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Romance › Re: Can Sm1 Clearify Me Pls by smileing(op): 4:30pm On Feb 28, 2022

suffering:
Who taught you to spell smiling like that, your daddy?

Lolz
It's just a moniker

Politics › Re: Russia-Ukraine: Nigeria To Pay More For Fuel Subsidy, Capital Projects Takes Hit by smileing: 3:54pm On Feb 28, 2022

Every time Nigeria keeps suffering what what isn't our business.
Earlier today it was that of the cost of wheat and bread increasing and now fuel
Dollar rise problem for us
Russia and Ukraine fight wahala for us
When ll what happens in other countries stop affecting us
Are we that 100% dependent on other countries?
Iran was sanctioned and yet they are living well and the citizens doing good but here in Nigeria other nations wahala na our problem..
Too bad.

Crime › Re: Man Sets Wife Ablaze In Ondo After He Discovered She Secretly Bought Property by smileing: 3:30pm On Feb 06, 2022

Necessity1:
Meaning that you support the husband for this evil act? I pity your wife (if you are already married), or your wife-to-be (if you are yet to marry). Ladies looking for who to marry should distance themselves from you. My advice

It's so pathetic.
The kind of men we have these days makes me wonder. Alot of mentally sick people our there.
Marriage is not a do or die affair
And when found in the circle of marriage,one should pay attention to potential dangers and resolve it as soon as possible.

Crime › Re: Man Sets Wife Ablaze In Ondo After He Discovered She Secretly Bought Property by smileing: 3:19pm On Feb 06, 2022

BigBashiru:
The women claimed she is help meet and went about buying property in her name. Assuming she was contributing her quota to the house and brought property then the husband was wrong. But if she kept her own moni and still collecting from husband then she deserved what she got..

There's no reason whatsoever enough to kill the woman. What happened to divorce.
Stop being sentimental because it's a woman that was killed by a man.
But this woman is someone's sister and daughter..if you suspect that what she's doing is not ok divorce her and move on
The same way you don't justify a woman killing her husband for cheating or even having a child outside home.

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Crime › Re: Man Sets Wife Ablaze In Ondo After He Discovered She Secretly Bought Property by smileing: 12:45pm On Feb 06, 2022

It's very painful that most men here blame the woman i have seen most men here comment that they should have some reservations financially for themselves in a marriage infact they educate their fellow gender not to let their spouse know everything they have incase
Men here are advised to buy properties in their name and i begin to wonder what is the difference in what this woman has done.
Most men don't use their wife as next of kin because of whatever reason
Most men are not wise in handling family finances some who cheat share the family wealth with a side chicken who only offers what they know how well to offer
Some are chronic betters
Some has wives other than their supposed wife.
Tell me why won't a wise woman make hay while the sun shines..
I believe that this woman must have a good reason for doing that but unfortunately she married a beast..

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Romance › Re: Ever Since I Updated My Profile Pic I've Not Been Able To Rest by smileing: 7:25am On Jan 11, 2022

I still don't understand why men has refused to be reasonable.
They sexualize every woman they see and bash as much woman they can bash yet forgetting that they are the ones with the problem.
Just sex sex sex in their mind but tge good news is that they still marry the same women they bash,or still have a daughter whom they await patiently to be bashed by their fellow men or still manage the women as their girlfriends.
These women are from homes where a man is their father and has brothers too but these their fathers fail to raise them properly and the brothers fail too.
Till men become sensible, they ll keep creating women that are like them.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Your Dreams Explained by smileing: 3:07am On Jan 08, 2022

Please sir i need interpretation for these dreams
I ll make them brief
No 1. Many times ,I have seen myself naked in front of my husband's friends with my husband present and I expected him to give me something to cover myself but he didn't.
No 2. I have seen countless women in the dream laughing at me and mocking me because of my husband. Sometimes they say that they ll deal with me
Sometimes they ll say that because i married him that they ll frustrate me .
No 3. I have seen my husband with different women in the dream and when i question him in those dreams,he ll say that he doesnt need me again but then after sometime,he ll come looking for me looking haggard and poor begging me to come back.
No 4. I had a dream where my anus was wiped with white handkercheif but i went and retrieved it and set the whole place on fire.when i woke up,my anus started peppering me.
No 5. I was picking fruits and was also gifted foodstuffs by an old neighbour

Romance › Re: What Is Hapenning To Our Young Girls These Days? by smileing: 2:22am On Jan 08, 2022

It's not actually their fault.
It is men like you that refuse to let those kids grow up instead you guys decide to catch them young sexually.
What are you doing with underage girls to make you come to such conclusion.
The truth is that you men spoil these young girls most at times deceitfully and as they get older,they become a perfection of what you guys have made them be.
And then the same men become bitter towards the same kind of women they have made.
Stop complaining and leave young girls to grow up.

