CaveAdullam: When you tell them about these women, they never pay heed. Rather, they ridicule you especially when you are below their status. But the truth and reality don't care.
They want to marry the most expensive stripper.
They want to marry the most beautiful model.
They want to marry a classic woman.
They want to marry a woman with class and sauce.
They want to marry a woman with big breasts and liposuction buttocks.
They want to marry a woman who won't settle for less.
They want to marry a well-made and established woman with no solid foundation.
They select the worst of women while expecting the best. Ridiculous.
After all the pains in climbing to the top, a man still ends up crumbling in an instant because he made the wrong choice of a woman.
Men that never built themselves to become something worthy of INTEGRITY, REPUTATION, HONOUR, MORALS, KINDNESS, MODESTY, and GOOD CHARACTER...will always make the wrong choice in selecting women. Because they are dark, all that surrounds them is darkness, and they will never see a woman in the light to choose from.
The same goes for women: they consistently reject good men because they are poor (not an excuse though), short and ugly. But what do they end up with? Men who don't love them.
You'll never select the wrong woman or man in life if you have experienced the two extremes of life: good and evil. That experience alone will shape your understanding of humans and bring to your consciousness the relevant things you need to know and do when dealing with people.
Our parents, grandparents, and ancestors understood this. However, we now feel too wise and intelligent to override core traditions and principles that have shaped human existence and held civilization for eons because of phones and social media.
It is a pity.
You reap what you sow. You can't have your cake and eat it.
DAY 302, REDPILL 2022
Authority:Be wise. Be vigilant. The days are dark.
Cc. Reminderz, Someoneschild2, Hedgefunds, Tonnyray, smartb0y, Nerostealth01, Lordcassy, Adambeatz, Sajmark, Rikudosenin, Calibrator et al.
Just as a woman wrong choices at her optimal level devalues her and puts her in a state of perpetual darkness so does a man at his.
It's a good thing you pointed out man's poor choices. It's one thing continuously hinting out the issues it's another entirely for a man with great and unbounded understanding to mostly do right and make those critical choices that won't be detrimental to his survival.
Men be wise,we too truly cannot eat our cake and have it.
Karma does exist for a reason, consequences for every action (choices/decisions you make) there'll always be a cause and an effect.
We most times are too blinded to see the long term effect of our choices simply because we're stuck in the present,ever void of any sense of perpetuality.
Like the saying goes,make hay while the sun shines. It's not necessary hinting on finance but on survivability which includes every sphere of one's life, basically all your critical life choices determines truly if you'll up stack up on some hay.
I wish I could give you a comprehensive reply but I don't have the luxury of time.
What I would say is that you think of life as a game and learn the rules so you can play it perfectly and succeed.
So, it's not a matter of being absolutely good or bad, but adapting depending on the situation, context and circumstance.
Ultimately, this means you can play good or bad so far you get to win at the end and that's all that matters.
Already, the game of romance and intersexual dynamics is being played out here and from my observation, it requires you to play the bad/confident guy or whatever synonyms being used to describe it to win.
There are also other aspects of life playing the good guy might get you results, and in some or most cases you might need to embody characteristics from both spectrums but at the end, I repeat, it's winning that matters.
So, stop thinking in white and black because there's also a wide spectrum of grey in between.
Don't hate the players man, hate the game.
Well said brother, at the end it's the outcome that matters.
Every guy should know how to be fluid/flexible when reflecting the good/bad guy image. It's creates room to be mysterious. Like no one can tell what you're gonna do next, which makes you outrightly unpredictable.
If your attitude is predictable, be it the good guy/bad guy routine, you can easily be manipulated.
Like my bro said, every situation requires observing your environment at that particular moment,what gives and whatnot in order to reflect the right attitude.
LutherSanchez: There was a time @Ubunja said here that if you try gaming some married women,that you'll find out that some won't mind bearing your seeds... Chaiii, some married Men have really suffered .... As a single guy, i believe that there are some lines you can't Cross and i genuinely believe that sleeping with a married woman is one of that,this saying of @Ubunja is very True,I've found it out myself....
What they give out, theirs is more than green light.
The truth of the matter is that most married women are bored. Women are not used to a static flow of life, they're dynamic creatures, always wanting new occurrences to pop up.
If they can't have it, they'll surely create room for it.
It's always only a matter of time and opportunity.
Someoneschild2: Erhm! sir, a man's value is in his status/money because not every man will attain these heights (pareto distribution). Therefore, this scarcity makes the ones available "high value".
Every woman has a vagina so, that is valueless but not every woman has an outstanding character, high intellectual capacity, a sense of duty, a sense of decency, etc. This is what I believe gives them their value.
A woman becomes too valuable to a man when she uses these characters to wrap herself around his affairs such that cutting her from his life will be such a thorn in his side.
Her beauty will fade, her vagina will get loose but these characters are what she will use to leverage her stay in a man's tribe because what will stop him from discarding her when beauty fails?
