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Blackmoran:
I don't care if you have good relationship with them... For your sanity sake please don't go back.. I have been in your shoes before. I went back to my old place of work after three years, the feeling was like am stagnant in life. I have to quit after 5month..
Though the job I got later wasn't paying me like my former place... But I feel a inner satisfaction. In the process of working there, I got connected to a bigger job, after just only two months there. But pls if there s also space in you side, pls do help me, am seriously in need of job, am a graduate and very hard working pls, this s my phone number 09039231211, life s hitting me seriously.
Something you have to hit a low before you go upward...

1Sharon:
When you create a broken family, what outcome are you expecting?

1Sharon:
Since you care so much about your daughter, take full custody of her. Put your money where your mouth is.

You want to study someone that you already have a baby with? Shouldn't you have done that before having a child with her? Why else should she call you aside asking for her the baby's school fees? Are you her husband?

Afodot0022:
Pls just shot the hell up. You don't know what transpires but you already start judging. I don't blame you, it's either you are a single mother that is pained and using that to get back at me. You women believe you can always behave stupidly and get away with it. Someone took my kids to where I didnt approved. You didn't read the part I said I was taking responsibility of them before this situation. Pls just leave emotion and think logically. If she wants to have the kids, let her have them. Na she go suffer am

thumbsme:
I have been there.
When ridicule, failure or downfall keep staring you on the face helplessly, taking the shorter exit of suicide might become just the smarter option.

But remember dear, we have all learnt through life that the shorter way is not usually the right or safest way out. It is indeed the longest or in fact no-way to succour. Because whatever was the motive, you would have lost it here and most likely hereafter.

I can only recommend the way I took which helped me out:
- Embrace Christ: What brings suicidal thought is not the problem itself, but the loss of peace when you remember the situation you are in. And I can guarantee you, there is a toltal peace that comes when we yield to the Saviour and allow Him bear the burdens. THIS IS REAL, NOT IMAGINARY please! Even if the problem doesn't vanish like drastically, you are guaranteed inner comfort, an infallible lead per time and a sure companion.
- Brace up for the worst: I agree that if nothing is done about the continued pile up of your debt, it may spell terrible consequences e.g incarceration,
loss of collateral properties and reputation, physical harm etc. all these I have had to be confronted with. Yes, but it won't likely be death.
- Like right now, withdraw from everything you can't control or safeguard e.g your good name, people's reation etc
-Dwell On the Minors - There are some very little legitimate things that has always given you bits of happiness. Please do them if possible
- Approach the debt from the littlest: Looking at a mountain from the peak would discourage even the best climber, but the real victory starts in pacing along right from the very foot

Remember: It not over until God says it is, and certainily you are still here only because He hasn't said it is over.
We keep pushing

DonBenny77:
Allow this false prophet to rest or hide in peace.

MyExpression:
He's not asking for help na.
He said his family have sponsored him to go for his Master's degree.
They are prolly well to do.

What the man needs is education on wealth building.
You can't grow fast driving the bike yourself. He should let his asset generate wealth for him.
How many bikes can he drive at a time?
How many passengers per time?
How bout the health hazard?
That breeze no be here o...talking from experience.

Put it on lease agreement with a corporate Logistics firm- like HomeDel Logistics.
They'll be liable for the maintenance and safety of the bike.
You just receive your alert weekly/monthly...within 10months to one year, you've gotten back your 1million naira, with your asset still yours.

What's the lifespan of a good new bike...3yrs+

Jeweltz:
But why did he asked me if I was in any relationship ? Which I clearly told him I’m not. I knew he liked what he saw he was just being a coward and shying away from responsibility. Men don’t even need to be rich these days as women are just looking for a responsible man to marry and not necessarily rich

ClearFlair:
It was so clear to see. How can you still be expecting anything from the same APC of 2015? Some people just love to joke around with their lives. Now you will realize that 16 years of your life is gone like that just because you want to remain a foolish person lol

Beremx:
drop it and stop asking questions. Which one is Yoruba elderly friend?

Verydarkhearted:
When you want to sale your property come tell me..

SINisSIN:
Rentage of 200k is not bad. You are the bad spender now. Since you’re single, limit the way you spend. Get a paper and flitter out unnecessary things you do buy.

