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CelebritiesRe: Top 5 Nigerian Musicians In The Diasporas by smartoliver(m): 9:09pm On Jun 10, 2020
Wetin do Rotimi?
RomanceRe: Lady Uses Chicken Leg As Waist Bead by smartoliver(m): 9:34pm On Jun 09, 2020
This guy, you're mad o. You made me burst into laughter this night. You sure say that your friend nor be you? grin
u11ae1013:
La bang la die

But I have a friend who will bang and chew the chicken leg join
EducationRe: No Reopening Of Schools For Now – Presidential Taskforce On COVID-19 by smartoliver(m): 8:18pm On Jun 01, 2020
Space bookers FC.. I see una above grin
HealthRe: 553 New COVID-19 Cases, 159 Discharged And 12 Deaths On May 30 - (1758 Tested) by smartoliver(m): 1:45pm On May 31, 2020
Of course na. Nor be naija we dey? grin

SmartProf:
And once they hear that Europe and the USA are opening up their aviation sectors and others, without an honest appraisal of if they have done exactly what these countries have done to contain the virus, they also have began announcing how they will also open up
PhonesRe: Infinix Hot 9 And Hot 9 play devices Introduced To Nigerian Market by smartoliver(m): 12:44pm On May 30, 2020
I'm so done with infinix devices. Using hot 8 has been very discomforting but I don't complain much cause it's a mid range phone. This is my last infinix phone.
EducationRe: How I Studied Pharmacy Twice By Lauretta Oyemwenosa Obakpolo by smartoliver(m): 12:29pm On May 30, 2020
Better president that year. I remember acting as an agent for the then PRO candidate for that election. Beautiful memories
TV/MoviesRe: Aroma Ufodike Of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire: Who Remembers This Man? by smartoliver(m): 4:27pm On May 28, 2020
Na story dem tell am, he nor watch am grin

Ovie56:
chai, Op can lie, Aroma did great on the show, he used his lifeline and he never called to inform his family he was about to win, he called a friend to verify an answer, i guess you want to spice up the gist, but come on, do not lie to us like that, we are not suffering from short attention span and i wasn't that long ago cuz we're not kids here.
TV/MoviesRe: Aroma Ufodike Of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire: Who Remembers This Man? by smartoliver(m): 4:26pm On May 28, 2020
I loved the way that man answered his questions. He wasn't just a winner but a very entertaining one

2special:
The one l watched, that won #10 million used all the 3 options...the last question he answered was about a Nobel prize winner which he called his uncle and the uncle gave him the correct answer....such a brilliant guy
TV/MoviesRe: Aroma Ufodike Of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire: Who Remembers This Man? by smartoliver(m): 4:25pm On May 28, 2020
He definitely isn't the only one to have won the top prize. I watched two men winning 10m then. Those were beautiful days
GamingRe: Infinix Note 7 Gaming Review - PES 2020, Call Of Duty Mobile & Asphalt 9(photos) by smartoliver(m): 4:28pm On May 27, 2020
It's on play store. Just few mbs short of 2gb
samuel3818:
Me I am just interested in knowing how I can get the PES 2020 for my android device please
HealthRe: Why COVID-19 Patients Play, Dance In Isolation Centres — NCDC Reveals by smartoliver(m): 11:59am On May 22, 2020
What else should one be doing when he/she might die sooner than later. Be merry jare grin
SportsRe: Garba Lawal Celebrates His 46th Birthday Today by smartoliver(m): 9:35am On May 22, 2020
My Dad always accorded respect to this man. He wasn't decorated but damn he was committed. He deserves my respect, any Nigerian footballer that made my Dad happy while we watched Nigerian teams play totally deserve my respect. Happy birthday sir!
CelebritiesRe: M Trill Celebrates His 41st Birthday Today by smartoliver(m): 11:09am On May 18, 2020
I remember his rap song then titled from his name Mtrill. I always thought he had a good career ahead but he never lived up to expectations. He was good tho...
HealthRe: Ogun Confirms 2 New COVID-19 Cases by smartoliver(m): 11:00am On May 11, 2020
God help us
CrimeRe: Lockdown: Man Kills Neighbour For Not Allowing Him Watch Movies In Lagos by smartoliver(m): 10:00am On Apr 25, 2020
My Lord!. This is so disheartening. cry
CrimeRe: Policeman Kenneth Enamika Commits Suicide After Killing Couple In Imo by smartoliver(m): 9:39am On Mar 25, 2020
Lives wasted.
PoliticsRe: Atiku Abubakar's Son Test Positive For Coronavirus by smartoliver(m): 12:01am On Mar 23, 2020
Shit!
SportsRe: Throwback Photo Of Lionel Messi In 2000 by smartoliver(m): 3:48pm On Mar 09, 2020
Life's a steady walk.. He's had an amazing growth through the years. Definitely one of my inspiration
SportsRe: Isaac Promise Buried With No Representative From NFF by smartoliver(m): 7:48am On Jan 10, 2020
You should stopped at the first sentence.. No need bringing tribal differences. True, Nigerians are very ungrateful but No, not because he's ibo. Whatever tribe he is, if they don't want to, they won't visit. Even records of his goals and efforts during various youth levels have been swept under the rug years before he passed on. His death was what sprung his name up again. Nigerians have failed in many respects.

