Many men are really clueless, watch how his fellow simps and women call anyone talking reasonably “insecure”.
Being logical is not insecurity, and I always wonder why women’s idea of fun is to slut themselves out.
Look, if you’re the type of man that would let your significant other dress this way to a club, because you’re not “insecure”, don’t come crying when you discover she’s onto the next nigga.
Women will tell you they don’t dress for men, who then are you dressing for showing your body provocatively? Your fellow women? 😂 I know a stupid man will believe that.
One common trend I've come to notice recently is married people not wanting to wear their rings.
Perhaps it's being going on but I just noticed it.
There's a guy at my workplace, if you were not told "this guy is married" you'll never suspect it .
The way he interacts with women,oh my gosh🤣😭.
I still have a hard believing he's actually married.
Then the obvious question popped up.
Is this fella really feeling his marriage.
I had a Convo with him weeks back,way before I was told he's actually married. He was pro-marriage but his attitude is completely anti-monogamy.
I read people by their actions not their words.
I shook my head in disbelief knowing what this guy must be facing in his marriage and keeping utterly quiet about it. For him to be frolicking about and seeking external consolation said it all.
Avoid being pushed into marriage, understand the concept of marriage and all that it entails before jumping into one.
Someone dropped a link a while back about a divorce lawyer making some vital points concerning all there is to marriage, I'll search for it and put it here.
SEE FINISH When you invite someone into your space without protecting an inkling of your identity.
It's not just common amongst women,even your fellow man can take you for granted.Learn to say less about yourself, that'd keep them guessing and interested.
Another important tip,study whoever you want to associate yourself with (Male or female). Most times, the damage gets done already before we realize we made a bad bet associating with unfortunate individuals.
As relating to women most especially . Avoid falling into that friend zone. Keep your distance especially social media wise. Avoid it at all cost. Keep SM interactions short and precise. If possible,refrain from it altogether.
Avoid toxic women,from experience most are covertly toxic. You'd think "she's quiet and reserved",bro be careful those ones are calculatively manipulative.
Vet,vet and vet . There's simply no ending to it.
Telling a woman things about yourself,even those little details that might seem totally harmless is you arming her with arsenals to use against you later on.
Sadly, there's little or no HONESTY when associating with them simply because the game is always ON never on pause.
And indeed,game is built on deception.
A sad world we live in.
They'll want to know everything about you in order to measure you up especially when they can sense you carry something special. "Yes women can sense that shit" They can spot a guy with prospect from afar.
Don't loose guard,guard your secrets and your identity, refrain from showing off (I will always advise on this)
You tell a woman "no games", let's just be real with each other and have something unique, Bros, you just signed yourself up to be ravaged without mercy.
She'll make of you a good practice round to sharpen her skills.
You simply cannot survive without game.
It's not possible.
Even if you don't wanna play the game, you must have the understanding so you don't get burnt beyond repair.
Choose Learn game or sacrifice your sanity.
Yes damaged men do exist. They have been emasculated. They're your regular pussy-ass guys that always seek feminine validation. They live to serve the feminine imperative. They have no iota of what it means to be masculine.
In this present times,Most men you'll come across or interact with will be feminine. They'll hate you for being you.
Fighting wars on all fronts, you indeed have your work cut out for you if you're masculine.
heartofcity12: Yeah bro, they always reveal themselves.. It’s why they’re still the easiest to smash by guys that know how to lie and sell the dream well, it’s what they deserve anyway, many of them are never in any long lasting relationship but they get fvcked from time to time..
For quick fvcks, show them the illusion of wealth.
For something serious and meaningful, better hide your money 🤣 and let your personality do the talking.
For the latter,most of them lack the ability to connect with a partner emotionally. They're literally on survival mode, nothing else matters.
So if you want something serious, you really have your work cut out for you 🤣
fuckboys: You're so right on this but how do we get to do this?, I just guidelines on how to just get to Bleep girls without asking them for relationship.
Do you just tell her straight up that you want to Bleep her?, Or you ask to pay her for sex? Or you ask for friends with benefits stuffs?
Get close to them but never become or accept being their friend. Let it be known.
You don't have to stress yourself brother,the ones that you get close to that are feeling you will surely make it very easy to hit them.
It's really isn't rocket science.
There's always a particular category of girls that are attracted to a guy. Learn to figure yours out and stick with it in order to avoid unnecessary headache.
Avoid the nice guy act/routine. Don't act or speak prudishly,it turns them off. At the same time, don't be overly sexual. Follow the tempo and bulid up the tension.
Try to maintain a balance, women desire mixed emotions,both the good and bad.
If you give them either,they become bored or run away after a while hence why a mixture of both is necessary.
Pukkalolo: Here is one funny thing most women with inflated ego would do: when you're interacting with her, she treat you like she's a little bit above you. She convey this with her attitude, words and facial expressions.
When you accept that poor treatment, that becomes reality... she'll start to treating you like you’re below her.
Always reject bullshit from her. This is important.
Pukkalolo: Here is one funny thing most women with inflated ego would do: when you're interacting with her, she treat you like she's a little bit above you. She convey this with her attitude, words and facial expressions.
