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Factcheck0001:
it all boils down to what u think

First of all which business can u do with passion without getting tired?

boss na just my problem be that ooo it really pain me as I am like this without knowing what I can do

Could you beleif I save up to 3m but thinking of what to establish till when I spend the money reach 1m+

The fear to start something av not done befoer I was even thinking to buy Keke na pep that time but my fam advice me that all those transport of a thing s too dangerous that I should go for that

Factcheck0001:
like how much to rent shop in your current location?

like 300k that s for better area ooo but you fit see like 150k of 200k in normal street area....live at maraba side that s one man village

Smilleydr:
the reason why I said I don't want the business that will make to stay in a shop s because where I am shop rent s too cost in a strategy area here and to rent a shop with the level of accomodations again s not really easy

the house rent a already 200k if I will get a shop now it will be like another 200k or more than that and you know for the business av not done before, I don't know may be you get the point

Factcheck0001:
u don't want business that requires u sitting in a shop?

Like how do u want to b running d business n which business will keep u on d run always?

I guess u are thinking of logistics or transport business cos na only those 2 fit keep u on d run steady

the reason why I said I don't want the business that will make to stay in a shop s because where I am shop rent s too cost in a strategy area here and to rent a shop with the level of accomodations again s not really easy

Factcheck0001:
what's your budget n what business do u have passion for

Coupled with the fact that u have to study your environment to know what they need

When u answer all these questions I can write a business proposal for u free or give u a business guide free

baba like this baa I no even know the one I can do but I don't want business that requires me staying in one place like sitting in a shop every day,........I have up to a million plus

Factcheck0001:
Smilleydr

How far I Dey hear u

okay just want to ask about the business you did because I want to try business but don't know the one I can venture to that will not make me regret

Factcheck0001:
that your number 4 ruined me this year

The greatest lesson is to run at your own pace, avoid all these motivation of taking risk

We only learnt about d positivity of taking risk after making it but nobody cares about d problems if u fail

I lost my two shops, lost all my savings, lost everything simply because I wanted to take risk n people were already seeing me as comfortable


My greatest lesson this year


"Work at your own pace n never allow a motivational speaker make u run faster than your shadow cos if e no work na only u go suffer"

pls I don't know may be we can chart privately, just want to ask you something s 09039231211.......no be money I won beg oooo

AngelSlay:
Life in itself is a risk. You can move to the new town gather up yourself and relocate your family down to the state. Abi no be people they relocate their wife and children from Nigeria to US or Canada?

thank you beautiful sister

AngelSlay:
You don't stay in one place to watch a masquerade dance- African Proverb.

na true brother but what of in a situation whereby you are already settle down

I learn how to keep my mouth shut and never tell anyone my problem again, because nobody won help I realized you just have to fight for your self and stop announcing your problem to people.

Goodmarlian:
Omo its just too bad how person wan save money like this?

I bought rice 3 portions = 900
Beans 1 portion =300
One meat 200
lacasera =300
Total = 1700

This evening
Bread = 650
Beans =400
One meat=200
Pepsi =500

I did data for Nairaland =600

Total = 4k

Omo Naija don spoil finish ajee,now how does the common man survive?

and it take the grace of God befoer you can make 4k a day

sofeo:
You must have been so calm and weak for her and her family for her and her sister to have treated you that way.

Well, apart from walking away like someone said, you need to rebuild yourself, so you don't get taken for granted easily again.

Please work on yourself and build your self esteem. It takes gradual process, but it's important for you.

No matter how nice the next woman you date might be, if your self esteem is still low and she perceive you as weak, then you begin another journey. I learnt that the hard way myself and thank God I'm not married yet, It affected my Dad too, I learnt from it. It's a totally changed story now.

Take charge of situations around you and be in control, in a very polite, sound and calm mind, and matured manner, not aggressively, being unnecessarily aggressive is a sign of weakness too, which got you into that fight that injured your hand.

When you have a sound mind, and you are in control of situations, women fear you, they shiver when they see you angry, because they don't know what would happen. But the moment you are predictable, you are gone.

If another man handles your woman, you will be surprised at how she may relate with such man, that's when you get to understand how women are programmed.

I like this and I wish I can take control over woman as well just that nature cheat me, I don't av a huge statue am old man but have a baby face.

Nnamdipapa:
Most adults like you are just being lazy.
Plain and simple. I started making money at 15 and now I am very confident about the future.

Most adults are lazy.

not lazy, s just grace you av my dear brother, most of us are not born with silver spoon, we just start from scratch to make our future better,

But I don't mind if possible you can also show me the way forward

WhatsApp 09039231211

Nnamdipapa:
I am not.

I have a bright future and should be a multi-millionaire by 24. I am working towards it and schooling at the same time.

lolsss.....we are waiting, no forget to let us know when you make the money oooo, *Eranko* you think say like just easy like that.

