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JESHAL:
Rage bluepilled men go through when they are burnt by the system

Karlifate:
Inactive fathers = wayward daughters.


Exceptions abound though, but they don't nullify the majority.

ubunja:
and take it where? Lol.

drealbenard:
Hello guys!

Today, am going to be talking about a topic that has really helped me a lot when dealing with women. It's called "Knowing Your Tribe".

Now, when I say Tribe, am not referring to your local dialet or the language that you speak. In redpill; your Tribe refers to the group of women who are naturally attracted to you. These are the group of women who will find you attractive without you doing anything but existing.

The importance of knowing your Tribe is that it will make things a lot more easier for you when dealing with women. With this knowledge, the risk of rejection from women will be drastically reduced and you wouldn't have to deal with women that do not find you attractive.

But before we continue, I will like to state that method is not 100% effective, but it has worked for me 90% of the time and I believe it can also work for you when fully adapted.

Through my introduction to the redpill, especially the aspect of being "Chosen" and my interactions with several women over the years, i've come to realize that sexual attractions are usually determine by some physical attributes in both men and women.

Below are some of the physical attributes I discovered:

1. Light skinned ladies are more attracted to dark skinned guys. So also, dark skinned ladies are more attracted to light skinned guys.

2. Slim women are more attracted to men with a big build. When I say big, I don't mean obese men. Am talking about big build men with a good ration of bones, muscles and fat.

3. Beautiful women are more attracted to handsome men. Note that average looking women can also be attracted to handsome men, but the attraction is higher with beautiful ladies.

4. Petite ladies are more attracted to tall men with big build bodies. The smaller in stature she is, the bigger the men she will find attractive.

5. Curvy women are more attracted to men with large chest. The wider the hips of the woman, the more attracted she will be to large chested men with a V shape.

6. Busty women are more attracted to men with a big build. The bigger the breast, the higher her attraction for men with big bodies. Again, not obese, but big and strong men.

7. Women with big butts are more attracted to men with big chest. The bigger her butt, the higher her attraction for big chested men.

8. Feminine women are more attracted to masculine men. While masculine women are more attracted to feminine men.

9. Women with big bodies are more attracted to men with big bodies. When I say big, am referring to equal proportions of bones, muscles and fat.

10. Tall women are more attracted to tall men. They may still find avarage hight men attractive, but the attraction for tall men is higher.

One, two or more combinations of the above listed physical attributes should be able to help you in identifying the tribe of women that are likely to find you attractive. So just as Rom Wills use to say "Know your self, then you will know your Tribe".

Martinez39s:
Redpillers, beware of these unfamiliar accounts that are coming in groups to play silly games here. Before you jump in to start contributing and arguing to score points, do your due diligence first.

Karlifate:
Exactly!

Absent father = slut daughter.

Dabronze:
Keep it your mind

CaveAdullam:
Yes. That's where I will posting many of the sh!ts sitting in the garage. Just gradually.

Happy new year man.

CaveAdullam:
Happy 2023 to y'all great niggas.

As you start the new year, know this:

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1609229220001243139?t=SFGoaXlcTILlNKDDx0n4Cw&s=19[/quote]You're on Twitter now, that's good.

I recall asking sometime ago , you said you wasn't

IwasNeverGone:
Men, controlling your lust is a step in making it in life.

TheGidRedpiller:
Olayinka, I remember the discussion we had, I also remember extending it here on Nairaland so you can get more insight, instead of just working plainly on mine.

My advice still stands, you have a gigantic future, you have a lot of shiit in your control for someone your age, and you are DISABLED YOU ARE A FVVCKING GOD!!

Stop paying attention to your disability, I don't remember ever saying that No Man With Disabilities Can Be Alphas, neither do I recall Ubunja saying something similar

Is your problem women I TheGidRedpiller, promise you today, when the time comes, women will be dying to marry a man born, bred and brought up in the gutters.
Every woman has that point in their lives where they will settle for anything that has a d!ck.

I'm not saying you should be comfortable because leftover women would still be available to marry a disabled man, I'm just trying to make you understand that, in the very end YOU ARE THE PRICE!!
It doesn't matter what you look like.