Cook at home and always purchase things in bulk.

lagostrendboy:
Man wrecks a N400M sports car in illegal drag race and pleads for funds

After crashing a hired sports car during an illicit drag race in Lagos, a young man from Nigeria calls out for assistance while incurring N400 million debt.

An unlawful drag race was the cause of the tragic vehicle collision that rocked Eko Atlantic City on Saturday. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

Man crashes N400M sports car in illegal drag race, begs for funds

The collision, which happened around 4:00 PM and caused a lot of damage and injuries, raised questions about street racing and local public safety.

Two fast cars that were all taking part in an unofficial drag race on the main thoroughfare in the city are said to have been involved in the collision by witnesses.

When one of the cars lost control and crashed into another before hitting a concrete pole, the race swiftly took a disastrous turn.

Apart from the driver, who posted his experience on Instagram and went under the handle @Trammania, no casualties were reported from the crash.

According to him in a post, his life flashed in his eyes and at the moment, he thought he wouldn’t make it. However, he is faced with a staggering debt of N400M to cover for the damages on the car.

“Yesterday evening 14th of September 2024
I watched my life flash right in front of my eyes
It all happened so fast
Still traumatized
Taught it was all over
Still can’t even believe I’m alive
God really loves me & yesterday confirms all doubts…
I’m grateful to still be here
I’ll never forget.

Head jammed, back hurts, face bruised
Couldn’t even sleep at night too much pain
Flash backs messing up my head already
Hospital bills going crazy

Over 400Million in damages
Corvette Stingray 2022 GONE
Jeep grand Cherokee 2015 GONE
Property damage

Won’t lie I don’t even know where to start from
But I’m glad I’m still here God got his plans for me

Still hospitalized
Imma need all the love & support I could possibly get from the masses,” he stated.

https://eyesoflagos.com/2024/09/16/man-wrecks-a-n400m-sports-car-in-illegal-drag-race-and-pleads-for-funds/

Lungs:
The very day we met that very night she said tomorrow was her birthday


I meuvvvvvvvvvvvv 🏃🏃

Sonnobax15:

Too bad.

Am I the only one who sees such things that ought not to put someone into depression?...cuz take a very simple look at those mad men and women rooming our streets, they were once kids whom their parents used to mock their neighbors who were barren.... Abi you wan go prisons?


Personally I can't be mocked with such things cuz once God says it's your Time, nothing can stop it..

Hezzyluv:
Chai...

This few minutes of sex enjoyment doesn't worth the stress atall.

The last lady I had raw sex was December last year. I went and bought antibiotics that very day. If i have headaches den, i asked myself, could it be +HIV? I almost died of hear attack. 😂

To make mater worse, the evening new paper senior me by far... fyn she no fyn only for her to called me weeks later that, she couldn't see her monthly visitor.

I prayed and promised I would never do such again and God delivered me from that woman's hand.

Since that day I packed my breek for boxers ooo I no fit shout

Just imagine the stress I went 2ru vs the few minutes pleasure?

RealityKings:
When making a post, understand you must use a paragraph. Could be 3 or 4 sentence spacing. This is to ensure your post is easy on the eyes and interesting to read.

If you you don't space your posts, most people won't read it. They'll just go on to another thread

Nice2023:
When u are making money...don't always forget to start something small by the side.

Mistake is the the most surprising teacher ever known. It hits harder than hammer and chisel.

There is nothing like extra income.

Advice:

Keep searching for jobs...it would surely come one day and don't forget to invest no matter how small it is.

RealityKings:
1. Click on any section on nairaland where you want to create the Topic. The section could be maybe Education, Jobs and Vacancy, religion, Romance or any other section

2. Once you click on a section, then look for Create New Topic
(you can refer to the screenshot I shared below ) one big stout for you master

RealityKings:
I can teach you how to create a thread if you want to?

RealityKings:
I can teach you how to create a thread if you want to?

Ningishzida:
A short eye-opening video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCsEGlxude8

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
cc: Martinez39s
Skepticus
Luminouz
CaveAdullam
MrBrownJay1
Faber
Heartofcity12
Pukkalolo
JESHAL007
Rizzputin
Nonexistent1
@ everyone. Please save a brother.

blowjohn:
Use post office.


But post no bill.

mmadu4:
amen my brother wishing you all the best...

Godszilla:
https://punchng.com/nigerias-poverty-rate-will-surpass-wbank-104-million-estimate-soon-economists/