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Karlifate:
No poosee is worth your self-respect. 👌

Not every woman that you can fukk is worth fukking. 💯

heartofcity12:
LOL
Stop simping, you say No, serves him right

nstore:
'Modus Operandi': ..If I can't have him, I will destroy him..
Beware those 'Machiavellians'...

olamoses75:
I see no reason why a man would be so much disturbed about a woman who really do not care about him.

If she's not interested, please respect yourself and MOVE ON.

They is no dignity and nothing masculine in trying so much to win a woman's heart using hard earned resources.

A woman already knows what she wants, if it's not you that she want then she will be playing hard to get or forming not interested.

Know when to quit chasing, value yourself, your time and effort.

If she missed your call and she doesn't bother calling back, respect yourself and don't bother calling her back again.

If she leaves your message on read or ignore them, just don't bother yourself, she's not interested. Don't double text, she saw your first message.

If she makes excuses when ever you plan on seeing her, just stop bothering yourself.

Give love to those who is ready to give you love. And I can even tell you less than 5% of women out there deserve love.

Honestly, some men needs to learn how to ignore women and walk away. He doesn't matter if you're rich, struggling or broke.

Yes, move on. You don't have to consistently prove to a woman that you're best options by trying to please her. If you do, it means you've signed up for a life of her on the pedestal. And if that happens, what will be the power dynamic in your relationship? You sef think am na.

You must not win every woman's heart, learn to accept rejections and move on from it.

Respect red flags and take them serious.

Please.

Stay focused!

Presido22:
Pukkalolo

I don't have have any issue having normal conversations with girls, but the problem is HOW and WHEN to transit from ordinary talk (small talks) to deep and sexual conversation without coming weird, creepy or as a pervert whch might turn her off. how important is deep conversation n can u get/sleep with a "good girl" with only small talk? Abeg explain in details.

Streak47:
HOOKUP CHECK:

Check in on your serious gf or wife to be. Don't be that innocent noob!

Get a new WhatsApp, a new number that has another name aside your name on TrueCaller app.

Now chat yur serious gf, wife or wife to be with the following lines

'hey whatsup, I got ur line from the ap'

'I stay around xxxx'

'Would like to linkup, what are we looking at for short time'

'Lets vid call'.

Her response will tell you what you're dating. Although some may not use their main line. Just be smart.

CaveAdullam:
There's a higher rate of rejection when you cold approach women on motion.

To minimize the rejection rate, approach women in stationery positions more.

Examples:

That girl buying groceries.
That girl waiting for a bus.
That girl sitting with her phone.

Friends were strangers once upon a time.

On motion, you can compliment, suggest and then, escalate.

Move.

CaveAdullam:
Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year to all the chiefs and everyone in the house.

And to those "ogas" that are hiding their faces:

Pansophist
Ubunja
Ichidodo
Someonelsechild2
Smartb0y
Martinez39s
Nerostealth01
Tonnyray
Skepticus
Hedgefunds
Jeshal
Pukalolo
Saviolamemphix
Lordray
Adambeatz...

I'm still searching for them.

And to my sweet precious followers...you all are great.

Tensazangetsu20, I can see your doings and good info.
("I say make I put hand where you put hand, now hot water don burn me".

Well done, boss.

Thank you all for the mentions and encouragement.

SPAMBOX7:
Why would someone choose to be a broke alpha. I don't even think it's proper to address someone who hasn't gotten their shit together as alpha sef. Any man that's broke shouldn't put themselves in any category, be it alpha or not.

Get your shit together then you will know if you alpha or not. Cos I have seen many dudes form alpha but when they start getting paid they start wasting and simping on hoes. Now ask me what went wrong with their alphaness. I dunno

Till a man has his shit together you won't know if he's alpha or not. This is because women don't test low value men. High value men get tested the most. I have never seen where they categorized a broke man as high value. So until you have your shit together and the tests start coming and you can pass them that's when you know if you alpha or not. End

Rukevwe999:
but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
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Skepticus:
You would never find them "naturally-giving" to men and even decent women. It's usually, disloyal women and the bottom trash of women they end up rewarding but want men to stand up for them when shiiit gets tough. Most times, these men were raised to their position of influence and wealth by other men.

These men inflate the importance of these often, worthless women causing the JUGGERNAUT EFFECT where women with no value (feminity, loyalty and sexual purity) over-value themselves in the dating market.

That's why I was specific about this thread when I shared a screenshot of that tweet. I'm not surprised that they "showed up". Nigeria has an over-abundance of men thoroughly bred to worship pussy at the expense of everything else including their own lives.

The annoying this is this: When we talk about these things here, they agree and complain about how these women act badly but still go back to the streets to "encourage" the nasty attitudes in the same women.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
You're advising an inexperienced man to dominate and smash a community borehole who successfully guilt-tripped him after he caught a half-naked guy in her room early in the morning?

O ga o!

sajmark:
It's all about you Kings, focus on yourself. You'll loose a lot if you try to upgrade her and then she'll leave you for another man who can take her further than you can. Christmas is coming Kings, don't break your banks... Loyalty has never been in a woman's dictionary.