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Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Just Ended Our 2 Years Relationship by smileing: 11:05pm On Jan 07, 2022

In the course of keeping a relationship, don't forget to build yourself too. Move on it's already good that he told you so that you can plan better.
If you are going to cry,cry but get your a*s together and move on.it isn't the end.
The feings ll fade with time

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Romance › Re: Alpha Guide to Masculinity.. by smileing: 11:00pm On Jan 07, 2022

The definition of red pill on nairaland is hate,disdain and misogyny. But the truth is that there's nothing like red pill. It all gets down to self esteem and self value.
Many women have dealt with a lot of men and likewise men dealing with lots of ladies and each gender is now forced to establish a way out of the whole situation.
The kind of women we have these days are a reflection of the kind of men we have. These ladies have fathers who fail to do their fatherly duties. They have brothers who have failed too.
Men forget that they create the flow that women follow. The moment most men start to be responsible and value themselves in all aspects ,then the women ll learn.

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Romance › Re: Relationship Is A Scam Theses Days by smileing: 7:05pm On Jan 04, 2022

These days,love is expensive.
Priorities are not set straight. Women want a man they can sap financially and men want who they can bang.All in all,they give room to what ll make it not work just as the op pointed out but still come out to complain at the end of the day

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Romance › Re: Man Catches His Wife Having Sex With His Best Friend by smileing: 6:53pm On Jan 04, 2022

I wonder when men will learn to call a spade a spade.
They are already calling the woman a LovePeddler forgetting the man's best friend that betrayed the man.
The truth is that the more you guys refuse to speak the truth, the more victimized most will be.
That your friend that you hail for sleeping with numerous girls ll one day desire your own girl.
That your bestie that you support his immoral acts ll one day exhibit it on your own woman.
The lady is absolutely wrong..Even if she wants to cheat why will it be her husband's best friend.
Las las no gender deserves to be cheated on.

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Family › Re: Should I divorce my wife for this? by smileing: 12:04pm On Nov 26, 2018

shakmati:
If not that your post has small sense, I would have slapped you from where I am.....in any case, I have gotten over the issue. Who buys a bag of salt for the house? All these youngsters that have only tasted boyfren and gehfren by street corner will come on NL and be forming relationship experts by giving advice to people that have phd in home management. *hiss*

I said it to myself that you must be a woman beater and you just confirmed it
if you have PhD in home management like you claimed then no need for this thread
stop displaying your immaturity here

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Family › Re: Should I divorce my wife for this? by smileing: 11:15pm On Nov 25, 2018

thank God it's not that she doesn't have foodstuffs in the house but just salt
Oga go and park well joor
do you know when the salt finished, do you know if she intends to buy one on her way back
she's been managing that kitchen before you got back so she can explain better
you want to divorce her cos of salt...like seriously? it's obvious your marriage is built and dependent on salt
in case you eventually decide not to divorce her I advise you get her a bag of salt for peace to reign
I pity this woman

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Literature › Re: My Personal Taste..(18+) by smileing: 2:10am On Nov 24, 2018

more please

Literature › Re: I Fit Be Second Jesus(sex Na Food 2)the Return Of Spana By Youngzubi by smileing: 8:28pm On Nov 23, 2018

wow youngzubi you too much I hail as I just dey read this tori e com be like I just dey watch am for film you too much jare mention me when you start the next one

Crime › Re: Agomuo Jennifer, IMSU Student Commits Suicide After Stabbing Boyfriend (Graphic) by smileing: 11:22am On Nov 22, 2018

Divinehenrich:
It seems you have the details of this ugly incident.

I think so
too bad and painful
if only she knows how much pain she has caused now

Crime › Re: Agomuo Jennifer, IMSU Student Commits Suicide After Stabbing Boyfriend (Graphic) by smileing: 8:21am On Nov 22, 2018

couragemurphy:
Seems you have all the details

Crime › Re: Agomuo Jennifer, IMSU Student Commits Suicide After Stabbing Boyfriend (Graphic) by smileing: 7:41am On Nov 22, 2018

ASUU is on strike and you refused to go home
Date a matured responsible dude No instead you chose a fellow immature student
wait till you are matured enough to handle a relationship you refused
it's really a pity

they both called it a quit and the guy decided to come and take the properties he bought for her which led to a heated argument. the girl over reacted to the saga and stabbed the dude. Fear of having killed someone made her take her own life

guess the boy wan form alpha male by demanding all he bought for her and the girl no gree loose entirely after all the knacking he gave the guy
painful for the family
it's a pity

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Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 7:34pm On Nov 18, 2018

[quote author=chincuss post=72187101][/quote]alright thanks

Literature › Re: Crystal Of Astrel by smileing: 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2018

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Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 7:57am On Aug 12, 2018

Checked86:
I am really sorry for what happened. I don't think wise men value virginity the way you see it. Yes, girls pride themselves for that but in a case where you don't have it anymore, it does not in any way mean you are useless. Whether you want to punish you friend for that depends on you. you may jump and say yes, i want to get even with him but at the long run, you will end up hurting yourself or even losing more. If you really love him, pray over it and get married to him. No person is perfect. Your life can change him for better if you think he does not fear God enough.
God knows how you feel about loving your virginity. I still believe that being chaste is for God not for for human. No damn human is worth keeping your virginity for. We are sinners. God will forgive because you didn't do it willingly. You were forced. whether you enjoyed it or not doesn't matter. you were forced. whether you were talking into doing it doesn't matter. PLEASE DO NOT CONSIDER COMMITTING SUICIDE. IT DOESN'T WORTH LOSING YOUR LIFE FOR. Worst people most times make a good husband. do not count him off

ok no problem
thanks for this
I'm not considering suicide again

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 7:48am On Aug 12, 2018

BabaRamota1980:
Hhmm...this issue contain many parts to it.

First is self-identity
Second is culture
Third is religion
Fourth is life purpose
Fifth is guilt
Sixth is at crossroads
Seventh is attachment.

Each is important and all have meaning to you. Its a lot of weight to carry all of them on your chest. So lessen the burden on your spirit. In other words give your spirit freedom.
To do that start by eliminating two items with least significance. These two will be the items that you can live without and still not suffer any guilt or trauma if you detach yourself from the relationship.

I ll try sir
thank you

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 7:46am On Aug 12, 2018

Netanyahu1:
Suicide is not the answer, for a minute consider yourself lucky, cause this same guy could have tricked you into marriage, before unveiling himself. Just consider that a close one and move on.

thanks dear

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 7:44am On Aug 12, 2018

HypocriticalMod:
Is he not the same man that will eventually marry you and Bleep your pussy? What's the difference if he bleeped before marriage? Your pride my black ass
Better jump on him and say yes you ready to marry him, forget those fake prophets or you will be led astray.

By the way i think you just making this story up to get to the front page and also to get some attention. Smh

why ll I make this up cos of front-page.
ll front-page add anything thing to my broken hymen
why I'm actually concerned about the prophets is that the 5 of them don't know each other. I kept them in the dark. I just told them to pray about him and they all came up with the same thing

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 9:25pm On Aug 11, 2018

eelipumpin:
I don't think it's rape. It's one those JUST HAPPENED kinda situations.

Do you know Christ has paid for that sin? The prolong guilt is Satan's stronghold on you.

Righteousness is not our inability to fall but it is our responsibility to rise up when we fall. Christ is our righteousness.

God still sees you as a daughter not a non virgin. He still calls you His own. He still has you in His plan.

Virginity self righteousness really ate u up but this incident should teach you to judge less and value grace.

I wrote all these cuz u said you are Religious.

Don't be hard on your self when God is seeing differently.

Forgive yourself and marry the right Man God has designed for you.

You've learnt your mistakes. He was never a sincere Believer and you knew it.
Just be fine.

thanks. I appreciate this piece

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Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 9:23pm On Aug 11, 2018

yvelchstores:
he doing such a thing to u, obviously he is not who I shld invest the rest of Ur life with. But 5 persons told u he wasn't the one, what were u still doing with him? Anyway, now he took Ur virginity, that's a small price compared to loosing Ur entire life married to a "monster". Sorry, clean Ur eyes and be strong.

I was hopping to see a concrete evidence to confirm that he is not the one
was blinded by love too

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 6:25pm On Aug 11, 2018*

appsdope:
OK. Get a counsellor. A female preferably. Where do you stay?

Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 6:23pm On Aug 11, 2018

@richy

this isn't a bad scripted movie as you think
true he forcefully had sex with me and I'm hurt
I need to help myself first before thinking of what to do to him and that's why I'm here

did you read were I wrote that we were courting? we were working towards marriage but I indicated some of the hurdles I see

but things turned sour the moment he displayed this act.
you are right cos I visited. I shouldn't have and I blame myself .i wish I can rewind the
hands of time

thanks

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Romance › Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by smileing(op): 6:10pm On Aug 11, 2018

appsdope:
If to say I see you I for buy you one origin.

Sister, please please and please leave that Mungo park. He is stupid. You don't love him and even if you marry him the marriage won't work. I think you should talk to your mum or elder sister. They are the two people who can help you. I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. Just take one step at a time and your healing will come sooner. But the very first step is to leave him and rebuild your
life. Someday you'll find someone who will love and adores you the way you are. Stop taking it too hard on yourself. Please take the advice of this oga above me and you'll be fine. I know you will.

mum or sister is a no
they ll nail me
thanks dear

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