ghettokid1:
Nigerians is the most ungrateful bunch of people i have ever seen,
Or is it because he is an igbo?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Funny But Inspirational Quote I Saw On A Vehicle In Benin City by smartoliver(m): 1:03pm On Jan 02, 2020
XaintJoel20:
This is the official colour for taxi and commercial buses in Edo State.
It's not. The official colour is just mud red and yellow. That blue ain't among. I dunno where that came from.
SportsRe: Joao Felix Wins 2019 Golden Boy by smartoliver(m): 5:27pm On Nov 27, 2019
He's overrated jor. It's very obvious. He's yet to do anything that will place him near the ranks of Haaland at club level. Btw, where's Timo Werner.. Abi that guy don pass golden boy age?
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by smartoliver(m): 12:44pm On Nov 26, 2019
tmogba4:
Do you want it on TLC?
I want one too, if you can
Technology MarketRe: All Offerup, Letgo, Craigslist, 5miles, Ebay, Amazon Deals.*READ FIRST PAGE* by smartoliver(m): 7:38am On Nov 26, 2019
rookidmart:
Abeg how much is used Canon EOS 80D?
Body only.
AIN
Hi, did you get any response yet
CareerRe: Car Painter, Oguntunbo Dies While Sleeping Inside A Car Parked In An Oven by smartoliver(m): 7:23am On Nov 26, 2019
Too bad cry
Technology MarketRe: I Need The LG G6 by smartoliver(m): 10:40am On Nov 25, 2019
Lamijay:
If you'll be posted to anambra, come... I don't have a G6, but I've got... Pixel XL, pixel 2xl, Galaxy S8, s8+, A5 2DJ017...etc
How much for the pixels
SportsRe: Real Madrid Fans Boo Gareth Bale On Return After Wales Flag Incident by smartoliver(m): 12:11pm On Nov 24, 2019
Madrid fans never appreciated Ronaldo, they'll never appreciate Bale... He should leave to any club, I don't care... He should just leave. Madrid fans and administrators keep digging the club's grave. Next up is Zidane
RomanceRe: How Do We Test True Love? by smartoliver(m): 11:05am On Nov 23, 2019
I'll applaud you.. This is beautiful. But it's a perspective, a very nice one and I agree to a large extent.
OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!
CelebritiesRe: Tobi Bakre And Kim Oprah Engagement And Wedding Rumours by smartoliver(m): 1:43pm On Nov 20, 2019
Hip hip hip!
Gabbyayo:
FTC cool cool cool
Dedicating this trophy to every uniben 2017/2018 graduate grin
Happy convocation ceremony to us... Today and tomorrow
SportsRe: Tottenham Hotspur Appoint Jose Mourinho As New Coach by smartoliver(m): 9:44am On Nov 20, 2019
Big mistake embarassed
PropertiesRe: Should The Tenant Who Is Served A Quit Notice Still Pay The Landlord? by smartoliver(m): 7:28am On Nov 19, 2019
Hmmm.. I'll just keep following to see where this leads. But trust me, in Naija, once given a quit notice, tenants tend not to pay their rents.
Christianity EtcRe: Seven Things A Christian Must Never Do Because Of Money by smartoliver(m): 8:54am On Nov 17, 2019
The truth... The basic truth. It's all sumed up in, 'do not commit sin for money'.. More summed up in, 'do not sin' cool
PhonesRe: Infinix S5: Unboxing & Review Of The First Punch Hole Device By Infinix by smartoliver(m): 9:44pm On Nov 12, 2019
Thanks a lot boss
Cynsee:
. Bro if you have extra cash on you,you can get the mi note 10,it has the best camera ever on a smartphone ,imagine 150k trashing the useless iPhone 10promax.

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