Clintx's girlfriend must have given up because she thinks libido is every man's thumbscrew but when oga Clintx proved otherwise, there was nothing else she could do. If she played a very important role in oga Clintx's life and made any threats, I'm certain there would be some sort of compromise from oga Clintx.
It is the game of power, all day, everyday!
The characters portrayed by these women in their various shows taught me better what to look for.
Things i will teach my own daughter(s)
We're saying the same thing bro, you're just going deeper.
I'll attach where I said something like yours. I was merely scratching the surface.
A woman naturally is born with value but a man must create value for himself.
Women are their own undoing because most end up devaluing themselves. They don't understand the meaning of values because they're earthly beings.
Right or wrong does not apply to them but how they feel is what they use as a yardstick to measure their morality which in turn devalues most of them on the long run.
Smartb0y: Where are you getting your redpill from, I'm really curious .
16 is underage,we don't encourage pedophilia here. 18 is the acceptable norm.
A woman can only be termed "the prize " if her mind and body are in order.
If the body is good but the mind is bad... She's not "the prize" because she will cause unrest in a man's space.
If her body is bad but her mind is good..... she's not the "the prize" because she's damaged.
To be the prize , you (woman) must stand out,be unique ,be different,be rare. What is common has little or no value hence worthless.
I hope you have an understanding of what it entails for a woman to be the prize now.
She can be 23 and have 5000 notches,does that in any sense make her worthy of a high value man like your self?. All your suffer just to go and bag a 23 year old with 10000 body count,aha who do you
Clintx: I used to have a girlfriend who felt that a man needs to respect a woman, SMH severally she would show me comedy videos of women assaulting men or men kneeling down to apologize to their woman. Not me though lol, she was always pained that I never apologized for anything I did to offend her but she would never apologize for the same reasons unless it's favourable to her. Once she tried using sex as bait,said she won't have sex with me until I said sorry and when she found out that didn't work she just gave up on everything until I eventually dumped her.
Quick question though,why does a woman feel sex is the greatest weapon to get any man do what he doesn't want to do? I feel like they don't give up even after making use of so many options but after trying to use sex they tend to give up
Your value is what commands respect.
For a man , it is your money/status.
For a woman, it is what's between her legs/beauty.
If your value cannot command respect ,then you'll feel worthless.
Your girlfriend felt worthless that's why she gave up.
CaveAdullam: The man is like "I will tell you that you are a b!tch without telling you that you are b!tch not worth taking seriously". Towards the end of the video, she even called herself a "boss b!tch" and the man was vindicated. Wanted to respect her but she called herself out. Lol.
She was busy gulping down a glass of wine when the truth hit her instead of retrospect, feeling sober and thinking of the next good step to take.
She got a seething cauldron of negative energy inside of her. She proved it, and the reason the man avoided fvcking her, was because his reputation and energy were worth more than the pleasures of sex and the resultant effect of fvcking such kind of woman.
This gulping is a RED FLAG!
Is today red flag day or is this going to be a norm ?
Haynnie: Reasons why you should never place your girlfriend on monthly allowance.
- You can’t be paying to be loved, know your worth. - It makes her Iazy and enables entitlement mentality. - You’re not her father, and she’s also not jobIess. - You have parents, siblings and friends that need it more, if you don’t need the money. - It won’t stop her from cheatiπg on you. - She will still dump you when you can’t pay it anymore and go for the next fini$hed man who’s willing to carry her financiaI burdens. And you will tell her “after all I did for you” and she will reply with “what did you do?” “Who asked you to do it?”
That "who asked you to do it " part is a ball buster.
Plausible deniability.
I saw a post where a woman was saying something about it but she didn't realize on a default,they possess it naturally.
Women will always look for a way out to avoid any form or manner of responsibility even when caught red handed.
When you as a man let your guard down at any point while dealing with a woman, you set yourself up for a state of "plausible deniability".
There's this show i saw "Ramy", in a particular scene,one of the characters (the uncle) took a lady out to sway her,she initially was asking for his help in starting her own business. Upon leaving,he open the exit door for her and then she said " I'm sorry but i have to call it a night, something along that line but he cut her off midway and he said " i know there's an attraction between us but this is not the right time blah blah blah,she was stunned ,that particular scene I'll never forget. Afterwards,he called a cab, gave her a dollar note,shove her ass inside and bade her farewell.
That was ice cold,she was going to fall his hand after all the luxury but he gave her the reverse fixture hahaha.
What's my point, Be the guy with a plausible deniability, that's part of practicing "game" Women will never catch you off guard.
ubunja: cause the woman wants this man for herself since she has strong feelings for him, but she can't keep him cause he's pursuing his own heart's desire - hence him leaving the woman brokenhearted.
To add, A man's own feelings for or against a woman don't play a role in a woman's attraction. You may like a woman or you may hate a woman that won't stop her from being attracted. The reverse is also true,, you may like a woman or you may hate a woman that won't make her become attracted. Hence it must never be any man's duty to make a woman fall in love with him.