Psalmspsalms:
Come to bonny island and look for contract jobs. Here minimum salary is about 220k, monthly medical of 15k, weekly feeding money of 12k and they do transport their workers to and fro. But the work would be easier to get of u have enough money to buy ur way through. And u also need be patient.

am interested pls how can I get that

wonder233:
As someone who has gone through what you're currently going through, I endorse this comment.

pls which skill do you learn pls

koladata:
List 10 reason why you wanted her to go , print it out boldly and put it under your pillow , when ever you want to start thinking about her just bring it out and read them to yourself

look for someone else to start a relationship with , search for it like its a job. Dress well every evening , go to an industrial area when people are about to close from work , talk to them , have a target of 20 rejection , before you talk to 20 ladies , one will be cool with you

Humm hummm Spartacus, I salute you ooo

idahme:
He has been with married people all his life, his parents were married remember , this is a silly question.

don't just mind that golible idiot, I see another idiot dey talk say s because the guy s poor, I no know why some people no dey reason well, untill it happen to them shaa befoer them know how it feels.

Dirtybillionair:
I started 2024 as a paupper, beggar,the rice I cooked for my family last year Christmas was on credit,I was homeless and depressed,a church gave I and my family a room in the church to stay,but today, I am a millionaire, rented 4flats for myself and my family, stocked all with furniture and bought a landed property,Fed about 30kids and adults this year Christmas, God has been gracious to me,praise be to his name

are you serious?, if that s true I tap from your blessing

Sucre6:
My papa nah serious guy man, when I was 20 years old, I took a girl out to a lounge, we where there for more than 30 minutes just gisting without ordering anything, I was clueless 😂

Until the waitress brought us a grilled fish with chill Hollandiaa and two glasses, I was surprised because I didn't order anything, she said the bill has been taken care of by that man, she pointed and I saw my dad chilling with his friends eating fish and drinking Arabian tea. I went and greeted him and his friends and he said

You this boy, you don't have sense oh, you don't know how to treat a lady, why u go carry your girlfriend come for lounge and for more than 30 minutes u no order anything for u guys to eat and drink, next time if u no get money stay at home and help your mummy in the kitchen 😂😂😂😂
His friends bust out serious laughter. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I miss my papi seriously

Omo you dey crack me oooo, I swear I like that man, I want to be like him when I grow up

ChizzyBuna:
Now i know why nigeria is doomed
Imagine a society that sees nothing wrong with tbeir father sleeping with numerous women.

I pity the womb that carried you for 9 months. That is how you treat yiur mother by encoyraging your father

waiting dey pain me be say you carry this matter come nairaland and Nairalander dey advice you but you come still dey proof your stupidity here, oga comont go settle your family problem and leave us alone.

Exceed15:
*Avoid greeting people too much. Do it normal and walk away. Over greeting makes people to start suspecting you.

" Don't show too much excitement when you meet people first time.

* Don't laugh all the time. Keep a stern face.

yes don't laugh all the time people will take you for grounted, sometimes lejupa marerin.

NoChill:
When her story casts, please don't forget to also come and inform us here

may God protect all of us abeg when the thing cast do come back and update us, because I know e must surely cast one day.

Factcheck0001:
if u are happy n u never pay rent, when landlord knock on your door u will understand

If u are happy n u fall sick n u need money for drugs u will understand

If your mama owe debtor n them Dey shout on top her head n she call u to bail her out n u self no get transport fare then u will know money brings happiness 90%

Majority of things we count as village people is just lack of money

With 90% money even village people will want to b your friend

Obi cubana ,davido, blord n co will never think of any village people, they will rather use all their money to solve d problem

If u know how lack of money don humiliate n shatter life of people u will understand

Pastor wey win 10 million naira bet money come leave church work japa, u think say e no wise?

hummmmmm no be lie shaaa

Factcheck0001:
can u b happy without money n material possessions?

Tor e be like say me self no know waiting I dey talk ooooo

Factcheck0001:
there's no manual to living long bro

My father's doctor that use to advice him not to eat swallow, egg n co don die but my papa still dey

. this one shock me ooo

Sirchiboy:
Point of correction trillionare begger.
We print money while others pack it ok.
Drop your account let me shake your account like tornado when go make your bank manager ask who be this boy when receive this money when my bank Never see for 100 years.

frustration and depression won kill you, s better you lay low to your helper make them help you.

Factcheck0001:
oya explain success without money n material possessions?

but did you know you can av money, materials things and not still be happy

Happiness s very important brof, when you are happy you will have a rest of mind, and there will be nothing bordering you.

Factcheck0001:
oga life has no manual

Someone can still do all these n b successful than d one who don't do it

With what I have seen in life, life doesn't have a way to approach it best

but beleif if God can help you do all what op said, normally you will live long Aje

chatinent:
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Since I can verily relate to your situation based on real life experience, I will advise you:

1. Work and save money as soon as possible and relocate. Peace of mind is life.

2. Such types of fathers cannot change, esp when they have recruits of supporters backing their [bad] actions so they don't know when to stop.

3. About the curses, it won't work if you don't want it to subdue you. How? Get up and work! Can you write? Can you create websites? Can you program or design? What can you do that people would need to buy your time to do? I could teach you how to make money online for free so you can start earning for yourself and build a good life.

4. I'm sorry for your mom's demise. It's okay to grief, but face the reality and don't run away from it.

5. The best way to revenge is to be successful.

pls can you also teach me, I will be glad if you can teach me 09039231211 WhatsApp