₦airaland Forum

Kewtt:
ipob miscreant emefiele needs to be incarcerated

TMTR:
Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear

Enjoy your cup of tea

onyeego:
Giving actually makes you to never lack.
The way the faces of people who are in need lights up with joy when you render help to them is always delightfully blissful.
I am not being religious but ever since I started giving many years ago I've only increased financially.
Just beware of those who will manipulate and turn you into their cash cow, there are those who will also think that you stupid.
Lastly, give only what you can afford to give without grudge.

mcmurphy132:
No election in our land..

We Igbo will kill anybody kill able

Buhari must. Hear am.

We're going burn Market tomorrow

Epurogonogono:

After all she told you, do you still love her?

Do you think you would be satisfied/happy if you marry her?

Do you think you can take care of another man's child?


Does she love you as much as you think you love her? Or she is still in love with the man who impregnated her twice?


Are you prepared to face the father of the child if he eventually comes back for his child, after you have catered for the child?

Do you think she is telling you the whole truth or she is still keeping something away from you like she did to her last boyfriend?



If I were in your shoes, I won't continue the relationship, considering what you've stated.

imagrg:
Ladies, because of their fish brains always end up as victims of circumstance in the hands of some rudderless young men whose only aim in life is to put their big gbola in any hole on a woman's body. These same kind who have, through their promiscuous acts ruined the lives of young ladies, come here to paint ladies black.
They shouldn't worry, my love, Siofra is out there to squeeze their balls on the Romance Section. Trust her to do a good job of it!

I would have advised this guy to marry this lady but the fact that she has two children for another man would create a negative effect on him later.
In summary, take your share and advise her to go back to the father of her two children.

imagrg:
Ladies, because of their fish brains always end up as victims of circumstance in the hands of some rudderless young men whose only aim in life is to put their big gbola in any hole on a woman's body. These same kind who have, through their promiscuous acts ruined the lives of young ladies, come here to paint ladies black.
They shouldn't worry, my love, Siofra is out there to squeeze their balls on the Romance Section. Trust her to do a good job of it!

One child but but aborted the one one that could have been second

My problem is if this feelings wld be there for some years. But I might remember i wasn't the first man neither the father of her first child it might weigh me down..

I would have advised this guy to marry this lady but the fact that she has two children for another man would create a negative effect on him later.
In summary, take your share and advise her to go back to the father of her two children.

SPAMBOX7:
She made you saw her as a wife material. That's how they play the game. They make you see what's not there. Very good at illusion

You will surely wife her in the end and father her ex's cum. This I have seen

pretydiva:
What a crap post

Righteousness2:
Yul has lost his peace. The Bible says there is no peace for the wicked.

My admonishment to him is that he should quit the social media show and all that.
There is enough opportunity to right the wrong.

He should make peace with his wife May Edochie.
Settle his Sin Partner and discharge her. She is not his wife. She is a Husband snatcher, Home robber and Home breaker.
Outside doing this, he is wasting his time and using his hands to dig disaster.
This is the Bitter truth

As for May Edochie, my Admonishment to you is don't keep silent, Don't give up .seek the Face of God in Prayers for your husband and your Home. Contend on your knees. From what I see, your husband is not with his Clear eyes. He seems to be under an influence.

Visit the Lord's Chosen and table the matter to the God of Chosen. Your husband must come back to his senses.

Nazgul:
Lies...major causes of high rate of singles in Nigeria include the following.

1. Unemployment : Unemployment and the fear of not getting a well-paying job tops the list of reasons men run away from marital commitment.

They prefer waiting until they are financially stable to take up the roles of a husband which comes with added responsibilities.

Closely tied to this is the fact that no woman would want to get married to a jobless man who cannot take care of them and they would never touch such men with a metre long pole.

Being financially stable in Nigeria comes with a lot of responsibilities as parents, siblings and other relations would also expect you to dole out something to them at the end of the month.

2. Expensive wedding : In most Nigerian cities, getting married is so expensive that by the time one is done, he would have spent millions of Naira.

Starting from the introduction to the traditional marriage and the white wedding, some places put off their men who are ready to get married and as such, the men end up either getting married to people from other places or not getting married at all.

3. High rate of divorce : Men are often intimidated at the rate of divorce that they witness in the society where most marriages do not last beyond five years.

When they see this and get to hear testimonies from other married men who are having a torrid time in their marriages, they tend to think they could face the same if they get married.

4. No wife material The common notion among most men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage.

This is because fornication in Nigeria today is like food. You can sit at the comfort of your home and order for a girl online, for all kinds of sexual fantasy. This act scares most guys including ones who patronize these girls.

Cos they'll keep asking that question...who go marry this one?

Patanla: