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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:52am On Apr 28
benzics:


Men have more opportunities to have sex than women you say? Spoken like someone who truly knows nothing about what they’re saying.

See, I’m not encouraging men to be promiscuous, I’m just putting into perspective how men and women view each other based on sexuality.

I love analogies 😁

Now imagine you own a company, and you have two salespersons, A and B. A and B are given the same products and quantity to sell to customers. Let’s say the product quantity is 20.

Salesperson A comes back after selling 15 products, he sold them at the right prices and even made his own personal gain along the way.

Salesperson B comes back after selling 15 products, he sold them at prices even less than the cost price, he basically just said yes to whatever offer people were offering just so he could make sales not minding the loss his actions will cause the company.

Now, as the company owner, do you reward A and B the same because they both sold 15 products?
Stop wasting your precious time on trolls

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 1:12am On Apr 28
Hoes excess supply

Virgins limited supply

Men limited supply

Simps excess supply.

Nature always find a way to balance itself.
Excess hoes for excess simps.
Just as limited Men for limited virgins.

It takes a man to govern a woman properly not a simp.
A simp indulging with a virgin would only ignite the hoe in her due to her quest for finding an actual Man.
Safe to say,value must match value.

Simps,stick with hoes please 🙏



Weak men create hard times - Hoes excess supply

Hard times create strong men - Men limited supply

Strong men create good times - Virgins limited supply

Good times create weak men - Simps excess supply.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 12:49am On Apr 28
Virginity is not an indicator but the rate of successful marriages have greatly reduced in these present times as compared to when morals were been preached and upholded.

The norm is divorce.
It's worn like a badge of honor.

If you lack at least a Bsc in divorce, you're lame as fvck

A big proponent of this their sacrificial syndrome is Religion. So sad

Simply put, religion has been feminized.
It has been watered down.
If you know you know.

Difference between a man and a gullible simp

A simp will always look to society to tell them what to do,what to believe. How to breathe air. A simp is always guided by a milky wave of emotions.
Remain small,they too would experience menstrual pain.

A man on the other hand has gone through a phase of self reflection, cleansed himself off society mombo jumbos, makes decision born out of internal fortitude,self awareness and the likes.
A man is never guided by emotions.

From my SS, i stop taking that fella seriously when I saw "VIRGINITY IS NOT AN INDICATOR"

HYMEN THAT WAS PUT THERE BY MOTHER NATURE AS AN INDICATOR TO SHOW CHATISTY,PURENESS OF HEART, FAITHFULNESS AND ALL OF THAT GOODY STUFF this oga is saying otherwise.

Seeing is believing and the number one thing you can use to gain some level of rest of mind since you can't read minds you chose to brush aside.

Still on the SS
WHAT MATTERS IS HER VIEW OF MORALITY AND RELATIONSHIP
Of course bro,her view automatically shifts when she rakes up enough body counts for 10 generations.
She then proceeds to become a member of one church where she's certain to see guys with like minded mentality such as yours that'd wife her up.

She ended up eating her cake and having it.

Or so she thinks grin(next topic)

These kinda guys need to test the bitter sweet nature of women before their faculty can be properly adjusted.

Like I said, simps will always rationalize everything,provided it doesn't benefit them😂.

I rest my case.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:53pm On Apr 27
Men and women were designed differently,each with their roles and characteristics.

But you'll still see some funny people (simps and women) try to compare and integrate these two mediums.

Can water mix with oil?

Modern belief has white washed their mode of thinking/logic.
They simply exist to serve the feminine imperative.
Zero sense of identity.

I read a funny post were one was simply contradicting themselve.

See simps exist to balance the triangle of life.
If it was just men and women,chaos would ensue especially in this our current age.

Thankfully,simps are always available and in excess supply to save these retired hoes.
Women with no value. Like help me understand this, what kinda value will she instill in her kids(not your kids simps cuz she'll still likely cheat)

These are the type of women that push their children to do Yahoo yahoo rituals and prostitution.

After all, it's nothing to them,they lack value and morals.

Young man,if not for yourself,at least do it for those innocent kids you'll bring into this world. Marry a woman with solid morals,ee get why

A used product has zero guarantee.

It can expire tomorrow despite you handling it with great care.

