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Imalwayshorny:
Printing/photocopying is the best

Get a shop near bank or school/university


You'll make 200k per dayas for graphic designs don't do it ai have taken over


Seun mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod am I right or not

Dpsychologist:
Lol what are your reasons.

echoxyz:
She does what ever she likes with the property. You are not more human than her cos you are male.

stagger:
oga, the Supreme Court has already ruled on this matter since 2014. Even a girl child born out of wedlock can claim her share of her father's property once paternity is proven.

I have female kids and their inheritance is as secure as day and night follow each other.

Dpsychologist:
There is an old piece of advice that sounds simple but becomes more meaningful with age: “Never marry alone.”

It does not mean your friends or family should choose your spouse for you. You are the one who will live in the marriage, so the final decision must remain yours. It simply means that before making one of the biggest decisions of your life, you should allow a few people who genuinely know and care about you to meet the person you intend to marry.

Love can make you overlook things that an outsider notices immediately. A close friend may recognise your partner from somewhere, know something about their background, notice an inconsistency in their story, or simply observe a behaviour you have become too emotionally attached to notice. Their information may turn out to be wrong, but that is not a reason to ignore every warning. Listen, investigate and then decide.

Consider a simple example. A man meets a woman while travelling, spends a relatively short period getting to know her, becomes convinced that she is the person he wants to marry and begins planning the wedding. His friends eventually meet her and one of them says, “I know this woman from somewhere.”

Another person in the circle has information about her previous lifestyle that the man never knew. The man now has an opportunity to ask questions and establish what is true before getting married. Without those conversations, he might have entered the marriage believing he knew everything important about the person he was marrying.

There was a man who married a former prostitute all because he saw her only through his lens. This is not about prostitutes, hotels or women. The important lesson is what happens when someone makes a major life decision with insufficient information.

The problem is not where you met someone. The problem is deciding that you know someone well enough for marriage when you have not taken the time to find out.

If you meet someone and quickly decide that you want to marry them, slow down. Learn about their values, finances, family relationships, friendships, temperament, faith, attitude toward work, approach to conflict, expectations about marriage, views about children, responsibility, sexual boundaries and the kind of life they actually want to build.

You should also understand their important past, not because everyone needs a spotless history, but because you deserve to know information that could materially affect the marriage.

A simple example is finances. Two people can be deeply in love and still have completely different attitudes toward money. One believes most of the income should be saved and invested. The other believes money is meant to be enjoyed immediately. Neither person necessarily has bad character, but discovering this after marriage can create serious conflict. The same applies to children, religion, family obligations, career ambitions, fidelity, where to live and how disagreements should be handled. Compatibility is not simply about enjoying each other's company.

However, do not turn your friends into a marriage approval committee. Some friends have excellent judgment, while others are jealous, immature, controlling or simply terrible at relationships. Their opinions should be considered according to their character, their knowledge of the situation and the quality of the evidence they provide.

There is also a difference between a warning and a rumour. If someone says, “I know something about your partner,” do not immediately believe them and do not immediately attack them for saying it.

Ask what they actually know. Look for evidence. Give your partner an opportunity to explain. Serious allegations require more than gossip before you make a life changing decision.

The same principle applies to family. Your parents and siblings may know you better than anyone, but they can also have their own biases. Listen to them without surrendering your judgment.

The objective is not to find people who will make the decision for you. The objective is to expose your decision to perspectives you may not have considered.

The biggest mistake is not listening to friends. The biggest mistake is refusing to think for yourself.

Listen to people who genuinely care about you. Take credible concerns seriously. Investigate before reacting. Give your partner a fair opportunity to explain. Then make your own decision.

Your friends should not choose your spouse. Your family should not choose your spouse.

But you should not be so carried away by love that you become unwilling to hear anything that challenges your perception of the person you are about to marry.

Marriage is too important to be based only on chemistry and what you currently see.

Know the person. Know the important parts of their past. Understand what they want from marriage. Meet the people who know them. Let the people who know you meet them too.

Obesity:
I love this. The injustice against the female gender regarding property is too much in the east.


