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Omini247:
This woman always comes to my house to charge her phone and she will always make sure she hears my voice before she leaves even though I have made the door open and allow them to charge phone on the socket at my passage.

You're too free hence why she's giving you "free advice"

Omini247:
Greetings redpillers in the house,

Pls there's this woman (my neighbor) who keeps pestering my life with Go and marry Go and marry...

I'm obviously not financially stable for even girlfriend not to talk of marriage..and she can perceive it and beginning to see it as an insult..

So I need the most subtle yet stern way to stop the nonsense... Cuz I keep telling her that she wants to drag me into poverty.

I need to warn her seriously because it's beginning to get to my nerves.

I'm 29 by 20th of this month but I happen to be an only son that's the only reason I'm considering marriage.

Your neighbor,not even a family member....chaii

You must have obviously let her "see you finish" in order for her(a non family member) to say such dumb shit.

Withdraw your attention from her.

Your sins have been forgiven.
Go and sin no more.

PECON1:
I made a post on my WhatsApp status about nedu and his wife issue, a divorced lady that leaves in our street supported nedu's wife. Does all these women reason alike

Do you think there's any rationality in arguing with a woman?

Don't try and reason with a gender that doesn't cater to reason.

Your sins have been forgiven.
Go and sin no more.

STAGES OF SEDUCTION

Attraction:

Interest:

Push-pull: Create a mixture of emotions in her. Don't be predictable in your interactions with her.

Let her do the chase: Her intuition is your greatest weapon. Let her mind create the image of that perfect guy(you).
Don't ruin it for her else she falls outta love.
A woman is only interested in what she's invested in(emotionally or financially).She won't try to sabotage such relationship quickly.
She develops feelings quickly when she chases.

Implant the idea of sex in her:Many guys fail here. They come off as too needy(sex starved) which turns women off.
Trigger her sexual impulses. A little touch here and there does the trick and yes won't come off as needy.
On the matter of sexual comfortability,if you don't come off as needy,two things plays out
1) She'll require her sexuality in getting your attention which will eventually lead to sex.
2) With women everything is inverted, You want sex, you get no sex. You don't want sex you get sex. Her pussy ain't drawn to needy betas. She's wants that good bad boy to ravage her.

Dominate her mind(heart), dominate her pussy: Basically how you make her feel. She wants the good and the bad. Her pussy wants it all.

Dominate her pussy, dominate her heart(Mind): Her pussy wants to dominate and tame you.
Give her pussy a good show down.
Once her pussy has been tamed,she automatically falls in line.
Hence,why it's important to always have sex with a girl you desire long term.
No "I want to wait until marriage" . Those kinda girls are hardly invested in such relationships.

Nyascobar1414:
A man can't understand female nature and desire marriage

Someone quoted "marriage is a lottery you're most likely guaranteed to lose".

Those attributes that protected the proper functioning of marriage are non-extinct now.

For any man reading this.
LEARN TO HELP YOUR FELLOW MAN


It doesn't necessarily have to be financial. A sound advice does go a long way.

A short narration
While walking with a friend today,a lady was walking towards our direction and he said something striking

Friend:"You have changed me"
Me: How do you mean?
Friend: If it was before, I would have said hello to her.
Me: SMILES

I felt glad. This said person is a nice, friendly and free fella. I've been working on him for a while now. He now has some level of self awareness (including self control,self worth and a purpose)
I'm glad he was open to seeing things from a different perspective.

He's now more focused on building his worth than chasing women. I'll still continue instilling some hard truths to protect him from outside interference (woman).

My point is we should endeavor in helping out those guys that need assistance especially when they're threading on a destructive path.

Granted,a good number of men won't be inclined to understanding the reality of things but the effort is what counts.

Stay safe out there people and don't forget.
BE YOUR BROTHER'S KEEPER

Orpazpjr:
You fit expand this talk, senior bro?

You tend to naturally develop an IDGAF attitude when you don't seek people's approval or validation.

What they say or do literally has no effect on you.

It's an intimidating trait that creates a mystery around you.

It's gets people confused and interested in knowing you.

Hence,the reverse case being them seeking your approval.