A new phone you just bought,you know:

How many times that phone has fallen down.
How many times the phone Brain has been flashed.
How many screen guards the phone has used.
How many times the charging port has been changed.
The life span of the phone.
Heck, only your information will be available on that device,no prior user ,zero constriction whatsoever.

Yet some still braggingly go for what has so many dysfunctionality.
When such device crash,they wail and blame the device model instead of their extremely poor choice mentality.

Go for what there's at least some level of assurance.
Have you ever wondered what it would have been like if you had used that tokumbo product you praise so much before it actually became a tokumbo product?

Now you understand grin

Stop settling for less.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:14pm On Apr 22
Tunde835:
I'm sure there are dudes that messaged her that she ignored.
There's always a dude.

The circle of life.
Life's not balanced.

That's why what's common has little or no value.

Always strive to be the uncommon man wherever you find yourself.

Because trust me,simps are in excess proportion in the world today.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 12:31pm On Apr 18
Pukkalolo:
These girls lifestyle is so boring that the majority of them try to create drama just to feel significant. When there's no drama to create, they'll go watch reality TV shows, tiktok or something in order to feel some excitement.

And them creating drama has no restriction.

They can do it anywhere. Be it home,school,church, office...... just mention, they'll display.

Because of their shameless nature,they tend to act erratic, without any form of awareness.

They might be shameless but they still cannot stand being shamed.

The last thing any man should want is a woman that lacks awareness. They're a recipe for disaster.

Funny thing is that guys tend to go easy on girls that lack awareness, that's why we're where we are today.

Zero self reflection should mean zero commitment

Just saying wink

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:31pm On Apr 14
dreamxhaser:




I don't think I can even trust women again.


You lost the game before you even began.

@bolded, what men that have been used by women say/men that don't understand women.

All I can say to you bro is that oneitis is a bitch,go out and explore in order to cure your ailment .

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 7:28am On Apr 12
CaveAdullam:


Try and remove shame from your eyes when dealing with them. Women are shameless. They will go to any extent to get what they want. Assume that same behavior.

You can't shame the shameless.


💯

Men of nobility suffer a lot.

Chivalry is dead in this century.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:17pm On Apr 06
michigang:
still fanatic as ever. Wonder how they cope in real life. I run with pansophist. He's more refined

He's also pansophist. What's your deal🤷

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:28am On Mar 28
Only people with deformed legs troll.

Guys ,do well by giving them K-legs with some "K"s .

Thank you

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 7:04pm On Mar 26
heartofcity12:
LOL 😆

The guy try sef

A simple "K" would have sufficed.

She wasn't worth the long talk.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:40am On Mar 24
eclatante:
Good morning kings.

I'm met a new girl. We started talking, she didn't give me the stress typically of Nigerian girls. She responds to text and calls well and also calls to check me up.

Normally, I would have gone for the normal route and get sex and we'll all be cool. But my guy advised I don't do that, that I should make her my woman.

All my life, I've been single. I've never been in a real relationship, so I had took this decision to make things different with her.

She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me.

Because I'm going to fall so hard for her, and I'll get my heart broken. Personally, I'm this kind of guy that doesn't really give AF about getting my heart broken. The possibility of a woman breaking my heart is almost zero.

We've shared a kiss, I've caressed her, but no sex yet. All I wanted was a woman of my own.. because it isn't normal for a guy of 23, not to have tried a relationship for once.

Highlights: 1. it's almost impossible to get my heart broken.

2. I want her to be my girl (I'm tired of playing a hard guy bullcrap)

3. I wanna smash this babe. Haven't had sex in months. (It almost happened, but she stopped half way, telling me I'm rushing things.

4. After sex, the probability that I'll still have the urge to be in a relationship with her, is almost zero too.

5. I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned.

6. I've decided not to call and text her for the next 3 days.

7. Please how do I fix this? It's 3 weeks since we started talking and no sex yet.

Rizzputin, pukkalolo

I need advice. Thank you kings.
You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one grin

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye grin

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:58pm On Mar 23
lajid:
There’s a girl I flirted with for sometime in on WhatsApp. It’s very funny cause with the way I flirted with her she seem to know if she comes to my place I’m gonna make a move.

This girl pestered me to come my place after posting her for 3 months I finally agreed to let her come.

After coming she was asking me some kinda Mumu questions and all. Maybe sizing me up and all.

Anyway at some point l made a move on her for intimacy she rejected and I did again and she rejected. So we had a conversation and she was saying ehnnn, I know she has a boyfriend and all that. That she isn’t down for FWB and that this is her first time coming here so it’s too early.