Stop emphasizing on women so much, stop prioritizing them enough to make you this depressed, s€x is the cheapest thing in the market, I promise you that.
Let's just say, in your case, merchants won't sell to you because your currency is a little torn or ruffled. Begin to think like this!!

It is most definitely not safe, but how about getting Biittches to fvvck once in a while, that way, you only pay after letting all that steam out, and of course, you get to keep your self-esteem on the rise!
Like I said, it's most definitely not safe, so I advice you always use protection.

Wh0r€s will fvvck you as long as you put the money at the back of your d!ck, not in front.
This is exactly how cheap women and s€x can be.

The ultimate goal is to continue working on YOURSELF!!
You are more important in every situation you find yourself in, if you had a list of all your priorities, women should be the very last on that list, and everytime you get a new priority, it should only replace the position of women, not go under....women should keep going further down!!

There are millions of men without disabilities that wish they attained the height you have attained with your disability, there are many of us that would rather spend all that money you spent on those Biittches, on food instead.
Olayinka, you are very blessed, stop letting something as trivial as your s€xual urge distract you from this fact!!

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

joeeee240:
You clearly have no idea what red pill is.

You can not be a true red piller without pvssy. What do you think abundance mindset means? Or living in abundance means?

Rollo Tomassi specifically says "make sure you're spinning plates" What do you think that means?

You can NEVER be a true red piller or seducer without real world experience. NEVER. It's not only by reading books

dontai:
And you still divorced him, I swear marriage this days naa just jollof party.

Seandisputed:
Oh well.
Maybe you're not far from the truth, but I see it as common sense.

Seandisputed:
You're a king my bruv.
I only responded to the part where you said if you don't send her tfare that it's OYO. Common sense should tell a guy to tip her something for tfare when she's leaving even if she doesn't ask for it(especially when she was in her best behaviour throughout the stay).

RikudoSennin:
Trying to fill out a form to start a LLC and will you look at this?

IwasNeverGone:
Fatherless behaviors you shouldn’t take into 2023.

—Paying for private snaps.
—Sending women money to reply your DM.
—Commenting under every good looking woman’s picture you see on the internet.
—Sending women Tfare to come see you.

If you’re not loved at home, love yourself.

Credit: itsSh0la

Wyrax:
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.

Caveadullam ubunja gidtheredpiller

Wyrax:
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.

Caveadullam ubunja gidtheredpiller

traware:
Photos below of the Wachowski brothers;writers and directors of the 1999 movie The Matrix.
Before and after transitioning to the Wachowski sisters

JESHAL:
What's wrong with this guy?
Which kind white knight/ beta/ simp/ bluepilled idiot is he?
Why does he want men to be the retirement plan for women past their prime years?
What is his definition of maturity?
Does he not understand the sexual market place?
Does he not understand epiphany phase?

Pukkalolo:
Always remember that being alone is better than being with a woman who doesn't respect or appreciation you.

Put yourself on pedestal...not her.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 360, REDPILL 2022

Don't give to women what belongs to Caesar.

The same way you don't cast your pearls before hogs, don't cast your commitment and efforts for lousy women.

Authority: Go for the best.

ubunja:
what does me sending my girl child/children to school have to do with what the Taliban is doing?

Why are you all so angry and bitter that the Taliban is restricting women's education but you don't seem to mind it when suppossedly civilized governments restrict men's choices forcing men into war and death? Is a woman's loss of education a greater loss than a man's loss of life? Are men that expendable to you?
Even Andrew Tate himself on Piers Morgan show a few days ago on this issue said ,"Let the Feminists go fight for Afghan women. Don't involve any man"..
And I side with him. As did everyone else who watched that show.

ubunja:
it's generally IMPOSSIBLE for a man to love more than 1 woman at a time. Women can do it better. Men can do it but that's a very small minority of men who can master that art. The general dynamic is that man can love only one woman at a time. While he can very well sleep with many women at the same time unaffected. To demonstrate the differences between the genders:
Men can love 1 woman at a time but can sleep with many at a time.
Women can love many men at a time but can sleep with 1 man at a time.
The implications of this dynamic are massive. And it's the difference between sexual cheating and emotional cheating.

