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Ooasis:
kindly take time to read through and Pardon my errors pls.

I found myself in a situation where I need an advice.
I have a job on the mainland which pays 50k and I spend no transport at all. I started working there three months after my youth service with 45k, I wasn't satisfied with the job so I started searching for another, it(new job) wasn't coming so I decided to change my mindset and continue this for a while, after my grudges complaints to which the organization says they are not satisfied with my output and that they even wanted to lay me off, (which I knw is just gimmicks as I knw that I am there best staff) I got a raise to 50k after almost a year.
Why I don't like the job.
1. No productivity for a while now, not much jobs bringing in cash for the organization and I ain't happy doing nothing and earning at month end. I have talked to them about how to improve but they seem to want to move at there pace.
2. After the we want to lay you off saga, I feel like I really need to take my exit while the ovation is still loud.
3. I believe I need to change environment and meet new people, since here isn't interesting anymore, the workplace is not appalling and I am tired of the petty shits
4. The 50k salary will always make future job bargain allow recruiters look down on me and offer ridiculous pay.

I got a new job on the island 70k and I will be spending transport of 15k.
New environment, nice work environment and high career prospect cos it's an international organization with new challenges.

Cons
Thinking of traffic, the not to expectation salary and fear of uncertainty, kindly advice me what you think I should do.

Thanks, you may just have saved a life.

You obviously have made up ur mind on what to do reading through this piece....

My take: from what u said it appears ur current place of work isnt that healthy business wise coupled with the fact that career growth is limited then it is à no brainer to move to d new Job.

iliyande:
Who is saying that the bank took? Pure an insider fraud

Oga I don't work with Access bank ok so let your response(s) be polite. Just telling u what I know
as some1 in that sector.. I see cases like this on daily basis and on investigation, it still boils down to d fact that u have compromised your atm pin and some who have access to ur plastic chose to use it. or it might even be ur humble self who withdrew but have forgotten simply because u did not receive alert on that particular trnx.

Meanwhile I have told you what to do earlier if u ain't satisfy with their explanation.. the atm footage will reveal the face of the person that withdrew that 2k.. but pls come back here on nairaland to share the final story..

Thanks..

klevjey:
I bank with Access Bank. I was having N153, 265.00. I withdrew N5,000.00 last week Monday. On Friday last week, I went to the branch at Iyana Ipaja to pay back the N5,000, only for me to receive an alert that my balance is N151,265.00.

I went to the bank and requested for my statement of account which was printed out. On the statement, I found out that N2,000 was withdrawn on the Tuesday of that week. I quickly told them I wasn't the one and they told me it must have been done by someone whom I usually send to withdraw in my stead. They ruled out fraud claiming that if it were to be fraud, the person would have wipped my account clean. Funny enough, my ATM card was with me throughout, and I didn't even receive any SMS alerting me of the debit that day. We have been arguing since in the bank. I know this is an internal job from the bank. Please guys, how do I go about this? I want them to know they don't just go around messing with people's money simply because they are 'common man'.

I can authoritative tell you that the money was not removed by the bank, I am very sure you must have been sharing ur atm cards with friends or relatives so kindly ask them ok..

But if u are not satisfy, since the bank said its an
atm withdrawal write a letter of complaint to the bank requesting for the atm footage of that 2k transaction.

Though am very sure the picture will reveal either u, ur frnd or relative...

Just play calm and make her feel wanted more than d oda guy.. den u will be tired of her attention.

Aristology

ogoigbe:
ass hole

Like I don't knw ur planet?? Ape planet or republic of senselessness.

Ok I get, u trying to get soft landing from misskiffy (missfish)

Take the average. As in add seyi+bimpe den divide by 2... Thank me later

missKiffy:
I met my boyfriend's dad for the first time last week and he introduced me as a 'friend' to his dad. I later asked him why he introduced me as a friend just to clarify things and know if am just a 'friend' to him and he told me his dad understands what he meant even tho he referred to me as a friend, and I think he was right cos his dad was dotting on me after meeting me, he even told my boyfriend he likes me.

Should I still be worried or am just bothering myself for no reason.

Be worried my sister.. for out of the abundance of d hrt d mouth speaketh..

But like seriously wil u rather have him introduce u as his babe/gf/wife? Ase otie gbon pupo

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Pre-intimacy or _foreplay as it is commonly known is basically the sexual activity that precedes sex. It's what increases a couples drive to have sex and what gets them in the mood for sex.
It can include touching, kissing, cuddling, "romancing"(as it is called), and all that.
It could even include some weird stuff like application of slight pain on ones self, or on the other partner. Like slapping, pinching, or even biting.
It could also include role play, dressing in a particular way, creating a certain kind of environment or performing some kind of fetish.

To answer the op's question, I think a man or woman's definition for pre-intimacy depends solely on them.
Their definition for pre-intimacy should be what works for them. It should be what increases their general drive for sex.

It should be the environment that turns them on. Those activities that ignites their passion thereby making them enjoy sex better.

Everyone is different. What works for someone would definitely not be what would work for another.
It's left for everyone to be adventurous and find what makes them "tick".[/color]

Gbogbo e ni girl yi so tan... Orie wanbe missyclasicky

sinaj:
op u just violated rule 21 with your gbagaun

The only nairaland babe am stalking and she has refused to reply my pm.. @sinaj I don't do this often why not respond to me.. just want us to be friends outside N'land and no more to it..

Cheers

Ok the best race is 400x100m



LOL

Return the phone in exchange of your 2k. Win win situation and status quo is maintained

Capital NO... Height and sign of gross irresponsibility for a woman to smoke..

Me and any other lady that sees herself as being pretty

Change her portfolio from sales girl to Oga-madam

The wait...... Sounds like a movie title though.

My take is as painful as it may be, summon the nerve to move on

The op is either a student on holiday or an applicabt..

You just watch channel E then break her with d WWE skills

It is very right my brother infact it is iconic.. there is always love in sharing

Is good just keep it up... Hand shake awaits you in hell.. ewu N0 1

Just keep admiring her from afar... God will send ur own john the baptist to her to announce you before hand..

But seriously it does no harm to walk up to her and let out your feelings.

I sense the fear of rejection on your part

sinaj:
lol

Reply my pm nah.. see as I de hustle u fa

sinaj is d surrest

sinaj:
lol lets get started den

Reply my pm den .... Cheer

sinaj:
lol lets get started den

Reply my pm den... Cheers

Just lift this lines and she will be yours if she feels de same abt you... During one of the attention catching movie scene, just pause d moveie and tell her these " call her name first nd proceed I knw this might not be d right time or approach to say this to u but sincerely I value ur friendship and companion, I look forward to seeing you everyday and whenever you are around me i quietly wish u don't have to leave.."

Stop there and leave her to ponder on what u have told her, continue the movie....

Thank me later wiv 1500 MTN

sinaj:
Chai! where iz diz man o!!!


he shud come lets start having our babies nau

@ sinaj here I come, with a cute face like Urs having a cute son in collaboration wiv me won't be a big deal at all..

AndreRose:
"Around the world in 80 days"
Is 'changing' from one country to another the "change" he was clamoring?
Well, we are still waiting for the N1=$1.

There is a big difference btw distractive comments and constructive criticism..

Visits to neighboring countries that are actively and directly involved in the combat against insurgency that is crippling the economy and consuming lives and properties of thousand ls of Nigerians in some parts of the country isn't a bad way to start an administration .

If only you will just keep ur deluded opinion till a reasonable and considerable length of time, Nigeria wld be a better place to live in.

All the attendees at the introduction..