That I should follow the proper channel first, she will go home and then think. So that she can know if she is coming to my place “she is going to her guys place and anything can happen” bla bla bla.

I was just listening to her talking. In my head, be like this one dey find marriage and something serious. Cause which one is, I should follow proper channel of asking out when you said you have a boyfriend. Even mentioned say her mama no like the guy cause he no get money and bla bla bla.

I just Dey vex inside like be like this girl think I’m a Mumu man that can be hooked. Anyway she went and I ended all conversation with her since then. I’m not stupid


You were pussy focused.

The moment a girl is certain you just want her pussy, she'll begin playing games.

You must act as if her pussy is worthless.
How do you show her pussy is worthless? - The amount of attention you give her will determine that.

If you give her too much attention - Her pussy is gold to you

If you give her less attention - Her pussy is worthless

That's how women think.

If she's into you, she'll use her only weapon (pussy) to try and persuade you.
In so doing, she'll want to use it to prove to you that it's worth something.

A simple reverse psychology trick.

Use it well.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:20pm On Mar 19
Dannnn:
Anytime I hear 'vet your woman', I keep asking myself; have these people forgotten that All Women Are Like That(AWALT)?

Or are my missing something?

Women go always nack you akpako if you no stand fit, dem no dey follow you play o
Even the most innocent of them all will fall your hand given the slightest chance.

The moment you think "ohh this one's different", she'll show you the sisterhood exist for a reason.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:33pm On Mar 12
wahaladondey:
Gentlemen of the manosphere, I am about to ask one of the most timeless questions ever, I hope you all don’t mind that this question has been asked and answered countlessly and just try to help me in whatever capacity you can. Lately, I have found myself in one of the most socially packed communities, a school, I am aware that this is one of the few places game works efficiently because of the nature of its build and that is why I want to grasp this opportunity to boost my social life and skills but on every normal day I am a very introverted person, almost bordering on low self-esteem.

How do I start and maintain a conversation with a lady I find attractive? I am not the best conversationalist, I get fidgety and fear I might sound or look stupid whenever I engage in a conversation, externally I seem to exude some form of confidence but internally I’m usually just breaking down.

How do I steer the conversations in a more sexual direction? My hurtful degree of self awareness keeps a tight rope around what I feel I should be socially acceptable to say or not, it makes me not want to come across as offensive or perverted.

I want to build up on whatever advices I can get, make them practical and deliver results to this forum, thanks in anticipation.

I would further edit this post if I have more questions.

Karlifate
luminouz
Rizzputin
Martinez39s
Pukkalolo
Ubunja
and other real gees on this thread in no particular order.

Blessed is the man who understands the fundamentals of human interaction.

It is not all girls you're attracted to you'll get down with.

Attract don't chase.

1)If a woman is doing the chasing,bro sexual talk would be the least of your worries cuz women by default are sexual and earthly above everything else.

2)The burden of performance will be on her. She'll be the one trying to impress you. You're the IDGAF guy, you care less which gives you more power in the interaction/relationship.

You're fidgety because in your end you already have that woman. A very bad way to go about getting women. Depends on your level(status)
Most won't give a shit as they're are mostly caught up with the shiny and monetary aspect of life.

Very few Nigerian girls seek actual connections.

It's even worse now in this present climate.

All the long talk I'll conclude by saying Send who send you

It's gut wrenching putting max effort in a girl that don't give a shit about you and trust me women are the masters of IDGAF . So when they see guys with an IDGAF aura they respect them openly or secretly.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 1:50pm On Mar 09
F1re:


Thanks man, thing is I'm busy right now working on something really important so I can't afford to hang out, also it's a new city, I just got to my Whatsapp now and I saw her messages.

could it be an overreaction from my end?
Yeah possibly.

But you know you got oneitis right
Try to limit the interaction from your end to help curb the oneitis a bit.

Let her invest more but don't make it look like you're not trying.

You get the drift.

Unless you want something from her, you should disengage in order to protect your mental state.

Remember,her heart is between her legs. If you truly want to get her hooked and invested ,you gotta do the needful because her emotional state is always in a flux.

This window of her chasing you won't last for too long so capitalize on it while the iron is still hot.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 1:30pm On Mar 09
F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

Sorry bro,I totally understand how you're feeling.

