₦airaland Forum

sneak3:
Guys does more of the lying.. I will explain! If a lady genuinely likes you, she hardly lies 2u and hardly cheats on u but a guy can love a lady to d moon but will still want to test the waters with oda ladies and in the process, so many lies are told.

Though scholars have since proved that lying to a lady amounts to showing respect for her emotions...

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Guys does more of the lying.. I will explain! If a lady genuinely likes you, she hardly lies 2u and hardly cheats on u but a guy can love a lady to d moon but will still want to test the waters with oda ladies and in the process, so many lies are told.

Though scholars have seen proved that lying to a lady amounts to showing respect for her emotions...

Regardless of what was d cause of their breakup once am not oblivious of their relationship I can't reason being that the act is tantamount to betrayal!!

And trust me that ur friend will always have some reservations abt u even though he might be acting like all is cool.

Ploy:
You did it to her friend, you can do it to her.

I would be cold, in fact, frozen if I'm the lady.



Guy, leave her alone and make do with your options.

Lol funny dude! On a serious not, I really do like her for real. Among all the options she is d most preferred

ronald4lif:
I find it hard to believe a girl that's into someone will not send as many text messages and also call the person daily, likewise the guys. Being an introvert has nothing to do with one making use of their phones. Text messages worth nothing and even if they are there are whatsapp, bbm, Skype etc which are free.

Could it be that she's seeing someone in her school? You have to try finding out if she's cheating to avoid stories that touch

Nice 1

I dated her friend before now but nothing serious happened btw us while the relationship lasted . Mayb I need to mentioned the fact that I never knew they were friends until I started asking my present girl out , on one of my attempt to woo her, she popped d question that was a surprise to me when she asked me if I Wasn't going out with her friend again?.
I was like your friend? Who's ur friend? Then she mentioned my Ex's name.
Initially she Wasn't forthcoming on the
groung that I dated her friend b4 but over time she began to soften her stands and now we are dating.

I work in one of the northern states with relatively cool salary (all thanks to God) while she school in the west though our respective parents lives in the same city so we do see occasionally when she is on break and I have a small holiday as well. The challenge is I relatively have options available to me in the town whr I work but I love my girl dearly and I will love to marry her all things being equal.

The problem now is that I do most of the calling though I understand d fact that she's a student so I don't expect her to call as much as I do. But she seems cold abt d relationship although on several occasions she has confessed to like me a lot and will be glad if we end up together as couples. I still keep wondering why she hardly call or text.

Pls peeps what cld be d problem ? Before ur comments I must mention that she is an introvert..

I will appreciate mature comments/opinions/suggestions! Cheers

I can only do that for my wife! Reason being that my gf may either end up marrying some1 else or feels obligated to marrying me even if in her inner most part she wouldn't have

Use chapet bro it's less visible

OP mayb she probably have sum1 outside ur school she has made up her mind to marry..

Simply put she has a serious relationship that u are not aware of.

My advice: let go and look for sum1 that isn't married.

I don't have issues with conservative girls being a working class, undergraduate or unemployed..

My problem is with girls that don't hesitate to ask for things and wld want to give anything in return.

Imagine a girl I met on social media, we haven't even met and she's asking me to buy her a fone just because Ave invested my time trying to know her on BBM!

Am on the opinion that their should be attitude reorientaion among female folks in this country.

They need to stop seeing relationship as a paid employement..mind you am not against guys spending on their girls but relationship shld be mutually beneficial.

temitemi1:
God bless ur union... GEJ till 2019!!!

Pro GEJ don't waste. Time in exhibiting their clueless-Ness!

Seeking for advices like dis annoys me..when you that the Only thing to do is to severe the relationship from both end.

For God sake this isn't d 1st because luck ran out on them and they were caughtthis time?

Forget her apology and her ill-fated tears ur girl isn't even remorseful. Imagine blaming you for dastardly act (GEJ favourite word)

good look, average height, light/dark skinned, slim with something to hold/touch.. SOMETHING UPSTAIRS

If u meet all d spec but lack d one in Caps trust me to withdraw with immediate alacrity.

Simply tell her you are married then reduce the fre frequency of ur communication with her,u guys can still remain friends but pls avoid the temptation of visiting her apartment unaccompanied.

You u can even introduce her to your wife so she cld be an official family friend.. But you must let go of all the illusions you termed ' love ' that u still feel for her.

Don't ruin ur sweet home sir!

Lol @ op! It's an hausa meaning see ur mouth like D*ck!!!!!

ROTFL

Cinderluv:
Thanks

Hi just sent you an email pls kindly respond!

Love your guts... I don't mind knowing you.but first tell us ur location

I need a nice,God fearing, preety, slim lady for a serious relationship. Serious minded lady pls.

Guys no insult pls.

Tell you brother with the speed of light. Show him the video too to back your claims. That geh shldnt be given the privilege of becomin sum1's wife.

It is up to you to form ur own opinion. Its a 2 way thing though meaning ur fears cld be true and on the other hand it cld just turn out to be a harmless gift.

[quote author=Eastherbunny post=28198414]Op don't fall my hand oh, the fantasy already circulating your head is clouding ya judgment. Can't a boss give gift again without asking anything in return.

If the situation persist normally and no ulterior motives is involve then carry on but if she start to demand please by all means let her down gentlemanly

Well said!! Take heed to this advice and you will be inducted into d maturity clan

Just let him know the truth an wait for the aftermath!!

I've met 2 in training school back then but we are just cool,now colleagues and friends though.

Nigerians and our gullible nature. For God sake hw wil some1 be recommending Mikel for AFOTY Award? On what moral justification.

Our people says the fly that refuses to hear will surely follow the corps to the Grave. My brother Jonah a word they say is enough for the wise.

Jaeru: arsenal first ever win in history over swansea

Is either you are daft or ur brain is slow.. Arsenal defeated Swansea 2-0 last season in their home and still knock Dem out of FA Cup . So whr is dis ur info coming from ?

House. Pls. Wen is this naval applicationn closing ??.... Deadline plsssssss

House kindly guide me on how to check my application status

@all kindly. Direct on me on how to check my application status... Cheerz

@justbrave wot was d mesg sent to u after. D 2nd stage test. I tot people who failed got a regret mail instantly

AB$I:
Yoruba versus Ijaw.
Yorubas are cowards,adultrous&fetish. Yoruba Yoruba,oriya mi,egba mi pple.
Ijaws are drunkards,dull,lazy,fetish&very useless pple.
Yoruba wins

Don't stop taking ur drugs, u are not completely healed..

somieee: sobbing badly..............started making plans with mine already....guess every disappointed is a blessing

Where you graduate from "every disappointment" not every disappointed"