Never go easy on them at this point.
Let them work their asses off seeking your validation.

chenny360:
So in continuation of my gist .
There's one married woman in my street. She got one daughter about 4 years.. both she and husband come to my wife shop steady for pos and buying provision. Very classic woman. She wears some of the dresses. latest phone . Expensive items etc. So they are well to do. The husband is a type that goes to village and come back on Friday then go back on Tuesday again . He's a cocoa merchant.. there's one 22yrs old guy living in the same compound with this couple he also patronise us in store , so about two weeks ago. This man went to meeting with colleagues mother burial, u know that ondo people love partying esp burial.
Inside that meeting his wife was calling him to know when he will get back home as it was getting late around 10pm. So the man explained to her wife that he's not sure of coming as the meeting/party will extends to next morning.
Now the wife have concluded his husband not more coming home that night...
So he invite this young dude of 22yrs to her matrimonial bed and they have sex. Meanwhile this guy is staying with his friend in that same compound.. so in the process of knacking.
The husband have being calling wife on phone and number not picked up..
This trigger the man to get up from the party/meetings around 11.30pm to go home because he thought something is wrong and in fear why his wife not picking his calls.
So this man enter road on getting home by around 12oclock midnight
Knocking the door.
This man saw the shocker. His lovely wife and a young boy naked knacking seriously with sweat all over them,.
Omooo the man did nothing at that night.. this boy ran out of the room.

So in the early morning of next day. The husband go to police station, and invite police men to arrest his wife and that boy around 5.30am in the morning after explaining the shocker and what transpired to the police. So the police arrested them coded by showing the wife and the boy thier ID card without anyone in the whole compound knows what's going on, after the wife have used about 8 hours in the cell, the husband called the parent of his wife on phone for emergency so they showed up in the police station both the wife mother and father,. In that police station, husband request for the police to bring both of his wife and the boy out... in the presence of the wife parents. The husband asked the wife to explain what brought her to police stations to her parents .

What surprises me is that the wife lied that the boy entered thier room raped her,. Na so this boy shout that. The woman willingly give him herself for knack and they have knack more than 15times whenever the husband goes to the village for hustle. So on hearing them speak
the husband pay for the bail of the boy and free the boy. Then tell it to the face of the wife parents to bail thier daughter and never she should step her leg in his house.. the man withdraw his 4 year old daughter from the woman and ask her to come pack her luggage in his house...

Last week Friday the man has packed out from the house to another location but the estranged wife luggage still in the house.. till today the wife is still ashamed and she can't come to pack her stuff yet.. the landlord already sent that 22yr old packing from his house too.
It was a shocking event , but not shocking to me at all because woman wey go Bleep outside go Bleep no matter the satisfaction u gave to her..

Na so the gist go ooo.
No too take all this women seriously... both married and unmarried.

Good evening...

"Don't save her,she don't wanna be saved"

As we always say, she's not yours, it's just your turn.

Might I add Nigeria men are big time simps. They'll crush their fellow man because of an overused pussy.

Pursue genuine desire in women

If she has genuine desire for you, she'll compromise herself for you.

If she doesn't, she'll compromise you for her purpose.

Dear men,

Understand that it's not your job to make her fall in love with you.

That's her role.

The emotions the relationship requires should be coming from her end.

If you find yourself chasing or trying to impress a woman, you're in the simp zone brother.

Don't associate yourself with women who aren't showing interest in you, there's a reason why.

Learn or perish!!

Harsh truth nobody will tell you

Women get excited when they know they turn you on.

Now here's the take away.

If she's single, she'll definitely be excited.

If she's in a "relationship", she'll definitely be excited but feel "guilty". Their regular go-to is that they're repulsed.
That's a lie .

Of course, attraction does play its part in these but not to an extreme extent.

We need to understand that women are hornny all the time. Science has made us think it's men who are always hornny.

Understand that when a woman sees a man she's attracted to,her chemistry automatically switches to a hornny state.

Use it to your advantage.


Attraction + interest 🔥

What makes her attracted to you is your passive state. Your looks, sense of style etc .

What makes her interested in you is your active state. How you dominate her mind,your playfulness, confidence etc. Basically your character.

My brethrens,I cannot over emphasize the need to give off a bad boy aura.

That girl you're busy chasing, chatting up from morning to night will be naturally drawn to you if you belong in the naughty criteria.

Her and society will shame you for being bad but watch as she subtly and stylishly invade your space.

Broke boys don't get no pussy is just a phrase women use to siphon cash from gullible simps.

The right phrase is good boys don't get pussy.

Good boys have a boring aura.

She wants to be excited down there by the mere sight of looking at your face.

Always be sexual with women.

Leave the boring talks for the simps and her brothers.

Martinez39s:
Reminds me of small boys who thanked girls for accepting their Facebook friend request. It seemed so weird to me, even as a bluepill fellow.

Those kinda guys grow up to be Mr nice guys who beg to have a taste of her over used pussi.

They're the good boys of society who stand guard and serve as watchmen for the feminine imperative.

Like seriously,they should never have fertilized while they were still sperms.

Waste of manhood.

Johnchrix:
So I asked this girl out, because she didn't know I'm rich, she rejected me. I had to delete her fom my chat list. A week later I guess her friend showed her my pictures she came back, accepting the relationship proposal..I'm blocking har now no time for fake ass girls.

See the low quality girl that's using you to style.