What she did was a matter of emotional warfare. She got you invested emotionally.

She ghosted you because she wanted to see if you'll take the bait by calling her.

It's a good thing you didn't become possie obsessed.

She'll still contact you,give it time.

But I reckon not to dwell on her matter.

You've got to kill that oneitis syndrome by getting other girls to distract you (mind you,I didn't say a girl)

Stay sharp
Stay Taliban

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:12am On Mar 09
The saying "curiosity killed the cat" cannot be overemphasized

Women by nature are curious creatures.

Peak her curiosity and she'll come running.

Use this tool to your advantage.

Remember, don't be a pussy monger.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:04am On Mar 09
Karlifate:
No poosee is worth your self-respect. 👌

Not every woman that you can fukk is worth fukking. 💯

The ability to discard with speed is a super power.

Nothing hurts a woman like taking away attention from her.

She lives for the validation.

Women were born with value but they were also born with a low sense of self esteem which requires boosting for them to feel any sense of existence.

They remember that guy more that didn't give a fvck about their existence,that guy with pride.
That IDGAF guy.

They don't remember guys that cater to poosie.

Understand this and use it to your advantage
Don't settle for mediocre.✌️

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:08pm On Mar 04
heartofcity12:
LOL grin
Stop simping, you say No, serves him right grin

Some of these kinda idiots when you advice them, they'll defend their stupidity with pride.

Nigeria men are something else when it comes to simping.

They empower these small small girls with fragile ego.

I laugh when I see men like these cuz it always end one way for them.

I think there are just too many simps in Nigeria. I can't give a comparison with anywhere else but they're just too many.

For every 10 men, at least 7 will be simps.

It's so bad that they're broke but still refuse to have common sense.
Which is the height of stupidity.

Why because brokenness triggers one's sharpness,no one will easily manipulate you.

I can't say it's the case for Nigerian men.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 6:43am On Mar 02
nstore:
'Modus Operandi': ..If I can't have him, I will destroy him..
Beware those 'Machiavellians'...

If as a man you happen to find yourself in this state where women compete over you, you must thread carefully.

Anticipate their tactics because most will seek to destroy you, destroy your reputation.

Show them that their manipulative tactics are childs play.

Understand that no woman will fight over you if you don't have anything to offer aka you have no value.

So if you find yourself in this state, just know that you're doing something right.

Keep your head high,be vigilant

The sky is only the beginning of your limits.

Your perceived value does wonders, embrace it and never limit yourself.

Don't I repeat, bring damaged goods into your circle. Instead let them be spectators.
They'll do the job of announcing your pristine presence.

Become the uncommon man
Become limitless.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 5:30pm On Feb 27
olamoses75:
I see no reason why a man would be so much disturbed about a woman who really do not care about him.

If she's not interested, please respect yourself and MOVE ON.

They is no dignity and nothing masculine in trying so much to win a woman's heart using hard earned resources.

A woman already knows what she wants, if it's not you that she want then she will be playing hard to get or forming not interested.

Know when to quit chasing, value yourself, your time and effort.

If she missed your call and she doesn't bother calling back, respect yourself and don't bother calling her back again.

If she leaves your message on read or ignore them, just don't bother yourself, she's not interested. Don't double text, she saw your first message.

If she makes excuses when ever you plan on seeing her, just stop bothering yourself.

Give love to those who is ready to give you love. And I can even tell you less than 5% of women out there deserve love.

Honestly, some men needs to learn how to ignore women and walk away. He doesn't matter if you're rich, struggling or broke.

Yes, move on. You don't have to consistently prove to a woman that you're best options by trying to please her. If you do, it means you've signed up for a life of her on the pedestal. And if that happens, what will be the power dynamic in your relationship? You sef think am na.

You must not win every woman's heart, learn to accept rejections and move on from it.

Respect red flags and take them serious.

Please.

Stay focused!
The way oneitis happens,one would convince themselve they're not already in.

Ensure she's more invested else move on with the speed of lightning.

Don't even try to game them, they're not worth the effort.

Watch out for women that really desire you without so much as a pick up line.

Again,unless you really know how to guard your heart, don't bother with time wasters.

The thing with time wasters is you eventually end up investing more than them one way or the other.