A relationship/marriage is not threatened when a man is sleeping around, it's when he starts confiding with one woman and having heart to heart talks with one female and bonding emotionally with her that his official GF/ wife has to worry. Cause that's where the real threat is - since emotionally men can handle only one woman at a time. Him getting Emotional with a woman who's not his own wife is a much bigger risk to the relationship/marriage than him just having random sexual encounters. The random sexual encounters don't mean anything to men cause sex in itself is not an emotional experience for men. But if a man is not even sleeping with a woman but is spending time bonding emotionally with her the damage to his own relationship/marriage will be far greater than if he just slept with the woman and kept his mouth shut and heart out of it.

Men can not be affected on an emotional level by sex. No matter how sweet and delicious a pucc is, it will never be enough to push a man to break up with his GF or wife over it. No matter how good of a fuccer a side chick is, a man will never leave his GF/wife for the side chick. Men will enjoy that sweet pucc for what it is and still go back to the woman they love........ But let a side chick be gentle, sweet, caring, loving, kind, understanding, forgiving, respectful, submissive then there's a problem! Here is where a man's relationship is at risk. Cause now he's being affected on an emotional level. This is where the situation becomes dangerous. And the moment a man engages with a woman on this level, his own GF/wife will sense it right away. She'll literally feel her man's love for her drop and reduce. This is when the man will suddenly be cold and distant with his GF or wife. He'll suddenly be moody at home and start fault-finding and being irritable around his main woman. Cause his heart can only deal with one woman at a time. He has a problem spreading his love over two women. So as he falls deeper for that other woman, his main woman feels it. This is how men get caught when they start cheating, especially since k. men can only cheat with one woman at a time so in the end they end up being Emotional with her. True players always cheat with multiple women and they hit it and keep it moving so they never get invested in any one of the women. Or even if the Players do get somewhat emotionally invested, the Emotional dividend each woman gets is too small to really matter. But if all the Emotional investment is going to just one side chick then there's a problem cause that one side chick is now a real threat.

For women its the opposite.
A woman can be romantically involved with even up to 5 men and none of the men will ever sense it. There'll be no diminishing of love for one man as it all flows to the other men. Generally a man will not sense anything. That's why women are always chatting with strange men in their DMs who are promising her heaven and earth and doing her all acts of kindness and love but she'll be in a fully fledged relationship or marriage all the time. And her husband not feel a thing. However the moment she fuccs another man her BF or husband will sense it. Cause the way a woman moves around her BF and husband after another man has rearranged her guts and fucced her brains out will always be different. There's bound to be a reduction in respect, awe, understanding, kindness and submission inside the relationship and marriage. Many men can sense it, cause their gut feeling is finely tuned to pick these things up. Even without evidence. There's always a change. Even though a man can't quite put his finger on it but he'll know something's up. Most men just won't speak up or do anything cause of the lack of evidence. But in their heart and soul they're picking up the vibe that their woman is riding another dicc. But that vibe won't be there if it's merely the woman bonding emotionally with other dudes in DMs or at work etc.

The opposite for women being that for women their system is optimised to watch out for Emotional cheating,, while a man's system is optimised to watch out for sexual cheating. A woman's sexual cheating endangers a man's legacy far more than Emotional cheating cause if his woman is sleeping around, while she may end up leaving him, the greatest danger is that she may cheat and stay, thereby making it possible for the man to raise another man's offspring. Which is the greatest of betrayals. Meanwhile a man's Emotional Cheating endangers a woman's security cause where a man's heart goes his money will soon follow.

Hence a man who discovers his wife been messing with another man will ask only one question: "did you have sex with him?". Cause to men cheating is not really cheating until the legs open. This is why even to men, a relationship is not really a relationship until the woman's legs open.

