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JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Martinez39s:
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Martinez39s:
l reach me out to me on ventodiablo@gmail.com ? I want to get your contacts and add you to the red pill WhatsApp group. I wanted to reach out to you guys via nairaland email, but I remembered that I lost it.

Martinez39s:
@Rillycool

I will do the same with you. The group has been existing for a couple of years now, and most of the members have known each other for a long time. You will enjoy the group with time.

I will reach out to you and JESHAL007 tomorrow.

Kdtrey5:
See wetin ex send after 2 months of breakup this year...we even made out sha and she is in an unstable relationship now

JESHAL007:
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luminouz:
You talk sense baba... Leave rizzputin and his epistles to the faithful. I am a man and my pills are bitter and based on real life events. and while it's attractive to be self confident , channel that shiit to getting results. Women may like how bold you are but keep coming home empty handed day after day and we will see just how attractive you still look to her. They want results and they live in the present. That's my angle. All your energy should be into getting things done. This phase may get easier if you are lucky to have a woman who understands you and is a bit tolerant. No woman will keep smiling and admiring your confidence after solely paying all the bills...for a month, a
year..5 years?? Women are not built to carry that load and while some may give you some lee-rope...don't kid yourself they will love it continue to do so.

I have a male neighbor who is now dead. He was a provider while back and the family was happy. He got a smaller paying job and all hell broke loose. I could still hear his wife shouting one night around 11pm 'You are
not bringing money home, and you wan Bleep? Which mumu nonsense oloriburuku Bleep be that? If you touch me, I go show you pepper. He came to me the next day and narrated his ordeal at the hands of his wife. But guess what? I told him to leave for a bit and go hustle so he can provide better ..but he said he loved his kids too much to leave them for so long. A month later, I was called into his room by his wife to help carry him to the hospital because he fainted...his BP was 220/110. He died after. Know what the wife said 'At least, he can now go and rest' about her own husband, a 42 year old man.

I can go on and on. The problem is many men believe women think like them and behave like them and so rationalize shiit and become surprised when their women behave anyhow. I am not. I know that gender and I always never let myself be caught lacking. They don't behave like men or reason like us.

They are cats!!!

luminouz:
All the fucking confidence in the world won't work if you can't provide like the guy who quoted talked of. Especially when she now foots your bills. If you are lucky, she doesn't react and hopes you bounce back. If you are not, well, you'd learn that some women don't care about your struggles, or how you react to adversity. They see provider and non provider and that's it

Uptheante:
If he leaves her in Nigeria, she will be bleeped by different kinds of men

sajmark:
Perfect is boring, especially to women in a relationship... Her heart stops beating faster for you when you're perfect and there is no drama and when this happens the man fades into the background. That's why it is important to spice things up from time to time, keep her on her toes at all times.

heartofcity12:
👍

Faber:
2. Women can never love two men at the same time.

There's only one.

If you're not, you're not…

There's no other way.

heartofcity12:
😆

heart ;Dofcity12:
Exactly. I don’t know what that silly Ben Affleck was thinking, being Alpha in movies don’t equate to being Alpha in real life, he and Will Smith are in the same WhatsApp group..

Martinez39s:
Just allow the dirty water flow to its destination. Just cover your nose and watch in amusement. Don't stress yourself or be bothered to interfere.

Haydens:
#5. In Redpill (this thread for example), we read things like, "All road leads to sex. Just focus on getting the pussy." On this same Redpill thread we read things like: " Never marry a damaged hoe that has been pounded by several men. Marry only virgins."

Is the contradiction not mind blowing?

Wait...I wanna ask us.

If we all Bleep all the girls....Then where are we going to meet the virgin Mary that we are wishing to marry?

From the moon?

It's like saying "everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die."

This is where redpill has a question mark. I keep on asking myself this question often.

Some girls will come with good intentions but guys will end her up with bad intentions.

Rillycool:
It's how this was written with the assumption that men know nothing about women's mischievous sexual behavior so you can just tell a man anything and he will fall for it easily.

eclatante:
We later Bleep.. (I stopped showing interest, sex came) lol funny how this shit works.

Rizzputin

SimpleGuy001:
Hello, there’s this girl that I mentioned came to my place one time but refused to go down with me. Funny enough, this girl disturbed the living daylight outta me on coming my place so I was surprised when she turned me down.

Apparently she wants me to ask her out as a proper GF that she isn’t down for Fwb, as I asked if she didn’t like me enough to go down with me ( even tho she has a boyfriend) me I no ready for commitment lol. So I just left her

Well…. We still chat sha, will it be okay to invite her over again, this time by myself since she asked to come last time.

Martinez39s:
I don't know if I am missing something. While I agree with you on the mentality of the guy and other things you wrote, it could actually be that guy literally has a small peniis, then she saw a big one and carved sexual satisfaction from the big one.

Meedon:

COOL10:
They don't know that with every passing day, their wrinkles will become harder to hide with makeup, their breasts will continue to lose strength and fall even worse than the naira; they'll develop "Christian mother arms", irritating pot bellies and their big behinds won't be so good to look at anymore.


One day, they'll wake up to find out that even their grandmothers have fuller breasts than they do. 🤣

lymelyte:
Very well said.
Men listen carefully. You can either love or understand a woman. You can't do both..
If you love her just know you won't understand her and if you truly understand women,you can't love them.. The two cannot exist at the same time. One negates the other.
It is very important for youngsters to understand and master the skill of identifying thrash and recreational used only girls from better girls(youthful,purity,fertile amongst other traits ),So that you don't waste your time,resources,energy,attention and money..

KennethIbe59:
The woman nature no dey disappoint

Smartb0y:
Dear men,

Understand that it's not your job to make her fall in love with you.

That's her role.

The emotions the relationship requires should be coming from her end.

If you find yourself chasing or trying to impress a woman, you're in the simp zone brother.

Don't associate yourself with women who aren't showing interest in you, there's a reason why.

Learn or perish!!

JESHAL007:
DEAR YOUNG GUYS AT THE AGE OF 25 TO 30

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them.

Grow with your kids and succeed with
your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans.

You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before i marry.

Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She's married with Four grown up children.

The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Don't make our mistakes, I see
my childhood friends play with their kids..

Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your
happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With
a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it

isn't money, What is our problem?

Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don't have those things we dreamt of, and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.

Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.


#what is your take on this

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JESHAL007:
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.