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ibibiofirstlady:
Toyin Saraki: More Than Meets the Eye




Written by Nancy Ilochi

Damian911:
https://www.nairaland.com/8201415/just-got-fired-work

After series of delegation and apologies, I've finally been called back to work. It's now time to grow my little savings into something more huge to help in my future endeavors

Zonefree
PlayMaker14
advanceDNA yes go and sin no more
RoyalBlu
Tochex101
ekineme
Pennywise2
Melancho
KosiGee
Vikto17
finallybusy

I resumed work officially yesterday thank you all for your kind words @Royalblu especially

Chevrolet076:
I saw a job advert yesterday on a WhatsApp group chat and forwarded to a friend that needed a job. She went to meet the person this morning and the person robbed her of her phone. The said job is at Oriental Hotel and Suites

Now the Mom is calling me saying that I was the one who gave her the link. Please help me. She hasn't even gotten home and I don't know what to do.

This is my chat with the person that posted the job and he also said he doesn't know the Franklin guy personally but had done a printing job for him once.

Please help me. I was just offering to help a friend and this is even worse than the situation she was initially.


I want to get this Franklin guy please. Anybody that can help. And I need help for this lady too. This is the phone number of the guy +234 902 712 9761.


Cc Davide470, Seun, mynd44, nlfpmod

Update

The lady just got home now. She said the person asked her to follow her to a cafe where she will add his name into her CV as the referee. On getting to the Cafe, he asked her to go and snap a passport and open her phone so she can send the CV from her Gmail.

And that's after she had paid 8,500 for 10 postal stamps


Then she couldn't find him again

Successtube:
I never thought I’d find myself contemplating divorce just two years into my marriage. As a bachelor, I’d look at couples splitting up and wonder how they ended up there. Didn’t they date and get to know each other first? Didn’t they see the signs? And yet, here I am, standing on the brink of making the same decision. I dated my wife for a year and three months before we got married, and I thought I knew her. But I was wrong. She lied and pretended to be someone she wasn’t. Now, I’m starting to see who she truly is, and it’s tearing me apart.

Immediately after our wedding, I noticed changes in her that hadn’t been there before. One month in, we were not having sex like any newly married couple would. Every time I tried to be intimate, she’d have some excuse—a headache, feeling tired, or being stressed from work. I tried to be patient, thinking it was just a phase. But it didn’t end. When I finally asked her what was wrong, she bluntly told me she didn’t like sex. I was shocked. How could she not like sex? We had been intimate enough times while dating for me to believe otherwise.

“How can we have children if we don’t have sex?” I asked, trying to keep my frustration in check. Her response was indifferent, almost as if it didn’t matter. From then on, she’d sometimes only have sex with me during her ovulation period, like it was a chore to check off her list. It went on like this for over eight months, and I felt more and more disconnected. I felt unwanted, unloved. Every attempt to bridge the gap between us only seemed to widen it.

But the cracks didn’t just stop there. Through a relative of mine, I managed to get her a job that paid her 300,000 Naira monthly. She seemed happy, and I was glad I could help. Then, fate dealt me a blow—I lost my job. After months of searching, I managed to find another one, but it paid only 120,000 Naira a month. I couldn’t afford to stay home, so I took it, thinking it would just be temporary until I found something better.

My 120,000 Naira salary barely covers our expenses. I take care of the rent, food, bills, and still fuel my car to get to work. The one that hit me hardest was when our rent increased to 700,000 Naira around the same time my car’s engine gave out, needing another 500,000 Naira to repair. I felt the walls closing in on me. I was struggling, juggling all these financial burdens alone. I turned to my wife, thinking she’d step up and help. After all, she was earning more than double what I was. But all she could offer was 50,000 Naira.

I was speechless. She looked at me and said it was a man's duty to cater to his family, and she could only "assist." Her words felt like a slap. Here I was, drowning under the weight of our expenses, and she was holding back. I had to sell one of the lands I’d bought back in my bachelor days to cover the bills. I never thought I’d be in a position where I had to sell my hard-earned property just to survive while my wife, who I had helped get a better-paying job, stood by and watched.

