₦airaland Forum

mykelmeezy:
please stfu mr home training



in Africa we take this respect ish too far



her mood determined her reply


i.e she really needed no bs from anybody not even her parent at that time


you can clearly see shes fed up with her dad lack of direct communication with her

realmey:
Its me boss not his daughter

His daughter see him almost daily and i don't object to that.

There was i time i visited regularly like almost monthly,the next thing i heard was i wasn't visiting enough.

Bros check am now,oneday the man fit tell me make i pack come stay him house or even make i visit am daily

ikeno:
Need candid advice from NLers. I don't know if am doing the right thing;this has to do with the fact that I prefer sending text messages than physically expressing my feelings towards the opposite sex. If I get offended by someone,I rather send a text to he/she expressing my emotional anger than confronting the person.This also applies when I have emotional feelings towards a girl,I do rather send her a text than telling her in person.

Its really affecting me personally and also relationship wise.

DrDeji20:
never.

tosyne2much:
E don old pass that age jawe

tosyne2much:
Don Jazzy, enough of this childishness.. This is what your younger ones should be doing, not you.. Build a family and stop flaunting someone you aren't married to, on social media

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HsLBroker:
I'm composing my details.

DAIL:
thanks do you have idea per square mtr for wooden floor , would love to do that for my bedrooms

DAIL:
Tile and wooden floor which is better and cost difference pls

yak:
thanks. but 3bed shld b able to get approval I guess

luvablesam:
That's 24 classes overall.... sounds cool but planning is key. ....the side facing the road is 60 and the breadth is 120... is it possible for it to face the road?

luvablesam:
I run a low-cost nursery and primary school somewhere in Nigeria. The kids pay the lowest fees in the local government n orphans even attend free(uniform inclusive). Though I don't earn much n it causes a strain a lot of times...

The thing is that I was able to save up a Small amount that I wanna use to buy a 60 by 120 land I saw to build the school's permanent site... Will it be enough space to build a two storey building housing 16-18 classes? I need professional advice( the next plot to it is vacant but I can't afford it now)

yak:
the fourth room is visitor's room. so I can settle wit 10 by 10. while the other two for my kids 12 by 12. master bedroom 14 by 12

yak:
good PM ppl. I want to quickly ask a question.
my landlord just showed me a small piece of land for sale but the said lànd is 36 by 79. wld this land be able to hold 4bedroom bungalow?

Gaborone:
Can they do that?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]It's easy for these women to jump and attack any man once they hear he hit a wOman.

It pisses me off! Not because i support domestic violence but because majority of them who do these bandwagon thing aren't really women who deserve respect from men.

Yes he beat his wife. Yes he was wrong and bla bla bla. But why not settle down and try to know the nitty gritty of the story from both angles if you're so interested and really want to throw stones. Don't just see a picture and the next thing is to rush at the guy.

We have so many misandrists among us who hate men and never give them benefit of doubt. The moment they hear a man did something all they do cast aspersions on all men including their relatives who are male.

When they are done, they will tell us how the insults have helped him in anyway. I feel his pain, I know he's sorry he hit her but I'm sure he lost it and there is a reason for that.[/color]

Sijo01:
Even animals do not beat their kinds to the extent of injuring it.

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YesNo:
i don't think this story is real. if this story was real, you would know better than coming to nairaland to ask CANDID ADVICE. a place with lots of juveniles and shallow people who would hurry to give you advise out of emotional sentiments rather than experience or critical thinking.

Yes we have real wise and intelligent people here too but.... how dare anyone here give advice on such a personal matter or tell a man how to write his own will ? there are some things that should be left in the realm of personal affairs and not everything you should delve into just because you have Internet access.

Sir, If you are as old as you are, then you should know better than this. You should know how to consult people on a personal confidential level rather than seeking a publicity poll on such a delicate matter that has the future of the children ( who have been calling you FATHER all their life) in the balance.