OliverTwistJr:
Bro, I'm not like that, I've learnt my lesson and I've blocked her on every social media
She even came to my hostel this evening but I did not allow how to come inside my room. I just told her that I'm busy. I have decided to cut off every communications from her finally

Uptheante:
Thank God your eyes don open now.
That guy is definitely fuccking her, same as most of the other guys you see her with.
She's more experienced than you, so a relationship with her will only open more ways for her to use you & manipulate you. You are still too naive & inexperienced about the ways of women.
Your 10k that you wasted on her is gone with the winds, probably the guys fuccking her also enjoyed part of your 10k
It will shock you to realize that those guys fuccking her, most probably have never done anything remarkable for her.
You were probably brought up with the erroneous mentality that treating women nicely & doing them favours is the right way to get into their heart, but reality is opposite

As for being a hard guy, you don't need to go into fighting, violence, smoking, hard drugs, cultism, etc just to get back at such a lady or even other women & show them you are a bad guy. You will only be doing more harm to yourself.
If you are relating with a woman, be very selfish.
If there's anything you are giving her, you must also be benefiting something reasonable from her. If not, don't agree.
Also pursue your dreams & take good care of yourself, your parents & family.
Finally, ignore this girl completely & don't reply any of her messages or pick her calls

djon78:
Women needs strict monitoring
They are very immoral
If you lose guard as a man
Your own don finish

But if you as a man na akamu
They will so much ride you
And give you another man's child to raise as your own

heartofcity12:
Cold&Ruthless. He passed with flying colors, he’s redpilled/Alpha 😊 ..Always maintain frame #redpill

IAmHim1:
Exactly. That's how it is with some Nigeria girls. They just wanna survive. You might never be enough cus the moment they escape that poverty ladder through you, they'd never seek to go back there. That's where your richer counterpacts come in. She'd just use you to polish herself up and market herself to men way up the food chain

Would your experience with Nigerian girls be same with girls of other countries? Ghanian girls, south African girls, Jamaican girls??

dot dot dot

heartofcity12:
Broo. I dey read different things, these girls are showing these boys shege 😂😂

heartofcity12:
LOL 😂

CaveAdullam:
Classifying yourself as a beta male, alpha male, sigma male, this male, that male, etc. doesn't matter.

Though, each has its characteristics and the tendency for the individual man to choose one route and act the way he desires.

What truly matters and counts: is that you're the male or the man that's fitted to handle every situation. Not being a god per se. But the man who can make the best of decisions and proffer solutions. The man who understands every dynamics and how to play along.

Philosopher1979:
Look at it this way. Women too simp for men. There are men out there who easily dribble women. Bad boys treat girls anyhow and take advantage of them.
A man can have a girlfriend who commits multiple abortions for him and not marry her after destroying her womb.
In fact girls simp for musicians and also red pilled men.
Its just game bro.
We men ourselves are not saint.
Women may be deceptive but a man who understands them can easily beat them to their game and take advantage of them.
Men and women will continue to take advantage of each other till kingdom come.

CuteNbad:


Anything I can do to change the narratives?

adambeatz:
His ex named "joy" came back into his life at the time when we started this business, he was already dropping hints that he wants to go back to the girl, even after much reasoning not to go back, he would counter me with some reasons only a fool would use, I only stated well he shouldn't allow his relationship get in our business. Joy is a hookup girl right from her university days, it's a well known yo him, she tried to get my own younger brother and it didn't work out well, over 4years now my younger and my guy don't talk because of joy. Now she came to leave with us, she tells me her and my guy aren't dating and their just friends I my mind I'm like "she this child, na me u wan whine" but who am i to talk, am only after the business.

Fast forward some weeks, he pressured his family to get him a car for mobility so he can move about ad they got him a Mercedes Benz, joy sees benzema and doesn't want to leave.

Wetin concern me, I wake up at times and see the two of them quarreling most times and I go back to sleep, its evident my guy is irritating to her but she has to keep calm to get the mula. I came back from a journey and discover after an Introspection within myself that my guy isn't taking this business seriously, we have a meeting and he assures me he'll buckle up, after some weeks I notice he isn't serious but I also lockup and keep going.


Fast forward to 3months, I take the risk of traveling to kaduna without money, I camp at a home of a family friend and I can tell you kaduna people are welcoming people, God helped me one of the family members invested over 2m for me to secure a fluorite,
rose quartz, and purple banded amethyst mining site. I did my cac got a structure and was happy, I came back to abuja and discovered my guy sold his Benz and instead of investing it in something, he camped joy for a week and was doing steady dorime, neighbour's told me that winch did two days inside the sitting room only eating.

Now he's broke and doesn't want me to know he has sold his car, just giving excuses thinking I don't know, he's lying to everyone cause he's on a ticking time bomb and if he's family find out he's bleeped, so now he's all nice and calm with me hoping I will land a deal and show him love, lol my guy is about to be bleeped and he doesn't know, by Monday she is coming again and I'm waiting for her. Mind u my guy is approaching his 35 with nothing to show for it and no ambition to be a man, he's older than me and behaves like a pussy. This is a girl that told me my guy forced sex with her and gave her infection,I was ohhh so una dn dey f*ck, Omoh eno go better for some people sha, with tinubu as president and all that's happening people can afford to not have a plan against Sapa.

Seeker3:
Soo on point. Just reminds me of one babe like that that said I'm wicked simply because I don't chest her billing antics. But same babe would immediately the next day come back begging for forgiveness.
I've discovered that once you remain stoic and not let whatever they label you define you or get to you, their respect for you tripples. By the way, I've had her laid tho

chenny360:
As a man The more you keep showing off your resources and little gains, the higher you're attracted by gold diggers.


Same thing applies to women.
The more you keep exposing your body with stupid kind of dresses the higher you get Bleep with no true love from men side.

What do I know...

iammolahs:
I don't know, just need to go back to the person I was before I met her... I'm heartbroken and shattered

Pukkalolo:
If a girl act like she's losing interest in you, don't try to spend money in an attempt to get her interest back. That's desperation.

Spending more money won't help the situation; it only make her see you as a mugu she can easily exploit.