You need to work on your game bro.

Martinez39s:
"I will be glad and honoured if I got a rply."

Words of a son raised by a single mother or a weak Father.

She will most definitely not have his kids.

heartofcity12:
This signs are always there from the beginning but simps always choose to ignore them, you’re not her top option, she settled for you when those she targeted didn’t commit to her.

What's laughable is the pride these betas always have.

Pride in settling for leftovers.

Hmm

🤣

Ballzproblem2:
She got greedy ,Kevin Costner was ordered by judges to pay his ex wife over $100k(she asked for $200k). in child support every month.


Still not satisfied she went and told the judge asked for half of all his earnings since they got married, only for the judge to rip off $129k per month and ordered the man to pay just $60k per month(close to the amount signed in their prenup)🦏🤣.

Women are unapologetically ruthless when they intend to screw you over.

You won't see it coming.

Protect your space, protect your sanity.

There's a reason why it is said that women have brought down many great men.

Just do a little Google search "great men brought down by women" and your eyes will be opened.

Be careful around women. They're all capable of committing the worst of atrocities/betrayal even if they come off as good.

When you let your guard down which most guys do,then they strike.

Associating with women is like a journey on the "The Highway of Death"

Thread carefully!!

heartofcity12:
🤦‍♂️

There's nothing prude about a woman.

Only fools fall for those words that comes out of a woman's mouth.

They get off thinking about that naughty guy while shaming him in public.

Women 🤣

She should chase your purpose not hers.

If she chases her purpose, it'll surely end in self destruction and you'll surely be caught in the blast.

Learn to put yourself first.

heartofcity12:
Well said!!
He had it coming, rumor has it that she cheated on him but he took the blame like he was the one that cheated to save their marriage when they first separated and reconciled. We don’t know what it is this time that led to this divorce, she probably cheated again.

A woman cannot stand a man who lacks frame.
A man without frame makes a woman masculine.
They switch energy.

A woman can barely stand being a woman with all the mental confusion that transpires in their head.

They always seek where they can dump these emotional baggages, someone that can help them curb their mental worries.

Sadly based on what you said, that guys reeks of feminine energy.

Nothing as repelling to a woman than a feminine man.

Accountability is non-existent to a woman,blame shifting is the norm. So a man must always brace up to carry this defect in woman which involves staying in his masculine state and being responsible for all things.

His situation is akin to a stay at home guy while the wife works. She'll dry as fvck as far as sex is concerned. She basically controls the relationship which a woman hates.

Hence ,why the default is always cheating.

Then again, it's always the man's fault 🤣 but there's truth in the saying.

She's a kid,there can't be two kids in a relationship or marriage.
It'll never work out.

Men have forgotten how to be men this 21st century.

heartofcity12:
This marriage has crashed despite all the lovey dovey they do online.
He’s at the peak of his career in Nigeria while she and the kids relocated to the USA for a better life. Sorry man, marriages barely work in the west, the law favors the women and its against the men, why won’t the women misbehave..

Body built but mind deflated

Lack of frame brings about irritation.
Too much irritation brings about divorce.

Pretty sure he's the equality type.
I hope he realizes he was responsible for not just his but his exes attitude.

Men have a heavy burden to uphold and it just doesn't end financially.

That burden of performance is in different phases.

The burden to provide for her
The burden to keep her in her feminine yet chaotic state.

There's no greater challenge a man can encounter than marriage.
He's not just responsible for himself but also his partner.

She knows he's not going anywhere which prompts her to unleash her fully chaotic state without any form of regard.

A man in such position won't survive such feminine force just like this fella.

Sad part is the single mom circle is still in order, breeding kids that'll eventually lack any form of frame to guide them.

No greater curse than a man with a weak mind who gushes over pussy.

He'll be served a cold thin ice of feminine chaos.

A woman allows herself to be fvcked by a frame she respects.

The stronger the man's frame,the more a woman will crave to be dominated by it.

If a woman doesn't want to be sexually dominated by a man, it's because she doesn't respect him.

- The Wall speaks

Seek Respect from women not love.
You'll get the best she has to offer.

Kaymicheal852:
Problems of simps is that they are arrogant, they think they are the moral man , a man with honor and dignity in the eyes of the society, while the truth is that he is just being used , a bag of money that can be grabbed by users

And they will be the first to condemn logical men that are not usable

But eventually female nature won’t spare them the rod and wrath

I’m talking about Rich simps , poor simps are something else entirely , they are worse

Death to simps

Poor simps are truly the worst.

They're the male equivalent of feminist.

They literally live to serve the feminine imperative.

Olamilekxy:
A girl posted this

Her statement left no room for accountability just victimization.

Who chose those wrong ones?😂

They'll say just about anything to trap those thirsty simps.