The emptiness gnawed at me until I reached out to someone who had once filled a different kind of void in my life—my ex. We had broken up years ago because of distance when she moved to London for her studies. But we never really ended things on bad terms. There was always a "what if" lingering between us. Now, in my loneliness, that "what if" turned into late-night conversations, laughter, and the kind of warmth I hadn’t felt in a long time. I sneak out every now and then to be with her. I know it’s wrong. I know cheating is not the answer, but I felt like I was drowning, and she was the only one who could save me. With her, I felt alive again, seen, and heard. Things quickly escalated, and before I knew it, I was back in her arms. It felt like a betrayal of my marriage vows, but at the same time, it felt like the only way to reclaim a part of myself that had been lost.

I never imagined I’d be contemplating divorce, but here I am. I want to marry my ex. I want a fresh start, a chance to feel loved again. I don’t know if I can continue in a marriage where I feel more like a burden than a partner. Maybe it’s time to face the harsh truth: some people change, and some people never really were who they claimed to be. Maybe it’s time for me to choose my own happiness, to take a leap and start over.

Don't make the same mistake I made. Study your partner thoroughly before to married, don't rush!

seunoladele:
GETTING MARRIED ON A N3O,OOO SALARY

I asked my ladies if they can marry a man who earns 3Ok. Some said YES, some said NO for justifiable reasons.

A guy asked me if he could marry on a #67,OOO salary. Another asked me if he could marry on a #64,OOO monthly income, I said a big fat yes to both of them! Yes, you can!

The problem is not how much you earn, the problem is how you handle what you earn.

You can easrn 5OOk monthly and still not be ready for marriage! Financial intelligence is different from earning intelligence.

No matter what you earn, have a growth mentality. Ladies, take note, marry a guy who has a GROWTH MENTALITY. Don't marry a man who thinks 3Ok is a fortune and can't think of breaking out of the box.

Always know, that you can earn far above what you do now. It is possible to earn 3Ok by January and earn 2OOk by March. Think, make research, consult, seek counsel, look out for clean ways to make more money.

Save at least, 1O% of what you earn monthly. It will save you from some emergencies and have something handily in case a good, well researched business opportunity shows up. It takes self discipline to save. Some people will never save even if they earn 5PPk monthly. Learn to save for your future, emergencies and opportunities.

Spend below what you earn. This is where a lot of couples run into avoidable problems. With #62,OOO monthly, you should not live in an apartment more than 6Ok annual rent. That is your level, that is your size, to live above that level is covetousness, stupidity and financial suicide!

You will be amazed the kind of houses some people live and still be begging for money to eat.

Get out of that house my friend! Look for something smaller, save up the extra money you have for a business that will earn you money to feed your family and enjoy your life with peace.

What will people say is the reason many have ended in their early grave! People will tell you how stupid you were after you are gone!

You are wiser than that! Don't allow what people say push you into financial frustration!

Live your level per time.

Live in a house your one month income can clear. If you need a more comfortable accommodation, earn more and live bigger.

Spend far below what you earn.

I can keep repeating this till tomorrow!

You can marry with the little you have but don't stay there!

Am I communicating?

© Seun Oladele, 2O23; reposted, 2O24.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

Honeygift:
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Franzese:
Well, sometimes you're destined to see shege banza. That's the answer. Destiny.

SunShowAfrica:
I am more desperately in need of job than you brother.
I Don Taya to dey beg

SunShowAfrica:
And they promise you a certificate and a certain sponsored trip to the USA
The two never happens anyway

Rexymania:
Wetin Neolife do you? Neolife no be job? the only difference be say, you go dey waka like mad man

FalseProphet1:
I see you reaching 40 without a husband.

I see you ranting angrily about how men don't take you seriously forgetting that you billed the ones who tried to start something serious with you and ended up chasing them away.

I see you dating a 16 year old guy,

I see you being arrested for dating a minor.

This I have seen.

Atuero:
Add 9 at the end.

underpinna:
A lot of the time, people discouraged you because they don't want you progress.

Before I got the position that I am occupying in my place of work, I was a contract staff. The opportunity was given to two company members but they rejected saying that one can easily get sacked.

I was on my own when I was approached by the manager for the position. I accepted it and preparation started so that I could come in.

Those two staff members and their friends discouraged me about accepting the offer. They told that you are the head in your department, giving orders and making decisions, why leave fir a place you could be sacked in a month?

I nearly reject the offer but then, I told myself that growth comes with high risk. I told myself that even though I worked for a month, as long as I've changed position, I'm fine.

Well, I'm past one year now.

In seeking for opinions, you'll be seen as immature and you will be taken for granted.

Tohsynetita1:
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0803154250 nine