When you accept that poor treatment, that becomes reality... she'll start to treating you like you’re below her.
Always reject bullshit from her. This is important.
youcanmakeit: To hell with this make money and women will magically start chasing you... let's us stop this fantasy thinking.
There was this fine girl I gave lift. She stopped at a house. Later, I learnt that's her boyfriend house. I'm not here to broke shame anyone but her boyfriend doesn't look like he has much money. Although he has this bad boy rebellious look.
Anytime I here the make money and women will chase you, I don't totally cosign with that.
I don't want to brag but I just want to pass a point. I work as a sales guy in a very prestigious company on the island... own a nice new car, I recently moved into a nice flat I rented. I might not be wealthy, but I'm living very comfortably. Yes, I get choosen signals from women from time to time, but I'm not seeing women rolling over me and begging for my love.
Same thing with most of my colleagues and friends who are also earning big... I don't see women chasing them and licking their feet while they walk. They still having issues with women. But yet we say make money and women will chase after your dick.
I know a guy in my neighborhood who isn't making money as much as I do, but he change girls all the time. He's not having any issues with women.
I have learned that women love guys who are rebels. The guys who give off this I don't give a Bleep vibe This guy in my neighborhood has that attitude.
I playfully asked him how he does it.
He said "omo don't mind all the girls, Dem to like dick too much.'
He was saying, this girls like sex too much that's why he's able to get them.
But mean while on this thread, guys are preaching that women don't like sex.
Guys....If you are there waiting till you start making millions before you start getting sex and getting girls.....You are wasting your time!
I'm not saying you shouldn't work hard and make money. Definetely, every guy should be grinding and focus on improving themselves.
But I'm just saying that, the woman you are hoping to Bleep when you finally become rich is probably fucking a broke nigga who has I don't give a Bleep attitude.
Better learn what these rebellious bad guys are doing to attract women, or keep waiting till you make billions before you start bleeping girls.
This is why the only guys I listen to on this thread is ubunja and Pukkalolo and maybe few other guys. These are the guys that truly understand women and game...the rest are just copy and paste
You can only get genuine desire from a woman when you're broke.At this point,she has no expectations from you except just being that fun guy.
When money comes, money becomes the genuine desire to a woman. Money becomes the expectation. She has little interest about you as a person.
Hence why I advocate and advice for LTR,DO NOT SHOW OFF WEALTH
Let your personality be your ball bearer.
Just be yourself around any woman, don't be a woman pleaser,it turns them off.
Don't be sensitive to say things as they are .
They will seek your affection and attention when you don't give a fvck,well at least the ones that find you attractive/interesting. Those ones are your tribe which are more than enough.
Give off that bad boy vibe with pride,let your attitude do the talking with subtle speech here and there.
Don't ever work to get a pussy, you'll regret it.
If she doesn't offer it freely,move on to the next .
Women are just too many to be dying over one. It always marvel me when guys date,chase or try to impress one woman it screams lack of abundance mindset and women know it.
Hence why they hold all the cards.
Never conform to society standards if you want to have your way with women.
You'll be shamed for it but the rewards are always blissful.
Kipaji: You are right. Some of these women are not putting in enough effort. But I think they may be feel reluctant to that because other women don't even have to put in any effort. All they have to do is dress a certain way and get out. Nowadays they don't even need to get out, just a selfie is enough to have guys reach out to them. Some women, even with much effort, do not get satisfying results.
They don't know how to dress at all.
Wearing baggy clothings, nothing feminine about it. Clothing that are not even the least bit contemporary; they put on clothings that are completely outta style.
That won't get anyone's attention.
There are clothings that'll highlight a woman physique. Those natural curves that gets everyone taking a second glance.
Most complaining are out of shape aka fat ass.
Let's face it, it's always gonna be attraction before interest. There'll always be something physical that gets your attention about her.
Saying stuff like I like how she thinks blah blah blah, basically having high intelligence is never enough.
It's an organic drive that requires organic impulses.
These women are just lazy fat asses.
What makes a man wanna protect,lead and provide is that organic drive between his legs.
Testosterone is a beast,we tend to underestimate it.
It does wonders in a man's body. That sex they're all complaining about in reddit is the same sex that drives man to protect and provide. The same desire is what drives a man's urge to protect and provide.
They're just poor at vetting ergo why they end up with men that just use and dump their scrunny asses.
Women will never be realistic to the truth or accept taking responsibilities.
Life's not balanced,some people work their asses off just to achieve little while some work little just to achieve alot.
It is what it is, everyone can't have the icing on the cake.
Just take that piece that works best for you and move along.
Tyg3rFvry: My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left. Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime?
Proverbs 22:3
A prudent man sees danger and hides himself
But the simple go on ,and suffer for it.
I really hope you've stopped thinking like a SIMPle man after this ordeal.
You should thank your stars your life was spared.
Housing a woman without the parents blessing is always a recipe for disaster.
You're still young,make better choices henceforth.
luminouz: He says 'love sex too much', not women too much..