Simp truly do exist to create a balance.

The integrated man

An integrated man is a mysterious man.
A man with shattered personalities.
A multi-faceted personality.

Simply put,no one can figure you out.


This is the ideal man a woman so badly desires.It's a good/bad guy combo. It's a not so defined personality.

A personality so rare it almost seems like a fantasy and fantasy is where a woman's mind dwell.
Becoming shadow integrated is no small feat.
You've got to learn and unlearn everything you know.

An Everything everywhere all at once personality.
An unmanipulative personality.

I can't over emphasize on how much we need to learn to train our minds.

The body{The physical} requires money for efforts. The rewards are always physical

The mind requires nothing physical for efforts. The rewards are both physical and psychological.

Understand that shaming is a feminine drive.

It's an antic used by women to get what they desire since they can't result to using strength.

Also, being ashamed is a feminine trait.
Be proud of your masculinity,be proud to be a man and all the struggles that comes with it.

Feeling ashamed is you going against your masculinity. Women will hate and feel disgusted if they sense shame in you,simps will jubilate that they have brought down a strong man

Amplify what they're shaming you about.
Yes women will say it out loud but we all know they don't mean it or at the very least what they say or feel is fleeting.

They'll surely most definitely come around if you don't cave in.
Always stand your ground.

Best part,let your actions speak for you, never result to vocals.

Women are vocal champions,Men are action takers.

Always be proud of your masculinity.
So many men have been emasculated they don't even know those normal things a man should do or experience in his lifetime.

They cater to anything feminine incentivized and disregard everything about themselves.


What's is common isn't valued,be unique.

A man's aging cycle for mating

In as much as men age slowly,we still have a timeline for choosing the best mate whether for marriage or reproductive purposes.

I'll focus mainly on marriage.

Just as women have their prime years{18-25} to choose the best mate,so do men{30-38}

At the later prime years of a man, he won't be as agile in the dating scene unlike his earlier
days.

Disadvantages
1)Money will have to be his ball bearer if he waste too much time.

2) Genuine desire will be questionable since money will most likely be involved.

3)He might end up having dealings with left overs due to haste in reproducing.
It's not funny having kids when you're in your 50's

So men,take advantage of your prime years if you're stable financially and marriage inclined.

Just as it's the phase when a woman can secure her best mate genuinely and financially, it's also the phase when a man can easily source for genuine, clean and refined woman.

While for women,her body that was once an advantage becomes her disadvantage

A man's fortune that was once an advantage will become his disadvantage.

If you wait too long, it'll get harder.

Understand that when you show off WEALTH, women are only attracted to two things which doesn't include You{ouch}

1. Women are in love with the projection of their imagination of the man not the man himself.
Stay mysterious if you want to keep her around.
When you deny her of her intuitive nature,she quickly falls outta "love"

You really cannot negotiate genuine desire.


2. A safe nesting/landing zone aka security

I prefer calling this phase the proud beta bucks.
Imagine someone being proud of being used and manipulated, that's as bad as it's gets.

Benefits of genuine desire
1. Faithfulness: The tendency of her sleeping around or playing games is greatly reduced.

2. Loyalty: She'll have your best interest in her heart all the time aka she'll defy her innate nature just for you.

3Submission:Less drama. She'll learn to discipline herself. She'll bring peace to your space.

Just to mention a few...

Meanwhile,a woman that never had genuine desire for you won't see any need for all of these.

To her, you're simply just her next meal ticket. Don't blame her it's just her nature.

Only she can tame her nature, understand this brothers.

Again, you cannot negotiate genuine desire with money.
Genuine desire will stand the test of time.

Protect your legacy!! protect your sanity!!
Sort for genuine desire in women.

Women represent chaos,Men represent order.

The pathway to a woman's world is chaotic, not recommended for the faint hearted cuz it will alter you to the extreme.

Women will shame you,simps will shame you. But give it little time when they're done with your "walk of shame moment".

The deadbeat and worn out women will hate you, for they know competition when they see one.

Women will wonder and find themselves drawn to you.
Simps will ponder, they'll be aghast that you had the balls to go against society,to go against the norms. Trust me, they'll want to know more about you which stems from jealousy. You trigger their manly genes

Real low key OGs will know your game plan. They'll hold you in high esteem.

Understand that applying GAME will always take you higher and deeper into the rabbit hole.

Be ready cuz there's no crawling back out once you go in.

Your name will go far,Men who're balless will want to know you.
Women will hate themselves for being drawn to your energy.

Play it cool, don't show off. Don't speak loud.

They're watching, they're learning

At this point, they're in your domain . Control the narrative

MetalJigsaw:
One more Redpill precaution:

Be careful around simps, they are dangerous.

Simps shame men more than women shame men.

They have more estrogen than women 🤣