Meanwhile to women, if a GF/wife discovers her man has been cheating, what does she ask? Does she ask if her man has slept with that woman? Nope! A GF/Wife's pressing question is always: "Do you love that woman?" Because women understand until you get a man to open his heart you have not got got him. This is why even to women, a relationship is not really a relationship until the man's heart opens. This is all to say a woman will forgive easier real sex but will struggle to forgive emotional cheating.

To better explain this concept...
If your GF discovers that you fucced Maria she may forgive you. But if she discovers you sat down with Maria and shared with her a bond, whereby you were so deep in it that you shared with Maria your life struggles, your life pains, your successes and failures, your hopes and dreams, your anxieties and worries --- this will hurt your GF far more than if you had just fucced Maria and kept it going. Cause see, now you've engaged with Maria on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL.
That level of engagement is only for your main GF.

And the moment you give it to another someone, your GF will sense it immediately. Cause that's the part where your Emotions for your GF will start dropping cause another someone is also getting those Emotions as well. That's the cheating that hurts a woman beyond imagination. The Emotional investment via sharing. Cause that part of you is as important to her as her own puccy is important to you. And no woman wants to share that with anybody else. She wants that deeper knowledge about you to remain exclusive only to her. This is what the first Pic below is about. See Pic 1.
The sharing of deep information must not be done lightly. Cause that deep information is the real you, it is your core, that every woman must work to decipher. You never give it to any woman on a silver platter. When a woman asks you "tell me about yourself", always be vague about your core. Don't straight up dish it out. While you continue to relentlessly diick her down and rearrange her guts, refuse to lay bare to her your dreams and aspirations, your fears and anxieties, your triumphs and losses, your joys and sorrows, your pains and pleasures,,, make her work for it. Your dicc must be easy to get, but your core must be hard to get. It is by controlling this aspect of yourself that you remain Emotionally Unavailable (read: interesting and high value)

A woman must forever be pressed to understand the man who's fuccing her brains out. Keep feeding her crumbs of information to keep her keen. But never the full gourmet. She must always be working to understand you. Remember INFORMATION IS POWER.

That's why women love gossip. While men only have to sleep with a woman and they'll know about her. A man can understand decades about a woman just by one round of sex with her. It's why in the Bible when it talks about a man having sex with a woman it says "...and so and so KNEW his wife", - sex was equated with knowledge. A woman has to study a man and have him expose himself but a man only has to spend a night with a woman and he'll know just what type of woman she has been. Cause a woman's body will always betray her history. That's why women are fighting tooth and nail to have men ignore the state of a woman's body and to never associate how a woman's body is with her sexual history: hence all the talk about "boys don't sag boobs, it's gravity and genes" and "promiscuity don't loosen the vagina". All of which is a lie. A woman's body is the scene of her crimes. And she carries that scene everywhere she goes.

No man wants a woman who has no self control, just as no woman wants a man who has no self control.
But in intergender dynamics self control means different things to different genders: A man has self control if he can fucc without falling in love and a woman has self control if she can love without fuccing. That is why a high body count on a woman is a bad thing cause it betrays a lack of self control. But Feminists sell the idea of a high body count to women as representing sexual freedom and liberty. Which of course women enthusiastically buy into. Cause they need every excuse to whóré. Cause let's face it, sex is nice. And by extension whóring is nice. Which in itself wouldn't be a problem except that women are prone to falling in love via sex and if they have too much sex they end up losing the ability to fall in love via sex, which means sex stops being a bonding experience for them,which further devalues sex to a point that women don't really care who they have it with and where and how. At that level a woman is no longer of any use for a man and has become toxic and is just one step away from finding more joy in diildos and vibrators than real one on one sex with a man. This is the reason why diildos and vibrators are becoming more and more popular as women whóré more and more cause what is happening is that these women are hitting the sex "ceiling" more and more: they're quickly reaching that space where they've fucced too many men the sex has lost its magic and is no longer satisfying. They now need more. A lot of women have reached this level in the West and are now Surviving on toys. Their condition may as well be incurable and hopeless.

