to help with the voter registration surges.

Lightway:
Olodo... 60 days is August 30th

Rayjnr:
Politics no d way u think, na simple calculation, remove may be, obi can't come second from my personal calculation

Massiveglory:
Reno is learning where this david guy is.
This guy has taken Seun, Tinubu and now seglink to the cleaners in less than one week.

bonnyhope:
If his Agbero and thugs no worry person that day