Stay sharp
This 2024

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 7:49pm On Feb 18
Presido22:


Pukkalolo

I don't have have any issue having normal conversations with girls, but the problem is HOW and WHEN to transit from ordinary talk (small talks) to deep and sexual conversation without coming weird, creepy or as a pervert whch might turn her off. how important is deep conversation n can u get/sleep with a "good girl" with only small talk? Abeg explain in details.
Start here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLe7b_ZVgY0?si=MOIFuLgfWOoLbKnz

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 9:22am On Feb 09
Streak47:
HOOKUP CHECK:

Check in on your serious gf or wife to be. Don't be that innocent noob!

Get a new WhatsApp, a new number that has another name aside your name on TrueCaller app.

Now chat yur serious gf, wife or wife to be with the following lines

'hey whatsup, I got ur line from the ap'

'I stay around xxxx'

'Would like to linkup, what are we looking at for short time'

'Lets vid call'.

Her response will tell you what you're dating. Although some may not use their main line. Just be smart.





This guy😂😂

High level violence you're dishing out here

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 11:33am On Jan 02
CaveAdullam:
There's a higher rate of rejection when you cold approach women on motion.

To minimize the rejection rate, approach women in stationery positions more.

Examples:

That girl buying groceries.
That girl waiting for a bus.
That girl sitting with her phone.

Friends were strangers once upon a time.

On motion, you can compliment, suggest and then, escalate.

Move.
Well said bro.

Situational engagement.

There must be an event that should cause a natural conversation between you and that girl you find attractive.

When a guy engages in conversation with a girl simply based on attraction,the polarity of the sexual dynamic shifts further in her favour.

Learn to read your environment and engage in conversation normally.

Stop basing interactions solely on attraction.

Learn.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:46pm On Dec 27, 2023
CaveAdullam:
Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year to all the chiefs and everyone in the house.

And to those "ogas" that are hiding their faces:

Pansophist
Ubunja
Ichidodo
Someonelsechild2
Smartb0y
Martinez39s
Nerostealth01
Tonnyray
Skepticus
Hedgefunds
Jeshal
Pukalolo
Saviolamemphix
Lordray
Adambeatz...

I'm still searching for them.

And to my sweet precious followers...you all are great.

Tensazangetsu20, I can see your doings and good info.
("I say make I put hand where you put hand, now hot water don burn me"wink.

Well done, boss.

Thank you all for the mentions and encouragement.



Compliments Cave.

You didn't come to collect that big lap of chicken. Don't miss new year own o, I don't know how to conserve enjoyment grin.

Stay blessed 🙏

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 12:12am On Dec 17, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
Why would someone choose to be a broke alpha. I don't even think it's proper to address someone who hasn't gotten their shit together as alpha sef. Any man that's broke shouldn't put themselves in any category, be it alpha or not.

Get your shit together then you will know if you alpha or not. Cos I have seen many dudes form alpha but when they start getting paid they start wasting and simping on hoes. Now ask me what went wrong with their alphaness. I dunno

Till a man has his shit together you won't know if he's alpha or not. This is because women don't test low value men. High value men get tested the most. I have never seen where they categorized a broke man as high value. So until you have your shit together and the tests start coming and you can pass them that's when you know if you alpha or not. End

You guys use terms you have no clue about.

Alpha
Shit test
High value

Do due diligence before coming on here.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 12:04am On Dec 17, 2023
Rukevwe999:


but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
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@bolded

Who told you women have a lower sex drive? Science?.
You really need to wake up. grin
When you really get to realize that women are pretenders and earthly(they prefer anything that has to bring pleasure over anything else)
Then you'll realize men are still learning 😅

Women just pretend to be sexual prudes,it is how society deemed it from the start else they be shamed.
Part of the reason why we have feminism and sexual liberation aka hoeism.

If you like ,keep deceiving yourself that religious girl is not capable of commiting the worst, OYO is your case.

We advocate for marrying virgins not because they're angelic but because the chances of them not becoming erratic sexually has been greatly reduced compared to not having any restriction aka hymen.

Personally,I aim to attract shy good girls who want to be bad for a particular guy.

Do you know what it feels like when a girl wants to be bad for you,if you don't you're really missing out.

I don't indulge with hoes,I just keep them around . it has its perks.

Understand this young blood Women only show their crazy high sex drive to that guy they want to be bad for aka mister bad boy
I'm not a fan of using the word alpha.