Kudos

Jennyclay:
The court should have order same fate to these nonsense men with immediate effect than just sentencing them to 130 year imprisonment

The men should be set ablaze too. Bunch of evil men

nlfpmod:
The man allegedly stole a foam and was made to dance while carrying the foam in his head.

How can a full grown man like this steal foam ? pic.twitter.com/uQvetoJxh2

— Daniel Somtochukwu (@Somtolism7) September 25, 2026

Godsonkemz:
You are indeed a true legend of NTA. Those names you mentioned took me down to memory lane. Especially Elizabeth Banu, Fatima Abbas Hassan and Cyril Stober

Evaress:
the iphone you have. Na you buy am with your money?

Saturnalia:
The same CIA that told the World that Saddam Hussein had WMDs?

The same CIA that told the World that Basshar Al-Assad used chemical weapons to gas a whole community?

This is 2026, My friend, go and sleep.

Robertgreene1:
Lol una money is about to build Dangote another refinery in Kenya. If he wants to build another one in say Uganda or Ethiopia tommorow, he will just announce another lPO .

Judemarco31:
No be Onitsha again , as they are hanging the Billboard, guys dey wait for night them go use lighter melt the Billboard

Stanna2025:
Tinubu is a treat to my mental health 😭😭😭

osuofia2:
I Wished the White didn't leave earlier,

zoghys:
This is pure undiluted wickedness and alter senselessness.

elvhinzey:
I derive joy doing the following. God bears me witness.

1. Praising, Dancing & Worshipping God

2. Spending time with God in silence and meditation.

3. Studying the Bible (KJV)

4. Playing football in real-time and in my phone + GTA.

5. Advising and praying for people via calls.

6. Taking a lengthy walk.

7. Designing EAs, Robots for Fund Managers.

8. Making money in the Forex Market (3rd sweetest)

9. Being an introvert.

10. Watching NatGeoWild

11. Watching movies that involves intelligence, fraud detection, trading, legal, marine, startups/ entrepreneurship.

12. Brainstorming ideas for sale and executing as a cofounder.

13. Minding my business.

14. Consistently celebrating the wins of others.

15. Watching comedians like Zicsaloma, McPashun, Daddy Humble, Sabinus, Brain Jotter, Josh2Funny (I'm born to laugh)

16. Speaking on the phone with my aged parents, praying for them, learning from them and wiring funds to their aza's (2nd sweetest)

17. Fasting (to make my Spirit consistently aligned with the Holy Spirit and to subject my flesh)

18. Cooking (60%), Eating (20%), Experimenting new delicacies (20%)

19. Avoiding distractions, competitive jealousy, negative energy, bad energy, envy, strife, bitterness.

20. Making people laugh to tears.

The Joy of the LORD is my strength.

ChisomLexus:
I don't see myself getting down on my knees like this while begging a man to marry me.

It is men that should be begging to marry me because I am a self made woman

Proserpina:
Make him go give his sisters first without forgetting him mama's own.

I find it very annoying that grown men will publicly show how uncultured and uncouth they are on sm yet people will call it cruise.

pocohantas:
Not surprised at the name of the Nigerian man and his colleagues in the screenshot. Igbo men think the world revolves around them and their "bride price".

Judolisco:
Sharp... D girl and d family never ready... If na North now, d family of the man, go just find one babe for d guy and dem go marry that same date.... Make food no go waste

gare:
Imagine lacking a sensible argument so badly that you had to drag an entire gender into the conversation.

Calling something a mistake has absolutely nothing to do with being a woman or a man. It has to do with being mature enough to understand that people can make poor decisions, recognize their mistakes, apologize, and learn from them.

And that desperate leap from the issue being discussed to “women don't think deep” and men dumping women is just intellectually lazy. If this is what you call “thinking deep,” then perhaps the problem isn't women’s depth after all it is the shallow end of your argument.

Next time, try addressing the point instead of attacking the gender of the person making it. It will make you sound considerably less confused.

Hezzyluv:
15k just like that for an ungrateful creature? I fit bet u, that thanks no come out from her heart.