Caveat: This "Men can fucc many but can only love 1 and Women can love many but can only fucc 1" dynamic doesn't however hold true when a man and a woman are single.
A single woman is much better able to push multiple sexual setups than a woman in a relationship. Hence for women being single = whóring. And it's the reason why women are easily sold the idea of being single. Cause women can tolerate NO LOVE if they're getting all the sex they want. And they can even tolerate NO BABIES if they're getting good neverending sex. Which brings us to that shocking American statistic that close to 50% of all women will be single and childless by 2030. Which is the single most strongest argument against Feminism and Women's Empowerment yet.

That "45% of all women will be single and childless by 2030" has spooked governments around the world. And the first tentative steps to stripping women of their rights have started in earnest... beginning with Indonesia and South Korea. Indonesia's ban on premarital sex is a preemptive strike against this statistic. And South Korea's president Yoon Suk-yeol (overwhelmingly voted for by young men who expressly pointed out they don't want women empowered) is already working to abolish the country's Women's ministry and is busy doing away with gender parity laws declaring no one will be promoted cause of gender but only cause if merit. Something the West would consider akin to blasphemy. see Pic 2,3,4 below.

But this analysis will need a seperate presentation....


South Korean link: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-63905490

Indonesian link:
https://edition.cnn.com/2022/12/05/asia/indonesia-new-code-passed-sex-cohabitation-intl-hnk/index.html

CaveAdullam:
1. Except in conditions when she's narcissistic, arrogant, insulting, or abusive should you cut ties with her.

2. Redpill is not men vs women. Understand the intersexual dynamics and your life will be fun with women. Simple.

3. Once women come in contact with men, they look for possible ways to meander their way around him to get his attention, time, and resources.

4. A woman doesn't care about the category of man, each man is arranged in her brain to her specific benefit. She needs the money of the rich man. The praise of the ugly man. The sweet company of the funny guy. The assistance of a nice guy. The attention of a strong guy. Sex from the handsome and fit dude. Protection of the masculine man. No man is useless in the sight of any woman.

5. Start thinking as a woman. Once contact has been established for a long time, look for ways to benefit from her. Women are not timid in this aspect, ergo, can start requesting money and gifts within less than one week of dating.

6. It is in the masculine instinct to cater to the female and the children, but you are not going to squander your resources on a woman you are not benefiting from. Simply put, let value match value.

7. because of proximity, women will demand from you. There's no debate about this. Based on that proximity, you must be fast enough to start demanding from her. Sex is the end game, but you'll lose a lot of benefits from her if your mind and heart become clouded by sex.

8. I have met a lady for who I had a "thing" for who reiteratively told me point blank that she ain't gonna fvck me. Let me tell you how bad it was, she reiteratively told me about a guy in the same circle she wants to fvck. Yeah. That's the game. But I wasn't blinded by sex, I wasn't perturbed. The respect was there. She never loses her demeanor around me. So, since sex wasn't possible she did other activities for me which would have cost me time and money + brought food for me a few times.

9. Life is all about bridges and connections. Don't burn bridges when you don't have a complete map of your direction. See everybody that comes your way as a bridge or a tool.

10. If she does something you don't like, caution her; repeatedly and remorseless, then, disengage.

11. You want to cut a lady off who saves you transport fare and the hurdles of struggling for public transport because of your fragile ego? I laugh.

There is no need to deny your feelings for her and not get her attention. We know how these things work. Don't use any flimsy excuse to divert that feeling. You want her. Learn the game to get her or abort the mission and diversify your thoughts and plan.

12. If she is from a rich home, use your intelligence and confidence to become more acquainted with her and her circle. Always think long-term. Let her be fvcked and dumped, that's not your business. Your own is leverage your proximity with her to better your life.

13. Since you are an ectomorph (my cousin), eat good food and hit the gym. Dress beautifully and maintain a neat aura and physical outlook.

14. Be confident enough to not allow your ego impedes you from attaining a greater height. Keep developing yourself and learning more about women. The lessons learned will enable you to know women better in your dealings with them.

Have a nice day.

DAY 337, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Women are fun to be with. Lovely. But you must be smart.

PS: Fearjah, something on the table.

hopefulLandlord:
actually I can't speak for the other claims he made but research has shown married people tend to live longer than single people.