If they reveal their naughty side to every guy,they lose value, opportunity, favour, commitment.
Why?
Because no sensible guy takes a hoe seriously.

I used the word sensible,simps always defy the odds/rules.

Having said all these, don't expect women to reveal that they think about sex every single moment. Instead use it to your advantage.

Bonus part
Women always sexualize everything.
Yes I mean everything ,even what doesn't warrant sexualizing


Why
Sex is the number one thing on their mind and how to capitalize on it.

A common trend I have noticed over a large demography of women
Have you seen a woman walking wearing shirt and trouser/skirt?

They always tend to lift the shirt up so their asses will show.
If the shirt falls off their waist, they tend to lift it up again and again and again

What are they doing or thinking about
Sex,yes they are sexualizing themselves in that very moment.

It is deeply ingrained in their subconscious to sexualize anything.

Because they know sex sells.

Women think more about sex/they have just as equally high sex drive if not even more than men

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 1:24pm On Dec 12, 2023
Skepticus:


You would never find them "naturally-giving" to men and even decent women. It's usually, disloyal women and the bottom trash of women they end up rewarding but want men to stand up for them when shiiit gets tough. Most times, these men were raised to their position of influence and wealth by other men.

These men inflate the importance of these often, worthless women causing the JUGGERNAUT EFFECT where women with no value (feminity, loyalty and sexual purity) over-value themselves in the dating market.

That's why I was specific about this thread when I shared a screenshot of that tweet. I'm not surprised that they "showed up". Nigeria has an over-abundance of men thoroughly bred to worship pussy at the expense of everything else including their own lives.

The annoying this is this: When we talk about these things here, they agree and complain about how these women act badly but still go back to the streets to "encourage" the nasty attitudes in the same women.

@bolded

Very pompous with extremely low value. They have very little to offer apart from their body.

How to deflate this juggernaut effect?
Stop feeding the beast, very simple innit.
They thrive on the attention from others.

Over feminine men full Nigeria. They literally live to serve the feminine imperative.

Whatever a woman says goes,no effort on their part to screen what a woman says.

As a guy, there's no room for you to let your guard down as far women and over feminized men are concerned.

You must embrace every form of masculinity in you and that is supposed to be in you.

It's the only way you can protect your sanity.

It's really crazy out here.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 7:12pm On Dec 07, 2023
DIVINEEVIDENCE:




You're advising an inexperienced man to dominate and smash a community borehole who successfully guilt-tripped him after he caught a half-naked guy in her room early in the morning?

O ga o!

grin grin

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 4:08pm On Dec 06, 2023
sajmark:
It's all about you Kings, focus on yourself. You'll loose a lot if you try to upgrade her and then she'll leave you for another man who can take her further than you can. Christmas is coming Kings, don't break your banks... Loyalty has never been in a woman's dictionary.

Chase your dream not women.

Even after you've won, keep on chasing success.

Women go after winners.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 8:00am On Dec 06, 2023
You want free sex and women buzzing around you like flies?

You need a bad boy vibe.

It's not about saying it but doing it.

If you naturally don't have the aura,meh girls won't be intrigued.

This is very important guys
If she presents a good girl facade over a lengthy period in your interactions with her, she's not interested,she doesn't want you in her.

If a girl you just have as an acquaintance (I refrained from using friend) has never initiated a sexual conversation with you, then bro you need to level up that game.

Work on your looks,it keeps being said.... it's not something that should be under-rated at any level.
You don't even have to own the fanciest clothesline,just look good in anything you wear.

Physical fitness will take you far with women but there's a deeper one[b]Mental fitness[/b].
A woman's end game subconsciously is to break a man,to see if her actions can dominate him.
That's how raw attraction forms.

If you're not endowed with physical fitness,train your mind, it'll take you far.

But to have a notoriety as a bad guy does have it downside( Simps).

Yes, they'll hate you for brazenly being bold at anything (any action or inaction) because they efficiently lack the masculinity to do so.


There's is no such thing as a good girl,just pretenders
How you interact with them is what makes them bring down that pretence wall.

Women have to pretend because social status is a big deal for them. They can't stand shame.

If you can stand shame as a guy, you'll go far with women.

Having that IDGAF attitude is just meticulously savage.
Attributes you might not naturally possess will be integrated into it.

Talking about pride
Talking about self consciousness/self care

Etc.

When you're the IDGAF guy, there's barely anything anyone can use against you.

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