@bolded, Exactly,let her do the chasing but some will not hear word,they end up carrying woman matter on their head which in turn shortens their life span lol.
CaveAdullam: Baba calm down and read that post by @shadayaKnight, shared by heartofcity12.
Everything you said validated that post.
The red flags where obvious but you and your friend were busy doing lover boys. And heartbreaks like this makes many men stay longer in the rage stage when they become exposed to the redpill.
"I nor too simp that year sha because I broke and I still broke ehen. But I sha waka barefooted from St Albert to Management science field when her shoe cut for road. I give her my leather palm slippers come begin dey trek for road and bush inside university my broda...and that friendzone nor fit get part 2 for this life. I don wise up sha".
"Smartb0y and Martinez39s...i nor call una mouth for this small story make I share o".
Winks.
I always go offline when the hot conversations are trending
ubunja: RedPill music video of the day: Beyonce - Upgrade U.
what's the song about? Beyonce is listing all the good things she brings to the table for her man. These include helping him shine in business deals, boosting his bank balance, taking care of the home and introducing him to greater things he never knew etc. It describes the perfect helpmate. No challenging her man and no ursuping a man's leadership role and always supporting his vision. Sample lyrics: it's very seldom that you're blessed to find your equal, still played my part and let you take the lead, believe me".
satandeterrible: This dumb bloke thinks he can insert his defeated mindset and his bluepilled mentality into the Redpill. What a fool!
He has retired to his fate as an insecure, failed man. He has seen that he is not able to do what the Redpill requires of him. He is too lazy or incapable of putting in the work to change his mindset. He is incapable of building himself to become a high-value man.
Instead of sulking and accepting his shameful defeat, he wants to stupidly insert his defeated mindset and his bluepilled realities into a redpill thread.
My man you are a loser. Not only a loser, you are such a big fool to think that anybody will accept your bluepilled, stupid, defeated mindset on a redpill thread.
BigBashiru: Time will teach you bro...good luck with your search....
In general Women are the prize 16 - 23....men become the prize when women pass 23....
As I said I wont argue....good luck with ur search....
It's not a crime to blow your cash on a woman if you want......so long as it's not your primary attraction mechanism....my point there was don't blow ur cash on the old wife instead spend it on the young girlfriends and let the old wife fend for herself financially
Where are you getting your redpill from, I'm really curious .
16 is underage,we don't encourage pedophilia here. 18 is the acceptable norm.
A woman can only be termed "the prize " if her mind and body are in order.
If the body is good but the mind is bad... She's not "the prize" because she will cause unrest in a man's space.
If her body is bad but her mind is good..... she's not the "the prize" because she's damaged.
To be the prize , you (woman) must stand out,be unique ,be different,be rare. What is common has little or no value hence worthless.
I hope you have an understanding of what it entails for a woman to be the prize now.
She can be 23 and have 5000 notches,does that in any sense make her worthy of a high value man like your self?. All your suffer just to go and bag a 23 year old with 10000 body count,aha who do you
BigBashiru: Your thoughts are good but are idealistic.... unfortunately marriage has evolved and some of its noble values eroded...
When a woman can put a picture on instagram and get 1000 likes and 5000 followers in the span of 2-3 weeks you are telling that same woman to have a husband? Why should she have a husband when her ig inbox is filled with guys looking to give her money?
What standard do you want to hold them to - standard is set by society - the partriachy is gone thats the reality.....stop trying to go back to the past...
My dear evolve with the times or sink...
Talking about evolution Don't start what you cannot finish.
The evolution of marriage in this modern times is baby mamaism.
Marriage is just a heresay, nothing special about it like you said.
BigBashiru: What I recommend to guys is marry the 29 yo but don't play patriarchy i.e she has to fend for herself financially in the marriage....then be with ur younger hotter girlfriends....
You lost the argument when you said "marry the 29 years old and cheat on them .
Why marry if you're just going to end up cheating The problem here is that you don't even have the basic understanding or should I say core understanding of what defines a marriage. Marriage has lost its idealism,what we have today is just legal partnership,when the iron gets hot there'll likely be a breach.
Use the 29 years old as baby mamas, that's the only use they have at that age.
Why are you getting married,what are the benefits in this modern age.... Questions like these are what you should ask yourself so you don't feel pressured to conform to societal standards.
If you have that understanding that relationship is all a game, you won't be discouraged to marry a young woman.
Every relationship comes with its pros and cons, that's why we say choose your poison wisely based on the benefits there is for you because the world today is narcissistic,both men and women will finish you just for their survival.
Women at age 29 and single are most likely damaged. If you meet a virgin at 29, scrutinize her well, something is up Note this: As a woman gets older,her propensity to likely be damaged increases due to earthly exposure. She becomes extremely neurotic, narcissistic, delusional.
Saying you will willingly wife up a used up baggage that incinerators will refuse to burn is just mind boggling really.
Are you so insecure about wifing up a youthful woman that makes you want to settle for less than less.
That peace of mind you think you'll have marrying a used up woman is delusional.