You can actually love sex too much with just one woman or a few women(1-3). I don't see anything bad in that but what's bad is loving and having sex too much with different women(100-20000)... Shows a lack of comtrol
Literally everything in life requires moderation in order for there to be stability.
LordTheus: Is anyone else here aware of this bizarre sex position? It's called the Amazon position. I swear I just found out about it today and I can't stop laughing. 😂😂😂
Pukkalolo: As a man, you should not treat a lady based on how much you like her..... but rather on how much she likes you and how much she's willing to invest in you.
heartofcity12: Simps will always learn the hard way, when redpilled men caution them against things like this, we get attacked and labeled misogynistic or broke.. Let them burn..
Saintinoo: have been hearing of the narcissism, and even through I believe we all have one traits of narcissism or the other, but I experienced this with my now ex girlfriend. All this while I was trying to protect and love her even after seeing so many signs of narcissism but, the more I try, the more I make her believe that I am the problem. Here are most things she does that made me believe she has a covert NPD.
1. Love bombs me today, and give me hell the next day. 2. She never apologizes, she will ghost me until I apologize for complaining about her wrong doing. 3. She gives silent treatment immediately after an argument until I apologize. 4. She gets angry so easily, she can yell at or shame me when angry and when I react, silent treatment follows. 5. When I caught her lie, even the slightest lie, she gets angry and start ghosting me till I apologizes (sort of manipulation).
These and many more I experienced from dating a female narcissist, just don't get into any relationship with them else they will destroy you, no matter how strong of a man you are.
She actually left when she saw that I was too sturborn for her manipulations and won't adhere to her demands, need I say that I still tried to get her back, that is how female narcissists destroys not just their man but even female friends they manage to have.
Women in general are naturally narcissistic.
They tend to think more about themselves than anyone else.
You'll be lucky to find one who hasn't harnessed the full power if her narcissistic nature .
1) If you're sexy and naughty, you will get away with just about anything as far as women are concerned even in a professional environment. Some men will secretly or openly hate you for it tho.
2) Women choose men,not the other way around. Chasing after a woman's desire always end in tears. There's a high tendency she'll invest in you emotionally and financially if she chooses you.
3) If she can't get what she wants from you,be it finance or sexual desires; she'll look elsewhere. Always have a backup plan and accept the reality that it's just your turn.
4) If you find yourself in a new environment, let's say a new workplace; just be neutral and don't show off for a while. Learn to observe and understand the people around you. People will feign loyalty just to get a squeeze outta you. Be wise and calculative.
5) If you want to hit and run, feed them the illusion of power. If you want LTR,don't show off. Let her fall in love with your person before any revelations else she taps into your illusive power which is only a temporary fix.
Normalize saying things to women just to lead them on and in turn making them feel like they're leading you on, just to turn the tables on them later on.
A woman finds it difficult to pull away once she's invested in you. Use it to your advantage.
Truth is,most modern women hardly make any effort investing in a man cuz these guys make it all too easy. They've bastardized the system.
Just sort through the trash and focus on the ones willing to invest in you.
1) don't text her. Always use physical communication to initiate interactions. You automatically registered yourself into her simp orbit.
2) Too much compliment and validation made you seem like an ideal simp. She did nothing to be rewarded with compliments.
3) Scarcity mindset. A woman can sense desperate men. If I could sense your desperation in those texts, can't imagine what would have gone through her head.
4)Low interest on her part. She doesn't give a fvck about you.
5) You maintained zero air of mystery. You let out secrets too quick.
I suggest you start from the first page of this thread. It's obvious you don't have much experience dealing with women.
As for advising you, Run!! Forget her, save yourself the remaining dignity you got left. You self respect will be tarnished if you continue on this path.
MetalJigsaw: One sad truth: Simps and betas will always be the majority among men...
"Good morning nairalanders.
I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.
She practically has been staying with me all these years, we live like we're married. So we quarrelled about 2months ago and she moved her things out of the hse, which is her regular routine every time we quarrel. I tried to talk to her to settle things out but she refused. I tried my best and got tired until 2 weeks ago I agreed to the breakup she has always been asking for after her friend told me she already has a new bf. Now after that day, she has been calling me everyday till today, she calls and randomly paid visit once, the second time she wanted to come visit I was not at home. I've made up my mind to move on but this her act of calling everyday, I'm not comfortable with it. Should I block her Or instruct her to never call me again (although I feel that'll be harsh) I'm a very gentle man and the least word that will hurt a woman, I don't like uttering it.
She told her friend nobody ever made love to her like I do and for that reason she always want to come back to me but just for sex. But I believe one day, she'll get over this sex thing that's intoxicating her and probably stick to the dude she'll be having in her life.. The one time she visited we had sex. That was about a week ago and yesterday she wanted to come visit but I wasn't home.
I forgot to mention the part where I am actually taking care of 100% of her bills.... I'm working in a financial institution where I earn about 150k monthly . Although the pay is not much but I'm not outrightly broke.
She does nothing at all.. the little career skill she has, I sponsored her through.
So what do you all advise I do?"
I'm as overwhelmed with confusion as Jackie Chan rn🤣