Omooba77:
If I had known, I would not have played the America visa lottery. The lottery I played had put indelible scar on my heart, causing me pain daily as I move closer to the grave. I am now 64 years of age. My undoing was the visa lottery I played in 2007. Prior to this time, all was well, and going smoothly in our family. I had married my wife in 1985. We were blessed with 3 boys and a girl. The girl, Moyosore was our first child. She was born in 1986. The boys came there after in 1988, 1990, and 1994.
My wife was a full time house wife. She had everything at her request. A chauffeur driving car, two house helps, and other conveniences were at her disposals. I was a senior management staff at the defunct NITEL. A trained and accompanished electronic engineer. I travelled round the Nation. My assignments most times, were between the Federal Capital Territory, and Owerri in Imo State. I however ensured am in Lagos at least twice a month to see my family. This was between 1986 , and 1997. I retired in 1999 to start my own private company, which has continued to triumph to God's glory.
In 2007, I joined several other Nigerians to play the visa lottery of the United States. I was part of the few thousands that won. I was happy, not because of myself, but because of my two younger children who will have the benefit of automatic citizenship of America. My older children; Moyosore, Aanuoluwapo were already schooling in Canada as at the time.
Hmmmmm, one of the major conditions of granting the visa is blood screening, and conduct of DNA for beneficiary's dependants. I had submitted necessary documents, and made payments for our screenings at the popular St. Nicholas, Lagos Island. We did the tests as recommended. The results were to be sent to the Embassy.
I gotva letter at a later date that I should present my passport and my wife's for visas. On enquiry, they said the kids I presented weren't mine. I almost lost my sanity! My kids weren't mine? Is that possible was my song. I find it difficult to comprend. Because, it happened near my birthday celebration, I invited Moyo and Aanu home under the pretence that they were coming to celebrate with me, and had their DNA carried out. Alas, only Moyosore was my authentic child!
I became sick, and almost passed on. I was hospitalised for a month. I eventually lost the opportunity to complete the processing of the visas, as I was no longer myself. A bi, of what need is the visa without my kids?
When I got over the shock, I confronted my wife. She was mad with me. She called me unprintable names and a failure. I kept my peace and moved on. The following week, I invited her to a friend's party. On our way back, I parked the car and pulled out of the road. She asked why, and I told her not to worry. I then raised the matter again. She rained abuse on me, and called me a drunk. At that point, I pointed a pistol at her side, and threatened to kill her, and dump her on the abandoned road. I showed her copy of the DNA I got on Aanu, and the notification I received from American embassy.
At this point, my wife became parrot. She swallowed her pride, and confessed. She said Aanu was fathered by David, a friend and colleague, who was more of a brother than friend. We had been friends for almost 30 years. Tunde and Bidemi were sons of our househelp, Kingsley. Kingsley was from Benue. He worked with us for almost 15 years. I had noticed my wife special interest in him, but never knew he was sharing her with me.
It has been 10 years after the ugly incident, and revelation. I survived the shock, but Adunninever! She died two years after. She couldn't wait to tell the kids and sort out the problem and havoc she caused. Till date, the children are not in the knowing of my predicament. The children are doing good. The last, Bidemi now 23 is working in a multinational company. He graduated at 19. So also are the other brothers and their siste, who are doing great in Overseas.
Now, am 64. I have written my will again and again. I have deleted the names of the boys from my last will, even though I have not gathered enough courage to inform them that am not their biological father.
I have not told anyone either, and its killing me day- by- day. Should I inform them all, or tell my only my own daughter? Or I should just die with the thought??
Please, I need your advise urgently.....'WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOU WERE IN MY SHOES"

Alleviating:
Very stupid man
You can't even protect yourself against your own wife, how much more other men?
Very disheartening story, look at the baby Mhen..
Sorry dear..

But then, when you ladies are supposed to settle for better men, you'll be looking for riches and fame, now look at what that has brought to you!

If this is settle-able, then do, but if not end the fvcking relationship with the im-potent
Don't be too quick to insult d man...if i may ask who snap those pictures?

The man was busy beating his wife & d person was taking pictures?




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Onegai:
In this economy, minus 4 mouths to feed, dude you should meet up with Pastor and shake his hand warmly for being so good to you! #GlassHalfFull #BrightSideOfThings

onadana:
Yet they say na lieutenant. Where lieutenant dey for airforce I no understand.This small children na recruit.

SalamRushdie:
If you love a girl too much you can't be in control except you ate deceiving yourself

tosyne2much:
It baffles me when people get married and one party starves the other party of his or her conjugal right, cos I used to think such thing only happens in "boyfriend and girlfriend relationship"

Some ladies naturally do not enjoy sex and they will end up frustrating their husbands with konji.. That's why every man should try to know the sexually capacity of the lady he wants to marry so that he will not be starved of sex in marriage

joyiwant:
I need financial assistance to balance my house rent today. I promised the landlord lastweek that I will pay him today but unfortunately I couldn't because things are very tough right now. I'm really scared of embarrasment. Please Assist me.

rymzo228:
i used precast concrete...it saves time and tends for be more perfect if well supervised

SalamRushdie:
This is why I never date a girl i love ...I only knack them